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Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by handsomenfrosh(op): 12:31am On Nov 11, 2016

Hello guys. it's been a while I made a post but here I am. pleading for sincere wise advice. ....
I have been dating this girl for the past 1 year... and before we started after some months my girl opened up to me..
That she dropped out from school while in j.s.s. 2 and. she is not as bright up there as I think..
That day I puttied her and I cried for her, a beautiful and sexy girl like my lady is like that...
But to my biggest surprise she can speak so fluently and sound so sweet.. but she finds it hard to write long sentences, spell, and even read them... she reads only lil and no long sentences..
and also she do not know calculations..
And it was yesterday I thought about it and sent her a message, "what are you doing darling?" just to know if she would reply with anything if correct it not so I can know her capability well.
I called her and told her to reply the message but she said No.
I told her to try her best at least send anything and let see....
But she insisted and I tried to convince and she said OK.. then after 1 min she sent me "I love you" I felt bad and I called her why did not respond ed in the way I expected but. she started feeling bad and was thinking I was making jest of her...
Then I did what I supposed to do as a man I pet her on phone said some words of encouragenent and assuring her it's nothing... she was relieved after then...
Here is where I need u peeps help.
She is kinda scared and do think she can't know things easily,like she do underestimate herself which I find wrong, I do think she has a brain and it is meant to work... and I can feel and see her future is so bright, she will be traveling out to U.S in 2 years time.t o meet her mum Cause her mom just went there last month and is definitely coming to pick her.and she is going for year hairdressing training so she can work while she is in the States .but I don't want people to cheat her even if she becomes greater in future.. and I am gonna feel the burden too..
There will be some places she will have to use her brain and educational intervention. .
Pls any good advice will surely be appreciated... I love her so much how can i help her ?

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by LadyAnn(f): 1:03am On Nov 11, 2016

Stop Judging her. You actually sound so condescending. Everyone has a story. You spell horrendously too but nobody's judging you. Love without boundaries my dear. Besides, the problem isn't necessarily the illiteracy - there are adult educational programs, home tutoring, and probably some type of literacy courses out there you could get her enrolled in. It sounds to me like you really don't love your girl. If you did love her, You would not be Airing your dirty linen out in the open. (That's an idiom by the way) I don't care which Alias name you use, most people are easy to find. undecided

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by Nobody: 1:07am On Nov 11, 2016

Adult education is still available. I don't see the problem here. Let her go to adult school. Simple.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by LadyAnn(f): 1:14am On Nov 11, 2016

Demigods666:
Adult education is still available. I don't see the problem here. Let her go to adult school. Simple.

Don't mind him. Mostly attention seeking.

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by Nobody: 1:18am On Nov 11, 2016

LadyAnn:
Don't mind him. Mostly attention seeking.

I blame the dullard for this. When there is joblessness in the land you begin to see this type of topics.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by LadyAnn(f): 1:31am On Nov 11, 2016

Demigods666:
I blame the dullard for this. When there is joblessness in the land you begin to see this type of topics.

Hahahaha

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by Nobody: 2:01am On Nov 11, 2016

LadyAnn:
Stop Judging her. You actually sound so condescending. Everyone has a story. You spell horrendously too but nobody's judging you. Love without boundaries my dear. Besides, the problem isn't necessarily the illiteracy - there are adult educational programs, home tutoring, and probably some type of literacy courses out there you could get her enrolled in. It sounds to me like you really don't love your girl. If you did love her, You would not be Airing your dirty linen out in the open. (That's an idiom by the way) I don't care which Alias name you use, most people are easy to find.

this post is daft.it did not add any value to the discussion.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by Nobody: 2:07am On Nov 11, 2016

handsomenfrosh:
Hello guys. it's been a while I made a post but here I am. pleading for sincere wise advice. ....
I have been dating this girl for the past 1 year... and before we started after some months my girl opened up to me..
That she dropped out from school while in j.s.s. 2 and. she is not as bright up there as I think..
That day I puttied her and I cried for her, a beautiful and sexy girl like my lady is like that...
But to my biggest surprise she can speak so fluently and sound so sweet.. but she finds it hard to write long sentences, spell, and even read them... she reads only lil and no long sentences..
and also she do not know calculations..
And it was yesterday I thought about it and sent her a message, "what are you doing darling?" just to know if she would reply with anything if correct it not so I can know her capability well.
I called her and told her to reply the message but she said No.
I told her to try her best at least send anything and let see....
But she insisted and I tried to convince and she said OK.. then after 1 min she sent me "I love you" I felt bad and I called her why did not respond ed in the way I expected but. she started feeling bad and was thinking I was making jest of her...
Then I did what I supposed to do as a man I pet her on phone said some words of encouragenent and assuring her it's nothing... she was relieved after then...
Here is where I need u peeps help.
She is kinda scared and do think she can't know things easily,like she do underestimate herself which I find wrong, I do think she has a brain and it is meant to work... and I can feel and see her future is so bright, she will be traveling out to U.S in 2 years time.t o meet her mum Cause her mom just went there last month and is definitely coming to pick her.and she is going for year hairdressing training so she can work while she is in the States .but I don't want people to cheat her even if she becomes greater in future.. and I am gonna feel the burden too..
There will be some places she will have to use her brain and educational intervention. .
Pls any good advice will surely be appreciated... I love her so much how can i help her ?

Op You can get a teacher for her and encourage her to learn as well. Convince her its for her own benefit both now and future. you can as well take her on home lessons if she's willing. Stop compelling her to text yah,such shi wud down her morale. Instead tell her to go online,find any sweet quote et Al and send to yah, am sure she will like to know d meaning of what she's sending. Finally if she isn't interested in learning,leave her that fvck alone. Its her life and reading/writing isn't a benchmark for fulfillment of life.Keep being good to em.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by sekundosekundo: 2:19am On Nov 11, 2016

@OP, after you've played France '98 on her Stadium for several times and years, you are now looking for a way to dump her.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by Bunker1(m): 4:13am On Nov 11, 2016

what's the point, if you know what is love you shouldn't be here seeking advice, take her the way she is...our ex first lady is an example... but I tell you she is one of the happiest woman, her husband achieved many success. summary there is no risk in marrying her, there is no risk in marrying her.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by classichsy(m): 5:44am On Nov 11, 2016

LadyAnn:
Stop Judging her. You actually sound so condescending. Everyone has a story. You spell horrendously too but nobody's judging you. Love without boundaries my dear. Besides, the problem isn't necessarily the illiteracy - there are adult educational programs, home tutoring, and probably some type of literacy courses out there you could get her enrolled in. It sounds to me like you really don't love your girl. If you did love her, You would not be Airing your dirty linen out in the open. (That's an idiom by the way) I don't care which Alias name you use, most people are easy to find.

Well said. Wagbayi.
@op. The ball is not only in your court but between your legs. Don't just FK with it,Think with it as well and create an app to make your girl Madam Peace Ebele or Hillary Clinton.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by naijaboiy: 7:13am On Nov 11, 2016

LadyAnn:
Stop Judging her. You actually sound so condescending. Everyone has a story. You spell horrendously too but nobody's judging you. Love without boundaries my dear. Besides, the problem isn't necessarily the illiteracy - there are adult educational programs, home tutoring, and probably some type of literacy courses out there you could get her enrolled in. It sounds to me like you really don't love your girl. If you did love her, You would not be Airing your dirty linen out in the open. (That's an idiom by the way) I don't care which Alias name you use, most people are easy to find.

[color=#1980BC]He doesn't love her because he asked for advise on how to make his girlfriend feel better?

How intelligent are you madam?[/color]

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by naijaboiy: 7:14am On Nov 11, 2016

[color=#1980BC]Well Op, I hope trump will allow her gain entrance into the states with the way things are going now?[/color]

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by LadyAnn(f): 7:21am On Nov 11, 2016

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]He doesn't love her because he asked for advise on how to make his girlfriend feel better?

How intelligent are you madam?[/color]

He didn't ask advice on how to make his girlfriend "FEEL BETTER" don't get it twisted. Read his post again and see how much he demoralised his supposedly girlfriend and then tell me if that is love Einstein. You must be just as dumb to think that is the proper/smarter way to address such a sensitive subject or issue. Have you heard the slogan "too much info"? Furthermore, I'm sure his girlfriend would be thrilled to hear about his post.

You have the audacity to ask if I'm intelligent? Go figure.... If you, being the smarty pants, fail to recognise the flaws in the so called "request for advice" you need help too mate. Or perhaps you want me to spell it out for you? Happy to oblige undecided

urrrrgh!!

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by Nobody: 7:28am On Nov 11, 2016

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by kinggogo: 7:38am On Nov 11, 2016

Op discuss abouh getting her a private teacher buh if she doesn't agree to dah den let it go

At least u've tried

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by naijaboiy: 7:59am On Nov 11, 2016

LadyAnn:
He didn't ask advice on how to make his girlfriend "FEEL BETTER" don't get it twisted. Read his post again and see how much he demoralised his supposedly girlfriend and then tell me if that is love Einstein. You must be just as dumb to think that is the proper/smarter way to address such a sensitive subject or issue. Have you heard the slogan "too much info"? Furthermore, I'm sure his girlfriend would be thrilled to hear about his post.

You have the audacity to ask if I'm intelligent? Go figure.... If you, being the smarty pants, fail to recognise the flaws in the so called "request for advice" you need help too mate. Or perhaps you want me to spell it out for you? Happy to oblige urrrrgh!!

[color=#1980BC]Lol! What's all these long and scattered write up for?

It's not like you were able to pass your point anyways. I know your type though...people who just wanna talk.

Keep talking...one day something intelligent will come out from you. Have a blessed day. [/color]

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by LadyAnn(f): 8:43am On Nov 11, 2016

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lol! What's all these long and scattered write up for?

It's not like you were able to pass your point anyways. I know your type though...people who just wanna talk.

Keep talking...one day something intelligent will come out from you. Have a blessed day. [/color]

"Blessed Day? After being rude? Bye Felicia!

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by nkemma54(m): 9:31am On Nov 11, 2016

lol, handsomenfrosh, in this time that Trump be US president? no worry, she isnt going anywhere grin

. but on a serious note, you can get her a private teacher on english language and i am offering my services. i can tutor her on english language and pronunciation (BrE) and 6 months is enough time to make her improve...if she is willing to improve

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by mofeoluwadassah: 12:05pm On Nov 11, 2016

Love conquers everything ma bro,if ur luv is so strong u wont mind her flaws,so jxt follow ur heart.

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by kullozone(m): 12:19pm On Nov 11, 2016

LadyAnn:
Stop Judging her. You actually sound so condescending. Everyone has a story. You spell horrendously too but nobody's judging you. Love without boundaries my dear. Besides, the problem isn't necessarily the illiteracy - there are adult educational programs, home tutoring, and probably some type of literacy courses out there you could get her enrolled in. It sounds to me like you really don't love your girl. If you did love her, You would not be Airing your dirty linen out in the open. (That's an idiom by the way) I don't care which Alias name you use, most people are easy to find.

mtcheeew!
I wasted my time reading this yeye comment.
Someone's sincerely looking for a way to help his girlfriend and you're here saying trash.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by fullstreets: 12:44pm On Nov 11, 2016

I can't believe all of u advising him can't see dat diz post is a bleeding lie, she stopped school in JSS 1 but her mother can afford to travel to the US. Many more lies but lemme just leave it here, he has gotten the attention he is seeking.

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by handsomenfrosh(op): 3:04pm On Nov 11, 2016

fullstreets:
I can't believe all of u advising him can't see dat diz post is a bleeding lie, she stopped school in JSS 1 but her mother can afford to travel to the US. Many more lies but lemme just leave it here, he has gotten the attention he is seeking.

Hello what are you saying.. she dropped in jss2 several years ago... there was no financial helper then and my girl is a lady of 23 years, and for you information her uncle , that is her Mum's brother sponsored and helped her Mum in traveling out.

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by handsomenfrosh(op): 3:05pm On Nov 11, 2016

LadyAnn:
Stop Judging her. You actually sound so condescending. Everyone has a story. You spell horrendously too but nobody's judging you. Love without boundaries my dear. Besides, the problem isn't necessarily the illiteracy - there are adult educational programs, home tutoring, and probably some type of literacy courses out there you could get her enrolled in. It sounds to me like you really don't love your girl. If you did love her, You would not be Airing your dirty linen out in the open. (That's an idiom by the way) I don't care which Alias name you use, most people are easy to find.

CANCELLED.. I MARK THIS TO BE SO DAMN DAFT...

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by handsomenfrosh(op): 3:13pm On Nov 11, 2016

mofeoluwadassah:
Love conquers everything ma bro,if ur luv is so strong u wont mind her flaws,so jxt follow ur heart.

thanks mofe u sound more intelligent than lady ant or what does she call herself :O undecided

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Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by LadyAnn(f): 3:47pm On Nov 11, 2016

handsomenfrosh:
thanks mofe u sound more intelligent than lady ant or what does she call herself :O

No worries. grin

I thank God for my level of "Daftness".

Re: Pls Advice Needed I Love Her So Much But She Cant Re@d And Wr!te by jashar(f): 7:16pm On Nov 11, 2016

Could be Dyslexia.

Read up on it and look for constructive ways to help her.

Or, take her to Professionals.

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