Haaa women.... am I surprised?


Mba.....fuji house of commotion!

iomoge2:
Hian Mamas....
All of u just gather my teamie n eat her raw.
She was just asking na...
Ftm things.
She is scared like most people.

Its not easy imagining how a big head will follow that tiny hole....

Am not saying cs is good o.... but at least every woman must have thought twice.

I toyed with d idea of cs but thank God i didnt mention it here... una 4 don kee me....

A pregnant woman is very emotional.... talking about 6ft n another pusi 4 hubby was uncalled 4....

We would experience no loss in Jesus name.
No one would bring up our kids 4 us in Jesus name
Na we and our husband till we r gray n old in Jesus name. Amen

Biko lets try to put small love in our talks.... i was almost crying fa

Thank you very much. My thoughts exactly!

Infact at a point,it seemed as though some of the comments were intended to scare pregnant mamas.
i panicked & decided to scroll pass & not read such comments that had lots of negativity.

it's really not fair filling an emotional pregnant womans head with a whole lot of negative information on things that could go wrong. Most already know, but are focused on being positive & optimistic and as such only need little nice words of encouragement to tow the right path at each point.

Mamas here have gone tru Cs & didn't die. its not nice when people cross over to the other side, they now shift the post & now come back to scare others. I know Cs might be hard, but the same God of Hebrew women will continue seeing us all through.

Again every pregnant woman has several worries & anxieties till she delivers and most times ordinary subtle kind counsel & above all positive words of encouragement can calm all these fears.

So pls when a mama voices out her fears, lets try to be humane & compassionate while admonishing rather than being rancorous, contentious, harsh or unpleasant.

Wow, whats going on here. Mamas please let things go, let's not give room for tension. Thank you

*dropping my bowl of imaginary puff corn and diving into the cs fracas*

Everyone do what you are happy with! The only thing i would say is get as much info as you can on birthing options or any other procedure before you make a decision. Understand the pros and cons, complications and possible side effects and ensure you are mentally and emotionally ready for it! AND keep an open mind!

If you wanna keep you jajaina tight and opt for cs instead ! Fine!

If you want cs, as you cant just stress with the whole labour serenren i.e " too posh to push" ! Fine!

If you want to keep your figure and have a surrogate insead! fine!

If you want to keep them bobbies perky and not breastfeed but use formular instead! Fine!

If you want to breastfeed and have boob uplift surgery afterwards. fine!

If you want to hire a wetnurse rather than breastfeed fine!

If you want to have a tummy tuck post birth! Fine!

If you want epidural, or pethidine, or gas and air ! Fine!

If you want to do Hebrew woman! Fine as well.

(Just bear in mind that at 5000yrs ago hebrew women did not have pethidine or other painkillers else that bible story would have been very different!

My name is not Eve, no be me give Adam apple chop! so why i have to suffer unnessesarily to birth my child i dont know. Jesus has died for my sins biko and in being a new creatiure in him comes the joys of pain management! )


Even the best informed of us, when shiit goes sideways, irrespective of which birth path we choose, you wont remember all the youtube videos you watched. All you want is to see your baby alive, and you alive as well. If a limb has to be lost in the process, it suddenly becomes irrelevant.

Yes CS is considered as major surgery, the frequency of which it is done should not detract from the complications associated with any major surgery, however let us not only focus on the lives that have been lost through cs! A great number of lives have been also saved by cs as well.

So please to each his own. How you decide to concieve, carry a pregnancy and birth is YOUR decision! Do what think is best for you. At the end of the day NO-ONE gets a medal for anything nor is it an indication that your child will be the one to discover the cure for cancer!

Alphahandmaiden out!

Gr8fulHeart:
hello mamas, goodmorning to u all. been a while
its good to be back.
**secondmissionaryjourney activated*

Yippeee! Welcome back ma'am....

It is well o, even Jumayin don rest self. a beg stop replying each other on this issue.

Whether CS or VD, everyone will hold their babies in their arm.

*eh hen! Where did i drop this puffcorn sef*

Mamas please let us move on from the matter, it's been on for too long. There is one thing that keeps bringing everyone back ''the love'', let us not kill it with anger. Many of us at the ttc thread still look forward to moving over to this thread someday, pls don't give us a reason to develop cold feet after our bfps.


@liftedhands, nne Ekene since there's nothing to do today Wednesday, pls mamas here can channel there energy, preggy hormones and vigilantee eyes to rain prayers to heaven on we the Atc mamas, am sure God will not hide his face from your prayers.

Biko, ejor, yankuri, mbok pray, pray and pray for us.

Give love and peace a chance.

People seem too sensitive here.. all these are totally uncalled for...
Make una stop taking stuffs too seriously abeg...

Good day everyone

Purity77:

Thanks a lot Sugar. i'll go to Omvial then.
Pls at what stage did u do the scan? i intend to go by 22weeks. Hope thats ok for them to also detect sex?
Thanks iomoge2 too.

I went at 29weeks to see my baby's face. I knew the sex of my baby at about 16weeks or so on a regular 2D scan. You can get baby's sex on a 4D scan as early as 12 weeks sef,....

@ AlphaHandMaiden, I am so in love with you right now (no homo though) and plz pass me the popcorn.

You re great,

you re great.....

Everything written abt u is great.

Worship u today,
Give u all d praise.
Eh in Steven crown's voice!!!

Join me nd praise master Jesus

PresVA:
People seem too sensitive here.. all these are totally uncalled for...
Make una stop taking stuffs too seriously abeg...

Good day everyone

It's because they are not active in Family Section. Go and be sensitive there you will leave Nairaland sobbing that day by the time people use mouth wash you. You'll be wondering whether you stole their money or slept with their husband or made their father become a drunkard (come let's go and start a gender war there, what topic should we do??). The cure for this is to only reply those you know. Shikena. No worries, everybody happy.

I am out.

Blessedmum:

And dat's why this is pregnancy thread and not family session. Sensitivity is allowed.

Onegai:


It's because they are not active in Family Section. Go and be sensitive there you will leave Nairaland sobbing that day by the time people use mouth wash you. You'll be wondering whether you stole their money or slept with their husband or made their father become a drunkard

And dat's why this is pregnancy thread and not family session. Sensitivity is allowed.
As regards replying only those you know it's actually a free world, if one door doesn't close another won't open. Shallom!

Onegai:


It's because they are not active in Family Section. Go and be sensitive there you will leave Nairaland sobbing that day by the time people use mouth wash you. You'll be wondering whether you stole their money or slept with their husband or made their father become a drunkard

Honestly, that section is something else. You'll even see those that will just read the heading of your post and start lashing out, without reading the full story.

I visit the section sometimes to have a good laugh. The responses are hilarious

*grabs mic* thank u,thank u,thank u,it is well with us all (Amen), thanks to my wonderful November mamas,u guys are too much,muah!!!!.... Let's all move on with d purpose of this thread... PEACE OUT!!!! *drops mic*

mitchyy:


Honestly, that section is something else. You'll even see those that will just read the heading of your post and start lashing out, without reading the full story.

I visit the section sometimes to have a good laugh. The responses are hilarious

I have a feeling they are just pretending to hate each other there. Because it gets so hilarious when they go offline and start digging up dirt on themselves so they can come back and trade insults and threats.

tyconcepts:


Sweetie Mitchyy.....I know my sins are piling ooo but abeg no vex. I can't coman visit a prince without bearing gifts and my pocket is 'Buhari- ED' these past weeks. Na God we dey pray to.

*side eyes*

We only wanted to see you and presido Mofe now. Must you come with gift? Haba now. Infact, we don dey para

Crave for tinz lyk dis instead of exchnging words.

Y evuuls na
U want my LO to start sommersaulting endlessly ba? Anything that enters my system via mouth triggers activity.... Even small folic acid sef, d pikin go de jump

Flodel:
Crave for tinz lyk dis instead of exchnging words.

On a more serious note!! How come nobody described the breast pain that comes with childbirth?? The pain woke me up from sleep and I have massaged the one breast that hurts more with hot water towel but the pain persists. My prince is sleeping so im having to express using a pump but unfortunately that breast isn't producing anything. Help me!! What else can I d

who can answer my question biko

Team September mamas plz let's come out of our silent mode and shake this thread. We're entering our month in a few hours time.

Dear lord I thank you for bringing me this far and I also thank you in advance for the perfection that is awaiting me next month.

I pray for all pregnant women on this thread we ll all carry to term and deliver safely ijn.

For those who have given birth already, may their children continue to be a blessing to them.

A special prayer for all my Atc sisters , I pray for an outpour of Bfps for them, let there be tremendous porting from there to this thread ijn.

For every one of us who have gone through one pain or the other, let this month be d end of pain in our lives ijn.

Happy New Month to you all in advance.

Gr8fulHeart:
hello mamas, goodmorning to u all. been a while
its good to be back.
**secondmissionaryjourney activated*

Yeah! You are welcome back. Which team are you? Regards to your dd

Flodel:
Crave for tinz lyk dis instead of exchnging words.

Warn yourself o, which kain temptation be dis?

sugah:
On a more serious note!! How come nobody described the breast pain that comes with childbirth?? The pain woke me up from sleep and I have massaged the one breast that hurts more with hot water towel but the pain persists. My prince is sleeping so im having to express using a pump but unfortunately that breast isn't producing anything. Help me!! What else can I d

Sorry about that captain, I have no idea about it, u're my senior in this matter.

Jennifer89:
who can answer my question biko

Plz let me know when you find the answer am interested as well.

Giddyperson:


Lol. First time was when I had malaria, and I had to visit the hospital twice, and the recent one was when some company sent me to go and do medicals.

My MIL said I should expect to feel like this for the first three months, the thought of starting work like this scares me, hoping they won't fire me before the three months but on the bright side, the ms seems to let up a bit whenever I'm out of the house and busy, so maybe work would be a good thing.

Who else is managing morning sickness with work, how are you people doing it.

Ahhh, kpele.
My boss understands jare, na so so sleep I dey sleep. It didn't take him time to know whatsup. Just take things easy.

Flodel:
Crave for tinz lyk dis instead of exchnging words.

I think this is insensitive too. There is a food section on NL my dear.

Anyways, I have offloaded. My food cravings have stopped. Na only me carry this matter for head like gala seller and it was because I open the pregnancy thread on NL and im greeted with pictures of food I cannot get as im thousands of KMs away from home.

Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki
Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki
Enkay no vex mak I boro ur laff.

JUMAYIN JUMAYIN JUMAYIN see how u turn ds thread to preggy house of commotion.

$ whatever my lot...
thou has taught me to say....
it is well it is well.....
with our soul......$

E don do o mamas

Infact I wan turn chief whip for this thread.

@ flodel u no try at all. # shouts# who de thr? Mak u com help me buy ds rice and chicken#
For your punishment... this is my judgement....

@helovesme help me buy the rice
@xx01 help me buy the shicken.
@JUMAYIN help me buy shilled bottled water.
Who else oooo?


I de come.