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The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a young man to keep himself till he gets married as compared to back in the days.
I also noticed that some of these young men are actually good, husband material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.
Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the boy child or what?? I don't just get it

Seahawk:
I don't even know how it makes sense to anyone that it's okay for men to have sex but not okay for women. Like the men have other socially acceptable options than to do it with women.

Seahawk:
Because the men are having sex with them. That's why. Unless you prescribe that the men should start sleeping with themselves or animals.

EfemenaXY:
Perhaps if men like you were castrated, then society would be overflowing with virgins.

Or don't you know lots of virginal, untested men = lots of virginal, chaste females??

Yewandequeen:
Dear Op i will assist in answering this question after you have confirmed you are also a virgin till date.

No offense

kkboy:
Why will a man who is not a virgin be thinking that a lady be a virgin before marriage. What took away the virginity of the man also took that of the lady.

All I see are wise men and women

This gender favouristism Culture needs to stop,because what is good for the goose is good for the gander


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Wizzyblack3:
I will come back to comment, in case

VolT0xic:
Of course it's the modern society. This generation is sex obsessed unlike ‘back in the days’. Premarital sex is no longer a taboo. Couples have no qualms about getting intimate in relationships. Morality - washed & degraded.

elrony:
Too much social exposure,and nobody wants a bride with a vestigial genital!


Technically, Virginity is overrated!..

fromnigeria:
1. Lack of fear of GOD


11. Over advertisement of sex


111. End of the world is near.

Etc

whogoesthere:
wet in be vestigal.........

elrony:
Vestigial as in non functional ...

whogoesthere:
na so.....it is well

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

EfemenaXY:
Perhaps if men like you were castrated, then society would be overflowing with virgins.

Or don't you know lots of virginal, untested men = lots of virginal, chaste females??

Seahawk:
I don't even know how it makes sense to anyone that it's okay for men to have sex but not okay for women. Like the men have other socially acceptable options than to do it with women.

EfemenaXY:
Don't bother trying to figure out senseless posts. Senseless posts deserve senseless responses. Garbage In, Garbage Out (GIGO).

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.