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Is it right for graduates to live with their parents and depend on them? I am asking this question because yesterday as I was passing, I saw one guy outside their gate who is a graduate running after his mother and was shouting mommy mommy and the mother responded by asking what na? Then the guy said mom abeg give me 100 there i want buy card. The mother was silent a little and then said come and take, you better stop disturbing us o because we have done our part. So what do you guys think graduates should do?

No go husle and pay them back while they are still alive.

Graduates living with their parents may not be all that bad. A graduate can work/hustle from home until all things connect and he's able to get his own place. Females can stay unlimitedly with their parents until they marry.

But total dependence on parents is a big NO. It's not supposed to be so but damn, the economy is very very bad. Graduates may depend on their parents but not for everything.

it is of course not right.
but d situation we found ourselves in d country we cant help bt live unda d same roof wit our parents, ordinarily no graduate wants to live unda d same roof wit his/her parent and depends on dem.

as in never see job nko/+(??

marshalcarter:
as in never see job nko/+(??

when he is yet to get a job, he has no option but to stay with his family...putting so much pressure on him will only make him do the kind of job that won't give him satisfaction...getting a job in Nigeria is very difficult

I finished service Oct last year my dear its not easy to get beta job is not easy ooh God hear our cry nobody want to stay with his parents my dear but see d situation in d country

Living with parent is not that bad, what is bad is a graduate depending on the parent for N100.

If it was 10k, I would have said okay maybe he has a project has wants to do but N500 means that you can't even boost of taking care of your basic needs

Very okay for ladies. I still live with my parents and work from home. Not planning to leave.

A bit okay for guys too if they have plans to leave

chioma1990:
I finished service Oct last year my dear its not easy to get beta job is not easy ooh God hear our cry nobody want to stay with his parents my dear but see d situation in d country

May God see us through.

Stupedinluv:
Very okay for ladies. I still live with my parents and work from home. Not planning to live.

A bit okay for guys too if they have plans to live.

True, u can stay n hustle in ur parents house, n flex them sef.


Even, some of our parents no go gree mk we comot house, they'll be like " can't u stay with us ni, abi u have follow badt gangs, it's ur house too, dnt waste cash, save it, etc"

AlexCk:
True, u can stay n hustle in ur parents house, n flex them sef.


Even, some of our parents no go gree mk we comot house, they'll be like " can't u stay with us ni, abi u have follow badt gangs, it's ur house too, dnt waste cash, save it, etc"

True, I have got to save that money mehnn cos I don't understand the direction of this country anymore.

Exactly

AlexCk:
True, u can stay n hustle in ur parents house, n flex them sef.


Even, some of our parents no go gree mk we comot house, they'll be like " can't u stay with us ni, abi u have follow badt gangs, it's ur house too, dnt waste cash, save it, etc"

Guy you are correct.

Stupedinluv:
True, I have got to save that money mehnn cos I don't understand the direction of this country anymore.

Yes oo,
U sure say e get direction sha, naija be like scalar quantity, e no be vector again

Ayima:
Guy you are correct.

Abi, no strength to argue with them biko. Hehehehe

Erngie:
No go husle and pay them back while they are still alive.

eh eh cuz u be woman na!!!!!!he feet dey sha,,,,provided he will be supporting the family financially