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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by misscall247: 6:17pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:Nop just give him enough sex and also let him knowvd effect of pornography......No man will see puss.y and prefer mastubatn xpt a gay. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by AreaFada2: 6:19pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Cutehector: Not necessarily. I think it's an old habit of his. Maybe he was hiding it when they first began dating or newly got married. So the lady is not responsible for it. Most men with a poor marital sex life don't do porn or jerk off with reckless abandon. They seek a solution together. It's like those addicted to prostitutes. Marrying Miss World will not stop them. He must be willing to stop and man up with much determination. I can imagine the bad effect of this on their conjugal life. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by obim55: 6:20pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Go on your kneels and pray my dear. God can do all things. you never fully know a person until u marry them. this is who he have been, but it was hidden from you. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by wizjid69: 6:23pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: I know women are not always to blame for problems like this but you have to admit that slot of women become embarrassingly fat and just let go of all the things that attracted their men in the first place. Even so women deny their husbands sex due to a variety of reasons. The man must communicate with his wife in order to forestall future problems in their marriage. But the women should do everything possible to keep their men interested. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by johnisaola(m): 6:24pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Use sexsy cloths that will atrac him, always When u are together, as a lady you know how to do it better than us baby |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Clinician2000: 6:24pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
It is a psychological problem, take him to psychotherapy centre, a Psychologist there will change Him .He can use Hypnosis |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by AuroraB(f): 6:25pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:When he gets it on, play a very deep Christian song or a recorded Pastor's message against the habit. His thingy will go limp keh 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by lalaponcus(m): 6:25pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: Check out this site. I hope it helps http://www.covenanteyes.com/2011/11/16/7-questions-wives-of-porn-addicts-often-ask-part-3-of-3/ |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Zedoo(m): 6:25pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Practical steps to win your husband back... One day when he is not around, Watch what he watches, not to indulge, but learn their "language"... Initiate a sex chat with him, maybe while he is in the office or something..... And tell him that you can't wait to "feel his **** that ure so Hot right now and etc, your description should fit that of what he watches and imagines.... Its disgusting for you to talk lyk them pornstars BUT this is practical here is not to start running around to one "man of God".... Back to topic.... He will be caught of guard the first time you try it....but do it again and again....the sex chat will work on his mind and your channel will begin to show again in his "mind t.v". Then you can move it a notch up to a sex call..... This will take a week..... Ure still working on his mind.... Then...the final stage.... Read carefully.... Every dude that is addicted to porn has a particular lady, style or type he likes.... If its a lady there is a particular way she talks and behaves.....and you will have to go this mile.... Get to the market, buy something close to her outfit, hair style n all.... Surprise him, by putting it on, and starting to touch him while he is watching the crap.....if he responds....you guys should have a go at it, while the porn is playing; this will keep his mind active and interested.... After three days of doing this, On the fourth day, while ure hard at it, turn d laptop away or close it and when he tries to react, grab him harder and speak the pornsters language...."oh yea f*ck me with your big black **** oh yea daddy pound that pu**y" etc....just get nasty outa your comfort zone.... I expect to see your testimony soon PLUS, pray there is no other person he conducts practicals with.... Verdict: You NEED a new wave in your bedroom....your current bedroom self contrasts highly with what turns his dark side on in the closet.....find whatever it is...and be it.... 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by buffalowings: 6:26pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by AfroBlue(m): 6:26pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
go out and find a second, third, or fourth wife with high libido energies to quench his thirst |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by gsalvatore: 6:30pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
BarrElChapo:Maybe he see the wife as a mere furniture... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by gsalvatore: 6:35pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Zedoo:Bros if this lady does all these things you wrote up here...the husband will be scared. He knows the wife is judgemental and old-woman-kinda-young-lady.. So she trying to appear seductive could even be perplexing for the man, he might run away... Imagine a core Lords chosen babe's sounding funky... Me go run oooo |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 6:35pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
His masturbation is better than cheating And it should give your pucci some free time |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Ranchhoddas: 6:35pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
ehix89:Hahaha. Lets's hear your testimony. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by nkpommpko(m): 6:36pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
[quote author=kokosari2 post=50459647]Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting. [/ quote] even on your "matrimonial bed" now you are struggling matrimonial bed with his fingers, women. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by YhungPablo(m): 6:38pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Too much of boobs displayed on nairaland. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by nkpommpko(m): 6:39pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:please start, yours if it makes you feel good. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 6:41pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
rheether:Chai! Madam rheether. I hail o. Just don't killl somebody. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 6:42pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Bibors: Are you having a stroke? |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by olajyde3: 6:44pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
PierreSizzl:to b candid its not easy to stop this act thus we have professionals on psychology that could tackle such !!!!! Let him get an HMO for more enquires contact 07030498217 |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by no1madman(m): 6:44pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
rheether:Correct! WA sere! |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 6:44pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Dyt: Hmm...just don't keep the VC waiting. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 6:46pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Haute: It will take you a few weeks to read up all my posts When you done You can then drink water and fall asleep Oniranu 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by astro007(m): 6:48pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Talk to him.find out what his sexual preferences are and what ticks him off. The problem might b because he has developed a mental time table for it as such either u sleep with him or not he still wants to do it. So ma advice is when u guys talk u can simply tell him that anytime he feels d urge he should let u know. N when such a time arrives spend time together. Get a little intimate ( doesn't mean u must have sex) just hang out together during those periods. U can hold hands n watch a movie or even go for a work. Mind u this little distraction of u n him together would take his mind off it n kill d urge altogether.. It might b a little tricky at first but it works.. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Zedoo(m): 6:48pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
gsalvatore: Bros, you see one thing about sex is, people call it all manner of things from "overrated" to "over-emphasized" but bros, what her husband is experiencing now will only be put to a stop if she sheds whatever inhibitions she has about sex....nobody in the wider world is seeing what goes on between the couple behind closed doors... If she like make she be the lord personal Annointed.....this is marriage and she signed up.... As for the man, he definitely will be surprised and thrown off the first tym she tries it... That is why the FIRST step is a SEX chat....NOT. Face to face....for a few days for his mind to gradually adjust it...then a sex call....to assure him he is not dreaming....then finally the main act.... I'm talking practicals....under normal circumstance she will pay alot of money to one "psychologist" who will place them on one long ass program.... She suppose credit my account.... Because if she read my post trust me, if she does it the way I said...it will take HIGHEST THREE weeks....for normalcy to return.....im very serious... |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Dyt: Open camera app, press record, "have fun", upload to youtube, post video link on Nairaland. Simple. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by ademasta(m): 6:52pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by ifyalways(f): 6:54pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Vorpal:Lmao. Girl was jumping on me on top innocent questions I asked her instead of cleaning her down below, jump on hubby's dyke and banng the evil spirits outta him. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 6:54pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: Lol, you must be joking, start your own ke, that means you've been into the act before now. The big question is how well do you perform your intimate obligation to him? How well do you do it? Don't tell me he goes to self-service right after you give him a mind blowing cowgirl ride How about you get him to communicate, discuss his sexual fantasies and find a way to match it with yours, up your game in the other room. If you handle him thoroughly where him go see strength take masturbate? |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Zedoo(m): 6:59pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Also if you have lost it....then try to get into this shape.... Get to the gym!! Those hoes in thoSE VIDEOS can't possibly be better than you!, Your own husband again!?? They want to win you in this "other" room?? Noooo!!!! Leggo there!!
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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
ifyalways: Judging by the comments i see on this thread, the first point of order by men is, an unhindered unfettered access to pussie with a good amount of kinky-ness. It's like it's as important as the air they breath, perhaps almost. |
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