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| Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Jayboi(m): 8:19am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Hello guys and especially the married ones. My wife has been pregnant for almost six months now. To be honest I have tried to be understanding and put myself in her shoes. Ever since she conceived, its been in and out of the hospital and sometimes shes just very ok. But as you know na, the urge ll always come. So far o, I can say I have only been twice lucky to get something since but recently its just plain nothing. I later recall some of my married colleagues would just deliberately want to flirt with girls for no reason. I would then be wondering why they would be taking such risks. I wont say now i understand but its more like this is one of the reasons. I just need encouragement from guys. I know it ll pass but its not been easy. By the way, masturbation is a no no. 1 Like |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by doctimonyeka(m): 8:21am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Pregnancy is not an excuse for no sex era... You could still have sex with your wife during pregnancy... Just discus with your wife.... 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by ollymoore: 8:22am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Is wen my wife get pregnant we dey do am most 10 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by ollymoore: 8:24am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Is wen my wife get pregnant we dey do am most |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by lytech1(m): 8:25am On Dec 31, 2016 |
I think medically sex is good during pregnancy.it aid easy delivery... 3 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Berbierklaus(f): 8:25am On Dec 31, 2016 |
You are a good man OP and this will surely pass as you have opined  You can help yourself by engaging more in your hobbies,caring for your wife,helping her more,Think about the happiness you would experience when your bundle of joy finally arrives. If your wife permits you can engage in bonding acts like cuddling,massaging her body for her. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Nobody: 8:30am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Nawa oh. Sex na food? So you can't go without sex for just one year?  I'd have advised you to jerk off but you said its a no... so you'd rather consider cheating than masturbating? Well then if that's the case, you just have to hold your self unless you want to break the sacred bond of your marriage .some pregnant women actually have sex till they're about to pop. But people are different, your wife may not have the same urges. You could still try and convince her though. 5 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by thorpido(m): 8:32am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Pregnancy is no reason for no sex.There may be times when it's not convenient( most times actually) but there will be bright days in-between.Make the most of those days. Your wife should also know how to use her hands and mouth.It doesn't have to be hump all the time. 1 Like |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Jayboi(m): 8:32am On Dec 31, 2016 |
@the first two respondents.....my wife would always complain o. and by the time she starts complaining her stomach this that, you would have become pissed off. I just have to bear with her so I dont appear inconsiderate. @berbieklaus... I do try to cuddle her o but its at that exact moment I begin to feel Hot again and its just painful knowing you wont get anything. lols. So i just stay away. Then she ll start complaining again. she wants cuddle but no sex. nawa o 2 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by ITbomb(m): 8:32am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Only faithful men do posts like this, the rest of us are much happier  19 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Ishilove: 8:40am On Dec 31, 2016 |
A friend of mine who went through the same thing said he simply zeroed his mind on other things and stayed away from thoughts of sex. You should be able to master your body, not the other way round. 12 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by saintneo(m): 8:44am On Dec 31, 2016 |
ITbomb:badt man |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Dexema(m): 8:56am On Dec 31, 2016 |
There are just some very unrealistic comments here, you advise an active married man (you can see from his posts) to stay away from sex for a whole year, (assuming 9months + the 3 months advised to stay away from sex after delivery). Then after one year of nothing the man either gets used to it or just doesn't get turned on by his wife anymore, no bonding of any sort. I can tell you that will be the beginning of problems between such couple. I think you guys should discuss it and come to agree on something. All the best. 19 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Nobody: 9:08am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Op, wallahi I pity yhu. Allah. Do her wayo, tell her yhu re going to buy a sex doll to aid yhur Konji with. |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by ahnie: 9:15am On Dec 31, 2016 |
What of Me that z almst 5months preggy...i never do pass twice all thanks to my 18months daughter that forms bakassi for the father anytime the father wants to make an attempt to grease my ENGINE .Anyways we are not se.x freaks .Op some women lost their cravings for se.x(makes the sign of the cross)when preg.maybe your wife falls into such categories. 5 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by decatalyst(m): 9:16am On Dec 31, 2016 |
ITbomb: This question has been running through my mind a zillion times |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 9:29am On Dec 31, 2016 |
@ op. cooling off with another lady at this time for you is not cheating. it's like helping your wife cos you don't wanna disturb her with your demands. let her rest well but for the main time enjoy the service of a side chick. am sure your wife will understand. anyway contact me for unilag babes, yabatech babes etc that will give you styles that will make you forget your wife till she is ready. p.s am not married o. 1 Like |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Nobody: 9:32am On Dec 31, 2016 |
You just have to understand her and manage, pregnancy is not easy at all. Marriage is all about understanding. But Bro eh if you can't cope now she is pregnant and giving you small sex then how will you cope when she give birth? that place will need a lot of time to heal before you guys start to copulate. 2 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 9:52am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Catalin:. cooling off with another lady at this time for him is not cheating. it's like helping his wife cos you don't wanna disturb her with your demands. let her rest well but for the main time enjoy the service of a side chick. am sure the wife will understand. |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Nobody: 9:55am On Dec 31, 2016 |
oloyede252:Why are you encouraging cheating? 13 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by NIGHTMAREOO7: 10:04am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Jayboi: U are a good man dont listen to bad advice's to cheat ur wife pls. u can explain to her dat sex during pregnancy is healthy doctors even encourage it most times... Coz it helps to toggle and exercise the vj for easir delivery. U can take her to hospital so dat doctors will explain more to her. By d wat position do stay wen u do it. D**gy is best advised for preggy women. To avoid hurtin her belly. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 10:27am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Catalin: this not cheating, it's a way of giving the wife the needed rest and time to recover. |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Roseey0(f): 10:32am On Dec 31, 2016 |
Your wife has been in and out of the hospital, her pregnancy may be a high risk that needs a lot of pampering. Don't add to the stress. Don't allow her miscarry when you can just hold body till everything is calm. This phase will pass. 14 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by PresVA: 11:21am On Dec 31, 2016 |
oloyede252:SMH  .. will you also advise a woman to do same if her husband falls ill at some point in marriage and is unable to meet her sexual demands?Op, you stated that your wife has been in and out of the hospital which means she may not be 'fit' enough to have sex at this time... You just have to control yourself, you don't have to let your emotions overwhelm you. .you're in charge of yourself.. or would you rather your wife doesn't get pregnant at all so that you can have sex? or would you prefer a miscarriage? Have you also wondered how your wife copes or you think her 'condition' is pleasing to her? Try to occupy yourself with other things and the joy of holding your baby soon.. also, be supportive to your wife, she needs you very much at this time... Soon, you'll have your baby and everything will return to 'normal' ... nobody has ever died from lack of sex.. pay no mind to those telling you to cheat, I know you wouldn't want to destroy your family with your own hands... All the best.. 10 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Ishilove: 11:29am On Dec 31, 2016 |
oloyede252:I hope us women are allowed to cool off with other men when our husbands travel for a long time? After all what's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander 13 Likes |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 12:00pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ishilove:I don't get your goose and gander analogy is suppose to achieve but what I know and sure of is that if your husband travels for a long period eg 9 months to a year I would advice you to get yourself a side bobo that will help you sexually till the time your husband is around. anyway contact me if you interested in their service. include your location. 1 Like |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 12:00pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ishilove: |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 12:16pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
PresVA:for sure will give same advice to the wife in similar cases. and my advice is the best option for the wife and the op wife rest while husband get enjoy himself. it's a win win situation |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
doctimonyeka: Let me guess, you think he hasn't tried that? |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by Ishilove: 1:54pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
oloyede252:Repeat this when you finally get married |
| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by SirVintageCock: 4:45pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
What you want is sex, right  Then grab this and keep it at your dressing table for easy access. 3 Likes
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| Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by kemifemi: 4:53pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Roseey0: Hummn. Pregnancy is not beans o. I am 5 months gone and the doctor told us no sex from the week i took in till delivery. In that case, what do you expect husby to do. After waiting for more than 4 years before we could conceive. Bros, please try and bear it. It will soon be over. But she can try some techniques that doesnt require penetration. 6 Likes |
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