I don't know if am alone on this but am finding it a little bit challenging to find a wife.
its kind of awkward but its true, am in my late twenties gainfully working but am just finding it hard to find a lady to settle with, I hardly go out except when my guys come around and am not bad looking neither am I arrogant.

Are there others in my shoes or once in my shoes, please could you share your experience, I would really love to learn from the experienced ones in the house

Memepics:

obviously you give a ....... to have taken your time to upload a pics

Forget about finding a wife, once you mention the word everything changes.

Concentrate on getting as many female platonic friends as possible, one of them might be your wife.

That's the best way to really know the character before things get wrapped up

eanestca:



obviously you give a ....... to have taken your time to upload a pics

"a pics"

eanestca:
I don't know if am alone on this but am finding it a little bit challenging to find a wife.
its kind of awkward but its true, am in my late twenties gainfully working but am just finding it hard to find a lady to settle with, I hardly go out except when my guys come around and am not bad looking neither am I arrogant.

Are there others in my shoes or once in my shoes, please could you share your experience, I would really love to learn from the experienced ones in the house

It's real even the Bible said it "Who can find a virtuous woman?

for her price is far above rubies". (proverbs 16 10).

I really suffered when i was looking for a wife and i believe God made it so.
But at end, God gave me a VIRTUOUS woman. I stopped having gf 6yrs before i met my wife and didn't sleep with her till our wedding night.

jumpandpas:


It's real even the Bible said it "Who can find a virtuous woman?

for her price is far above rubies". (proverbs 16 10).

I really suffered when i was looking for a wife and i believe God made it so.
But at end, God gave me a VIRTUOUS woman. I stopped having gf 6yrs before i met my wife and didn't sleep with her till our wedding night.

thanks, it's a relief to know someone else passed through this same stage

eanestca:
I don't know if am alone on this but am finding it a little bit challenging to find a wife.
its kind of awkward but its true, am in my late twenties gainfully working but am just finding it hard to find a lady to settle with, I hardly go out except when my guys come around and am not bad looking neither am I arrogant.

Are there others in my shoes or once in my shoes, please could you share your experience, I would really love to learn from the experienced ones in the house

If you want to find, you all find one. Start from your church or you hit tha club or better still hang around and university near where you live.

jumpandpas:


It's real even the Bible said it "Who can find a virtuous woman?

for her price is far above rubies". (proverbs 16 10).

I really suffered when i was looking for a wife and i believe God made it so.
But at end, God gave me a VIRTUOUS woman. I stopped having gf 6yrs before i met my wife and didn't sleep with her till our wedding night.

Y.A.W.N.

Catalin:
Y.A.W.N.

jumpandpas:


It's real even the Bible said it "Who can find a virtuous woman?

for her price is far above rubies". (proverbs 16 10).

I really suffered when i was looking for a wife and i believe God made it so.
But at end, God gave me a VIRTUOUS woman. I stopped having gf 6yrs before i met my wife and didn't sleep with her till our wedding night.

Thank God for your testimony.

Love your testimony. You didn't have sex because she was a virgin then or ur decision?

jumpandpas:


It's real even the Bible said it "Who can find a virtuous woman?

for her price is far above rubies". (proverbs 16 10).

I really suffered when i was looking for a wife and i believe God made it so.
But at end, God gave me a VIRTUOUS woman. I stopped having gf 6yrs before i met my wife and didn't sleep with her till our wedding night.

Catalin:
If you want to find, you all find one. Start from your church or you hit tha club or better still hang around and university near where you live.

Picking a wife from the club i don't see myself doing so. Though doesn't mean girls there are bad. It just creates a wrong perception for me

OLAFIMIX:
Love your testimony. You didn't have sex because she was a virgin then or ur decision?

Each time i have sex with a girl, i end up hating the person instantly so in this case, i decided not to be deceived any more. Now, no other female moves me apart from my beautiful wife.

Luck you and her, may God continue to protect ur love

jumpandpas:


Each time i have sex with a girl, i end up hating the person instantly so in this case, i decided not to be deceived any more. Now, no other female moves me apart from my beautiful wife.

pcguru1:


Picking a wife from the club i don't see myself doing so. Though doesn't mean girls there are bad. It just creates a wrong perception for me

I said church or club, its left for you to choose.

jumpandpas:

Did you meet her a virgin?

Y am I finding this funny?

Well Op maybe u shd throw ur wife fishing net wider.

Seriously, be patient. This is not something u do in a rush. U will find her in due time

bros, you are not alone.

your brothers in the same ministry have opened similar threads over the last year in this section.

There are women in your age group looking for husbands too. pray you locate your spec.

Catalin:
If you want to find, you all find one. Start from your church or you hit tha club or better still hang around and university near where you live.

no shade young lady, I can't help but say you make the dumbest suggestions in this parts.

Your iq is most definitely below-below average.

You can improve though- if only you can read, pause, read again before trying to give a decent reply.

Op,just get as many of them around as possible, don't tell them that u want to marry any of them, just be friends, don't even date them sef, because once u are of marriageable age and financially capable, they will all start forming wife materials so that they will get in 1st.

To be sincere, I am also scared.

Joavid:


no shade young lady, I can't help but say you make the dumbest suggestions in this parts.

Your iq is most definitely below-below average.

You can improve though- if only you can read, pause, read again before trying to give a decent reply.

Something is definitely wrong with your medulla oblongata. Get off my mention.

eanestca:
I don't know if am alone on this but am finding it a little bit challenging to find a wife.
its kind of awkward but its true, am in my late twenties gainfully working but am just finding it hard to find a lady to settle with, I hardly go out except when my guys come around and am not bad looking neither am I arrogant.

Are there others in my shoes or once in my shoes, please could you share your experience, I would really love to learn from the experienced ones in the house

I m having the same problem now. I m beginning to put unnecessary pressure on my self

ITbomb:
Forget about finding a wife, once you mention the word everything changes.

Concentrate on getting as many female platonic friends as possible, one of them might be your wife.

That's the best way to really know the character before things get wrapped up

True! you say you aren't arrogant, go on and make more female friends, you'd probably find a wife amongst them.

This is really serious!

All those saying church I will like to tell you that 70% of ladies you meet in church are not real, what I mean is because you met them in church they are bound to be acting so goddly when in reality they are not, that's not the kind of person I will like to settle down with.
I prefer somebody who is real, I mean no pretence, if you like to party then let me know, I will like to marry someone who I know and acknowledge their weakness and still yet love and would like to be a part of their life as much as they would like to be a part of my life.
Not someone who wants to get married because she feels marriage is a way out of her misery by so doing hide there inner most self.

common guys! this is a lifetime commitment, lets say you get married at 30 and you live for 65years on earth, you will find out you probably will spend more time with your partner than you did with your parents, so your life happiness and everything is at stake, so you just got to try your best to make the best choice.

eanestca:
This is really serious!

All those saying church I will like to tell you that 70% of ladies you meet in church are not real, what I mean is because you met them in church they are bound to be acting so goddly when in reality they are not, that's not the kind of person I will like to settle down with.
I prefer somebody who is real, I mean no pretence, if you like to party then let me know, I will like to marry someone who I know and acknowledge their weakness and still yet love and would like to be a part of their life as much as they would like to be a part of my life.
Not someone who wants to get married because she feels marriage is a way out of her misery by so doing hide there inner most self.

common guys! this is a lifetime commitment, lets say you get married at 30 and you live for 65years on earth, you will find out you probably will spend more time with your partner than you did with your parents, so your life happiness and everything is at stake, so you just got to try your best to make the best choice.

So have you found the right woman?

Iykesmooth:



So have you found the right woman?

Not yet

When men says there are women everywhere, they have forgotten that you will feel the scarcity of women when you are looking for a wife

The one that will be the mother of your children, the one that will be your companion.

Put your request to God he will direct you to the bone of your bone

eanestca:
I don't know if am alone on this but am finding it a little bit challenging to find a wife.
its kind of awkward but its true, am in my late twenties gainfully working but am just finding it hard to find a lady to settle with, I hardly go out except when my guys come around and am not bad looking neither am I arrogant.

Are there others in my shoes or once in my shoes, please could you share your experience, I would really love to learn from the experienced ones in the house

the problem is how you are approaching the idea of having a wife

you dont look for a wife but look for relationship with someone who has physical sexual body that you would want marry

then as the relationship goes you look for the characters in that person that make you marry her i.e get to know the true her and if the true her has the right ticks for marriage then thats the women you would marry

looking for someone to marry to me means, imposing your dream character of a woman marry on a woman you like to be your wife, therefore yoy will spent most time of your relationship, trying to make that woman your dream woman you have in your head than getting to know your woman the woman she is


remember marriage is about two people raised up differently and trying to a one untill, without knowing each other better its hard to be a until

eanestca:


Not yet

for a guy it shouldn’t be that hard. I suspect your being too picky or you have unrealistic expectations, always have in mind that no one is perfect.

havilla:
for a guy it shouldn’t be that hard. I suspect your being too picky or you have unrealistic expectations, always have in mind that no one is perfect.

Thanks for the advice,
I could be picky but not unrealistic expectations.
Am not perfect why should I expect another person to be perfect?