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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by favorchild2017: 3:38pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: na this kind thing they make me provoke, how did the guy get her number, why his he dropping her off, why are they chatting. She is a married woman and should only have female friends. My mother doesn't hv male friends and if she did, not to the level he would be chatting her. The truth of the matter is this every woman knws hw to shake a man away. Tell her you are not comfortable with her relationship with the man whether there is something or there is nothing between them. She should stop talking to him. No need to call the guy abeg. The problem is with your wife. she can say its insecurity , tell her u dont care. let her end everything she has to do with that man. 5 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by AngelicBeing: 3:38pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Keneking:Buhari is missing in action 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by AngelicBeing: 3:40pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
xynerise:That was why l called him a woman, na wao oo 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by JimloveTM(m): 3:40pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
That's what family friends, family this, family besties, etc cause. Keep friends away from your home, and away from wife issues. Na who know man dey kill am 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Ayanfeoluwaoba(f): 3:40pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Let me start by saying that whatever anybody tells you on Social media concerning marriage and you don't think through carefully before taking action will cause you more harm than good. Every marriage has its own formulae all you need do is find yours!!!!. Now to the issue, I think you sounded more confrontational when you approached her hence the reason for her reaction. Until u have an undeniable evidence, you don't go confrontational with your spouse when it comes issues in marriage. Like I said find a formulae on how to resolve issues in your marriage and you will be surprised how many equations will be solved. #myopinionthough. 6 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by homenje73: 3:42pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
It is A CAPITAL YES . she is cheating on you 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by xynerise: 3:42pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
AngelicBeing:The guy is too soft. As the man of the house, show your strict side for once. Spare the rod and .... 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by hedonistic: 3:44pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Oh boy I pity you small. You're not in control, and once a husband loses control, then it is inevitable that the wife IS cheating or SHALL cheat at some point. The day my woman opens her smelly mouth to form angry and retort that I should do whatever I like when I express my reservations about her conduct, then I would end the marriage. She kuku know say I be drastic man and my brain dey touch. Men need to wake up. Too much softy softy puts you in a mess. Then again, if you began on that note with her from the beginning, then it is difficult to change the dynamic now. People like us know better. You must use the Abacha or Idi Amin Iron hand - firm and uncompromising - on certain key issues when it comes to naija women, otherwise dem go ride you like fool. Of course you can be soft on many other issues, but for this kind loyalty/fidelity matter, there is no room for negotiation or 'understanding'. She either does things my way, or I conclude that she is cheating or will cheat, and I would treat her accordingly. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
AngelicBeing:That was too blunt |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by favorchild2017: 3:44pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Ayanfeoluwaoba: What is this one saying? No doubt all marriage are unique and hv different rememdies, did u see what he typed or u are just another feminsit. He doesn't need to catch her read handed, a suspicion is enough cause for her to end stuff with that guy. He should act than die in silence, she is emotionally cheating on him by the way. What nonsense 9 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by CRAPHA96(m): 3:45pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Ayam not understanding.... if she want to eat larger part of the meat mama give una...no allow her cheat u she must share it equally |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by drnoel: 3:45pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Why dont u get her a car to avoid stories that touch the heart |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by JimloveTM(m): 3:45pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: When a woman tells you to do whatever you like shows the man is not in control of the home. You should call the guy and warn him off, then sit your wife down and talk to her. Find out what you are not doing enough and ask her to be open to you. You are obviously not doing something that's she is looking for outside. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
AngelicBeing:You carry this matter for head sotey u typed with pidgin. I just dey look u |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by HARDDON: 3:46pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
NotOfThis: Talk of a man leaving his burning barn to go chasing crickets! OP has no control in his God given home! The is a remote effect, the main crux of the matter is that he lost touch with his wify long time ago. Lost control in his bid to maintain peace. A man should be big wise enough to place his foot down n correct anomalies as they spring up n not condone such! What u torelate takes control ....Don 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by maasoap(m): 3:46pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
dealslip:Thank you madam. This is very serious. Looks like the woman is ready to move out. I just hope that she is not the one providing for the family? Because this will definitely put the husband in a serious dilemma. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by AngelicBeing: 3:47pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Oyind17:If that will keep the home, so be it 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by cosade(m): 3:48pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
maberry: What does the bolded mean? It's simply sexual relationship. Op: Your wife is already cheating on you. 5 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
AngelicBeing:Lol, you no be am |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by ManTiger(m): 3:50pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Brasilia, since when have you been married? Do you married her officially, like church or registry? Did you have a long relationship lets say 5 - 7 yrs before you married her officially? Bro, this could be the beginning if care is not taken. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by TruthisOut: 3:51pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Well I am not trying to corrupt your mind against your wife o but I have had such experience before with a gf. Your wife's reaction is typical of a cheating partner. She cannot warn the guy to stop the message nor end any affairs with her but she can viciously attack u to stay clear (It is only with more and undebatable evidence will she apologize and blame the devil). My guy, I am sorry. I don't know what to advise u now o but calling the guy will be a big mistake. 10 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by MrMcJay(m): 3:51pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Ayanfeoluwaoba: Only a woman would come up with such crap as this. Truly, these hoes ain't loyal. 13 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by HARDDON: 3:51pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
dealslip: Yea, maybe he has cheated aforetimes. Maybe he aint satisfying her in bed, maybe he aint providing for d fam, maybe he doesnt have her time , maybe she was forced into d marriage, maybe she married him cos of money but still stuck on old heat( she neva really luvd him) , maybe the marriage lost its spark! Maybe she started taking counsel from randy single/married female friends These n many more cud lead to this 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by segzie2012: 3:54pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: His not right ooo... Marriage can be funny atimes "TRUST" Dey have not had anytin together as far as I am concern because you have no evidence "u've got only conversation trails- d guy can be a free talker and your wife might just response because she need someone to " trust your wife 1st... my advise is you give your wife more time - give her all the attention she needs,chat,call,take her out, do romoe & juliet - she will not see any reason to call the guy for anything. Best of luck guy 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by oluwalewis(m): 3:56pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Judging from your above statement, it is obvious you love her more than she does and there is every tendency that she married you because you were her last hope or out of sympathy cos a female would either marry the man that loves her the most ( even when she is at fault, the man would be the one apologizing) or marry the man she loves the most ( she would be the one apologizing and doing everything to satisfy the man). I would rather advise you to wisely regain your freedom. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Damilare5882(m): 3:57pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
My own opinion is..try and locate the pastor of your wife's church or the wife of the pastor and report the case to them with the evidence ..so they will know how to call the guy to order ... If you confront the guy ..he will definatley tell your wife and it might lead to another thing ..something like she accusing you that you don't trust her bla bla bla ..but I believe the pastor will know how to handle the case most especially in dealing with the guy |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by AngelicBeing: 4:00pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Oyind17:l dont take nonsense from a woman, l am in control of my home, matrimony, destiny, family life, kids etc, l dont oppress women, l respect them but l dont tolerate stupidity but what these woman is doing to these guy is sad and pathetic, l cant stomach it 14 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by DukeNija(m): 4:01pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
segzie2012: This is the best advice. Mr Op please you need to focus on your marriage cos your wife is obviously unhappy and shes probably taking it out on you. Be a better husband to that woman and all the others will disappear. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by blont(m): 4:01pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
oga to me i dont think u av such issues, well i aplaud u, u don catch pple attention. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by HARDDON: 4:02pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
xynerise: ......spoil the wify? |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by CHARLOE(m): 4:02pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:Ur wife asked him to take her somewhere n he asked: are u missing me? Missing what really? I'll tell u; his dik! Guy open ur eyes, d guy's shagging ur wife n she has d guts to shout on u telling u she doesn't care! Guy am afraid ur wife may have lost interest or you're giving her too much rope, man up, threaten her to open up, let her no u won't take shit from her anymore. If she still loves u she'll apologise n make amends, if she doesn't, I'll let her go if I were u 7 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by VeniJu: 4:02pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:Brasilia, if you're on whatsapp, msg me. 08129078105. |
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