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Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Alanzazani: 10:09pm On Mar 01, 2020
A friend of my shared his story with me.

He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.

The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.

He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by JasonScoolari: 10:10pm On Mar 01, 2020
You're struggling to take care of your family but you did not struggle to unleash the loads of fertile sperm inside her....


If you're truly struggling as you claim, you would have thought of family planning or use contraceptive, but NO, you choose to dive Raw because "E too sweet"

This is the result of diving raw...


Keep the baby and keep on hustling.

Goodluck!

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Lamanii22(f): 10:11pm On Mar 01, 2020
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Abfinest007(m): 10:13pm On Mar 01, 2020
sharp striker .bros u try at least it was up to 8 month .if is possible i will impregnate my wife every two weeks

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by bjprodint(f): 10:14pm On Mar 01, 2020
Abortion is a sin,Family planning is not a sin.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:15pm On Mar 01, 2020

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Omolarablg: 10:19pm On Mar 01, 2020
Don't attempt to get rid of the baby cos God had a reason why he permitted her to conceive soon , take care of the baby and the pregnancy and it will be a blessing to your family.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by timro(f): 11:18pm On Mar 01, 2020
My daughter was six month old when I took in took in with the 2nd baby. I was very calm. All I did was to stop breastfeeding my daughter and placed her on baby food and multivitamins.

Your wife and baby will be very okay as long as both of them feeds well.

Please take care of them. " Children are the heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is it's reward".

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by immaq8(f): 11:24pm On Mar 01, 2020
abortion is a sin & it may take both lives. keep the baby, after 8 days let your wife do family planning. the unborn baby may bring you unmerited blessings..

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by immaq8(f): 11:24pm On Mar 01, 2020
abortion is a sin & it may take both lives. keep the baby, after 8 days let your wife do family planning. the unborn baby may bring you unmerited blessings.. .

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by SweetCunt97(f): 11:28pm On Mar 01, 2020
timro:
My daughter was six month old when I took in took in with the 2nd baby. I was very calm. All I did was to stop breastfeeding my daughter and placed her on baby food and multivitamins.

Your wife and baby will be very okay as long as both of them feeds well.

Please take care of them. " Children are the heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is it's reward".
Pls spare us. Even for the baby one should have restrains and not calling God for their lack of control.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by nkwuocha1: 11:30pm On Mar 01, 2020
You should be lucky she took 8n with the fibroid.Stup+id man.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by michlins(m): 11:37pm On Mar 01, 2020
immaq8:
abortion is a sin & it may take both lives. keep the baby, after 8 days let your wife do family planning. the unborn baby may bring you unmerited blessings.. .
abortion isn't a sin. Abortion is safer than childbirth if you must know

At op, instead of you to bring a child into this world when you aren't ready, abort and prepare

I will know you religious people will come for me but before you do, ensure you're a virgin

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by GboyegaD(m): 12:11am On Mar 02, 2020
Decide which is best so that at the end of it all, you can say it was your decision. I wouldn't suggest abortion though because of my personal beliefs however, so that you don't get into this fix again, do the needful.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by juman(m): 1:00am On Mar 02, 2020
You should be happy.
She is pregnant after the fibroid incident.
Keep the baby.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:18am On Mar 02, 2020
This life though... both married and unmarried people are aborting babies left, right and centre.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by namiji2598: 5:52am On Mar 02, 2020
Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....
hmmmm
Is not abt taking care of the baby, people sabi dey comments anyhow, go back and read again

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by kodix(m): 7:08am On Mar 02, 2020
Don't abort the child take care of all of them, she even have fibroid and God is blessing you with another child you should be very happy what if you abort and another baby no come again, otherwise you for control your prom.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Jude82: 7:27am On Mar 02, 2020
Let her deliver the baby..Who knows?...Fibroid or even the myomectomy is one of the causes of infertility...A major cause!!!!)
In fact,go and testify!!!

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by proclinician: 7:46am On Mar 02, 2020
timro:
My daughter was six month old when I took in took in with the 2nd baby. I was very calm. All I did was to stop breastfeeding my daughter and placed her on baby food and multivitamins.

Your wife and baby will be very okay as long as both of them feeds well.

Please take care of them. " Children are the heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is it's reward".

If the second issue came out triplets Na then ur eyes go clear. Ppl be taking things for granted.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Gerrard59(m): 7:57am On Mar 02, 2020
First, assuming the story is true, then it's YOU and not an imaginary friend. To my point, if you know you cannot take care of the pregnancy with the load you have at home, abort. If your personal beliefs is against abortion, keep the pregnancy but adopt the most effective and rigorous family planning for men - vasectomy. Apparently, she would have to give birth 'cos of the medical implications and the problem will get complicated if she gives birth to triplets or twins.

Next time, you people will use your head and not your pen!s.

Modified

Let me it get straight, Nlders aka Nigerians believe children are blessings just because they are born?! You folks are hilarious.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Gerrard59(m): 7:58am On Mar 02, 2020
immaq8:
abortion is a sin & it may take both lives. keep the baby, after 8 days let your wife do family planning. the unborn baby may bring you unmerited blessings..

Bringing a child into the world when you know you cannot take care of him/her is the greatest sin committed.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by yvelchstores(f): 8:01am On Mar 02, 2020
. The wife's body healing part is actually a valid point since it was CS however, I think she can manage this one but of course it will have to be another CS.
Just be calm, children come with provisions and blessings. You will cope financially in Jesus name amen.
Congrats

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by peacefulhome(f): 10:07am On Mar 02, 2020
Op is funny. Your wife has firbiods and yet God still bless your home with kids , still you want to destroy the life of the unborn child? No problem, continue.

I understand the first child came through C.S . Please take your wife to the hospital where she did the C S , since they already have her medical history it will be easy for her to be manage by the hospital. You have nothing to fear aside from the financial aspect ( start saving now) .

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Skmoda360(m): 10:12am On Mar 02, 2020
uhn!!! Wetin man go do now? But one advise I have for you is that start saving as much as you can my bro.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Afodot0022(m): 10:32am On Mar 02, 2020
Pls dont abort op. My wife also got pregnant like 8 months after our first child. At first, i was so devastated being that we are still struggling to even take care of the first baby. Let me even tell u, we attempted the pill abortion but the baby refused to be aborted.My wife bleed severely that almost cost her life but when we did scan, it was still revealed that she is still pregnant. Omo na so i just jejely give up and told her to keep the pregnancy. she gave birth to the child without complications though. Now could you believe that this second child is so dear to me that i love her so much. Anytime i think about my action to abort her then, i feel so bad within. Ever since then, i have a change of mind towards abortion,I will never advice anyone to do abortion in respective of the circumstance around the pregnancy except if its severely life threatened. Its never a solution to anything. Now am very happy with my two kids and after the birth of my second child, things started changing financially that i dont even have any cause to borrow or live in lack. I will say this my second child brought lots of blessing for me cos my finances change for good even better than when i gave birth to my first child. So pls op dont hurt that little blessing in you. Take your wife to hospital so they can manage her and follow up with her till when she gives birth. pls dont attempt to kill that child, else you will regret it. who knows if you are only destined for two children in life and with the fibroid issue of your wife, conceiving is always difficult. so this might be your chance to have your child. so pls and pls dont abort that child. you guys will definitely survive and bet me, when that baby comes, you wont regret having that child as things will definitely change for good for you and your household. I am saying this base on my personal experience.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Alanzazani: 10:46am On Mar 02, 2020
Afodot0022:
Pls dont abort op. My wife also got pregnant like 8 months after our first child. At first, i was so devastated being that we are still struggling to even take care of the first baby. Let me even tell u, we attempted the pill abortion but the baby refused to be aborted.My wife bleed severely that almost cost her life but when we did scan, it was still revealed that she is still pregnant. Omo na so i just jejely give up and told her to keep the pregnancy. she gave birth to the child without complications though. Now could you believe that this second child is so dear to me that i love her so much. Anytime i think about my action to abort her then, i feel so bad within. Ever since then, i have a change of mind towards abortion,I will never advice anyone to do abortion in respective of the circumstance around the pregnancy except if its severely life threatened. Its never a solution to anything. Now am very happy with my two kids and after the birth of my second child, things started changing financially that i dont even have any cause to borrow or live in lack. I will say this my second child brought lots of blessing for me cos my finances change for good even better than when i gave birth to my first child. So pls op dont hurt that little blessing in you. Take your wife to hospital so they can manage her and follow up with her till when she gives birth. pls dont attempt to kill that child, else you will regret it. who knows if you are only destined for two children in life and with the fibroid issue of your wife, conceiving is always difficult. so this might be your chance to have your child. so pls and pls dont abort that child. you guys will definitely survive and bet me, when that baby comes, you wont regret having that child as things will definitely change for good for you and your household. I am saying this base on my personal experience.

Thank you so much this is what we need to hear. Same thing his mother told him. God bless your home

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Alanzazani: 10:47am On Mar 02, 2020
yvelchstores:
. The wife's body healing part is actually a valid point since it was CS however, I think she can manage this one but of course it will have to be another CS.
Just be calm, children come with provisions and blessings. You will cope financially in Jesus name amen.
Congrats

Thank you. God bless everyone that dropped their advice here. You think you got it all figured out sometimes, but things just take a different turn

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Saintmary(f): 11:18am On Mar 02, 2020
Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....
Are you ttc?
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by peacefulhome(f): 12:23pm On Mar 02, 2020
Saintmary:

Are you ttc?

Do you have a child to give her? If no , no need asking if she is TTC or not.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:27pm On Mar 02, 2020
Gerrard59:


Bringing a child into the world when you know you cannot take care of him/her is the greatest sin committed.

bro, sadly thats where so many people are failing.... also, we have to question the fact that this man didnt want another child, yet was mounting his wife raw, when we all know that women after childbirth can easily get pregnant again.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Bola146(f): 12:42pm On Mar 02, 2020
There is nothing God can't do, kindly keep the baby, it might not be CS, even if it's CS, God will surely take perfect control of it. Be there for your wife, encourage her and pray for her always

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