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saintfellow:
thats not what she was saying.

postmann:

Oh really. well, why not tell me then what she's saying?

lezznjr:
Yes, it does make sense, theoretical.

But in actuality, it's like signing up a prenup and you know what it says implicitly; I don't trust you.

The real world is warm flesh and moist insides; Nairaland is a virtual dome of fun and phantasies, that's if you know how to play it without getting burnt.

But we all seek drama, and Nairaland is a thriller movie, only that we're the actors/actress in our own movie.

Villains turn into heroes, dead spirits get another chance at life.....it's all breathtaking and .......

smart people have learnt to bridge both worlds.

Nairaland is spilling onto the real world, babe and no one is pulling the faucet.

We shouldn't.

saintfellow:
she was saying, he has too many ass lickers.

Laveda:
Okay, here's what I think, we all want a bit of spontaneity in our relationships but that doesn't mean our relationships shouldn't be defined from onset.
Here's what the Op is talking, girls shouldn't fully rely on a guy simply because he's the boyfriend and all she can offer is her _pussy, a little bit of financial help of gifts won't be bad.. Now don't you think that's cool?
Its just gonna be perfect if she abides by all these.

Yeah right.
its fun sometimes when you aren't the victim..
But, what's the essence of bringing someone's private life here all for the sake of "drama" now that's just not making sense, cause that's the only "drama" I see here.

Being "careful" In all these is just the word

Nairaland can never be like the real world.. I don't even compare.

lezznjr:
If emotions and attraction are involved, the defined boundaries will still be crossed. I think a girl who is so eager to define a relationship from the onset may be having a rough time with previous relationships.....

And why is OP begrudging girls who offer only püssy, i don't have issues with girls who trade püssy faster than MTN dusburses recharge cards;

Nothing quickens the pulse, or spur men to greater heights than the promise of wet, pliable püssy. It's what we live for.

Some of us love püssy fresh, waiting and sweet smelling, püssy whose juice aren't drained by the rigours of trying to make a financial input.

and I don't mind if that's the only thing she brings to the table.

Alright.

Private scenes replaying on the pages of NL is always frowned at. But sometimes evil folks play their betraying hand with alternates, in such instance, one shouldn't hesitate to blacken the sky and rain down arrors.

It's a defence mechanism against party poopers.

Strike in defence, baby

Laveda:


Okay, you're just one person, you can flow with a girl offering just her _pussy while some guys can't..
But I know it gets to a point where sex can't do it all.. That's fact.

Anyhoo, whatever works for you.

Laveda:
its all about being mindful of who we bring bring close..
Betrayal is now the order of the day...

Laveda:
How's your day going? Boring over here with no light and my phone tripping off soon.

lezznjr:
I'm a pushover for girls with intelligence and a great body of which you're one of Nairaland's foremost exemplifying examples

Shey my demands are simple and straightforward?

I'm still reeling from the aftershocks from my last close shave with Mucifer, babe.

I don't know how you do it, but 3 posts from you has brightened today in a blinding incandescence!

danbrowndmf:
oliviaarims. What you wrote up there is just the bomb. I believe anyone who equal any money with sex is a prostitute. Relationship is all about communication,the both party should always seat and spell it out on what they want before they start. You won't be dating a student and be expecting thousands from him. If u spend on a lady let it be out of love and nt equal it for sex.

danbrowndmf:
oliviaarims. What you wrote up there is just the bomb. [b]I believe anyone who equal any money with sex is a prostitute. [/b]Relationship is all about communication,the both party should always seat and spell it out on what they want before they start. You won't be dating a student and be expecting thousands from him. If u spend on a lady let it be out of love and nt equal it for sex.

Laveda:
Good spec. thanks.

Nah, you simply hitting the nail on the head no time to check time and long talk.

You should get over it already, it happens.

And uhmm, if you for real I don't know too.
But, that's good.

joseph1832:
What about those who have dozens of boyfriends?.

danbrowndmf:
loool. On this nairaland app nobody will ever accept they are cheating. Everybody is faithful on this app

rosalieene:
BTW, If Jacob could wait for 14 years for Racheal, why are most guys impatient? always want to knack
My thoughts tho

Oliviaarims:
Exactly!

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Don't allow this guys bully and chase you out of nairaland.

Oliviaarims:
Lol. Thank you very much. I just cannot be perturbed nor cyberbullied when I've got nothing to be guilty of.

I see them and all they say but the last thing I'll do is dignify any one of them with a response.

PaulKillerman:
my brah!!! I think say na only me dey see this thing/i don shock like weeettttiiiinnn!!!! ... See ohhhh, seee oliviaarims , a confirmed runs girl, that keeps upto 4 different BF that fork her and pays her cash giving advice to someone.. This girl that messed up a Nairaland user chronique , that tried dating her, he had to come create a thread on that as a result... This philanderer advicing people....kai!!!! This thing done vex me like weeeetttttiiiinnn!!!! Oliviaarims , u too..... Chain!!! Nothing guyman no go see ohhh !!!! Jesus Christ .... A classic runs girl in school , syphoning guys off cash....
Ohhh. Lord, I have seen it all.... I can now die in peace ....kai!!!!!


C.C : baba obontami, babzilla , guymanDspecie make una come see things oh....

HIGHESTPOPORI:
But u still might explain to me better someday when am ready,what you really did to warrant all d attacks on you cos they don't seem ordinarily.

rosalieene:
BTW, If Jacob could wait for 14 years for Racheal, why are most guys impatient? always want to knack
My thoughts tho

[color=teal]like you don't want to be knacked[/color]

HIGHESTPOPORI:
My man,I greet you like wetinnnn,take am easy,why you carry d matter for head like this?

why him no go carry am for head


Na ur head him carry am put

Oliviaarims:
There's a thread on FP right now (supermarket boyfriend) that's generating a lot of controversies... Her boyfriend wants sex, she doesn't and somehow she's scared of losing him. She's wondering whether or not to give in and a lot of people are bashing her on the grounds that she's received financial favours from him and as such, it's only fitting that she returns the favour by allowing him have his way.

Well, the truth is that this sort of issue would always be a problematic one, all thanks to the status quo obtainable. A girl dating a guy expects him to foot her bills, and he in return expects to screw her whenever he wants.

Now, this is what I have to say about this. We all need a reorientation about how these things should work. First of all, each individual must decide what he/she wants to be... Celibate or sexually active. After that, you decide if you want to be in a relationship. And by relationship, I mean a proper one that's defined. But before you go into any relationship, you must first honestly answer these questions.

*Why do you want to go into a relationship?
*Are you sure you're ready for a relationship and all the hassles that come with it? Commitment, time, sincerity, misunderstandings, compromises, etc.
*What do you want out of a relationship?
*What are you bringing to the table? You definitely should have something to offer.
* State the rules from the beginning. Don't start what you can't finish.
*Keep your relationship private and don't compare that of others to yours. Your friends don't need to know that your man doesn't get you take you shopping or to exotic places or gives you money regularly or that you cook for him with your money.

It's high time we started getting our priorities right. For the girls, stop going into relationships JUST because you need someone who'd foot your bills. When you're in a relationship, don't make demands. In a healthy and proper relationship, you should be open and free with each other such that at every point in time, he knows what you really need and would assist if he can... Of his own volition, without you having to ask. Ask only when you're in dire need. Your needs are really not his responsibility. If he's the type that never does anything without you having to ask, then it's up to you to decide if you can deal with that.

If you're sleeping with him, it should be because you want to...because you like sex and don't care about abstinence. Lol. And not because you feel you owe him, or it's a way to keep the money coming.

And you must also keep it in mind that most guys are very much interested in sex. As a matter of fact, it's the one major reason why some of them desire to have a "girlfriend." It's the trophy for the chase. So, before you accept any guy's proposal make it clear from the get-go that it would a total no-sex relationship, except of course you are ready to play ball. Don't be fooled by the looks of them, even if he's your youth pastor. Lol. Should he walk away, oh well, there's no cow on the ice. But stick to your guns.

Very importantly, an ideal relationship should be hinged on "give and take." You shouldn't always be at the receiving end. Give too. Get him tangible presents, not only on his birthdays. Shower him with love. Find out what his problems are and see if you can help in any way. You should be someone he trusts to tell about his plans and goals in life. It shows you mean something to him and not just some mere existential entity. Go out of your way to do things for him sometimes. You may not be able to do much financially, but do something once in a while when you can... And of course, there are other things you can do. You can always think of things you can do for him. Kpanshing alone won't do. If that's all you're offering or all he's interested in, then you belittle yourself. Walk away. There's but a time allowed for foolishness.

At every point in time, we must assess and reevaluate our lives. There's so much I want to say, but...


Finally, in my very own highly, tremendously, "subjective" opinion, ABSTAIN and develop a tough skin. The benefits are plenty, whether or not you're a virgin. Don't start counting dicks in their droves before you make the decision. Allow them guys f*ck themselves. Lol. We'll begin to have some sanity after then.

sllay:
I wonder what Chroníque and the several Nairaland guys she duped think about the pseudo-sanctimonious, pilfering, love-scam-scheming philandering OP and her hypocritical thread...

Little wonder people tag most folks who frequent this section fake.

Supposedly Messrs Nice Guy being exposed as brute cultists , 'friendly' girls exposed as paid moles by their brothers, mulattoes who are partly Ukrainian turning out to be fugly, teenage paupers who beg females for money, supposedly pretty, fair-skinned OAPs exposed as darkskinned, fugly insecure females (EstharFabian comes to mind)... They go into hiding for days when exposed then try to blend in like nothing happened.


Shameless dimwits!