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It’s time to stop downplaying your successes, silencing your needs, and accommodating bad behaviour. You might fly solo a little while longer, but when you do couple-up, it will be with someone worth your energy instead of someone who zaps it.

So if you’re guilty of any of these dating mistakes, prepare for inevitable heartbreak.

#1. You’re Constantly Being His Cheerleader. We all have down periods and times when we need support, but constantly spending your energy trying to cheer someone up gets old. If he can’t motivate himself without you doing the rah-rah routine, he’s not relationship material. How can you have a happy, healthy relationship with someone who can’t motivate themselves?
#2. You’re Okay with Sexist Comments Because He’s Cute. He tells you that you have a “great breasts” on the first date. Sorry, WHAT?

#3. He Has Incredibly Lazy Dating Practices. Okay, so maybe the days of showing up with flowers are long gone, but it’s a sad state of affairs when a man texting you “want to get together briefly tonight?” at noon gets us excited about a first date.
This is supposed to be the time when he showcases the best part of himself and that’s all he’s offering you.

#4. You Downplay Your Success to Protect His Ego . A boss should date a boss or at least someone who’s proud of the fact that you’ve worked your ass off to achieve your goals. If he gets insecure about your success, perhaps he should be inspired to work harder on his own.
And really, he should be shining a spotlight on all of your successes, not throwing you shade.

#5. You Try to Change Him. “Oh, you can change that” is a common statement tossed around between girlfriends.....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/20-dating-mistakes-that-can-lead-to.html

nice

Been there. Done that.

TrapQueen77:



Been there. Done that.

lol... dis lady self... everything you don do

No 1&2, very annoying

oshikoyaodemi:
lol... dis lady self... everything you don do

Naso baba

Aderola15:
No 1&2, very annoying

why?

hmmm

nice. thanks op

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Are you APC? [/color]

I guess he is