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| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Nobody: 2:08pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
That is still no excuse. He is your sibling. He wanted to leave to come to your place not go anywhere else. It is not like you already have a family or anything. You can't justify that ever . He could have wanted to stay with you because you are his brother or because he is trying to cut down cost. You need to do something about your personality, it is not a justification for what you did. lovat: |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by lovat(m): 2:10pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
daretodiffer:I'm sorry i dare to differ in what i do |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Nobody: 2:12pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Too bad you end up being stvpid at it Holla when it comes back to haunt you! lovat: |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Chuksemi(op): 2:38pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
daveP:Poetry bro. |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Forwetinnah: 3:08pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
arimahoseloka:Oh trust me..i love/help alot and have got myself into unwarranted mess for it. If someone has asked for help..you help them, NOT AT YOUR OWN DETRIMENT anyway!! Remember the guy didn't say he was homeless or that he was LOOKING FOR A PLACE TO STAY, he said he should come stay for a bit and vamooose. You now see the inconvenience? |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Mann11: 3:18pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
delishpot:Prophet, there is a chance of relocation early next year sir. |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by delishpot: 3:37pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Mann11:Okay, brother, you should just watch how you follow people to places. If you must go, take a trusted person along and let your instinct guide you too. No need to fret, just be self aware that's all |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by DAVE5(m): 5:19pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
josite:Wetin konsine 6ft n house now... Nah u sabi... I'm out!!! |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Mann11: 9:46pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
delishpot: |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Mann11: 9:53pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
delishpot:Thank you sir. What about my finance and my love life? |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by rudestmcblaze: 12:29am On Sep 01, 2016 |
Peeps are not understanding Op's pain, its different when someone comes out plain with you that he doesn't have roof over his head than when someone tries to play smart and take advantage of your generosity and humanity. Even if I was to allow someone squat with me (which I doublt I would do) you should contribute your quota and you should come out plain that you want me to squat you because you have accommodation issues rather than trying to play smart. |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by 247glorious(f): 10:29am On Sep 01, 2016 |
I had a friend/classmate that came weekly with her baby. Brought baby things and all. Never brought any foodstuff except a tuber of yam. Never brought money even though her husband worked n I wasn't married then. bad it was during my naive days. If it were nw, I would have drawn up weekly budgets and divided the bill. I was just too naive n scared then, didn't want to offend n appear bad. U know, this lady, wn I got married not a gift, delivered not even a baby spoon even if old. My joy is bn blessed by God to help. N bn replenished. Operation help with sense. |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by josite: 11:08am On Sep 01, 2016 |
lovat:the daretodiffer person is laboring so hard to tell you that your personality is going to foist an unfortunate future on you when you gave your elder brother a cold shoulder cus he wants to stay with u for sometime knowing u are single and yet u wont budge.when thing change for u,dont bother to seek any form of help from this your elder broda. |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by josite: 11:11am On Sep 01, 2016 |
daretodiffer:thank u for letting this guy knows he has to do something about his personality. |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by Nobody: 11:28am On Sep 01, 2016 |
Thank you so much. What he did was enough to damage their relationship. I don't see how you would be disgusted with your own sibling .If things do not change for him, I doubt if that brother would ever go out of his way to do anything for him. It is enough to damage the relationship between them . josite: |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by lovat(m): 11:29am On Sep 02, 2016 |
josite:Thanks for your concern. somethings are better left unsaid. |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by godquality: 5:33pm On Jan 23, 2017 |
arimahoseloka:A friend should be able to level with me from the onset do I know what to expect if I let him stay with me. That guy is definitely not a friend but a leach. OP should send him packing. |
| Re: Nigerian Guests And The Overstaying Syndrome. by rudestmcblaze: 12:25pm On Jan 24, 2017 |
godquality:God will bless u is an understatemen. These monikers dunno how it feels like for someone to exploit ur kind gestures. What will cost a squater to come clean rather than being shady? |
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. He could have wanted to stay with you because you are his brother or because he is trying to cut down cost. You need to do something about your personality, it is not a justification for what you did.