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sekem:
I smell so much envy coming from within.

So because of the useless and gold digging bïtches out there, a lady is not supposed to flaunt the goodies that life has brought her way, abi?

Women!

Why una hate onasef like dis?

Its actually not advisable. Some people even go as far as jazzing you. Fear people o.

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander... Check Tonto's past you will find stories not far fetched from this one.... #shajustsaying....

rafsonnggmail:
And women will always be women because singles ladies re not smillin at all dis days o.
Wat goes around comes around I'm sure she too also snatch de dude from someone

Yes, she stole the guy from his first wife.

sekem:
Likewise her.

She's perfectly okay with her possessions and she's happy to display hers.

You don't have any right to dictate for someone whether s/he is to flaunt his/her wealth or not.

Choices differ.

So don't judge.

There's no dictation about what I said.. Simply advising her..and it's her choice to accept or disregard good advice. But I will simply air my view.

Or are you Tonto?

Genea:
take dah grin away jooor, I'm hurting for her

Bet y All these things are lessons for everyone, especially those unmarried still leading questionable lifestyles..

Well, it's obvious you're a fan, but don't hurt too much ooooo coz you have urs to live as well.. Na how she choose to lay her bed, she was well aware of the consequences hence i do not pity such people.. May God have merry on her though.

Realhommie:
Bet y All these things are lessons for everyone, especially those unmarried still leading questionable lifestyles..

Well, it's obvious you're a fan, but don't hurt too much ooooo coz you have urs to live as well.. Na how she choose to lay her bed, she was well aware of the consequences hence i do not pity such people.. May God have merry on her though.

Amen.... Its well

softwerk:
I'm sure the guy 'Mosquehill' can no longer understand the elasticity of the milky way after child birth and decided to explore this beautiful galaxy of Marykay and Extreme Glow!

Sorry my dear Tonto, but can you see what jumping from one man to the other both in real life and film dey cause?!

E no go better for home breakers sha!!!

I dey always amazed

You even bring music join comment
O Kanye song.. I'm trying to lay my egg in your milky way

@davidif

I just checked it out and yup I think am gon pick it up luckily I am going around the bookshop today .

Btw why do you recommend I read it ?


Modified

So the book shops didn't have the book , got an idea where I can get it ? but I don't keep the money I budget for a book so I went ahead to purchase "Prince" by Niccolo Machiavelli , read it ?

tomdon:
How do you know what I would say?? since when did you posses supernatural powers to read mind??
Let me be clear, you're wrong.
If a wife has extramarital affairs, it shows we're all flesh and blood, it then behoves on the man to try helping her get to root of the matter and help stop it.
My own policy especially to men is to not marry who you can't love fully and consequently can't forgive fully.

I'm sorry, I judged you wrong. I thought you would be like the guy below giving silly excuses like this is Africa as a pass for men to cheat without suffering any consequence.

thunderbabs:
First of all, this is Africa. You ladies seem to forget that quickly. Secondly, current trends such as sex equality nd women acting as bread winners is what has eroded the real african societal values, so making you defend yourselves against my initial comment. It is expected. That is what the society has degraded our earlier cultures, norms and values to.

However, youths of today are not really 100% interested in marriage, just having the kids with baby mama suits them better. So, any slight mistake by either parties in a marriage often lead to break ups. And for those who are married, we see how long it lasts. Its all the wave of crazy trends the society has imposed on our earlier cultures, creating new cultures which havent been favourable in real terms.

Hey, ladies. I'm not saying you shld beg ur man if he committs a mistake or the man shld beg hz significant other. You all can turn to stones in the house like none exists and kip living or you break up, someone will learn and suffer for ur egos and trends, ur kids if you have and or/ur marriage.

As for ladies, a man cannot boss me around
For the men, it is binding on the woman to be submissive.
I have my career, i make my money, etc
Love doesn't really exist these days. Its lust or love for mundane things, he's cute, he's rich, from a wealthy home etc.

I know the ladies who left comments arent married yet, until you re married. Agidi (stubborness) no dey help either parties

God help us all.

@ the bold, this is Africa so what Is that an excuse for a man to cheat without any consequences, because he is in Africa our values have degraded because women have refused to tolerate cheating husbands?
@ the second bold, you only talked about what is required from the woman, be submissive, don't say a man can't boss me around bla bla bla. What is the responsiblity of the man in the marriage if I may ask you The same bible you are quoting about women being submissive says men should love their wives, if you really love someone you won't cheat on the person cause you would not want to hurt the person. It's funny you say this is Africa to defend cheating men but then you run to the bible about being submissive to subjugate women. Women are not stones, we are humans with feelings, we get hurt, if you cheat on us we are hurt, we may not trust you anymore so if a woman decides to leave a cheating husband it's the man's fault not the woman's. he hurt her, he betrayed her trust and she is human.

NIGHTMAREOO7:
But i still dnt understand why yoruba men like cheatin

I think it is because they have very beautiful enticing women unlike Igbo ladies with bear bear and yam legs.
I cannot imagine my brothers from the east cheating...mbanu

Sparkle777:
Oouuch
Dis kain bae for PA?
I dnt gerrit.
Is Tonto blind?
My hubbys PA wil resemble John Okafor, no offence.

Lolz... even if em be like akpororo, some men will find reasons to just taste an ugly puna.

Genea:
same here, a married woman with 4kids and her age must be 40 upwards.. Can't deal, can't come and give my husband to wolves

exactly. so even if he must to cheat, e no go be person wey dey under my nose mbanu.

Catalin:
Its actually not advisable. Some people even go as far as jazzing you. Fear people o.

You see?

That's the problem with so many africans.

With this thought pattern you have freely expressed now, can you now see why africa may never progress?

I can't show my wealth because I might be kidnapped, because someone might get jealous and jazz me, because people will think me arrogant, because of this... because of that!

Na wa o!

See, lemme tell you one thing you may not know, if you keep on giving in to the belief that jazz can get you, jazz will surely get you, most especially when you are planning evil in your heart for another person/s.

Like I said earlier, life is a choice and choices differ.

If you choose to live a fake poor lifestyle because you are afraid someone might jazz you, then that's your business.

Personally speaking, I don't like showing off anything I have not because I'm afraid someone will jazz me but simply because I don't need to draw anyone's unnecessary attention to myself but then, I know that there are people who like showing off.

So because I don't like drawing attention to myself, I will then tell everyone not to draw attention to themselves?

No.

Some people find so much joy in flaunting their wealth and telling people about their personal achievements and success stories so let them be.

You need to know the reason why people are doing what they are doing before you start judging.

Sparkle777:
Oouuch
Dis kain bae for PA?
I dnt gerrit.
Is Tonto blind?
My hubbys PA wil resemble John Okafor, no offence.

I dun die

Genea:
so this is the witch, the home wrecker?? Karma is a biatch which destroy her life and over bleached skin

Haaa! Sister, the post said "unconfirmed reports". The lady may be innocent. Take it easy dear

Was just a matter of time. Writing was too glaring on the wall.

uzolexis:
I'm sorry, I judged you wrong. I thought you would be like the guy below giving silly excuses like this is Africa as a pass for men to cheat without suffering any consequence.



@ the bold, this is Africa so what Is that an excuse for a man to cheat without any consequences, because he is in Africa our values have degraded because women have refused to tolerate cheating husbands?
@ the second bold, you only talked about what is required from the woman, be submissive, don't say a man can't boss me around bla bla bla. What is the responsiblity of the man in the marriage if I may ask you The same bible you are quoting about women being submissive says men should love their wives, if you really love someone you won't cheat on the person cause you would not want to hurt the person. It's funny you say this is Africa to defend cheating men but then you run to the bible about being submissive to subjugate women. Women are not stones, we are humans with feelings, we get hurt, if you cheat on us we are hurt, we may not trust you anymore so if a woman decides to leave a cheating husband it's the man's fault not the woman's. he hurt her, he betrayed her trust and she is human.

Okay, i gave silly excuses. Don't women cheat too? I didnt quote any bible passage, dt remains a fact anywhere, wives ve to be submissive. Go to the Middle east and see hw their women do na.

Its okay for you to cheat too, ok? It isnt binding on just the man alone. Anyone can cheat, forget love. Even you criticizing me must v cheated or will cheat potentially.

Neither did i say, men ve d right to cheat coz dz is Africa. My point is it does happen and will always happen even your own husband will, forget that. Till Jesus comes. Walking out of the marriage like most celebs do is not always the best solution. That is the simple point i'm trying to make. You don't ve to crucify me for what happens everyday worldwide, ok madam.

I'm with you on this

Sparkle777:
Oouuch
Dis kain bae for PA?

My hubbys PA wil resemble John Okafor, no offence.

thunderbabs:
Okay, i gave silly excuses. Don't women cheat too? I didnt quote any bible passage, dt remains a fact anywhere, wives ve to be submissive. Go to the Middle east and see hw their women do na.

Its okay for you to cheat too, ok? It isnt binding on just the man alone. Anyone can cheat, forget love. Even you criticizing me must v cheated or will cheat potentially.

Neither did i say, men ve d right to cheat coz dz is Africa. My point is it does happen and will always happen even your own husband will, forget that. Till Jesus comes. Walking out of the marriage like most celebs do is not always the best solution. That is the simple point i'm trying to make. You don't ve to crucify me for what happens everyday worldwide, ok madam.

Ioannes:
Wrong!

Real men don't cheat.

I have never cheated and will never cheat and that is why I won't tolerate a cheating spouse. My husband will not cheat, I know the person i'm dating and I don't date pple for ephemeral reasons, I look out for substance in people. Not everybody is like you that thinks cheating is normal, like your fellow guy said on this thread "real men don't cheat".
Stop making cheating sound like it's not a big deal because it is, or like it's normal cos it is not. it's a betrayal of trust. Trust which you have spent a long time to build and one does not easily recover from such betrayal, yes you can forgive but that relationship will never remain the same again.

LoveJesus87:
Uasking foolish jamb question. Issokay. When u marry, u can allow ur husband employ this kind as a PA for dat matter then U will know y dear.

and your answer to my foolish jamb question is rustic! What make u think I am not married? And what make u think my husby Secretary is not hotter

When u are married, cum back here and type something sensible dear ...until then, stay outta aproko..and stop taking ppl like me serious on a social media.

Bye

nikkypearl:
and your answer to my foolish jamb question is rustic! What make u think I am not married? And what make u think my husby Secretary is not hotter

When u are married, cum back here and type something sensible dear ...until then, stay outta aproko..and stop taking ppl like me serious on a social media.

Bye

Lmao ur husband secretary is hotter than dis? Yeh another 'story that touch' brewing...can't wait to hear it

uzolexis:
I have never cheated and will never cheat and that is why I won't tolerate a cheating spouse. My husband will not cheat, I know the person i'm dating and I don't date pple for ephemeral reasons, I look out for substance in people. Not everybody is like you that thinks cheating is normal, like your fellow guy said on this thread "real men don't cheat".
Stop making cheating sound like it's not a big deal because it is, or like it's normal cos it is not. it's a betrayal of trust. Trust which you have spent a long time to build and one does not easily recover from such betrayal, yes you can forgive but that relationship will never remain the same again.

I wish you well. Ahhaaa, its often your types dt look out for ''substance'' that gets it, you know. Everybody has substance, okay.

As for real men not cheating, that means tonto dikeh's husband is no longer a Real man.... I laugh at you. You believe life goes the way you planned it?

I xstand your view better.

Sparkle777:
Oouuch
Dis kain bae for PA?
I dnt gerrit.
Is Tonto blind?
My hubbys PA wil resemble John Okafor, no offence.

Lol

So u will choose ur husbands PA for him?

BTW uve not seen ugly looking husband snatchers before?

This guy sure likes them artificial and heavily made up. This PA takes after Tonto.

Genea:
yelz they are doing dah but society is doing otherwise

Lolz. So you're blaming society now.

preciousuweh:
Real men like me

for your mind o.

BLoomfrancs:
We all know how lazy people from your tribe can be and you aren't an exception from the way your pea brain works.

So you want to marry a rich woman so you won't work for your own money.

Imbecilic douchebag.

I'd reply you but I know for a fact that you're carrying about a 2.5kilobyte brain.

Better luck next life.

I like this babe die.....

SuperSuave:
Anything tonto dike seems to be synonymous to front page these days, won't be surprised if this nonsense gets there too. We still do not give a fvckk

Sorry you just did

Kama is hunting

thunderbabs:
I wish you well. Ahhaaa, its often your types dt look out for ''substance'' that gets it, you know. Everybody has substance, okay.

As for real men not cheating, that means tonto dikeh's husband is no longer a Real man.... I laugh at you. You believe life goes the way you planned it?

I xstand your view better.

you know karma right,i believe in it that's why i respect myself.
the whole point of what i'm saying is this: contrary to what you think,cheating on your spouse is not normal it is a terrible thing to do, it should not be belittled as one of those things. even the bible gives infidelity as a valid reason for divorce, that tells you how grievous it is, so don't blame pple if they choose to leave their spouse cos of that, some pple just can't take that level of betrayal.

Ioannes:
I'd reply you but I know for a fact that you're carrying about a 2.5kilobyte brain.

Better luck next life.

Says a brain-dead lowlife.