vickyO:
I hope this ends your involvement in 'no strings attached relationships'.

lol... lip sealed...

doctorkush:
oh! thanks... but why didn't you alert me earlier...lol

I forgot in.... Na joke I dey o

247Potential:


Give the laps one new like nau.. I for like am but nah the [b]second pair of laps [/b]wey vex me

laps abi stick

I don't get didn't she tell you she was seeing someone??



That should be her reason for insisting on the no strings attached thing but her getting married is so out of it. These days bizarre things happen that is so not nice. Even the Twitter saga own still beats my inagination.


If only you were also serious with someone else, you may not be as affected by the news as you were when you heard. It makes you wiser anyway.

Ayoolajumoke:


I forgot in.... Na joke I dey o

heey pretty. your cheeks

Akanbibabatunde:
laps abi stick

Lacks

Ayoolajumoke:


I forgot in.... Na joke I dey o

nice lips, no gree for op, I sabi him... Dude naa player.. He will use u do rebound... But me I like u...am still a virgin so am innocent... But lest I forget, on your hanger, no be pants and bra be DAT...

Ayoolajumoke:

I forgot in.... Na joke I dey o

lol... no p... nice cheeks tho...

Missmossy:
I don't get didn't she tell you she was seeing someone??



That should be her reason for insisting on the no strings attached thing but her getting married is so out of it. These days bizarre things happen that is so not nice. Even the Twitter saga own still beats my inagination.


If only you were also serious with someone else, you may not be as affected by the news as you were when you heard. It makes you wiser anyway.

now someone who understands why I felt used... l hated the fact that she never mentioned anything about her status, and only if I was with someone... anyway I'm wiser now...

But OP why do you think she'd pass up the chance to settle down with someone who is more serious and ready?

You were obviously fooling around and she knew it.

doctorkush:
lol... no p... nice cheeks tho...

Thanks

My friend she did not use you,you guys were in a no strings attached relationship, u wanted to actually break the rules and she bailed out before you did......FINISH

she made it clear from the be that she wanted a no strings attached relationship, she even motivated you and helped you financially, so how then did she use and dump you?seems she even gave more than necessary in the relationship, let's not also forget you are a fling kind of guy, so what about the ones you.have used?, so because you started having feelings for her now makes you the victim abi?na wah o

smithsydny:
Sorry

Wicked.

doctorkush:
I'm a kinda career dude and still young so I rarely go into relationships. tho I flirt, engage in "flings" but will go on ghost mode if I'm getting entangled...

Guy, you are just reaping what you have been sowing, enjoy it while last.

how she take use uu. when she dey spend on u?. if na so abeg i dey find who go use me toooo oo

doctorkush:
now someone who understands why I felt used... l hated the fact that she never mentioned anything about her status, and only if I was with someone... anyway I'm wiser now...

So bad of her even though the truth is bitter some guys would still nudge you and tell you they don't mind, spilling out that bitter truth goes a long way.

I guess some people don't get to have a guilty conscience when they do certain things that are unexcusable. Such is life anyway it can't be rosy.

Missmossy:

So bad of her even though the truth is bitter some guys would still nudge you and tell you they don't mind, spilling out that bitter truth goes a long way.

I guess some people don't get to have a guilty conscience when they do certain things that are unexcusable. Such is life anyway it can't be rosy.

yea... sure... it can't be rosy..

doctorkush:
I met her in a bank, she is one of the cashiers and a career lady as well.got her contact, we became close and eventually friends tho she is three years older. I'm a kinda career dude and still young so I rarely go into relationships. tho I flirt, engage in "flings" but will go on ghost mode if I'm getting entangled...

well she is also crazy in her own way and she understood who I was but on a particular day while on phone with her, she told me how she felt about me and asked if we can be in a no string attached kinda relationship and "wow" ...

well two months into the relationship, Im in love with her tho I kept the feeling but I'm sure she knows.. she perfectly is what I seek in a lady,she motivates me whenever I have issues and also help financially when I'm down.

I was about telling her we should take the relationship serious when she suddenly disappeared for days, I was worried as she refused to pick my calls or reply my messages. it was then I tried contacting some close associates of her, then I was told she got engaged some days ago and will be having her white weeding tomorrow in another state...

i don't know where to start from!
I was used when am about "changing"
I don't know what to do..
I'm lost...

You expected her to continue fooling around with you? She opted for a more serious relationship.... you expected her to say NO to the guy because of YOU?

nma24:
You expected her to continue fooling around with you? She opted for a more serious relationship.... you expected her to say NO to the guy because of YOU?

if she aint wanting to fool around, she ought to let me know she's gon be getting married .... soon....

Na wa o

Motun03:
you guys think you are the only one using girls for sex abi?
i bet she just enjoyed the big d while her fiance is away

thats karma bro
take heart

what has karma got to do with this

doctorkush:
if she aint wanting to fool around, she ought to let me know she's gon be getting married .... soon....

U guys agreed in a No strings attached relationship naa...

nma24:
U guys agreed in a No strings attached relationship naa...

yea... and I messed it by getting struck by love... but she didn't play fair by hiding her status.... I won't have been DAT deep with her...

doctorkush:
yea... and I messed it by getting struck by love... but she didn't play fair by hiding her status.... I won't have been DAT deep with her...

That's life.... Move on

Motun03:
you guys think you are the only one using girls for sex abi?
i bet she just enjoyed the big d while her fiance is away

thats karma bro
take heart

What are we saying, what are you saying? Berra act like your hairline and fallback...

Back to the matter, Op should quit acting the victim. You were both matured enough to decide what kind of relationship you both wanted but you chose to be a coward when things were getting intense so you've no right to say she used you. Take responsibility for what has happened and never forget the lesson learnt

How where u used ogbeni, u held back your feelings dont you know the saying 'a closed mouth is a closed destiny'

VolTOxic:
Damn. I don't get it. How did she used you? You said it yourself she helped you financially and motivated you while you're down? Seems like she gave more. Anyway get up and stop feeling sorry for yourself. If anything you make me believe you pushed her into this. She told you clearly how she felt and even asked you out. She was also ready. You weren't. You were never frank you said it yourself. Now she's getting married and that's when you are ready. Ooooh cry me a river. Just wake up abeg.

Thank you for this.

Who's raising these recent crop of Nigerian boys?

EgunMogaji:


Who's raising these recent crop of Nigerian boys?

Single Nigerian women.

This is the best definition of OYO.

Timbuktou:


Single Nigerian women.

Figures.

They ooze effeminacy on their posts.

Motun03:
you guys think you are the only one using girls for sex abi?
i bet she just enjoyed the big d while her fiance is away

thats karma bro
take heart

That what you do?