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Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 2:34pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
How does my neighbour deals with this situation that every time he quarels with his wife, the wife will dash to the kitchen, pick a knife and will threaten to kill her self? It happened last night again, when we heard thier heated argument(quarel), as close door neighbour and friends, we went into their apartment as usual and behold, the wife holding the kitchen knife threatening to kill herself. This threat from his wife, has become a recurring act and its really worrisome both to the husband and to us too. As a human being, my friend is of the opinion that he cannot stop correcting his wife when she goes wrong, neither would he look the other way when she does things unbecoming of her position as a wife and also being subject to yield to the correction and instruction of her husband, without prejudice to her right as a woman. We hope that like play, like play, the wife will not carry out her threats one day. Meanwhile, the man has been reporting this action of his wife to the family, yet she has not stopped it inspite of the words of advice from her family and well wishers. My guy needs advice to help deal with this incessant suicidal threats from his wife. |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by BlackDBagba: 2:38pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
First of all, stay out of it. Secondly, he must have shown her in one way or the other that that is the only thing he is afraid of. Next time she tries it, give her a knife and you'll see she'll do nothing but cry 5 Likes |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by uyiekpenm(f): 2:39pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
the person after me will advice your neighbor and wife better. just wait . meanwhile count down to 2017 am soooo glad I made it Glory to God Almighty. 1 Like |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by glimpse(f): 2:46pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
please wait for the elders, they are coming. |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by Nobody: 2:47pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Life is too short for such headaches. If he values his life, he should divorce her. I can't believe he's keeping up with this. You never know what a woman, a crazy woman with a loose brain can do!? 1 Like |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 3:00pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
BlackDBagba:Hahahaha, this your advice ehen. 1 Like |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 3:02pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
VolTOxic:Is divorce that easy? |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by oyomii(f): 3:06pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Sadly she never grew up. She does that to turn d table around which is really immature. She needs to be checked also cos der r lots of insane ppl appearing sane this days. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by byvan03: 3:20pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
She needs a psychiatrist . 3 Likes |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by Nobody: 3:28pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
She needs help. The woman is certainly not normal. . . Please get her help before she harms herself or someone else. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by sisisioge: 3:35pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Yoruba will say, oju ni maalu ro obe Koda lorun o. Yeah, I know I made a whackey job of that . Translation: A cow is really brave, putting a knife to one's neck ain't easy mehn. Anyways, since they have talked to her and she's not listening, the next time they have an argument the guy should leave the house for her. Let her try killing herself ( you guys should be on standby to rescue her before she finish the job o) The period she would recuperate from her self inflicted wound will pass the message across to her. However, if she really wants to go...By all means advice her to straighten her back first. Heaven and hell are real 2 Likes |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by Khd95(m): 3:45pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Let her kill her sef biko according to NCC,there are four million more women than men in naija,so why allow one hold u to both emotional nd physical ransom 1 Like |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by thorpido(m): 3:52pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
How old is she?She must be a young girl. 1 Like |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 4:40pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
oyomii:okay |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 4:41pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
thorpido:A woman of about 33 years |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 4:42pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Ujoan: |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 4:43pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
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Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by crackhaus: 4:48pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Funny! I wonder why he hasn't called her bluff yet. 1 Like |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by Nobody: 5:20pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Wahala yapa for inside marriage oh. 1 Like |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by thorpido(m): 6:51pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
nickxtra:She needs help no doubt.She might actually do it(harm herself) even if the intention is not to kill herself. She needs a psychologist. 1 Like |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by SmellingAnus(m): 9:32pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
It's a serious matter ... First of all, I will make a complaint to the nearest police station about her behavior so that incase something goes wrong, I will not innocently spend my life in jail.. secondly, I may have to move out of the house but before I do that, I will invite her parents, once they get to the house, I will tell them to take care of their daughter that is suicidal and they should let me know when she is okay, of course I will drop huge cash for them.... Then I will leave peacefully because I am not ready to be in jail for a crime I didn't commit... If anything goes wrong, even her parents that know about her suicidal tendencies will still blame the husband and demand for justice in court... 2 Likes |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by eyinjuege: 9:55pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
He needs to take her to see a psychiatrist. It shouldn't be taken as a joke. In as much as the threat of suicide may just be a means of manipulation and control, its still very real. She needs to go to a psychiatric hospital Even though its not really ya concern, but tell the husband that the next time she does that, he and you people his neighbors should cajole her to drop the knife and as soon as she does that she should be bundled off by fire by force to Yaba psychiatric hospital. Her protests shouldn't be listened to, and she should be taken there for attempting to kill herself. It may really be a mental disorder/cry for help. Let her see a specialist because the day she makes good her threat, people will say it's her husband that killed her. Police will not let him off lightly. However, if there's a previous documentation of attempted suicide or threat of suicide in a government hospital, that may just help his case with the police. |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 10:55pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
RadicallyBlunt:Marriage is a burden |
Re: Help! His Wife Always Threaten To Kill Herself Each Time They Quarel by nickxtra(m): 10:56pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
eyinjuege:On point |
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