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Take her to Pastor Adeboye.

Your username reminds me of something.

gabazin080:
have asked her several times and seems she is not ready to do anything in that area

Obviously she hates the area, just give her some time. Eventually she will come around.

LorDBolton:
@op mr gabazin080 I believe your wife is unhappy @leaving lag. Also she doesn't want to 'waste her time'

It seems you want a housewife but a working class housewife, baba it can't work.

Unless you're willing to allow her open a business in a better more populated area then leave her @ home to do chores and watch tv.

Even in my area a woman opened a provision store and aside the 4/5 houses here she makes no sales...is that a business?

Location is important to a biz, look for a store close to your house with better commercial value and i'm sure she'd be more open to it...


Attachment : curious question...the relocation to ogun state was it a mutual decision? Was she aware this was part of the plan when marrying you?

Cos mehn many of us in lag can't imagine living in other states, I know people who own houses(s) in ikorodu but are living as tenants @ surulere. Some pple squat on the island when they could live comfortably @ their homes on the mainland.

Your wife might even be unhappy in this marriage, I suggest u find time to have a heart-2-heart with her...cos be like u be General 4 house lol

Very matured advice, good one.

gabazin080:
my wife and i have been married for 2 years and she has never thought of the work she will be doing to support the family.
she was very hardworking before we married. she is learning hair dressing and still does petty trading in the evening. after she is done with hairdressing, God blessed me and we moved from lagos to my own personal house in ogun state.
i built a shop in front of the house for her hairdressing but she complained it wont work cus there are few houses around here and the area is just developing.
i also suggested selling provision but she said "NOTHING WILL SELL IN THIS BUSH U BROUGHT ME".
she prefer to just sit at home and do house cores and watch tv. now am fed up. how do i deal with her to make her start something or any business idea on what business one can do in a just developing area

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OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Take her to Pastor Adeboye.

Your username reminds me of something.

on my way to his church now.
what does my username reminds u of

gabazin080:
on my way to his church now.
what does my username reminds u of

A bad ass character in an Indian movie.

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Take her to Pastor Adeboye.


Your username reminds me of something.

Pastor Adeboy too small, why not to the pope?

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Take her to Pastor Adeboye.


Your username reminds me of something.

Does he offer employment?

freshcvvs:
Pastor Adeboy too small, why not to the pope?

Lol, na Adeboye dey advise people na. He'd pray for her for 1h 30m.

Jay542:
Does he offer employment?

Lol.

May the lord help you and your wife ijn Amen

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Lol.

Why the lol?

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Lol, na Adeboye dey advise people na. He'd pray for her for 1h 30m.

The solution is within the 4 corners of their home. Let them sit down and discuss/act as people who need solutions and not involve 3rd parties!

Jay542:
Why the lol?

Your question carry weight na.

freshcvvs:
The solution is within the 4 corners of their home. Let them sit down and discuss/act as people who need solutions and not involve 3rd parties!

Brilliant gentleman, uh? Good. I've heard.

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Your question carry weight na.

Lol. Okay oo

gabazin080:
have asked her several times and seems she is not ready to do anything in that area

Next time, before u make decision for the family, @ d very least , reason with her first.

He responses r that of a woman who was forced to follow u to that BUSH of urs Cos u didn't plan it nor reasoned it out with her.

Her body mood now is: since u brought me to this bush that I can't do anything, be ready because I Wudnt do anything to support u.


That is how women behave when u either go against their wish or didn't reason with them b4 taking family influencing decisions.

They try to frustrates d lights out of u just to make u look stupid for not listening to them.
Luckily, she is still doing her natural bits as a Wify. Like someone said , be a lil patient. She wud come around.
Don't let this affect ur affection for her. Be the man.

And as much as u can, take her out.

freshcvvs:
The solution is within the 4 corners of their home. Let them sit down and discuss/act as people who need solutions and not involve 3rd parties!

the truth is that we have sat down several times as couple to sort this out and even fought over it. but no solution seems to be coming

Biko don't deal with her o!

cc: lalasticlala biko help move to front page before frustration kills me

cc: lalasticlala biko help move to front page before frustration kills me

gabazin080:
the truth is that we have sat down several times as couple to sort this out and even fought over it. but no solution seems to be coming

Then refer to my first comment on this thread, that's another way to treat this.