Let a man seek one to stand by his side who is fitted to bear her share of life's burdens, one whose influence will ennoble and refine him, and who will make him happy in her love.
"A prudent wife is from the Lord." "The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her....."She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life."......

Here are things which should be considered:
Will the one you marry bring happiness to your home? Is she an economist, or will she, if married, not only use all her own earnings, but all of yours to gratify a vanity, a love of appearance? Has she anything now to depend on?

.....to the mind of a man infatuated with love and thoughts of marriage these questions will be brushed away as though they are of no consequence. But these things should be duly considered, for they have a bearing upon your future life....

In your choice of wife study her character.

AH. pgs 45-46

True words ...... All they just consider now is material things.... Godforbid I marry such a woman...

mzlady39 u are my kind of lady.Can we meet

ipobarecriminals:
mzlady39 u are my kind of lady.Can we meet

Uhhhhh....lol.....i'm glad you read something of worth in the thread. Apply those principles

MZLady39:


Uhhhhh....lol.....i'm glad you read something of worth in the thread. Apply those principles

He who finds a wife,finds good thing,and obtains favor from God.A man/woman can/may possess all those attribute but whatever we do behind/without God backing can't last/fruitless.Some people placed curse on themselves and call it marriage rite/vow. What we say,stand.

I see you always cite AH in your posts. is that a book, can you let us know what book it is?

Nice posts BTW

Nice write up. true talk.

He who finds a wife,finds good thing,and obtains favor from God. A man/woman can/may possess all those attribute but whatever we do behind/without God backing can't last/fruitless.Some people placed curse on themselves and call it marriage rite/vow.


Very true....

Willzkid:
I see you always cite AH in your posts. is that a book, can you let us know what book it is?

Nice posts BTW

Thanks....it's called "The Adventist Home" by Ellen. G. White.
It's based on biblical principles.

MZLady39:


Thanks....it's called "The Adventist Home" by Ellen. G. White.
It's based on biblical principles.

Yeah, I know Ellen White, I have some adventst friends. I used to listen to one of your popular preachers in the states Doug Batchelor. Though I'm not adventist, I admire some of your doctrinal stances.
I see you're in the US too.

Willzkid:

Yeah, I know Ellen White, I have some adventst friends. I used to listen to one of your popular preachers in the states Doug Batchelor. Though I'm not adventist, I admire some of your doctrinal stances.
I see you're in the US too.

Oh ok...that's nice. Yeah Doug Batchelor was the pastor I really admired when I fist joined several years ago. Yes...born, raised and still living in the U.S. Have Igbo blood through my dad.

MZLady39:



Oh ok...that's nice. Yeah Doug Batchelor was the pastor I really admired when I fist joined several years ago. Yes...born, raised and still living in the U.S. Have Igbo blood through my dad.

Oh cool...check your mail..I sent you a pm..if you don't mind

Willzkid:


Oh cool...check your mail..I sent you a pm..if you don't mind

I'm gonna "cc" you in on a "reply post" I'm gonna do elsewhere. Look out for it.

MZLady39:


I'm gonna "cc" you in on a "reply post" I'm gonna do elsewhere. Look out for it.

Oh I just saw it..
well I kind of understand your concerns but "ccing" me on that post just made it look like I was guilty of what you were addressing.

My PM was without any ill-intent and wasn't meant to be untoward.

Willzkid:


Oh I just saw it..
well I kind of understand your concerns but "ccing" me on that post just made it look like I was guilty of what you were addressing.

My PM was without any ill-intent and wasn't meant to be untoward.

My apologies to you sir. I addressed the guy who had questioned me. That wasn't directed at you at all.
But I was just informing all.
Again my apologies. I took you off of the post.

MZLady39:

My apologies to you sir. I addressed the guy who had questioned me. That wasn't directed at you at all.
But I was just informing all.
Again my apologies. I took you off of the post.

No problem ma

Willzkid:


No problem ma

I must give "credit" where "credit" is due....and then leave this alone.
I don't know your age, but "thank you" for displaying pure grown-man maturity......in this situation. Nicely done sir.