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"judge not for you shall be judged"..

No need conversing with this one. You obviously are deficient in cerebral fluid. [quote author=Fessy09 post=54350356][/quote]

themonk:
"i have lived with my husband for the past 19years, if you are living with a person that is promiscous and adulterous, you will know"

Madam, in as much as i dont know whether your husband is guilty or not i would advice you to keep quiet cause nobody can fully know a person.
i have seen worse with pastors that ive know personally and there are even more popular men of GOD worldwide who have been caught in sex scandals and some even convicted for it.

And why should she be quiet about the issue?

Boss13:
Madam all is not well. Like you said, you don't do media coverage. If all is well, you won't do this. Madam, honestly I will be surprised if you say anything contrary to what you have said. However, just like you know your husband for 19years, you would also know that the allegations have some truth in it. Giving is not a sin and even if she was sponsored it is because there was some skeleton in your husband's cupboard.

Madam you are doing the right thing to be beside your husband. Stick to it. He needs your support. However, his response and your media release are not sufficient enough to disprove Stephanie testimony. At the moment, your husband has serious answers to give.

It's impossible to disprove a statement when there's no concrete evidence backing the statement, it's just an allegation aimed at destroying his reputation as it stands, when concrete evidence comes to light then you can say he's guilty, plus he doesn't answer to anybody, if not you trigger ready folks would shoot as you like all day.

Omudia11:
That's my problem with most Nigerian women. Keep quiet and let your husband prove otherwise first before going all defensive.

But if sheer were your wife or the wife of your beloved brother, you would expect her to rightly stand by you or your brother, right? Not doing so in his time of trouble will amount to her being an enemy within and, if eventually it turns out that the man is innocent, would you still live with her if she were your wife? What happens to 'innocent until proven guilty?'

Herrmes:
I don't really care about this stuff but can I just know why you feel he has to answer the questions? He has already exonerated himself, he's said he's not guilty, that is that, nothing matters anymore, It's left for the one doing tabling the accusations to prove he is guilty. That's how a court works not that twisted BS that's in your head albeit this being the court of public opinion.

I would have totally agreed with you but....


Do you know how many statements both official and unofficial he's released so far, yet you believe he has nothing to prove?


He has accused her of being an agent of boko haram and the APC govt, Is that ok too?


He has also labeled her a stripper and unattractive.. Yet you believe he has no questions to answer?


A court of public opinion you say? You should know that people will always have opinions in issues as such, you can't take that away and considering the controversial nature of the accused this was always gonna generate so much interest.

Omudia11:
This is why our society is in anachy. People rush to defend others without proper information. Has she been traveling with her husband or going everywhere with him to be sure he didn't do such? Has she been able to disprove the facts on ground? No! I maintain that she should have been silent.

I maintain that she must speak up and every married woman who can defend her man should do so. After all not every woman can boldly come near to defending their hubby. Most married ladies will rather tell you that the moment your husband leave your sight, he ceases to become only your husband . Knowing fully well what speaking in defense would eventually turn into. He is an educated woman and has the right to speak up. As a married couple they are one and one can not be excluded from the other.

About your point that our society is turning into anarchy because people rush to defend without proper information, the situation would have been more of a chaos if she refuses to talk. People would have insinuated that "She kept quiet because she cannot trust her husband". Secondly, in this case, they are not people, they are husband and wife, they are one.
I have witnessed a court proceeding where what saved an accused was the testimony of neighbours who testified to his quiet and humble life style before the judge.

Omudia11:
That's my problem with most Nigerian women. Keep quiet and let your husband prove otherwise first before going all defensive.

hnmm..Her marriage is different from yours which is not built on trust.

Hypothetical trust? The kind of trust women have in their husbands who cheat left, right and center?

kennyten10:
hnmm..Her marriage is different from yours which is not built on trust.

Story for the gods
Lady don't push us to the limit
Or we gonna start uploading our own.......
Better keep ya head down woman

There is no need for this at all Madam. You dont have to say anything, worst things have been said concerning well known pastors.

You shouldnt have released this video. It may be painful but its not necessary. Even though its true, you already have forgiven your husband and its non of anybody's business.

He is accountable to you alone and not anyone els, so i dontr see the reason for this video. With this drama is just beginning and how many videos will you do to quench it.

It has been well arranged and be prepared for more to come. just stick with your husband and pray.

But why all these no commot before the DSS saga, HMMMMMMM politics in this country.

O da ngbana, let the spirit of the Lord take charge

Am sorry for all of you look at how everybody is opining his or her here saying all source of nonsense here since 2015-2016 this case happen why it that she did not say anything, where is the pastor that they clam was collecting money since then,where is the account number that he have been sending money to.which hospital did she do the abortion?which court did she go to?the father should come openly to testify that marriage introduction was made to him.the course that lady is bringing upon her self both the lawyer and the guy my dear is only God that can serve them when the time comes

I have largely refrained from commenting on this issue but I guess st this point I'll bite.

While I sincerely admire this woman's intention to stand by her husband in these very trying times (for him at any rate), I think she should keep that support more private than public - at least for now. The story certainly has holes in it - but then the apostle has not satisfactorily disproved either so it could still swing either way and she wouldn't want to end up being the one with egg on her face.

As for being with him for 19 years - ma'am, that doesn't mean that much. We've heard of people who have been married for much longer only to end up killing the spouse that never saw it coming. Even the Bible says: "the heart of man is desperately wicked. Who can know it?". Well, not parents, not siblings or family who have been there all life long and, of course, not wife. Let your husband shame his accusers by addressing this issue properly ma and proving to us all that he has never had anything to hide. He's the only one that needs to know you're standing by him, not us, so keep the expression of faith private and stop giving bloggers easy news for the day.

As for knowing a cheating man, lol, madam, sure a lot of men may be careless with their " external affairs" but, trust me, there are those that you would never, ever have even the slightest idea about. Haven't you heard of men who kept second families outside only for them to surface at his death to surprise his oblivious wife? Don't be too certain about any human being that is not yourself; disappointment usually follows that.

All in all, I just hope the truth of this matter emerges. That's what matters.

Omudia11:
Hypothetical trust? The kind of trust women have in their husbands who cheat left, right and center?

And why is that your problem?

Didn't Hillary stood-by her Husband?

OBAGADAFFI:
And why should she be quiet about the issue?

cause nobody can fully know a person

RosaConsidine:
I have largely refrained from commenting on this issue but I guess st this point I'll bite.

While I sincerely admire this woman's intention to stand by her husband in these very trying times (for him at any rate), I think she should keep that support more private than public - at least for now. The story certainly has holes in it - but then the apostle has not satisfactorily disproved either so it could still swing either way and she wouldn't want to end up being the one with egg on her face.

As for being with him for 19 years - ma'am, that doesn't mean that much. We've heard of people who have been married for much longer only to end up killing the spouse that never saw it coming. Even the Bible says: "the heart of man is desperately wicked. Who can know it?". Well, not parents, not siblings or family who have been there all life long and, of course, not wife. Let your husband shame his accusers by addressing this issue properly ma and proving to us all that he has never had anything to hide. He's the only one that needs to know you're standing by him, not us, so keep the expression of faith private and stop giving bloggers easy news for the day.

As for knowing a cheating man, lol, madam, sure a lot of men may be careless with their " external affairs" but, trust me, there are those that you would never, ever have even the slightest idea about. Haven't you heard of men who kept second families outside only for them to surface at his death to surprise his oblivious wife? Don't be too certain about any human being that is not yourself; disappointment usually follows that.

All in all, I just hope the truth of this matter emerges. That's what matters.

Well, its her marriage, and she is sending a direct message to her FANs.

Its is expedient on the accuser to prove her accusations.

And what crime did Pastor commit in the first place.

Apostle Suleiman may be innocent or guilty,but all I know is that there's no smoke without fire.

Omudia11:
That's my problem with most Nigerian women. Keep quiet and let your husband prove otherwise first before going all defensive.

Like seriously, r u sure ur brain wasn't pressed with a hot iron?

Let this Man of God be. If he is from God all this media attack will fail and he will continue to shine brighter and brighter, but if he is not of God then he shall fail. I advise Nigerians not to be quick in judging Men of God. Politicians are looting us in this country yet none of you say things like this. He is a man of God, not God of God. Let him be please. I am not his church member for those wailers....

themonk:
cause nobody can fully know a person

Amongst all of us talking it is the wife that knows her better.

I am 100% sure most of us here only see him online.

Omudia11:
This is why our society is in anachy. People rush to defend others without proper information. Has she been traveling with her husband or going everywhere with him to be sure he didn't do such? Has she been able to disprove the facts on ground? No! I maintain that she should have been silent.

Omudia11,,,,, But what concrete evidence has she provided, And u claimed someone is defending without proper info,,,The man in question says He kwn nothing about it.So u want him to claim guilty of what he didn't do or what? Let's be less sentimental pls!! Though as 4 me too i trust nobody and for d wife she has all right to speak about d saga...Thanks

Nigerians are beginning to fight this man since He spoke on the Christian massacre in Nigeria. its like the media is planning to bring him down at all cost. one thing I know is that one with God is a majority.

Isn't this the same pastor Sule that predicted Gej will win the election and El rufai will never be governor

So he has been busy sucking bóobie.. No wonder

StainlessH:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHECy82NZXU&index=8&list=WL&t=80s

I love this family of God. I believe apostle Suleiman and I believe you ma. Be strong

OBAGADAFFI:
Amongst all of us talking it is the wife that know her better.

I am 100% sure most of us here only see him online.

so are you saying that pastors cannot cheat without the wife finding out, because it is his wife?
and it seems you know alot about their home behaviour, i hope you predicted pastor chris's marriage crash too.

Women been defending their husbands since the beginning of the world. I wish men would learn how to do same. Not in our gene though.

LatestAmebo2:
good one from the wife. she's got his back. see the leaked photos UNCENSORED COPY

What's wrong with u sef? Your blog get many ads I can't even view the topic

Watching this video, i can see this woman is in total pain. She was almost crying and kept repeating her words.

She is trying so hard to comport herself. I guess she might still be struggling on what is the truth.

However she is totally courageous. I admire her.

It is well. May only the truth prevail.

Please God unveil the truth. No human can unravel this, except GOD.

themonk:
so are you saying that pastors cannot cheat without the wife finding out, because it is his wife?
and it seems you know alot about their home behaviour, i hope you predicted pastor chris's marriage crash too.

And where did i say the Poster can't cheat or is not cheating on his wife?

The cheating problem is between both of them, and the wife got everyrigth to stand by her husband.

The last time i checked Hillary stood by her husband and he still completed his term as US president.

olapluto:
This is an all too familiar drama. Most pastors when caught seem to follow the same template. First they deny... then they try to blackmail the accuser...then they lie and lie.....they get their sheep to also lie and deny on their behalf....then the evidence gets overwhelming, and they shut up forever about the case.
We are on step 2 now. Apostle first denied. Then his spokesman tried to blackmail Stephanie with the ridiculous Boko Haram link. Now we are at the lie lie stage, and Apostle's wife, Stephanie's dad and Apostle's sheep are all waxing strong in their lies. Alfa Sule's wife can open her mouth to shout photoshop as if she has an idea what photoshop is. She's claiming to have read journalism and thus qualified to speak about photoshop.

I looked at that picture and it is as real a print out as you can get. It was obviously a long video chat, the video of which I believe is still very intact. Let the apostle and his sheep continue to lie. The next step is for Stephanie to release the video chat. Then they will label her the devil and stay silent in shame. Biodun of COZA followed the same template.

Don't mind them. If you use photoshop very well, you will know that's not cropping someone's else picture. How was the graphic designer able to to get compromising pictures of Suleiman? How about the skin colour? What about the expression when she displayed her nude pictures? I may agree that her picture may be cropped and inserted, but most pictures of Suleiman is him in pulpit. How did they get one with him having earphones on and smiling? The expression on the picture depicts one who is having a virtual conversation.