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Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Nobody: 9:59am On Feb 07, 2017
Ladies on 14th February
Invite ur guy over for Dinner, if he is about going, give him 5k for transport.
YOU WON'T DIE
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by brandonobi(m): 10:39am On Feb 07, 2017
grin grin
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 10:41am On Feb 07, 2017
This is the most stupid thing anybody has ever of posted on Nairaland...
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by haywayboi(m): 10:46am On Feb 07, 2017
hear talk from jodha or wetin b her name.. if is a guy to invite u and give u 5k for tfare E go best post of the month abi... .. mtchew... and they want Romeo n Juliet love... stingy flat head....

sorry jawe Buchi.. I no mean dude flat head ooo
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 11:03am On Feb 07, 2017
haywayboi:
hear talk from jodha or wetin b her name.. if is a guy to invite u and give u 5k for tfare E go best post of the month abi... .. mtchew... and they want Romeo n Juliet love... stingy flat head....

sorry jawe Buchi.. I no mean dude flat head ooo
Guy the Bible said a man should provide for his woman.. And not the other way round...
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by makydebbie(f): 11:09am On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
Guy the Bible said a man should provide for his woman.. And not the other way round...
I hope you're not a feminist smiley
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Joe171(m): 12:36pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
This is the most stupid thing anybody has ever of posted on Nairaland...
We are yet to see a more stupid comment.
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 12:57pm On Feb 07, 2017
makydebbie:
I hope you're not a feminist smiley
I'm not... Was just typing my honest/candid opinion grin
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by makydebbie(f): 1:22pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
I'm not... Was just typing my honest/candid opinion grin
Okay dear, but giving him a good treat ( not talking about sex) won't kill you. He'll know and adore how much you value him smiley
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 4:01pm On Feb 07, 2017
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makydebbie:
Okay dear, but giving him a good treat ( not talking about sex) won't kill you. He'll know and adore how much you value him smiley
My dear... I think there are other ways of showing him yhu care.. Apart from buying him gifts or stuffs like that...
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by firstking01(m): 4:07pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
This is the most stupid thing anybody has ever of posted on Nairaland...
What makes it a stupid post?, smh.
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by makydebbie(f): 4:11pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
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My dear... I think there are other ways of showing him yhu care.. Apart from buying him gifts or stuffs like that...
Ofcos, but buying him gift is also part of the things you do to show that you care.
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 4:14pm On Feb 07, 2017
firstking01:
What makes it a stupid post?, smh.
Keep shaking that head... In fact shake it vigorously... It doesn't change anything....

So you're one of those niggurz looking for a lady to care for their insatiable needs...

Issorait oo... But if every lady reasons like me.. Yhur kind go old... (just saying)..
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by firstking01(m): 4:18pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
Guy the Bible said a man should provide for his woman.. And not the other way round...
Stop quoting the bible out of context...the bible said any man who cannot provide for his wife/family and not "woman" is worst than an infidel....the bible was talking about marriage and not bf and gf thing....the issue here is, if we are dating everything we share should be on scale of 50/50, or highest 60/40....it's not everytime you'd be in the receiving end, he's not married to you yet...who knows, after he does all those things for you, you end up dumping him tomorrow....guys hv wisened up.
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 4:20pm On Feb 07, 2017
makydebbie:
Ofcos, but buying him gift is also part of the things you do to show that you care.
I don't think so dearie... Yhu can of course be calling him often and all that to show yhu care.. But yhu don't have to buy him gifts.... Now lemme tell yhu a story to buttress my point...

My friend was dating this guy.. She was a scholarship recipient she used all her scholarship money to buy clothes..shoes etc yhu name it for this guy.. Of course I advised her otherwise.. She insisted I have a heart of stone... I left her of course...

Can yhu imagine recently she came crying to Me... Telling me the niggur was playing her and he had a serious relationship with another lass... The lady almost beat her to the pulp when she saw them together....

Well I'm not trying to draw conclusion with just this one instance... But that's the bloody truth... Plus the Bible those not support it anyways...
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 4:24pm On Feb 07, 2017
firstking01:
Stop quoting the bible out of context...the bible said any man who cannot provide for his wife/family and not "woman" is worst than an infidel....the bible was talking about marriage and not bf and gf thing....the issue here is, if we are dating everything we share should be on scale of 50/50, or highest 60/40....it's not everytime you'd be in the receiving end, he's not married to you yet...who knows, after he does all those things for you, you end up dumping him tomorrow....guys hv wisened up.
In conclusion you're tryna say you'll gladly collect 5k from a girl you're dating?...
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 4:25pm On Feb 07, 2017
It's strange the kinda world we are in today.... Guys are now turning into gold diggers... Instead of the other way round...
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by firstking01(m): 4:30pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
In conclusion you're tryna say you'll gladly collect 5k from a girl you're dating?...
It depends on why she's giving me....if you give your bf 5k out of love and benebolently not because he can't fend 5k for himself and he bluntly refused, how will you feel??
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by makydebbie(f): 4:35pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
I don't think so dearie... Yhu can of course be calling him often and all that to show yhu care.. But yhu don't have to buy him gifts.... Now lemme tell yhu a story to buttress my point...

My friend was dating this guy.. She was a scholarship recipient she used all her scholarship money to buy clothes..shoes etc yhu name it for this guy.. Of course I advised her otherwise.. She insisted I have a heart of stone... I left her of course...

Can yhu imagine recently she came crying to Me... Telling me the niggur was playing her and he had a serious relationship with another lass... The lady almost beat her to the pulp when she saw them together....

Well I'm not trying to draw conclusion with just this one instance... But that's the bloody truth... Plus the Bible those not support it anyways...
I get your point ma'am. You're using a guy to judge all the guys. Your friend was being naive and I'm sure you're not. So you can mind the way you spend on him like birthday, Valentine, etc.

Since you won't buy a gift for your guy, pls don't expect anygift from him too. Its a two way thing.
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by firstking01(m): 4:35pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
Keep shaking that head... In fact shake it vigorously... It doesn't change anything....

So you're one of those niggurz looking for a lady to care for their insatiable needs...

Issorait oo... But if every lady reasons like me.. Yhur kind go old... (just saying)..
Smh, and if guys are wise like me you go carry your hair for 6monthsundecided
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Blackhue95: 4:42pm On Feb 07, 2017
sekxy:
Ladies on 14th February
Invite ur guy over for Dinner, if he is about going, give him 5k for transport.
YOU WON'T DIE.
grin then I'll collect 30k from him before he goes to replace the 5k.
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 4:57pm On Feb 07, 2017
firstking01:
It depends on why she's giving me....if you give your bf 5k out of love and benebolently not because he can't fend 5k for himself and he bluntly refused, how will you feel??
I'd never do that... So what I feel.. Doesn't matter..
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 5:03pm On Feb 07, 2017
makydebbie:
I get your point ma'am. You're using a guy to judge all the guys. Your friend was being naive and I'm sure you're not. So you can mind the way you spend on him like birthday, Valentine, etc.

Since you won't buy a gift for your guy, pls don't expect anygift from him too. Its a two way thing.
No I'm not... Yeah on his birthday I can send him a romantic text message.. Or get him a birthday card.. I can't do more than that...

It's a guy's duty to provide for his lady... Whether she needs the provision or not... Therefore aww expect much from him grin

I guess you're surprised at my posts... But every one with their own opinion (that's life)... That's why we're different...
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Jodha(f): 5:04pm On Feb 07, 2017
firstking01:
Smh, and if guys are wise like me you go carry your hair for 6monthsundecided
Lol nah mouth yhu dey make...
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Nobody: 5:06pm On Feb 07, 2017
firstking01:
What makes it a stupid post?, smh.
Because money is leaving the woman's pocket for a guy. Remember that chris rock joke, a ladies vagina dries up anytime she pays for a guy.
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by makydebbie(f): 5:10pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
No I'm not... Yeah on his birthday I can send him a romantic text message.. Or get him a birthday card.. I can't do more than that...

It's a guy's duty to provide for his lady... Whether she needs the provision or not... Therefore aww expect much from him grin

I guess you're surprised at my posts... But every one with their own opinion (that's life)... That's why we're different...
I'm not really surprised ma'am. I see threads about guys bashing Nigerian ladies cos of this weird mentality.

Your opinion tho.
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Nobody: 5:14pm On Feb 07, 2017
makydebbie:
I'm not really surprised ma'am. I see threads about guys bashing Nigerian ladies cos of this weird mentality.

Your opinion tho.
Well to be sincere it's not weird the guy has a choice whether to deal with such or not, it's mostly the guys at fault, you can't complain when you have an option. Me i avoid girls like that even if they are fine girls.........(not in this case though)
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by Lsofdk(m): 5:17pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
No I'm not... Yeah on his birthday I can send him a romantic text message.. Or get him a birthday card.. I can't do more than that...

It's a guy's duty to provide for his lady... Whether she needs the provision or not... Therefore aww expect much from him grin

I guess you're surprised at my posts... But every one with their own opinion (that's life)... That's why we're different...
[color=teal]Your boyfriend deserves a resounding slap if he sends you more than a text or card on your birthday or Valentine's day. Provide for you when you've not left your father's house undecided what kind of warped reasoning is this undecided[/color]
Re: Ladies On Valentine's Day. .see What To Do by firstking01(m): 5:20pm On Feb 07, 2017
Jodha:
I'd never do that... So what I feel.. Doesn't matter..
Lol, i don't want to start classifying you based on the way it is in my mind now cos you won't like it....i already know your type but lest you forgotten, this is africa and nigeria for that matter, inshort let me leave you sef cos the way it's doing me now ehgrin
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