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Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Nobody: 2:08pm On Aug 30, 2016
That is still no excuse. He is your sibling. He wanted to leave to come to your place not go anywhere else. It is not like you already have a family or anything. You can't justify that everundecided. He could have wanted to stay with you because you are his brother or because he is trying to cut down cost. You need to do something about your personality, it is not a justification for what you did.





lovat:
I advised him against leaving his former abode but he refused because he belived he can always put up with me.


I love being alone at home. i work from home so most times i ll be indoors for 3 days straight without seeing the sky
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by lovat(m): 2:10pm On Aug 30, 2016
daretodiffer:
That is still no excuse. He is your sibling. He wanted to leave to come to your place not go anywhere else. It is not like you already have a family or anything. You can't justify that everundecided. He could have wanted to stay with you because you are his brother or because he is trying to cut down cost. You need to do something about your personality, it is not a justification for what you did.
I'm sorry i dare to differ in what i do
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Nobody: 2:12pm On Aug 30, 2016
Too bad you end up being stvpid at it

Holla when it comes back to haunt you!

lovat:
I'm sorry i dare to differ in what i do
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Chuksemi(op): 2:38pm On Aug 30, 2016
daveP:
Lol. sure now. but which thread, or event online e don try true true. Your piece is hilarious o.
Poetry bro.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Forwetinnah: 3:08pm On Aug 30, 2016
arimahoseloka:
if u are sensitive enough to the plight of others u will not be saying this. Do u think someone will just be happy squating. He is surely trying to stand on his own but he needs time and help from you. Learn to love and your eyes will open
Oh trust me..i love/help alot and have got myself into unwarranted mess for it. If someone has asked for help..you help them, NOT AT YOUR OWN DETRIMENT anyway!! Remember the guy didn't say he was homeless or that he was LOOKING FOR A PLACE TO STAY, he said he should come stay for a bit and vamooose. You now see the inconvenience?
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Mann11: 3:18pm On Aug 30, 2016
delishpot:
Hello brother, I am sorry I have to respond to your request here as I do not want to keep posting on the other topic but would respond to only those who I feel it is very important to respond to them.
Do you intend to go look at something maybe land, building or so with people you may know or strangers anytime soon?
Prophet, there is a chance of relocation early next year sir.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by delishpot: 3:37pm On Aug 30, 2016
Mann11:
there is a chance of relocation early next year sir.
Okay, brother, you should just watch how you follow people to places. If you must go, take a trusted person along and let your instinct guide you too. No need to fret, just be self aware that's all
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by DAVE5(m): 5:19pm On Aug 30, 2016
josite:
im sure nobody tells u this fact before,your personal space is actually ur 6ft grave and sooner or latter u will still have your personal space.so why hurry?.
Wetin konsine 6ft n house now... Nah u sabi... I'm out!!!
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Mann11: 9:46pm On Aug 30, 2016
delishpot:
Okay, brother, you should just watch how you follow people to places. If you must go, take a trusted person along and let your instinct guide you too. No need to fret, just be self aware that's all
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Mann11: 9:53pm On Aug 30, 2016
delishpot:
Okay, brother, you should just watch how you follow people to places. If you must go, take a trusted person along and let your instinct guide you too. No need to fret, just be self aware that's all
Thank you sir. What about my finance and my love life?
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by rudestmcblaze: 12:29am On Sep 01, 2016
Peeps are not understanding Op's pain, its different when someone comes out plain with you that he doesn't have roof over his head than when someone tries to play smart and take advantage of your generosity and humanity. Even if I was to allow someone squat with me (which I doublt I would do) you should contribute your quota and you should come out plain that you want me to squat you because you have accommodation issues rather than trying to play smart.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by 247glorious(f): 10:29am On Sep 01, 2016
I had a friend/classmate that came weekly with her baby. Brought baby things and all. Never brought any foodstuff except a tuber of yam. Never brought money even though her husband worked n I wasn't married then. bad it was during my naive days. If it were nw, I would have drawn up weekly budgets and divided the bill. I was just too naive n scared then, didn't want to offend n appear bad.
U know, this lady, wn I got married not a gift, delivered not even a baby spoon even if old.
My joy is bn blessed by God to help. N bn replenished.
Operation help with sense.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by josite: 11:08am On Sep 01, 2016
lovat:
I'm sorry i dare to differ in what i do
the daretodiffer person is laboring so hard to tell you that your personality is going to foist an unfortunate future on you when you gave your elder brother a cold shoulder cus he wants to stay with u for sometime knowing u are single and yet u wont budge.when thing change for u,dont bother to seek any form of help from this your elder broda.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by josite: 11:11am On Sep 01, 2016
daretodiffer:
That is still no excuse. He is your sibling. He wanted to leave to come to your place not go anywhere else. It is not like you already have a family or anything. You can't justify that everundecided. He could have wanted to stay with you because you are his brother or because he is trying to cut down cost. You need to do something about your personality, it is not a justification for what you did.
thank u for letting this guy knows he has to do something about his personality.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Nobody: 11:28am On Sep 01, 2016
Thank you so much. What he did was enough to damage their relationship. I don't see how you would be disgusted with your own siblingundecided.
If things do not change for him, I doubt if that brother would ever go out of his way to do anything for him. It is enough to damage the relationship between them



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josite:
the daretodiffer person is laboring so hard to tell you that your personality is going to foist an unfortunate future on you when you gave your elder brother a cold shoulder cus he wants to stay with u for sometime knowing u are single and yet u wont budge.when thing change for u,dont bother to seek any form of help from this your elder broda.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by lovat(m): 11:29am On Sep 02, 2016
josite:
the daretodiffer person is laboring so hard to tell you that your personality is going to foist an unfortunate future on you when you gave your elder brother a cold shoulder cus he wants to stay with u for sometime knowing u are single and yet u wont budge.when thing change for u,dont bother to seek any form of help from this your elder broda.
Thanks for your concern. somethings are better left unsaid.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by godquality: 5:33pm On Jan 23, 2017
arimahoseloka:
so a man in need is a pest?
A friend should be able to level with me from the onset do I know what to expect if I let him stay with me. That guy is definitely not a friend but a leach. OP should send him packing.
Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by rudestmcblaze: 12:25pm On Jan 24, 2017
godquality:
A friend should be able to level with me from the onset do I know what to expect if I let him stay with me. That guy is definitely not a friend but a leach. OP should send him packing.
God will bless u is an understatemen. These monikers dunno how it feels like for someone to exploit ur kind gestures. What will cost a squater to come clean rather than being shady?
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