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My advice for you OP is to separate yourself from the broke girls and associate with the girls in your level or those just a bit lower. It would be easier that way.

shortgun:
I was once a broke guy feeding from hand to mouth, doing menial jobs to survive.
All the girls I fancy will not look at me twice even though I look good n dress smart.

The ones that accepted me will cheat on me right in my face cos I can't pay the bills.
Now that God has made me a " big man" every girl I meet want to love me to d grave.

Some have given me their virginity, others have left their bf's for me. I feel they are doing all these cos of d Benjamins.
How can I find true love and settle down? How do I separate d chaff? How will I know who will stand with me when the money is no longer flowing?

Matured advice please

You can do the nollywood style and pretend to be a farmer. Pick the one that has no qualms becoming a farmer's wife or a taxi driver. Don't flaunt ur wealth if u don't wanna attract diggers. Just go with d one ur heart wants. Time waits for no one

samuelson06:
If you can be true to yourself, you can fine true love because hardly a rich guy be true to himself. Question for you, how many women because of you being rich have you taken advantage of? Be very sincere and answer this.

I've never taken advantage of anyone sire.
I don't need to.

George22016:
you can't find love with all this rubbish this girls are posting.do you want to know true love brother,act like a poor broke ass nigga if a girl do visit u lmand u give her 20k to go home give her 2k and tell her ur broke.do it round with all ur gfs and see which one is loyal.its as simple as that

I will try this

Nma27:
You can do the nollywood style and pretend to be a farmer. Pick the one that has no qualms becoming a farmer's wife or a taxi driver. Don't flaunt ur wealth if u don't wanna attract diggers. Just go with d one ur heart wants. Time waits for no one

Most of the girls i am talking about know me, they know I am not a farmer or a taxi driver.
For this to work I will have to move to a new place n start all over with new women....... dats hardwork

Laveda what do you think?

ObioratheBully:



Laveda what do you think?

He's just an attention seeker.

Lol really, I don't really like seeing this kinda thread, cause there's just one aim "trying to say women are only for money and nothing else"

He should start dressing in rags to find love.

vchykp:
The truth is that you have not found your real partner, and secondly, i guess you flash them money and allow money take over your swag as a guy, thier are things money cannot do for you in relationship, finally, check your self well, i mean your character, because if you are a flirt, forget it, no woman will want to last with you, they will just prefer coming eating thier own portion and leaving the rest for others to enjoy.

Gud advice.
A word they said is enough for the wise.

Yes you can only if you adopt the lifestyle and mentality of a white man towards money but you if keep using a black man mentality, sorry you would only get ill luck. What are these mentality?

Black people always act as if money is new to them except you were born with a silver spoon.

White people sees money as a means to live a normal life. No excess spending on cars, rent, bills clothing, blings etc, Just moderate spending.

shortgun:
Most of the girls i am talking about know me, they know I am not a farmer or a taxi driver.
For this to work I will have to move to a new place n start all over with new women....... dats hardwork

just choose one ur heart goes with...

aaronson:
Yes you can only if you adopt the lifestyle and mentality of a white man towards money but you if keep using a black man mentality, sorry you would only get ill luck. What are these mentality?

Black people always act as if money is new to them except you were born with a silver spoon.

White people sees money as a means to live a normal life. No excess spending on cars, rent, bills clothing, blings etc, Just moderate spending.

Tell dem

shortgun:
I've never taken advantage of anyone sire.
I don't need to.

Then you are good to go. Once you see the right one your spirit would tell this is it.

You dont need to move and start afresh...

first of all...break up with all the girls attached to you relationship wise...

pay no one bills and owe no one nothing...

Mind your buisness..avoid the girls within your locality/areas/street...

Engross your self with work and hang out with the guys...no females...

When you meet a lady,(not within your area oh)dont go over board trying to impress and dont give much details concerning your job but dont lie also...

You should be able to start up from there....

You dont need to move and start afresh...

first of all...break up with all the girls attached to you relationship wise...

pay no one bills and owe no one nothing...

Mind your buisness..avoid the girls within your locality/areas/street...

Engross your self with work and hang out with the guys...no females...

When you meet a lady,(not within your area oh)dont go over board trying to impress and dont give much details concerning your job but dont lie also...

You should be able to start up from there....


A lady that wants to cheat will cheat tho whether shez with a rich dude or poor dude...

The rich don't also get it easy

shortgun:
Rilly?
I tot I am the one to find her

Or rather you'll find the right one. The point is you'll be together at the end

shortgun:
I've seen homely girls who didn't give me a chance before.......I mean girls who live with their mums, virgins.( I even disflowered one)
How come she didn't consider me when I was broke?
This is a serious concern to me

Now the money is there, you are looking for a serious relationship, tell me how serious you were with the ones you had before you became something?
You all be styling for them good gals when u were nobody, now the money has come you're looking for a serious girl.
Sit down there and wait, she's coming for you.

Amelian:
I understand your fears but life is all about risks and wise risk at that.
The woman u need should be hardworking, humble, respectful, loyal and with the fear God. A woman who believes in standing by her man through thick and thin.
U can put them through test.
Yes test.

Go for a working class lady or an enterprenuer. Watch the way she handles her colleagues, or her workers, pay her surprise visits at work and at home. Watch the way she reacts, when she's angry with u or other people around her. Watch the way she treats he parents. Don't let her know u are watching her.
Take her to places and see how she handles situation around her.
Watch if she peeps at other guys.
Simply create time and study her.
Sometime complain u are broke for a long period and see how she reacts.
Look at her fingers.. If she's good at fixing long nails, buying aso ebi every weekend and paying heavy fortune on Brazilian hairs.. Forget such babe.


With time u will know if she's meant for u.
Watch if she prays too.. Cause a praying woman keeps her home.

Just watch as u play along

chi na as o

Laveda:
He's just an attention seeker.

Lol really, I don't really like seeing this kinda thread, cause there's just one aim "trying to say women are only for money and nothing else"

He should start dressing in rags to find love.

he already tried that

sashishalom:
You dont need to move and start afresh...

first of all...break up with all the girls attached to you relationship wise...

pay no one bills and owe no one nothing...

Mind your buisness..avoid the girls within your locality/areas/street...

Engross your self with work and hang out with the guys...no females...

When you meet a lady,(not within your area oh)dont go over board trying to impress and dont give much details concerning your job but dont lie also...

You should be able to start up from there....


A lady that wants to cheat will cheat tho whether shez with a rich dude or poor dude...

The rich don't also get it easy

aputuputuputuputu

shurley22:
Now the money is there, you are looking for a serious relationship, tell me how serious you were with the ones you had before you became something?
You all be styling for them good gals when u were nobody, now the money has come you're looking for a serious girl.
Sit down there and wait, she's coming for you.

is like you no sabi engrish.he said no relationship when he was broke,serious or otherwise

Cromagnon:
is like you no sabi engrish.he said no relationship when he was broke,serious or otherwise

Story story
Like u also didn't see where he said he disflowered an homely girl, isn't that also a relationship "Serious or otherwise"?

Cromagnon:
aputuputuputuputu

Huh??

Nma27:
You can do the nollywood style and pretend to be a farmer. Pick the one that has no qualms becoming a farmer's wife or a taxi driver. Don't flaunt ur wealth if u don't wanna attract diggers. Just go with d one ur heart wants. Time waits for no one

Hope you were kidding.

this is why some ladies need to be banned from such movies.. we're talking real life here!!!

Laveda:
He's just an attention seeker.

Lol really, I don't really like seeing this kinda thread, cause there's just one aim "trying to say women are only for money and nothing else"

He should start dressing in rags to find love.

Hubris. just Hubris.

And who are you to justify his thread as attention seeking?
You could have just kept shut..

LordBaelish:
Hope you were kidding.

this is why some ladies need to be banned from such movies.. we're talking real life here!!!

Lolzzz.... What movies? I'm talking real life too

shurley22:
Story story
Like u also didn't see where he said he disflowered an homely girl, isn't that also a relationship "Serious or otherwise"?

pesin gii am kpekus no mean say na relationship na. Relationship not Bleep buddy

sashishalom:
Huh??

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