₦airaland Forum

Hadez:
Whatever girl. You can set your future aside and go straight into being a child producing machine while women your age are making things happen

Hadez:
I kept thinking to myself where all these successful female leaders would have been if they were dependant on men to push them forward

I am at the essence of a woman setting her future as priorities first. No wonder why one man can just talk anyhow to his wife just because she is "nothing"

IamLEGEND1:
You were making small sense until you typed that rubbish.

this is the 21st century,any woman wey know say she no go contribute anything to the family should stay in her father's house.....that's where she belongs.

AuroraB:
The night vigil houses are not complaining, why should you Fibroid blocks the womb after 28? Haha . So, because Aisha was presumably jobless before marriage, you now shooting down on her getting a certificate or trade or handiwork
Conclusively, you mean; marriage is gonna be her achievement at the moment

AuroraB:
The night vigil houses are not complaining, why should you Fibroid blocks the womb after 28? Haha . So, because Aisha was presumably jobless before marriage, you now shooting down on her getting a certificate or trade or handiwork
Conclusively, you mean; marriage is gonna be her achievement at the moment

Hadez:
I kept thinking to myself where all these successful female leaders would have been if they were dependant on men to push them forward

I am at the essence of a woman setting her future as priorities first. No wonder why one man can just talk anyhow to his wife just because she is "nothing"

SSpeter:
There is a difference between thoughts and reality; perception and discovery...I assume you are still at the nascent stage of grasping reality...

mira24:
Am I normal almost all my life no serious relationship, no boyfriend,no faincee,no husband yet,and am 24 ,,,I keep being scared Dont really want to keep being lonely ,,at times I wonder if its my physical physique dats deneying me all DAT,d whole thing is gradually eating my self esteen away,would really want a miracle but this time not a boyfriend ,but a husband....need ur prayers.....

lanicky:
Faincee? Sounds more like Pharisee.
That apart.

Don't be in hurry... Let love find you. You're just 24..haba it's never too late to marry.

Sure, I know you need prayers.. But have you considered these things.

1) Are you friendly? How do you react when a guy comes to you.. Are you the picky type or the hard face type. Trust me, some guys would just pass you by without saying *hi* cos of your scary look.

2) How do you dress.. I hope you're not the tomboy kinda lady or the Aina amaka kinda. Those that wear maternity gown all in the name of religion. (I'm sure you ain't one of them)

3) I also hope you're not the lousy type... When you're too lousy a guy would be scared to ask you out.


All I'm trying to say is... Check yourself. Some things bout you might be driving guys off.

Then like you said earlier, you need prayers.. Go see your pastor for counseling and prayer. If he's a good man.. He'll advice you to be patient.


The most important thing though, is to work hard, and achieve greatness at the right stage in life.

I hope I never type too much? Na wetin my small brain sabi be that.

Hadez:
No boo I am at the stage of discovery

mira24:
Am I normal almost all my life no serious relationship, no boyfriend,no faincee,no husband yet,and am 24 ,,,I keep being scared Dont really want to keep being lonely ,,at times I wonder if its my physical physique dats deneying me all DAT,d whole thing is gradually eating my self esteen away,would really want a miracle but this time not a boyfriend ,but a husband....need ur prayers.....

mira24:
Am I normal almost all my life no serious relationship, no boyfriend,no faincee,no husband yet,and am 24 ,,,I keep being scared Dont really want to keep being lonely ,,at times I wonder if its my physical physique dats deneying me all DAT,d whole thing is gradually eating my self esteen away,would really want a miracle but this time not a boyfriend ,but a husband....need ur prayers.....

Hadez:
Looking for a husband at 24? you are definitely out of your mind

Chigold101:
dear, i didnt say fybrod starts at 28.

If one marries a man that loves her and have the resources too, she can fly to the highest mountain.

I am married oh. I wanted to marry at 21 but i missed it slightly with few years.

After my wife‘s youth service, i made her take a Post graduate diploma in Education ( she studied biotech). My next plan is for her to go for masters in Education though she said she will like to take a second degree (nursing).

I am her husband i married her to help her achieve her dream and also guide her. If she achieve everything as a single lady before coming to my house, what would then be my own contribution to her success.

Sister if as far as i am concerned, if you see a husband at 18 marry him if God convinced he is your husband. A good man will build u to highest point.

Weather my wife is going for masters of going a degree in nursing, i am opening a school for her come september 2017. Because thats her dream and i am in her life to help her achieve it.

She is the mother of my baeutiful children. Taking care of me and our children are already too much work and i cant stand her being shouted down at by any man or woman.

Finally, dont miss your oppotunity cos you want to go into marriage table with something.

To manege men no easy then add it children plus pregnancy...

mira24:
Am I normal almost all my life no serious relationship, no boyfriend,no faincee,no husband yet,and am 24 ,,,I keep being scared Dont really want to keep being lonely ,,at times I wonder if its my physical physique dats deneying me all DAT,d whole thing is gradually eating my self esteen away,would really want a miracle but this time not a boyfriend ,but a husband....need ur prayers.....

mira24:
Am I normal almost all my life no serious relationship, no boyfriend,no faincee,no husband yet,and am 24 ,,,I keep being scared Dont really want to keep being lonely ,,at times I wonder if its my physical physique dats deneying me all DAT,d whole thing is gradually eating my self esteen away,would really want a miracle but this time not a boyfriend ,but a husband....need ur prayers.....