If after 9 years, your man leaves you to marry another?

Would you walk away? how do you handle it?

Can you date someone that long?

Guys, what has to click in your brain to think Oh, i don't like this girl anymore after 9 years?

Dirty lifestyle, bad attitude, disrespect, inability to cook .. Inability to manage a home

So it's after 9 years it struck your brain to know that you don't like her?

A year is long enough time to know, understand her person. Why wait till 9 years? Na wa o

dingbang:
Dirty lifestyle, bad attitude, disrespect, inability to cook .. Inability to manage a home

So it's after nine years you'll notice all these...... Good, perfectly good.



Any man that tries this with me should just know his marriage na joke

dingbang:
Dirty lifestyle, bad attitude, disrespect, inability to cook .. Inability to manage a home

But boss you suppose see these things within 2-3 months of dating nau!

jworos:
But boss you suppose see these things within 2-3 months of dating nau!

well within 2-3 months of dating u don't expect every girl to start living with u.. Its only when dey begin to live with u dat u start seeing all these things

Aderola15:


So it's after nine years you'll notice all these...... Good, perfectly good.



Any man that tries this with me should just know his marriage na joke

tries what with u? Dump u?

cloudyskygrind:
If after 9 years, your man leaves you to marry another?

Would you walk away? how do you handle it?

Can you date someone that long?

Guys, what has to click in your brain to think Oh, i don't like this girl anymore after 9 years?

9 years? as in date 9 years exclusively? well, life goes on. Your chi will definitely pay back d fool and it helps if you realise that not all relationships no matter how long will end up in marriage....

dingbang:
Dirty lifestyle, bad attitude, disrespect, inability to cook .. Inability to manage a home

After 9yrs? You are funny

dingbang:
well within 2-3 months of dating u don't expect every girl to start living with u.. Its only when dey begin to live with u dat u start seeing all these things

thats why i advocate cohabiting,if any girl cant spend a nite in my house even as an ordinary bf,then we can't go further

Nma27:
After 9yrs? You are funny

have u listened to d song heartbreaker by ludacris

Majestee:
thats why i advocate cohabiting,if any girl cant spend a nite in my house even as an ordinary bf,then we can't go further

my brother trust me u will see things.. . it might be dat for seven years you two never lived with each other but after then, she came in with u and u start to see all these......

I will move on with my life

Nma27:
9 years? as in date 9 years exclusively? well, life goes on. Your chi will definitely pay back d fool and it helps if you realise that not all relationships no matter how long will end up in marriage....

9 years dear, The guy in question just picked another girl and marry her that same year and was giving some flimsy reasons why he had to leave her.

Wouldn't you break his head at least

Amarabae:
I will move on with my life

Just like that? No protests??

dingbang:
tries what with u? Dump u?

Yeah. After nine years, nine fvckin years.

Wel i pray 2 God nt 2 do such tin 2 a gal. Am nt d type dat bring a gal dat cloz, 2 d extend of datin her and dump her. D last i check, as a reasonable guy, u are expected 2 marry your friend.

Walk away, watin I for do before?

My cousin dated a girl from secondary school, they went to same uni. The girl is from a rich family. We all love the lady. They were together for more than 10 years only for him to say he's no longer interested in the girl. They went their separate ways and are both happily married. I avoided him for some time for breaking her heart.

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

Aderola15:

Yeah. After nine years, nine fvckin years.

marriage is not by force Jor...

dingbang:
my brother trust me u will see things.. . it might be dat for seven years you two never lived with each other but after then, she came in with u and u start to see all these......

on same page bro,we must cohabit even from the beginning cos thats the best way to study any woman.most girls do the opposite of what they say

Majestee:
on same page bro,we must cohabit even from the beginning cos thats the best way to study any woman.most girls do the opposite of what they say

I dey tell u.... U see a fine girl on d street, sexy looking with great ass... Sweet perfume...

But check out her house. Very dirty. ... Phew.. Only God will save somebody. I am a living witness to this. .

cloudyskygrind:

Just like that? No protests??

protest? Maybe I should beat him up for quitting the relationship

It will be hard to do such after nine years. But in case it does happen, it will be due her consistently not following instructions or caught her cheating big time. Guess that's the only factor that will warrant that.

Truth be told,the guy no try,9yrs is punishment

cloudyskygrind:

9 years dear, The guy in question just picked another girl and marry her that same year and was giving some flimsy reasons why he had to leave her.

Wouldn't you break his head at least

The guy no try at all... breaking his head wont change anything. The best thing to do is to move on and thats why we shouldnt put all our eggs in one basket cos that basket might tear and dash all d eggs...

dingbang:
have u listened to d song heartbreaker by ludacris

Naaa

Nma27:
Naaa

lol please do. ..

Nma27:
The guy no try at all... breaking his head wont change anything. The best thing to do is to move on and thats why we shouldnt put all our eggs in one basket cos that basket might tear and dash all d eggs...

Wonderment!

cloudyskygrind:


Wonderment!

Lol. Do You agree or disagree with d idea?

Nma27:
Lol. Do You agree or disagree with d idea?

It's whatever works for you just make sure that the two baskets don't get broken at the same time

cloudyskygrind:

It's whatever works for you just make sure that the two baskets don't get broken at the same time

Lol. i dont keep two baskets. i'm emotionally strong to handle when my only basket tears...

Amarabae:
I will move on with my life

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