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dopemama:
We women dey really try, apart from MIL, SIL wahala still dey there too,!them go feel say their brother dey spend too much for ur head!

It's all d packages that come with marriage you just have to handle it nicely

All these young girls sef, they can't keep their lane and respect the fact that their mother in law will do everything to make sure her son is safe because she was the one that brought the nigga up. Ladies stop competing with Ur mother in law, accept her and treat her like your own mother and things will be fine with you both. Stop giving the man unnecessary headache, op U've nailed it with a strong hammer. Your head dey there

Thank you so much Op. Will be needing this in future. I usually get paranoid with stuffs like this because my mother never saw her in laws. My sister i look forward to neither too but her sister in -laws all wish she was their mother because she is always there for them.Coupled with the fact that my father is the only child. I wish for a lovely family that will appreciate my efforts too because love brings out the best in people.

dangotesmummy:
Mshewwwww when my mother is still alive

Young lady, it then means you are lucky to have two mothers with you in the journey of motherhood. Its a huge blessing biko.

obamd:
Ladies going into marriages always think their in-laws are their first problems.
Respect your in-laws, simple!
If you pray for your mother in-law to die, your daughter in-law will do same when youre in old age.

Iro ni e pe sir/ma some mother in laws can be so devilish,demonic,am not in the class of pple dat wish I don't have a mother inlaw....but when...I decided to close my eyes until I strted seeing things...myslf....won ni eti oloro ma n di ni...ayafi ti o ba fi oju ara e ri...dis one even bcs of her hatred for me is doing all mean for her son to serve his youger sister...hmm

Fakemumu:
My mother inlaw is something else,will I call it wickedness or she's bottle up with hate..always commanding me,calling me a small girl in front of her daughter I senior with about 10yrs..theres nothing I do dat pleases her..to her am a horse that don't need rest,som1 dat each time I n my husband are arguing she will come out and say I should stop shouting at my husband..she tell me all I do is eat and get fat that am in fatting room..I have a baby girl for my husband,and my husband seem not to be saying anytin..am seriously thinking of absconding...I will miss my baby but wen i hammer like in a year time I will come and take her,she chased me outside to bath my baby outside when my baby girl was 3months old..telling me nothing will happen to her..shes a nightmare to me,i give up

I feel you...almost in the same shooes....i don't wish her bad...but whtaever she wishes me I wish her....awon eleyi bad gan...she will say..die die ti e nlo...how many witch have you killed(the die,die church you are goin)she is so brave.....but I once told her ma? I can never pass through what my mum pass thru.....but now na run I dey run for her o.....till....

crestedguy:
abegi remove this nonsense wey no get meaning wey you post for here,they can't be please, mother inlaws behave as if they are possessive, it will even be worst for the lady if she married into a family where the man is the only son,and she end up bearing female kids,the lady is seating on a keg of bomb that is about to explode, nowadays most ladies prefer to marry a man that don't have mother because of the wahala of the mother inlaws,they are pain in the asssssss

Exactly...dis one she Is rlly into it....but I know my GOD will always jugde her...he is even jugding her when you have two dotas ....dere marital life is zero......but you kept telling pple diff things about me called my father in the UK and started telling him to warn me....for what....not knowing pe o fi ejo dun ka ni...eniti won fe sun je tell...mtshew....all what dey are hiding is exposed now...her daughter that entered USA to steady got pregnant exactly a month she got in the yahoo boy refude gettin married to her....she is so useless tatoo all over her body....awon ari teni mo wi....not until I got to the us did we realise that dis mil is a failure....but dis is the starting point....if she decided not to allow me to be....she will hav to sleep a long sleep IJMN amen.....dis is the person who isn't at rest even when she knws my mum isn't a year yet in the grave....am not saying his son shldnt follow her o...am not in the class of mario.....God is the owner of marriage whatever he wants he should do concerning my marriage.....but for some1 to say I won't have peace....a ya sun ni ko ni ji mo....

DavidEsq:
Have u seen weeeeeeeeeen? I doubt. Wen u see weeeeeeeeeen ehn, u go change mouth.

And, are you praying that I see weeeeeen?

sweetilicious:
Young lady, it then means you are lucky to have two mothers with you in the journey of motherhood. Its a huge blessing biko.

old lady you may be right

dangotesmummy:
old lady you may be right

Lol i hope no one offended you. Sometimes you need to chill. We won't make it out of this world alive. Just be cool and have a clear heart always. It will be of help babe.

missbronze:
And, are you praying that I see weeeeeen?

No o! I'm not praying u shld see weeeeeeeeeen na

sweetilicious:
Lol i hope no one offended you. Sometimes you need to chill. We won't make it out of this world alive. Just be cool and have a clear heart always. It will be of help babe.

I am kool o

nairalanddss:
Being a good daughter-in-law can be a challenging job, but it doesn’t need to be if you keep a few simple suggestions in mind.your husband was a son first!

As a new wife, it is difficult not to feel possessive and a little defensive. You want to be number one in your husband’s life, but you should remember not to put him in a position of having to defend his mother! no one wins that battle; it will only put pressure on every relationship. Will what you gain, by dividing your husband and his mother, be worth the many unnecessary heartaches for the family?

[b]Granted, there are mother-in-laws that will do everything to prove you are not worthy of their son; you can only do so much to make a relationship with her happen. No matter what you do or hard you try to make things work, she constantly tries to demonstrate how unworthy you are. How do you deal a mother-in-law like that? Well, you could stoop to her level and try to make her look bad, but the truth is, your husband can probably see how his mother is treating you and doesn’t like it either. He may not stand up to her, for whatever reason, but he’s new to this too. Give him a break! Just keep your distance and try to keep the peace, but not at the cost of letting yourself be walked on. Don’t stoop to her level and don’t hesitate to speak up for yourself; you don’t need to set yourself up for abuse from anyone.

Don’t try to compete. He married you because he loves you. His relationship with you is different from the relationship with his mother. You’re his wife, not his mother. If she’s the queen of lasagne, give her the throne; she’s been cooking it for years and has perfected it. Create something new and perfect it. Or, better yet, find a great wine, light a candle and cook a little something up.

Do a good job taking care of her son. Part of the unnecessary strain on an in-law relationship is that your husband’s parents, particularly his mother, want to know that the wonderful care of their son that they have long provided will continue in your care. Let them see that you love him and that he has clean underwear and vegetables at least once a day. They’ll be happy and he’ll be more regular.
Keep them in the loop. Don’t cut his parents out. Take the initiative and call them with news and updates. Even though things might be a bit uncomfortable at first, remember that they are a big part of your life and making a little extra effort won’t hurt a bit (well, it won’t hurt too much).[/b]

mynd44 lalasticlala

http://www.jeloser.info/2016/12/how-to-be-good-daughter-in-law.html

Mr man what are you saying you are not communicating.

dangotesmummy:
I am kool o

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