₦airaland Forum

Amusaopeyemi:
. Bro you mean. Afi black bololo na.

AdoraAmadi:
Toke Makinwa's estranged husband Maje Ayida has finally opened up and told his own side of the story about his scandalous marriage crash and new role as a father.

You already know - while married to popular media personality Toke Makinwa, Maje Ayida got his babymama Anita Solomon pregnant and today, they have an adorable son - Micah. When he was asked about the outrage, media attention the scandal attracted and how he dealt with it, Maje said:

"I had a very dramatic year last year. I am kind of slowly trying to climb out of that hole. How did I deal with it? I focused on my work. I put my work forward and allowed that
speak for me. I and a couple of the big brands I work with got a bit spooked. Business wasn't actually kicking".

On how he's handling his new family and plans to get married again, Maje said:

"I am still learning. Its a whole new world. Its a whole lot of self discovery to come so I just take each day as it comes. Its life. Like is evolving. Life is crazy. You just got to hold on, strap up and move on. About remarriage, No. I don't know".

Lessons he learnt, Maje said
"I learnt that people could be vicious. People could be judgmental when they no nothing about you or anything about your story or where you are coming from but its fine. Hold on to the people that do know you. They are the ones that matter and don't get derailed".

Press play to watch the interview below.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/10/my-breakup-with-toke-makinwa-almost.html


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sFc2pAqYYr0

ednut1:
oversabi, wat if aunty toke refused to get pregnant cos of her work nd lifestyle. like e said dont judge. there are 3 sides to every story

Olukokosir:
Wat ll b ll b

Toks2008:
This is so true and i have experienced this big time on nairaland.

Many people will just say what they like when they know little or nothing about you or where you are coming from.

IamNawty:
People culd be judgemental oshi woh..
Ur ode self was married and was still gbenshin anoda lady.. Oga ders no justification watsoever for fornication/adultery.
No wonder Toke dust u away almost immiediatly without thinking twice. How wicked can dis man be sef, how can u feel comfortable straffing anoda lady wen ur wife is at home eh

ednut1:
oversabi, wat if aunty toke refused to get pregnant cos of her work nd lifestyle. like e said dont judge. there are 3 sides to every story

IamNawty:
People culd be judgemental oshi woh..
Ur ode self was married and was still gbenshin anoda lady.. Oga ders no justification watsoever for fornication/adultery.
No wonder Toke dust u away almost immiediatly without thinking twice. How wicked can dis man be sef, how can u feel comfortable straffing anoda lady wen ur wife is at home eh

Amberon:
Some people will definitely side evil. 99% of Nigerian women want a baby of their own shortly after marriage. So the one that got pregnant now, has he married her? Or is he with her? From this interview, does it seem Make is a man that wants a home?

yinkslinks:
And toke is pure too abi? stop taking sides. he just spoke on your type of people. he is doing better than the toke now. hope you know? he has a son. toke is running around with make ups

IamNawty:
People culd be judgemental oshi woh..
Ur ode self was married and was still gbenshin anoda lady.. Oga ders no justification watsoever for fornication/adultery.
No wonder Toke dust u away almost immiediatly without thinking twice. How wicked can dis man be sef, how can u feel comfortable straffing anoda lady wen ur wife is at home eh

crypta007:
I guess you dont care to know why he was straffing outside of marriage , what if Toke was not always there, what if he had to beg d woman he married for sex... alot of ifs ... kudos to him cos he is man enough to face d consequence of his actions....father to his son and husband to his new woman ...u can continue to judge for all u care

delishpot:
If Toke was the one caught cheating and now with a son would you be this understanding that she was cheating while being married?

tivta:
See the feminist shouting and claiming toke is the victim, lol. Nairaland giving voices to the feminist

IamNawty:
People culd be judgemental oshi woh..
Ur ode self was married and was still gbenshin anoda lady.. Oga ders no justification watsoever for fornication/adultery.
No wonder Toke dust u away almost immiediatly without thinking twice. How wicked can dis man be sef, how can u feel comfortable straffing anoda lady wen ur wife is at home eh

joanana:
Oga maje no make me slap you oo. U promised toke for better or worse and u first brin g the worse to your matrimonial home. U dey shine another woman pot while u Don already buy one put for house wey u suppose dey shine anytime you want. What did u expect. That your fellow men will congratulate you for what u did abi. See your big head like mango. Some men cheat and they don't bring child(ren) from other women home cos they respect their wife. In your case u don't and you are proud of what u did. Rubbish

Lessons he learnt, Maje said
"I learnt that people could be vicious. People could be judgmental when they no nothing about you or anything about your story or where you are coming from but its fine. Hold on to the people that do know you. They are the ones that matter and don't get derailed".

ZuzuMan:
.......Hnmmmm! Why you dey laugh eehn ?

crypta007:
I guess you dont care to know why he was straffing outside of marriage , what if Toke was not always there, what if he had to beg d woman he married for sex... alot of ifs ... kudos to him cos he is man enough to face d consequence of his actions....father to his son and husband to his new woman...u can continue to judge for all u care

ednut1:
oversabi, wat if aunty toke refused to get pregnant cos of her work nd lifestyle. like e said dont judge. there are 3 sides to every story

Amberon:
What is wrong with feminism. Only weak fear feminists. And besides nobody brought feminism here except you. Both males and females have condemned Maje's act here but I guess they're all wrong and you're right. Let's clap for Maje and crucify Toke.

luminouz:
Nawty babe! Maka y? Its not a usual thing for u to be Dis pissed! Pele mai dear!