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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by PrincessKab: 12:56pm On Mar 08, 2017

The woman asked the HMs the opposite of consent, to show the the person isn't giving consent.
-Body language (flinching)
-Refusal (Outright/Subtle)
-Silence
-"I think we should just be friends" / "You're like a brother to me)
-Coersion

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Threebear(m): 12:58pm On Mar 08, 2017

Nice lesson from this Chinese lady.

A few points.

Silence is not consent.... You don't know their history whether they feel they can say no.

None resistance is not consent.

Dressing like a slut or behaving like one is not consent.

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by PrincessKab: 12:59pm On Mar 08, 2017*

Official(Not Consent)
-Silence or not responding
-Lack of physical resistance
-A coarse or pressured Yes
-Confused or unclear communication

-Drunk or drink
-Revealing dress

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Threebear(m): 12:59pm On Mar 08, 2017

Efe defines flinching and fails horribly, the woman asks for another definition. This guy is just a dundy. undecided

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by toseen7: 1:00pm On Mar 08, 2017

eleshin:
Read, smile, and scroll to the next page.

well said!

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:00pm On Mar 08, 2017

HOPE EFE IS LEARNING.. HE IS FOND OF FORCING MARVIS AND DEBIE RISE TO EITHER KISS OR HUG HIM...

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Threebear(m): 1:02pm On Mar 08, 2017

Akthedream112:
HOPE EFE IS LEARNING.. HE IS FOND OF FORCING MARVIS AND DEBIE RISE TO EITHER KISS OR HUG HIM...

True and with that herpes on his lips, am scared he might have infected them with it.

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:03pm On Mar 08, 2017

Threebear:
Efe defines flinching and fails horribly, the woman asks for another definition. This guy is just a dundy.

HE ASKED BISOLA WHAT TO SAY... BUT, SAID SOMETHING DIFFERENT..
I HOPE HE IS LEARNING THOUGH...
I DONT LIKE IT WHENEVER HE TRIES TO FORCE DEBIE RISE OR MARVIS TO KISS/HUG HIM..

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:09pm On Mar 08, 2017

All this Efe Efe rants here, you guys are only making the dude popular. Hate him or like him he's favoured already and nothing will change that. Marvis remains my fav though.

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by PrincessKab: 1:10pm On Mar 08, 2017

Possible non verbal signs of non-consent.

Direct eye contact
Closed tense body language
Turning away from someone
Avoiding touch
Whimpering or crying
Loose and open arms and legs
Looking sad or fearful
Open, relaxed body language(the other person will need to clarify)
Laughter and smiling(the person will need to clarify)
Tense facial expression (clarify)
Active body(clarify)
Initiating sexual activity
Etc

There are verbal and non-verbal consent, but one must be sure or clarify and not assume

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:12pm On Mar 08, 2017

SO WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO SEE THE VIDEO?
NOT FAIR OOO
BUT I UNDERSTAND..

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by fitzmayowa: 1:12pm On Mar 08, 2017

Kemen is about to be busted again..

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by PrincessKab: 1:12pm On Mar 08, 2017

They mentioned that something happened in the BB house(on Saturday/Sunday). And they wanna show the video now and that the audience will not see it, just to clear the air(I think Kemen's video).

Like I mentioned earlier and some people started flaring that I was misinforming. It was obviously cos of Kemen's issue, I hope they've confirmed now!

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:16pm On Mar 08, 2017*

PLS BRING YOUR WORKSHOP TO NIGERIA OO..
10 YRS MIGHT NOT BE ENOUGH SEF..

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Threebear(m): 1:17pm On Mar 08, 2017

Ekinematics:
All this Efe Efe rants here, you guys are only making the dude popular. Hate him or like him he's favoured already and nothing will change that. Marvis remains my fav though.

Broken record, we've heard that a gazillion times when will you realise we just don't give a Bleep.

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Misswang001(f): 1:18pm On Mar 08, 2017

This one only the housemates will see the video, I hope no editing was done to it angry

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Threebear(m): 1:19pm On Mar 08, 2017

Hopefully this shuts the useless stupid ugly bald headed marvis up. How dare she say kemen allowed himself to be used like someone set themselves out to be sexually molested.

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:21pm On Mar 08, 2017

Threebear:
Hopefully this shuts the useless stupid ugly bald headed marvis up. How dare she say kemen allowed himself to be used like someone set themselves out to be sexually molested.

THEY ARE ALL LEARNING NOW...
WE ARE LEARNING TOO..
KEMEN'S SUPPORTERS ARE PROBABLY LEARNING/WATCHING TOO

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Threebear(m): 1:21pm On Mar 08, 2017

Misswang001:
This one only the housemates will see the video, I hope no editing was done to it

Will editing add things that were not there or will it remove the ones that was there .Some people sha.

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by PrincessKab: 1:22pm On Mar 08, 2017

While they wait for the video to come up,

There's a pyramid of sexual violence, that it's not only rape that's involved, sexual ingenuity...
The pyramid starts with some attitudes/beliefs which can lead to sexism to invasion of space to unwanted physical touch to unwanted sexual touch to rape, then finally to death...

A Ninja comes in and is gone. Theyre watching the video now. The woman says it's for openness and not judging

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by jeffoski(m): 1:22pm On Mar 08, 2017

I have a feeling some of the HM might not see anything wrong in that tape and support Kemen and it might later cause Gobe

I feel for Tboss sha having to relive it all again. This lecturer might ask her questions now that might make her cry.

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:24pm On Mar 08, 2017

MARVIS..... TONY....

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Vivipop(f): 1:24pm On Mar 08, 2017

PrincessKab:
They'll be speaking for 4 hrs, so it's gonna be a long day. It'll be better you tune in or watch online, this one na long lecture and I can't update as much, may not be available all through, though there'll be 2 breaks in between, there'll be pizza though...

The HMs are asked to give a brief description of themselves by saying their name, describing their mood using the weather, and their dream/aspiration aside winning BB.
Bassey. 27. Wants to be an Aids broadcaster, aside being an Actor.
TBoss says she's 22, oh sorry, 32(She made a mistake). Her mood today is moody. She wants to have a TV show.
Bally, 28. His weather today is clear, in a good mood but nothing special. His dream is to win(Didn't hear the rest)
Marvis, 26. Rain + rainbow(Insatiable, Hot). Dream - Feeding people by making them comfortable, to make people around her happy.
TTT. 36. Rainy. (Didn't hear his', but I think it's about production)
Efe. All weather(Says he goes as it comes); though it's kinda Unclear cos he lost something special to him today-I think he's looking for his rosary, but says he's still cheerful. Want to be an inspiration to people, especially those that come from where he comes from, cos making it is difficult for people who come from there)
Bisola 31 sunny + cloudy. Mixed emotions. Dream - Learning how to become a good film producer and director.
Debie. sunny + rainy. Mixed feelings. Dream - to be able to win a Grammy award, want to give young girls a platform of being creative.

You are blessed amongst women my dear. Keep your cool and don't listen to those scumbags. They know nothing but their hate which will soon consume them. Thank you, HIWD!!!

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by fitzmayowa: 1:24pm On Mar 08, 2017

Threebear:
Hopefully this shuts the useless stupid ugly bald headed marvis up. How dare she say kemen allowed himself to be used like someone set themselves out to be sexually molested.

Marvis is just a candid definition of disappointment for making such statement during her DS...

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:24pm On Mar 08, 2017

MARVIS DONT WANT EM TO SHOW US...

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Threebear(m): 1:27pm On Mar 08, 2017

Why do I have a feeling this video will have a negative effect. Humans hate more than anything to be pushed in a particular direction, they will resist.
This might end up making things worse for T boss.

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:28pm On Mar 08, 2017

THANK YOU BISOLA.... KEMEN NAILED HIMSELF BY LOOKING AROUND TO BE SURE NOBODY WAS WATCHING...

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by guardsman: 1:29pm On Mar 08, 2017

d video shown & described by big brother to d HMs is d same one online.
Weak evidence by Biggie.
Stewpid f*cking Roma/Gypsy version of Delilah has ruined someone's career. Tbos ooouuuuutt!

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by fitzmayowa: 1:30pm On Mar 08, 2017

Akthedream112:
THANK YOU BISOLA.... KEMEN NAILED HIMSELF BY LOOKING AROUND TO BE SURE NOBODY WAS WATCHING...

That was the main cause of the outrage...

Kemen ruined himself, no sane person should be supporting kemen...

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Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by jeffoski(m): 1:31pm On Mar 08, 2017

Bisola, Bally and TTT thank you ooo so far they are not in support with what Kemen did.

Tboss fit cry again o I really feel for her right now.

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Nobody: 1:31pm On Mar 08, 2017

TONY, ALWAYS LEARN TO HEAT FROM BOTH SIDES BEFORE TAKING SIDES OR MAKING A JUDGEMENT

Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by PrincessKab: 1:31pm On Mar 08, 2017*

They're asked to speak in respect to that video...

Bisola says they are adults and everything that happens must have gone through a throught process, and they are all responsible for such actions. She feels what happened was a bad one..But if she was in the perpetrator's shoes, she would just take responsibility, apologise and make amends in life.

Bally says it's quite unfortunate cos they've been together for so long. He said looking at the pyramid, such action was just a step away from rape. That they should just reflect on what they saw and be better people.

TTT says it takes him to week one when they introduced themselves and now they are a family. He said from the video, what if there were no cameras around? If it was outside(not knowing the video is out already), it could lead to death. From the video, it looked as if Kemen wasn't sleeping all along.

The woman asks them to take deep breaths. Efe steps out to use the restroom

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