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First Date Expectancies by NLchat(op): 1:01pm On Dec 11, 2016

Going along with the BKchat topics, another issue that came up was 'Who should pay on the first date?'

Honestly speaking Ladies and Gentlemen, Who should pay for the first date. General consensus of the ladies on the episode was that the man should pay. The men all claimed they'd pay for the first date but expect sexual favours as a result. Do you agree? They didn't think the expectation of the men paying wasn't right and as they pay for the date they watch the lady to see if she'll offer to pay to determine what type of woman she is.

Can we try to keep this intellectual and respect other people's opinions. One can rebuttal but keep it respectful please. Thank you.

Re: First Date Expectancies by Nobody: 1:05pm On Dec 11, 2016

Pay for what your partner eats

Re: First Date Expectancies by stan241(m): 1:10pm On Dec 11, 2016

Why would you as a guy take a lady on a date and not pay?

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Re: First Date Expectancies by Divay22(f): 1:11pm On Dec 11, 2016

To avoid stories that touch,nobody should pay for anybody......pay yourself wat you ate.....

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Re: First Date Expectancies by vizkiz: 1:20pm On Dec 11, 2016

Divay22:
To avoid stories that touch,nobody should pay for anybody......pay yourself wat you ate.....

Will you go out with a guy who says this and order for anything when you get there. Dey decieve yourself

Re: First Date Expectancies by NLchat(op): 1:23pm On Dec 11, 2016

KissChrix:
Pay for what your partner eats

So you think the bill should be spilt?

Re: First Date Expectancies by Divay22(f): 1:24pm On Dec 11, 2016

vizkiz:
Will you go out with a guy who says this and order for anything when you get there. Dey decieve yourself

I don't know for others o,but for me i always take what i can afford,or rather we split the bill...but i love been involve in payment.

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Re: First Date Expectancies by NLchat(op): 1:25pm On Dec 11, 2016

stan241:
Why would you as a guy take a lady on a date and not pay?

How do you verify she's not using you for a free meal?

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Re: First Date Expectancies by mofeoluwadassah: 1:27pm On Dec 11, 2016

Some guys are nt jxt responsible undecided

Re: First Date Expectancies by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 11, 2016

NLchat:
So you think the bill should be spilt?

If that's how you see it

Re: First Date Expectancies by vizkiz: 1:27pm On Dec 11, 2016

Divay22:
I don't know for others o,but for me i always take what i can afford,or rather we split the bill...but i love been involve in payment.

Yimu

Re: First Date Expectancies by NLchat(op): 1:30pm On Dec 11, 2016

Divay22:
To avoid stories that touch,nobody should pay for anybody......pay yourself wat you ate.....

Fair enough.

There are markers we all check for when going out with someone for the first time. One of those markers wouldn't be if a man would pay for you, no?

Re: First Date Expectancies by Divay22(f): 2:04pm On Dec 11, 2016

vizkiz:
Yimu

I'll still put it to you,not every girl are dsame,in this outing or ordering for more.........
see ya.......it was fun while the chat lasted..

Re: First Date Expectancies by vizkiz: 3:16pm On Dec 11, 2016

Divay22:
I'll still put it to you,not every girl are dsame,in this outing or ordering for more.........
see ya.......it was fun while the chat lasted..

Who be this one

Re: First Date Expectancies by dollyjoy(f): 3:24pm On Dec 11, 2016

Any guy that expects me to pay on a date he invite me is on a longggggggggg thing.

I won't pay!!! undecided

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Re: First Date Expectancies by NLchat(op): 3:25pm On Dec 11, 2016

dollyjoy:
Any guy that expects me to pay on a date he invite me is on a longggggggggg thing.

I won't pay!!!

Why not?

Re: First Date Expectancies by Divay22(f): 3:29pm On Dec 11, 2016

vizkiz:
Who be this one

someborri moving in the face of the earth.

Re: First Date Expectancies by rose54321: 3:38pm On Dec 11, 2016

The guy is supposed to offer to pay, then the lady opt for a split.
I feel it's wrong for a guy not to offer, dude you asked her out for a date. How unromantic to expect her to pay.
Tsk tsk

Re: First Date Expectancies by Troubleking: 4:29pm On Dec 11, 2016

dollyjoy:
Any guy that expects me to pay on a date he invite me is on a longggggggggg thing.

I won't pay!!!

we aren't expecting you to pay. We understand that the majority of ladies can only offer what is between their legs, and it's often to the highest bidder. That's all those ladies have to offer... They can't ever part with money... Ever!

Better change, both your attitude and your diet. There are a few respectable ladies who see the danger of eating random guys' money and they avoid it. Be like them. Don't come and complain tomorrow that one guy wanted to do this or that to you after he bought you food and you swallowed everything because you thought it's free.

Re: First Date Expectancies by NLchat(op): 4:56pm On Dec 11, 2016

Troubleking:
we aren't expecting you to pay. We understand that the majority of ladies can only offer what is between their legs, and it's often to the highest bidder. That's all those ladies have to offer... They can't ever part with money... Ever!

Better change, both your attitude and your diet. There are a few respectable ladies who see the danger of eating random guys' money and they avoid it. Be like them. Don't come and complain tomorrow that one guy wanted to do this or that to you after he bought you food and you swallowed everything because you thought it's free.

So if a woman doesn't offer to pay on the first date, Would you assume the bolded about her?

Re: First Date Expectancies by Mayflowa(m): 4:13pm On Dec 12, 2016

dollyjoy:
Any guy that expects me to pay on a date he invite me is on a longggggggggg thing.

I won't pay!!!

Who would do that to my babygirl?

Re: First Date Expectancies by dollyjoy(f): 7:33pm On Dec 12, 2016

Mayflowa:
Who would do that to my babygirl?

Goodevening.

LOL! Some guys are so irresponsible.

Re: First Date Expectancies by harkibami27: 9:44pm On Dec 12, 2016

mofeoluwadassah:
Some guys are nt jxt responsible

are u on Watsapp

Re: First Date Expectancies by mofeoluwadassah: 5:47pm On Dec 13, 2016

harkibami27:
are u on Watsapp

Nope

Re: First Date Expectancies by Aregs(m): 5:52pm On Dec 13, 2016

Ok o

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