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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by jmoore(m): 1:47pm On Feb 18, 2017
Benita27:
Are you confusing a prostitute with a girl that isn't a virgin?.

Some of you amaze me here.
Nope, I only asked a question.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 1:49pm On Feb 18, 2017
Benita27:
Are you a virgin?.
That is a personal question dear but no I am not and I have never undergo any abortion. If I get pregnant even by mistake I will have the baby.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:

That is a personal question dear but no I am not and I have never undergo any abortion. If I get pregnant even by mistake I will have the baby.
You could be whatever you want on social media.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 1:53pm On Feb 18, 2017
Benita27:
You could be whatever you want on social media.
Yes you are right but I am not a virgin neither did I claim to be one dear
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by TwerkingSquirrel(m): 1:54pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:

That is a personal question dear but no I am not and I have never undergo any abortion. If I get pregnant even by mistake I will have the baby.
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Damn!!!! She's not one and I was crushing on her!!!! Stupid me!!!
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 1:56pm On Feb 18, 2017
TwerkingSquirrel:

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Damn!!!! She's not one and I was crushing on her!!!! Stupid me!!!
Sorry boo, I am a sexually active adult
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:

Yes you are right but I am not a virgin neither did I claim to be one dear
Jessicaseth:
Your future is at stake, don't destroy it because of a random girl.
I suppose whoever is dating you also have his future at stake.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by TwerkingSquirrel(m): 1:58pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:
Sorry boo, I am a sexually active adult
. . Bia don't boo me!!!! Arrgh
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 2:01pm On Feb 18, 2017
Benita27:
I suppose whoever is dating you also have his future at stake.


Do you get my analogy? You are beating around the bush.
Abortion is wrong and it damages the womb. Whosoever is dating my have his mind at rest because my womb is not damages I haven't undergone any abortion neither do I take in hard drugs/chemicals.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Nobody: 2:03pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:


Do you get my analogy? You are beating around the bush.
Abortion is wrong and it damages the womb. Whosoever is dating my have his mind at rest because my womb is not damages I haven't undergone any abortion neither do I take in hard drugs/chemicals.
Like i said, i can state i'm a virgin on social media and no one will refute that.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 2:07pm On Feb 18, 2017
Benita27:
Like i said, i can state i'm a virgin on social media and no one will refute that.
So it means you have been conversing based on "ideas"
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Kaxmytex(m): 2:10pm On Feb 18, 2017
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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Nobody: 2:10pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:

So it means you have been conversing based on "ideas"
Do i sound like have been conversing base on ideas?.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Horlohlah: 2:11pm On Feb 18, 2017
Her crime here is not telling you about it and denying it when you asked.

But about your question if its right to marry a woman who has done abortion, note that every sinner has a past and every saint has a future.

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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by schumastic(m): 2:13pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:
Your future is at stake, don't destroy it because of a random girl.

are you for real, wa makes u think the next girl will b a saint either?, at thought they say love conquers it all!!

my point is that she feels remorseful over wa she did, n doesn't want to lose her man, I guess that's why she denied..
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 2:13pm On Feb 18, 2017
Benita27:
Do i sound like have been conversing base on ideas?.
Yes. You sound offensive too. Bye bae

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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 2:14pm On Feb 18, 2017
schumastic:


are you for real, wa makes u think the next girl will b a saint either?, at thought they say love conquers it all!!

my point is that she feels remorseful over wa she did, n doesn't want to lose her man, I guess that's why she denied..
Then let a test be carried out to check the condition of her womb. She didn't state how many times she did the abortion remember?

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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Kaxmytex(m): 2:14pm On Feb 18, 2017
And to all wey dey claim "i neva had abortion b4"
baba God dey watch all of una 4 plasma tv in full hd quality
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Nobody: 2:15pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:

Yes. You sound offensive too. Bye bae
Perhaps, i'm offended at the sight of hypocrites.

Bye too!.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by schumastic(m): 2:16pm On Feb 18, 2017
ShawttySoFyne:
If you have had several relationships in the past, you have no right to judge ladies that have been pregnant in the past.men are equally to blame. Women don't make themselves pregnant.You bash ladies as if they are not human; after pressuring them to commit abortions.
If men will stand by their partners, there won't be any need for abortion.

thanks for this advice

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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Nobody: 2:18pm On Feb 18, 2017
Kaxmytex:
And to all wey dey claim "i neva had abortion b4"

baba God dey watch all of una 4 plasma tv in full hd quality
No be today we begin see their types. cheesy grin

Some girls can pretend for Africa.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by schumastic(m): 2:19pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:

Then let a test be carried out to check the condition of her womb. She didn't state how many times she did the abortion remember?

that's wa I expected you to say n number of times is not a yardstick to measure if she can get pregnant or not so far a professional did a good job..my point is if she can get pregnant then he should go for it, we all make mistakes n no one is perfect or are you?
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Nobody: 2:19pm On Feb 18, 2017
UndercoverAgent:
ah na wa , girls do it alot sha , i cant count how many i have paid for , na normal thing boss , if u love her fire down

Ogbeni go and wash your head oh cause abortion dey block destiny oh. Most especially if you abort pikin when get bright future. Me na IFA save me from the abortion when being tie my finance before. I didn't 6 abortions with 3 ladies.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 2:21pm On Feb 18, 2017
schumastic:


that's wa I expected you to say n number of times is not a yardstick to measure if she can get pregnant or not so far a professional did a good job..my point is if she can get pregnant then he should go for it, we all make mistakes n no one is perfect or are you?

He should do a test on her womb. The abortion might not be carried out by a professional.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Nobody: 2:21pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:

Yes. You sound offensive too. Bye bae
pwerry pulease, don't waste your mb schooling ugly girls kiss you like 15inch pleek smiley talk true wink
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by DaisyII: 2:24pm On Feb 18, 2017
2SWT:
weh done sir


marrying a virgin doesn't guarantee a successful marriage
Neither does marrying a non-virgin.

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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by schumastic(m): 2:24pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:

Sorry boo, I am a sexually active adult

n what if by chance u get pregnant n your partner refuse to stand by you, moreover u make it seem like abortion is a really bad thing, you forget the fact that there are cases where the life of the mother n her unborn baby are at risk n if they don't abort the baby, they might lose both..in such cases what would be your advice, go ahead with the operation n lose both or do the abortion n save the mum?

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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by Jessicaseth(f): 2:26pm On Feb 18, 2017
schumastic:


n what if by chance u get pregnant n your partner refuse to stand by you, moreover u make it seem like abortion is a really bad thing, you forget the fact that there are cases where the life of the mother n her unborn baby are at risk n if they don't abort the baby, they might lose both..in such cases what would be your advice, go ahead with the operation n lose both or do the abortion n save the mum?

We use protection and other contraceptive cream. I don't feel comfortable talking about my sexual life online but you get my drift

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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by schumastic(m): 2:31pm On Feb 18, 2017
Jessicaseth:


We use protection and other contraceptive cream. I don't feel comfortable talking about my sexual life online but you get my drift

yeah I do, no hard feelings but you don't have to be judgemental about it, like I said no one is perfect, am sure u must v made mistakes u regret or wish u never did which one way or another u might v paid the price..in this scenerio she might pay d ultimate price of losing her man(which is your advice, for him to let go) but want if there are chances she can get pregnant, if possible 6kids n he leaves her for someone who haven't had any arbotion but can't give birth..
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by 2SWT(f): 2:31pm On Feb 18, 2017
jmoore:


And getting married to a prostitute guarantees a successful marriage?


undecided
I never said so

a successful marriage depends on how compatible both partners are and not virginity.
Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by DaisyII: 2:32pm On Feb 18, 2017
Oyind17:
Where is that lady who is yet to abort Abegi talk of something else.
This is a fallacy of hasty generalization.Could you at least consider the minority like myself who have not given abortion a thought

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Re: Mature Advice Needed: Can You Marry A Lady That Has Had Abortion For Her Ex. by 2SWT(f): 2:33pm On Feb 18, 2017
DaisyII:
Neither does marrying a non-virgin.
are you a virgin?

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