Onegai:


It's because they are not active in Family Section. Go and be sensitive there you will leave Nairaland sobbing that day by the time people use mouth wash you. You'll be wondering whether you stole their money or slept with their husband or made their father become a drunkard (come let's go and start a gender war there, what topic should we do??). The cure for this is to only reply those you know. Shikena. No worries, everybody happy.

Blessedmum:

And dat's why this is pregnancy thread and not family session. Sensitivity is allowed.
As regards replying only those you know it's actually a free world, if one door doesn't close another won't open. Shallom!

AlphaHandMaiden:
*dropping my bowl of imaginary puff corn and diving into the cs fracas*

Everyone do what you are happy with! The only thing i would say is get as much info as you can on birthing options or any other procedure before you make a decision. Understand the pros and cons, complications and possible side effects and ensure you are mentally and emotionally ready for it! AND keep an open mind!

If you wanna keep you jajaina tight and opt for cs instead ! Fine!

If you want cs, as you cant just stress with the whole labour serenren i.e " too posh to push" ! Fine!

If you want to keep your figure and have a surrogate insead! fine!

If you want to keep them bobbies perky and not breastfeed but use formular instead! Fine!

If you want to breastfeed and have boob uplift surgery afterwards. fine!

If you want to hire a wetnurse rather than breastfeed fine!

If you want to have a tummy tuck post birth! Fine!

If you want epidural, or pethidine, or gas and air ! Fine!

If you want to do Hebrew woman! Fine as well.

(Just bear in mind that at 5000yrs ago hebrew women did not have pethidine or other painkillers else that bible story would have been very different!

My name is not Eve, no be me give Adam apple chop! so why i have to suffer unnessesarily to birth my child i dont know. Jesus has died for my sins biko and in being a new creatiure in him comes the joys of pain management! )


Even the best informed of us, when shiit goes sideways, irrespective of which birth path we choose, you wont remember all the youtube videos you watched. All you want is to see your baby alive, and you alive as well. If a limb has to be lost in the process, it suddenly becomes irrelevant.

Yes CS is considered as major surgery, the frequency of which it is done should not detract from the complications associated with any major surgery, however let us not only focus on the lives that have been lost through cs! A great number of lives have been also saved by cs as well.

So please to each his own. How you decide to concieve, carry a pregnancy and birth is YOUR decision! Do what think is best for you. At the end of the day NO-ONE gets a medal for anything nor is it an indication that your child will be the one to discover the cure for cancer!

Alphahandmaiden out!

sugah:
On a more serious note!! How come nobody described the breast pain that comes with childbirth?? The pain woke me up from sleep and I have massaged the one breast that hurts more with hot water towel but the pain persists. My prince is sleeping so im having to express using a pump but unfortunately that breast isn't producing anything. Help me!! What else can I d

Flodel:
Crave for tinz lyk dis instead of exchnging words.

mitchyy:


*side eyes*

We only wanted to see you and presido Mofe now. Must you come with gift? Haba now. Infact, we don dey para

helovesme:


stop kini

She don buy market today

I thought she said she is leaving this thread and not returning till she's back to post her birth story.

so why is she suddenly fixated on my CS experience, my son's scar and what my doctors and I are doing to fix it?

i posted a personal/ongoing and painful experience for people to learn from and she wants to turn it to something else.

trust me, i get her time well well.

ahnie:
Hmmm

Blessedmum:

Sorry about that captain, I have no idea about it, u're my senior in this matter.

Onegai:


I have a feeling they are just pretending to hate each other there. Because it gets so hilarious when they go offline and start digging up dirt on themselves so they can come back and trade insults and threats.

helovesme:



madam, please give up. you are begining to sound rather silly . honestly, you are no match for me and if you want me to tear you to shreds bring it on

Blessedmum:

Make I give you small job, plz I need video for normal delivery, been trying to get from you tube bt it's telling me one language abt age and subscription. Thanks in advance.

Blessedmum:
@ PresVA, I don't want to say anything on this matter again but it seems this my short leave has made me so bored that I now have time to respond to posts. Nevertheless I ll still try and control my hands.
No response given to her question is wasted It's just some are too sensitive , I gained from the different answers and some made me cry as well especially when I watched that CS video posted by helovesme and what she z abt her baby (I pray God ll perfect everything about him) .

HARMYMY:
lng tyme

mitchyy:


I watched all the 'watchables' when i was preggy.

I watched videos of vaginal birth with and withouy epidural, i watched videos of C-section even when i didnt plan for it. I just wanted to be prepared. And when my belly was being sliced, nothing felt strange to me. I anticipated everything

helovesme:


Here you are.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=voXFarfsVcQ

ahnie:



Yeshau yeshau...harmymy omg haba babe where be thou..pray tell me.how z life and your sweetheart.

Choi I yaff missed you like broccoli.

sugah:


I went at 29weeks to see my baby's face. I knew the sex of my baby at about 16weeks or so on a regular 2D scan. You can get baby's sex on a 4D scan as early as 12 weeks sef,....

HARMYMY:
am fine, how is family? And baby zino?

Purity77:


you see ! You needed to see how the clueless sonographer was arguing & telling me that those people who told me they saw the sex of their baby before 27 weeks a big liars. i was dazed at his ignorance.

Thank you so much mama. I'll go there.

mitchyy:


I watched all the 'watchables' when i was preggy.

I watched videos of vaginal birth with and withouy epidural, i watched videos of C-section even when i didnt plan for it. I just wanted to be prepared. And when my belly was being sliced, nothing felt strange to me. I anticipated everything