sharon37o8:


personally seun , i suggest that all these unserious elements in nairaland that deviate from the subject matter or try to create humour where it does not exist or it supposed to should be PENALIZED

bamisepeters:
*On a lighter mood...

I always wonder why the bride are more than happy on the wedding day than the groom.

At times, some grooms act as if the wedding is being forced on them, like they didn't prepare for it nor spend a dime to see to the success of the event.

Personally, i think the women know they are hooked for life, they accept their fate to have made the matrimonial vow to the one they love and that day is a day that many others such as friends and family members wished for but couldn't get it, but God did it for them against all odds.

On the other way round while the bride is seriously dancing, showing wild happiness, the groom is always like i can't believe this, so i will be with her for the rest of my life, i am in trouble if she or anyone catches me fooling around with some other chik.

Or should i say the so called happiness in the bride's expression is not because of all i stated above but for the fact that women are created to be good dancers than men?

Also, should i say the grooms are just like that as that is the best way they could express their happiness to have caught a queen many others struggled to get?

See the picture used for this post, see the expression of the bride, and it is obvious through her moves that she is extremely happy, but the groom, his expression is no where close to that of the bride.

This is not the first time i am seeing this and most times, the financial status doesn’t matter.

Please, why are the grooms always appearing like someone thinking while the brides are always over joyous on the wedding day?



Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/wedding-day-reason-why-brides-show.html

Sasuwa:
men are more joyous when they hit their dream job than wife,

kennyblaze007:
Wat type of topic one can possibly generate for a relationship program on radio

treebuds:

Both the bride and the bridegroom should be happy if they focus on the good the future brings. The groom on the wedding day will be thinking of money he spent and it is as if nothing was done.
He believed he should have done more while the bridegroom will want to show off no matter how big or little. She don't want to be mocked.

Berbierklaus:

The happiness shown by ladies on their wedding day is due to various reasons, I think it depends on the factors surrounding the relationship or wedding. eg when you have an older lady getting married,they are happy and dance very well probably coz they were able to hold one man down,you know the struggle ladies go through to impress a man and have him wife her? some women are happy that finally they are out of the single"s league.

For young brides,it could be joy of fulfilment or even love,when they are so in love,they find it unbelievable they ended up with their love.

For other ladies,it could even be because of the financial status of the groom when man hold wella women tend to be more happy.
Its a psychological thing, its just how they were created.

That is why I am searching for that man that will wife me and make me so happy I will dance all the steps I've been piling up

davodyguy:
100% spot.

I felt that way too, but I got no choice.

My wife was as if she won lottery, whilst I was just excited for her, rather than for myself

Berbierklaus:

The happiness shown by ladies on their wedding day is due to various reasons, I think it depends on the factors surrounding the relationship or wedding. eg when you have an older lady getting married,they are happy and dance very well probably coz they were able to hold one man down,you know the struggle ladies go through to impress a man and have him wife her? some women are happy that finally they are out of the single"s league.

For young brides,it could be joy of fulfilment or even love,when they are so in love,they find it unbelievable they ended up with their love.

For other ladies,it could even be because of the financial status of the groom when man hold wella women tend to be more happy.
Its a psychological thing, its just how they were created.

That is why I am searching for that man that will wife me and make me so happy I will dance all the steps I've been piling up

davodyguy:


Ladies see marriage as an achievement, whether to a rich guy or to a poor guy, hence their sentiment.

Most guys do it for

1. The love they have for the lady
2. Family pressure
3. To procreate
4. Prestige



They don't do it for sex, cos 50% or more married men would still cheat in their lifetime

21Savagw:
Why would a Sane man be happy on his wedding day? This generation, they all stinking Gold-diggas.

Berbierklaus:

The happiness shown by ladies on their wedding day is due to various reasons, I think it depends on the factors surrounding the relationship or wedding. eg when you have an older lady getting married,they are happy and dance very well probably coz they were able to hold one man down,you know the struggle ladies go through to impress a man and have him wife her? some women are happy that finally they are out of the single"s league.

For young brides,it could be joy of fulfilment or even love,when they are so in love,they find it unbelievable they ended up with their love.

For other ladies,it could even be because of the financial status of the groom when man hold wella women tend to be more happy.
Its a psychological thing, its just how they were created.

That is why I am searching for that man that will wife me and make me so happy I will dance all the steps I've been piling up

edlion57:
The groom der calculate how much he spent

streetzdreamz:
spot on, your points are logical and reasonable, your last statement though, very amusing!! may your wish/wishes come true without you even searching...........intelligent,cute ladies are a rare breed to come by, nice pics.

Awwwwnn thank you

dabrightt:
ipolowo oja advert

Connoisseur:
Well I think it's for different reasons.
On my wedding day, I was really worried things weren't going well. I was worried my wedding is gonna be a flop. The caterer took to much time to deliver the food. When it was time for pictures, i was so angry so if the pictures couldn't be printed. That spoiled my mood, it took some time into the celebrations before I could lighten up and put a smile.