I see some dolts are trying to justify cheating.
Una weh done.

Look, if a man cheats on his woman or vice Versa...or simply can't bring himself to control his third legedeez...they're human. No one is perfect.

But where I would feel like feeding otapiapia to such individual is when they come online or wherever to justify cheating.

How, why?

Mindfulness:


Consider the lack of self-respect a mental illness. It is quite painful.

You don't say. So what do you expect a woman to do if her man cheats, divorce him?

TheSlyone2:

Egbon, are you a feminist or something?

Ẹ̀gbọ́n wéré

queencalipso:
Thrash imagine her line of arguement!! Man shall not leave by bread alone.. So ladies are now inanimate beings with no emotion abi!!

What happened to respecting the sacred law of marriage??

There's no honour in a man who does not understand the concept of fidelity and loyalty..

Is this lady married or she's trying to catch attention to her self

I guess most of you commenting on marriage stories are still single or living in self denial. None of these celebrity women left their marriages because of infidelity on the part of the man alone. No African woman would leave her marriage because she caught him cheating, certainly not the better halves of the Adenugas, Otedolas, Ubahs, etc. These ladies who left their marriages have other reasons to leave, not infidelity on the part of their man.

On the issue of buying condoms for your husband, this lady that suggested this is a comedian and I guess she wanted to sound funny. However, a friend told me his wife put some condoms in his bag the last time he traveled. I know for sure that many wives, including mine, can never do that, not necessarily because they trust their husbands.

Marriage is not a bed of roses and the delusion many single ladies have of marriage and their man is mainly responsible for their misery. Marriage is not a movie or make believe, it is real just like men are real so the fact that he has just become your husband does not remove the "man" in him. Every human being can only be sure of his or her own behaviour only.

I repeat: Tonto, Tiwa, Muma Gee, Lillian etc did not leave their husbands just because they caught their husbands cheating. That one is just a ready made excuse.

MizMyColi:
I see some dolts are trying to justify cheating.
Una weh done.

Look, if a man cheats in his woman or vice Versa...or simply can't bring himself to control his third legedeez...they're human. No one is perfect.

But where I would feel like feeding otapiapia to such individual is when they come online or wherever to justify cheating.

How, why?

Even in your saying. You still fail to see the real truth about the society you live in. It is religious as much as it as traditional. And both are patriarchal to the core.

JoeBlocks:
You don't say. So what do you expect a woman to do if her man cheats, divorce him?

I expect her to do what you expect a man to do when his wife cheats.
Film him and mas.trubate to it. See question.

Mindfulness:


Consider the lack of self-respect a mental illness. It is quite painful.

You're being very cool about it o

How can one tolerate such stvpidity and be cool.

Media is a very powerful tool for disseminating sense and nonsense...well, mostly nonsense.

I imagine the amount of people who will now read this tripe and make it a model for justification.

It's petrifying really.

MizMyColi:
I see some dolts are trying to justify cheating.
Una weh done.

Look, if a man cheats in his woman or vice Versa...or simply can't bring himself to control his third legedeez...they're human. No one is perfect.

But where I would feel like feeding otapiapia to such individual is when they come online or wherever to justify cheating.

How, why?

Cheating is a national sport in Nigeria. Everyone wants to win the cup. They take pride in cheating.

And on Sunday, everyone shouts 'In the name of Jesus ... AMEEEEEN!'

What a way of endorsing and promoting infidelity. Cheating Husbands must be so happy about this wonderful post

Mindfulness:

I expect her to do what you expect a man to do when his wife cheats.
Film him and mas.trubate to it. See question.

You don't say. Well in case you don't know. Most men usually go after the man who slept with their wife. Imagine a woman going after the woman who slept with her husband. That's usually a sight to see.

Then again, sarcasm isn't your best suit.

Mindfulness:


Cheating is a national sport in Nigeria. Everyone wants to win the cup. They take pride in cheating.

And on Sunday, everyone shouts 'In the name of Jesus ... AMEEEEEN!'

Hahahahahahaha

This got me reeling in laughter.

MizMyColi:


You're being very cool about it o

How can one tolerate such stvpidity and be cool.

It's the mellowness of age.
For one Hunter, there are ten women who respect themselves so I choose to surround myself with the latter and my world is just perfect.

Media is a very powerful tool for disseminating sense and nonsense...well, mostly nonsense.

Smart people can tell the difference.

I imagine the amount of people who will now read this tripe and make it a model for justification.

It's petrifying really.

Let them stick to each other. To each their own and everyone gets the man they deserve.

MizMyColi:

Hahahahahahaha

This got me reeling in laughter.

Genea:
If he decides to cheat, that's his business but I would never accept his cheating by buying him a condom

Secondly, I wud endure for a while and wait for the perfect timing when I can leave him in a devastating state, ruin him career and self esteem wise and leave him to the dogs to devour him.... and yes, I have a wicked heart for those who disrespect me

My kind of girl.

Gbemishile1:
african women seem to have lost the african culture by mimmicking the western world.a western culture where d woman marries d man only for the material and selfish reasons.she expects d man to be faithful for d time she is with her,then drop him to his fate when she fells like it.
When u know ure not d only one in ur husband's heart,u will behave urself and reason well before packing ur load out of ur husband's house.
When a woman is crazy enof to pack her loads from d husband's house,she is not comming back oo

Its like you're confused. African women of before never worked. Their husbands fed and clothed. It was the westernisation that you're blaming that brought education, work and financial independence for women. So tell me again what your point is?

JoeBlocks:
You don't say. Well in case you don't know. Most men usually go after the man who slept with their wife. Imagine a woman going after the woman who slept with her husband. That's usually a sight to see.

Then again, sarcasm isn't your best suit.

Why do they go after the men? Why not buy condoms for the wife?
#nosarcasm

tamika24:
Gone r de days of female desparation r gone. mAny ladies used to stay in such situations bcoz of financial dependence and de stigma attahed to divorce or to ladies being single. If he cant rrspect our msrriage vows n cant resect me. there r better men out there ho would make a better. Loving and good husband to me

true

Mindfulness:


It's the mellowness of age.
For one Hunter, there are ten women who respect themselves so I choose to surround myself with the latter and my world is just perfect.



Smart people can tell the difference.



Let them stick to each other. To each their own and everyone gets the man they deserve.

Word of Life.

Gladiator1:
And wat if he's so rich n handsome?

What is this nonsense about him being rich and handsome?

You answer your own.
What if she is Beyonce with the money of Paris Hilton will you still breakup with her?

2016easy2017:

THIS IS THE MOST TRUTHFUL ENTERTAINER I EVER SEEN,
MEN ARE HETERO....IN NATURE. THATS WHY ISLAM PREACHES POLYGAMY.
I KINDA AGREE WITH THE MUSLIMS.
SEE THOSE PASTORS WHO PREACH AGAINST THIS, WITH DAILY PROMISCUITY.
OYAKHI...
ABIO... OF COZA
ETC.
U READ MANY ON DAILY BASIS ON NAIRALAND

Do you even know what hetero means? It means being straight. Like being attracted to women if you're a man, and being attracted to men if you're a woman. Women are also hetero.

So I deduce you also support women committing adultery.

Abeg tell them,women will not like this.
Sleep with him mbanu,leave him noooooo
women are confuse

I weep for this generation of ladies, that a lady would say this unprintable words from her God Given Brain is a shame, in my days u can't try this, u just can't.......

MizMyColi:

Word of Life.

You know my sis, sometimes I pity these young girls who are constantly fed the lie that there is no way around bulls.hit. They are being fed the lie that they have to put up with cheating, hurt feelings and disrespect but it is not so. I once believed it too but it is not so. My mother told me at a very delicate age that if I didn't respect myself, nobody would. She said it once and I never forgot it but it took me years to understand the depth of this sentence. And until I have not learned to love and respect myself and put myself first, always, I was unable to have the relationship I was so yearning for. My mother's words were in the back of my mind all the time so I decided to follow her advice and once I got the profound meaning and put it into practice, I found the man that many ladies dream of. It all begins with us.

To all the baby girls out there, respect yourselves! The most important relationship you have, is the one with yourself. Once you get this relationship right, any other will fall into place.

Mindfulness:


Why do they go after the men? Why not buy condoms for the wife?
#nosarcasm

Female condoms are hardly ever used in Nigeria. It's like really very scarce to see a woman who use female condom.

Duru009:
The truth is bitter. .......... This is the truth!!!!

Gladiator1
tosyne2much
Gbemishile1
firstworld
ollah1
Perfectionist11

Nothing proves the fraudulent and inauthentic nature of Christianity more than when you see its followers in action.

As Pope Francis said "Its better to be an atheist than a hypocritical Christian"

Keep up the good work guys.

Mindfulness:


You know my sis, sometimes I pity these young girls who are constantly fed the lie that there is no way around bulls.hit. They are being fed the lie that they have to put up with cheating, hurt feelings and disrespect but it is not so. I once believed it too but it is not so. My mother told me at a very delicate age that if I didn't respect myself, nobody would. She said it once and I never forgot it but it took me years to understand the depth of this sentence. And until I have not learned to love and respect myself and put myself first, always, I was unable to have the relationship I was so yearning for. My mother's words were in the back of my mind all the time so I decided to follow her advice and once I got the profound meaning and put it into practice, I found the man that many ladies dream of. It all begins with us.

To all the baby girls out there, respect yourselves! The most important relationship you have, is the one with yourself. Once you get this relationship right, any other will fall into place.

One Hundred Thousand Billion Likes.

I hope such value exists

When a fool gives advice.

This lady was making sense o until a screw in her brain loosened...Berra stop referring to d Bible when u wanna vomit trash.. I dnt support cheating in marriage....my opinion is d married lady shud try nd work out her marriage,dnt quit on time....And as for d man dat wants t eat egusi tday nd afang tmrw,wehdone...u came to life to be eating.....keep tasting... What u are looking for, u will soon get it..#Real men stay with a lady nd makes her that he lusts/loves in other women

JoeBlocks:
Female condoms are hardly ever used in Nigeria. It's like really very scarce to see a woman who use female condom.

I wasn't talking about female condoms.

Zirah:
Exactly. This is one of the reasons I'm working my ass off to be financially independent. Any man that fcks with me fcks with himself.

That's the spirit girl...

MizMyColi:


One Hundred Thousand Billion Likes.

I hope such value exists

For some reason, you always make me reveal my sentimental, sensitive side ... in public!

Arrgh!

I do not even do it when I am alone.


Anyway, you are worth it a million times.

Longman6:


I would never cheat on a lady, but girl you sound bitter... someone must have broken your trust once and left you injured, i can sense it from your writing, if you ever want to have a peaceful relationship/marriage you should forgive that guy that has filled your heart with venom,... i know what am saying... you were once kind,,,,, now you are spiteful....

Well the society has carved a devil.. Don't blame me