dharyor1234:


currently badagry for now at in-laws place, trying to sort out accommodation.

i can come meet you anywhere you want me to. thank you

Ok dear

Cc: sugah

Hey babe, can you pass on those items you mentioned to this mama? Thanks dear

dharyor1234:


currently badagry for now at in-laws place, trying to sort out accommodation.

i can come meet you anywhere you want me to. thank you

....

ToyosiR:
Good day to the pushing and vigilante mamas

How is the ministry going

Due to the newly registered mums in #TeamAugust, We hereby represent our list to you. Kindly notify if your name is not in the list.

Mzleemah Team x? LMP: Aug 23 AUA: AUG 20/27

Wishing us strength, power and all it takes to have a stress free pregnancy.
#TeamKiaKiaDelivery.... #TeamSupernaturalDelivery......

Some of us aint feeling the baby kicks yet. I think there is no cause for alarm cos no 2 pregnancy is the same.

Aye capo, i can't wait to feel baby kick and rock my bump, kudos for the job well done. I am team xy. I wish i can just have a scan machine at home so that i can see my lo every single day.

olamitie:
New comers don plenty o.*dance mOod*
March mamas hope una don de ja load, as for me i sleep and rest during the day for the task ahead at night
What can one use to relieve Sore TIPS
Secondly whats the benefit of using coconut oil for babies hair instead of the normal baby Oil? I want my baby to have full hair

You can use lanolin cream for the sore tips pele

It's safe for baby too

realdentist:
lots of ugwu, garden egg leaf, take ur small red tablets religiously as prescribed, take lots of fruits and vegetables. U'll b alright

thanks maami

Naomi14:
Eh! Why are you October mamas doing like this nau! Which one is October 13th? Are you sure it's not October 14th I want birthday mate o

let's see if I no port go September sef cos my son's EDD in 2015 was btw October 24-31st but he came October 10th at 37wks1day....bt dnt worry, October mamas still plenty dey come for road; still headbutting MS

Pweetiebabe:
Wow badagry? That's my base too hope u dey enjoy..I guess u be iyawo Egun like me

no, i am not iyawo egun....... they are just based here.

the place is very boring ooo

have you registered at government hospital, planned on doing same tomorrow..

feddy27:


Ok dear

Cc: sugah

Hey babe, can you pass on those items you mentioned to this mama? Thanks dear

Thank you

tiwatopebam:
March 2017 Roll call for June 2017 mamas

God has been so good to us, he started the journey with us and here we are six months plus to seven months now. I know by now, we know the sex of our babies. I checked mine last weekend and is a Boy, I always wanted a boy to be my first and God perfected it. I dnt know how to start my buying, everything looks so attractive and nice. Mamas pls suggest what to buy so that we new mamas can learn. Before I forget my edd has changed to 17th and I believe it will still changed.

Nobledeals -------------
tiwatopebam ------------. EDD June 27/ team XY
Suzzy4God --------------- EDD June 8
Orente21 -------------------
Ariegurl -------------------. EDD June 12
Toriella --------------------
BlossomedCherry ----. EDD June 27/16
Burticious --------------- EDD June 19
Iyomomoreloaded ----
OmoLayo29 -------------
Rollykotex ----------------
Chinweotito -------------
Benignasweety --------
Mofy1 -----------------------
Perfectcrown -----------
Oamronnie _ _ _.

Many of us have not submitted our EDD and our team, are you team XY or team XX
. For new mamas XY means boys and XX is for girls.
I pray for every mama that will give birth in this thread that we will give birth successfully, nobody knows how leaves falls on a tree nobody will the secret behind our births. We shall give birth like the Hebrew women, God will provide for all our needs, we shall all come out with our testimonies. June mama's no more loss, we will not record any death, both the fathers and mothers will be alive and sound. Oya June mama's come out and shout Amen. Love you all

Yeah able cappo, team June for no loss.
Pls my name was not included on the list ooo, ftm mum and June 19 is the edd, sex is yet to be known... Will update the sex when it reveal

Dazzle86:


Sexy foodie Mama. So na you be this. See as the low cut fit you.

Tnks boo ,dats me,d foodie mama!

Somebody please describe contractions. There's this sharp painful feeling that forces me to scream but doesn't last more than 2 seconds. It's more like a fleeting painful movement in my tummy. Happens like once a week or less, who else has been feeling that.

Naomi14:
Wow your bump is cute and big. Am 32weeks and some days but bump no even big.

,tnks love!Didnt even knw it was dat big n am still walking up-right,no waddling at all!

Rhemy2013:


Omg ur bump really fit u ooh ,make my belle seff chok out like dis.

Oh love,u just made me blush! ,tnks so much 4 d compliment!

Giddyperson:

Wow your bump is bigger than mine but my bumbum is bigger than yours . That your low cut is what is hungrying me now

,dey dere d dream!My bumbum is sure bigger dan urs or u want a pic of d back side !Hope say u no wan port oh,dis one wey u d talk contraction,no go anywhere oh

Sansa143:
,dey dere d dream!My bumbum is sure bigger dan urs or u want a pic of d back side !Hope say u no wan port oh,dis one wey u d talk contraction,no go anywhere oh

Lol I must reach that due date o, even tho I'm extremely tired. I don't want to port anywhere. I don't know if it's cuz I ate sweet potato, my baby is practicing acrobatic display.

queensnow:
it will pass with time ms is normal just make sure she takes plenty fluid and fruits

ok thanks ma'm

Liftedhands:
Thank God she still has appetite for something, let her be it will pass soon. However be ready to go and get her party jollof rice at 2 am when the cravings hit big!

ok thanks ma'm

Good evening

Where are my teamie?

TeamMay for the win!!!!!!!

Sweet supernatural delivery to us all.

My honorable cappo I greet oooo.

Safe delivery to all expectant mothers.

Love yah!!!!!

You are welcome to Team sharp sharp supernatural painless delivery

chinweotito:


pls ma, i have registered oo maybe u skipped it. bt make i register again.

I'd formally like to be registered in team JUNE; EDD june 12/6 gender is XY. Hope am welcome to d team??

Knock knock!

*Looking for familiar faces*

I greet you back! Long time! Abi you still dey experience MS? I don mention you tire. Abeg come and update lo's gender eh! like play like play, May is almost here

ftmum:
Good evening

Where are my teamie?

TeamMay for the win!!!!!!!

Sweet supernatural delivery to us all.

My honorable cappo I greet oooo.

Safe delivery to all expectant mothers.

Love yah!!!!!

crystalzoe:
BS iii
BS i and ii is on page 2848
In d labour ward I took a warm bath and was given a bed. Thru d nyt I slept fitfully with contractions waking me up at intervals. My bp and baby's heart beat was checked regularly. By 5 am a resident doctor came to check and I was still 4cm chai! She broke my water and set up drip. By 6am my consultant came in and scolded d resident DAT she shld have introduced Oxytocin when d drip was set up. My bp went up wen I heard oxytocin cos I had read on this thread abt it. It was inserted in d drip and by 8am I had had enuf. I climbed down from d bed I told d nurses to remove it that I wanted CS. I was told firmly to climb back I no gree oh at this point I was stack naked in front student doctors and nurses. At a point the drip came off my hand blood everywhere d nurses got angry at this point and said it seems I wanted to be in labor all day. Na so I begin speak English" I am not a difficult person but I know my capability I can't take this anymore the pain is too much".nurse just yimu.some of d students began to plead with me to cooperate but I just cldnt. Lying down was like my waist was being sawn in two by 9:10 am I was forced to lie down and I started screaming" oxytocin ooohh!! Its demonic oohh! Nurse ehhh pls remove it I won't be difficult I will lie down. Then suddenly I had this urge to poo. I told her I feel like pooling she didn't believe me at first but cos three hrs ago I was just 4cm. But another midwife asked her to check me behold I was fully dilated. Everyone began to hurriedly move my things to d delivery room and with three pushes and not a single tear my 3kg baby came out into this world!
I am eternally grateful to God for the privilege of being a mother despite d challenges of pregnancy I will gladly do it again to see my sons face.
Thanks to mamas who share their experiences on this thread I was greatly encouraged by them
iomoge2
zaynie
rofemiguwa
anak123
Britneystacy
and a lot of others

Congrats.may this blessing bring forth more good things to ur home

Giddyperson:

Lol I must reach that due date o, even tho I'm extremely tired. I don't want to port anywhere. I don't know if it's cuz I ate sweet potato, my baby is practicing acrobatic display.

My dear,dat acrobatic display has passed bcareful!He doesn't consider time or place 4 d display,he just dos his display!Market,car,bank,anywhere e no concern am n is glaring!

angeltolly:




I still believe there is no difference between you staying alone (especially with good neighbors who can easily help you out in case of anything) and you staying with some in-laws who care less about you and your condition. What is the essence of staying with them in the first place If not to cure loneliness and help you if you suddenly fall into labour. But now the reverse is the case with them. How are you sure if you fall in labour there, they will help you out on time. Am not sure they really want you in their house. Else they should have been more accommodating and caring. My thoughts tho...... I may be wrong.

All in all, make yourself happy and don't stress yourself. It is well with you

hmmm my sister , the case is just has you have described . may God help.me in their hands , hubby is coming today and I don't know if I should tell him that I wasn't given breakfast and lunch yesterday( it's getting worse) I don't want wahala really

babythug:


Babe cut the lady some slack! We aren't all the same and perhaps she is being careful so as not to offend you. You know we women are complex! If she asks about your tummy and is suggesting this or that you( speaking metaphorically here) may term it as prying or trying to control you for eg!

She may have her own issues she's dealing with at the moment and as Blunt as this may sound she may not be happy to have you in her house. She too may like her privacy.

My suggestions are that you go with the flow. Put some random snacks biscuits, cereals etc in your room for when the general household isn't eating like they may not cook lunch daily for eg.

Source your hospitals and medical needs ( for lack of a better expression) yourself. Use google and this forum to enquired about hospitals for eg. Don't expect her or her children to drive you anywhere if they offer fine if not enter bus or taxi.

Minimize your expectations and try to blend in as much as you can. Make polite conversation about general subjects and help out where you can. Join her when she's making meals and ask what you can do to assist generally.

This too shall pass

Thanks for the advice .
I am not a lazy ass , I wake up each day to wash with her daughter and do some other stuffs , yet I am not appreciated . I don't bulge into pple space , I chat with her when necessary ( even though I do the chatting) .

yesterday she got a little bit dizzy while I was in my room , she asked someone to go get an outsider to help her . I don't know what the outsider could have seen to make rude indirect comments about the situation of the house as if I made her sick . I felt so ashamed that I just locked up until everything died down . I went out to greet she and the woman and the woman happened to be someone that I knew and used to like me but when she would reply , she replied like I wasn't even present .

infact I am tensed up ; everyday she insults her children and I kinda thinking it's not just about them alone ...,.....
my sister , I have dealt with a lot of pple and I know when I am simply wrong

firstpregnancy:




hmmm my sister , the case is just has you have described . may God help.me in their hands , hubby is coming today and I don't know if I should tell him that I wasn't given breakfast and lunch yesterday( it's getting worse) I don't want wahala really

Wait till he comes and then see if their reaction will change to you because of your husband presence. They might wanna be nice in his presence then I suggest you talk to him about your fears maturely with him. How you are happier staying alone than staying with them. He might want to reconsider you going back home. But it's important you tell him he shouldn't confront or use that to behave to them because it might get worse if you still have to stay their after all.


Also, I will advise you try to get closer to them in your own way. Go sit with them when they are talking instead of isolating yourself in the room. Play with the children as much as you can, join them in non-stressful house works. Who knows...... They might have their lovely side after all.

However, if the ill treatment persist after doing all these........ Hmmm........ Contact your legs and go back to where you can enjoy your sanity and freedom

Giddyperson:
Somebody please describe contractions. There's this sharp painful feeling that forces me to scream but doesn't last more than 2 seconds. It's more like a fleeting painful movement in my tummy. Happens like once a week or less, who else has been feeling that.

My able cappo no port o, I think I felt it too like 2ce, am 34weeks+2 days now I no even wan port go anywhere it must be April o, my concern now is that my baby is yet to take the cephalic position been in transverse position for a while now.

Why won't you tell him? Abeg make sure you tell am o! All this attitude that they are showing you, it's very clear that you are not welcomed. Abi you or hubby don offend her before without you pipo knowing? If it's me sha, 2days is enough! I don pack my load go back my house. Mamas have told you, get taxi number that can pick u up when labour starts. At least on your street you must have one friend that can be there for you.

firstpregnancy:




hmmm my sister , the case is just has you have described . may God help. me in their hands , hubby is coming today and I don't know if I should tell him that I wasn't given breakfast and lunch yesterday( it's getting worse) I don't want wahala really

Stop worrying! Time still dey for baby to take the cephalic position. If you are so worried, speak to him/her and pray before u know position don change to what u want.

Titony1:
My able cappo no port o, I think I felt it too like 2ce, am 34weeks+2 days now I no even wan port go anywhere it must be April o, my concern now is that my baby is yet to take the cephalic position been in transverse position for a while now.

UmmTwins2:

let's see if I no port go September sef cos my son's EDD in 2015 was btw October 24-31st but he came October 10th at 37wks1day....bt dnt worry, October mamas still plenty dey come for road; still headbutting MS

Mama porting is nt allowed o,but we will come porters from September and some November mamas

Naomi14:
Stop worrying! Time still dey for baby to take the cephalic position. If you are so worried, speak to him/her and pray before u know position don change to what u want.

Thanks sis, am praying n speaking to d baby as well, don't know why am just so worried. Maybe its 'cos d doctor already told me if d position doesn't change by 38 weeks its CS straight away, for dis kind recession n i use a private hospital d HMO doesn't cover CS. It is settled by God's grace.

firstpregnancy:




Thanks for the advice .
I am not a lazy ass , I wake up each day to wash with her daughter and do some other stuffs , yet I am not appreciated . I don't bulge into pple space , I chat with her when necessary ( even though I do the chatting) .

yesterday she got a little bit dizzy while I was in my room , she asked someone to go get an outsider to help her . I don't know what the outsider could have seen to make rude indirect comments about the situation of the house as if I made her sick . I felt so ashamed that I just locked up until everything died down . I went out to greet she and the woman and the woman happened to be someone that I knew and used to like me but when she would reply , she replied like I wasn't even present .

infact I am tensed up ; everyday she insults her children and I kinda thinking it's not just about them alone ...,.....
my sister , I have dealt with a lot of pple and I know when I am simply wrong

Most of the mama's here have said it all, I still believe you are better off staying in your house than with dem, if you have good neighbours around n just as earlier said get a taxi driver's no n be strong yourself. Am always alone too most times 'cos of hubby's kind of work but am coping fine. All will be well in Jesus name.