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8 months ago I pointed that this co worker had put on so much weight in front of other 2 workers.I don't know why I said that as I just say whats on my mind.I wasn't trying to be hurtful. I didn't think much of it until she told me that she was very hurt by it. I apologized and she seemed fine around me afterwards but she wasn't as friendly and warm before the incident

Now months later,i say hi to her whenever I see her but she now ignores me and avoids it because of the comments I had said before?


Answer:

Seriously? Why the hell would she ever speak to you again? You embarrassed her in front of her colleagues. You said a downright nasty, hurtful thing and you expect forgiveness? And don’t pull that “I just say what’s on my mind” rubbish. It’s a total cop out for someone too rude to care about another person’s feelings. Beauty is only skin deep? You said an ugly thing and that came from within.

Source: https://www.quora.com/Why-is-my-co-worker-ignoring-me-when-I-say-hi

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Rule number 1
Never tell a lady that she is fat or has added more weight...

uboma:
Rule number 1

Never tell a lady that she is fat or has added more weight...

abi oh... You tell her she's juicy

uboma:
Rule number 1

Never tell a lady that she is fat or has added more weight...

but a lady can complain about a mans pot belly or cock and its cool shey....

Maybe, she thinks that you're Hi on Sokoto weed.

LegendaryArnold:
abi oh... You tell her she's juicy

lol

or simply say she is a triple B

Big Bold and Beautiful....

Justdulla:
but a lady can complain about a mans pot belly or cock and its cool shey....

I never implied that is cool either....