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Looking back in time, It startles me why some of the girls I'd really wanna 'domesticate' so to say end up saying they don't feel a thing for me after seemingly liking me enough to come close enough body and soul and urging me on even after that begrudging revelation.

Recently, I found myself in a situation of this like and I dont want history to repeat itself.

Now, This babe comes over whenever I want her and as soon as that sexual chemistry begins to build up in our lone time, "I dont wanna do this" comes popping and Im not the guy to force even a kiss when the feeling aint mutual.

Seems to enjoy my company as we've went to the movie together once, I've cooked for her more than twice, written her love messages she seems to relish and shown her how caring I could be in the little ways I can for now without seemingly trying too hard. Even talked senses to her on why it should be me... It's either "let me get myself where I can think without this kinda emotions overflow" or something shitass like that. How many times do I have to woo her for christ sakes!

How else do I show love Lord! What do you guys do that make em fall head over heel? Girls, how did prince charming sweep you over? Damn! I like this girl!!

Berlynn:
Teach me how to love nd also teach me how to hate

What is this one saying

Relax bro. If you've done all you can think of and she's not impress, just let her be. You wouldn't kill yourself na... Haba.

What works with me, might not work with the next girl..

For me, I like that guy who's just real, that guy who doesn't need to try too hard, sometimes it just comes natural.
While for other girls, they prefer that guy chasing them for so long and showering them with gifts.

Op, if you've tried so much I think its just best you be yourself and not over pushing before she sees you as desperate.. Love isn't forced.

You sure you ain't playing a smart-ass detective on her . Cos I know you are one

Lol

Op calm down jare!

Evn if u give her the world, if she doesn't love u nothing will ever work.

Just let her be.

Your better half will come along effortlessly

u wait..
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everything happens suddenly...

With 'the one', you don't get drama. It just flows

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Fact No 1 - Guys like you are very rare.

Fact No 2 - Girls, actually like guys like you.

But this particular girl is thinking you are too good to be true, because of fact no 1. So she's willing to stretch you to your limits to see if you'll break, or if you've been pretending all along. You don't need to change who you are for a girl to accept you, when there are thousands of girls out there looking for someone to show them one tenth of what you have to give. . . Be yourself, and continue to be yourself.

**Drops mic** [/color]

Got the logic bro. Thanks!

BlackDBagba:
With 'the one', you don't get drama. It just flows

You seem deep and experienced in matters of the heart as this bloke, Yo married? .... Well, let's say I'm way too optimistic this girl's 'the one' . I'm the kind of human being that's very picky, knows what he wants and usually would have to strive hard before he gets what he wants. Nature's just been naturally unfair to me I guess... Im just a lil bit infuriated and frustrated to let out this to find out if someone who'd been in a similar situation can be a guide. Not willing to let go that easily ... Until she says ENOUGH anyway... Got it?

AuroraB:
You sure you ain't playing a smart-ass detective on her . Cos I know you are one

I dont understand what you mean by smart ass detective tho...
Anyway, I can be such smooth player of course but this's different if that's what you mean...

bitchcrafts:
You seem

Bro, I ve experienced something like this before and I believe lots of guys go through this. Honestly, guys are strong sha. One thing I ve learnt sha is that you make your intentions clear, whether through signs or straight out. Don't try to hide as a friend. you re doing yourself more disservice that way. What I do is that whenever I see the negative or evasive signs, I walk out. Life moves on. We all make choices, she made hers, and we can't force another to like you. Infact, loving a girl doesn't mean she will love you back, no matter how hard you try. Hiding as a friend is just not cool. At the end, you will only end up wasting your time. Make your intentions clear,watchout for the reactions, then decide. Peace

Lùv z nt by force, dude.

mctowel01:
Bro, I ve experienced something like this before and I believe lots of guys go through this. Honestly, guys are strong sha. One thing I ve learnt sha is that you make your intentions clear, whether through signs or straight out. Don't try to hide as a friend. you re doing yourself more disservice that way. What I do is that whenever I see the negative or evasive signs, I walk out. Life moves on. We all make choices, she made hers, and we can't force another to like you. Infact, loving a girl doesn't mean she will love you back, no matter how hard you try. Hiding as a friend is just not cool. At the end, you will only end up wasting your time. Make your intentions clear,watchout for the reactions, then decide. Peace

I have and we good as very good friends now...

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Fact No 1 - Guys like you are very rare.

Fact No 2 - Girls, actually like guys like you.

But this particular girl is thinking you are too good to be true, because of fact no 1. So she's willing to stretch you to your limits to see if you'll break, or if you've been pretending all along. You don't need to change who you are for a girl to accept you, when there are thousands of girls out there looking for someone to show them one tenth of what you have to give. . . Be yourself, and continue to be yourself.

**Drops mic** [/color]

Evening sir, i doff my hat for you...one of the fewest intellectuals we have on here...ones again i hail thee sire.