Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Fourwinds: 5:55am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Twaci: O_o
Lemme read again.
*modified*
Well that's a looonnnngggg read.
So what you are trying to say is; we should learn to forget/forgive/ignore when our man cheat. We should actually expect it (putting in mind they are imperfect and all).
And that men should learn how to cover up like grandpa did? Out of love, you say?
Did I read this article well? Twaci....hahahahahahaaa... I'm coming for u.... |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by AfroSamurai: 5:55am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Lawlahdey. Nice thread. I understand perfectly what you meant. It's just simple, "what you don't know is greater than you". 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by emusbyz(m): 6:00am On Mar 10, 2017 |
There are guys who stay faithful to themselves eyt have no girlfriend nor married. So this OP is talking from the point that probably she is heart broken and accepted her faith and a truth that men will always cheat. But that's a fat lie from the pit of hell. Every rlship has their challenges and every challenge is meant to be overcome and conquered. For the guys out there, if you ever want to be faithful, do not stay faithful because you have a wife or a gf out there, stay faithful because you are a good person and cheating is not in your personality. There are a lot to say, but lemme pause here... 4 Likes |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by AfroSamurai: 6:01am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Many relationships are out there with faithful men that only see one woman Please ladies don't lower your bar if he cheats and you feel you can't live with one go . Never ever condone rubbish Your life deserves happiness and a good man ! Yes no one is perfect but let the imperfections not be unfaithfulness ..
If its guys and lady cheats in marriage hope they will keep her too Nigerian men hardly divorce their wives because she cheated. I know some who are still married to women who cheated on them. At the bolded. I'm curious, what if that imperfection is laziness, in bed? Are you willing to be married to a man who can't perform, yet he's faithful to you, doesn't cheat or even physically or emotionally abuse you? |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Taiwo20(m): 6:06am On Mar 10, 2017 |
People don't like the truth, I am a factual person and love factual people. This epistle according to miss lawlardey is not an endorsement of polygamy or unfaithfulness. I was taught essay writing. This may simple comprehension 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by doncossy: 6:07am On Mar 10, 2017 |
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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Taiwo20(m): 6:07am On Mar 10, 2017 |
People don't like the truth, I am a factual person and love factual people. This epistle according to miss lawlardey is not an endorsement of polygamy or unfaithfulness, infidelity . I was taught essay writing. This may simple comprehension |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by rinzylee(m): 6:08am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Lies from the pit of hell. God designed marriage to be beautiful and people have been enjoying beautiful marriages devoid of unfaithfulness. Stop coming here to tell us what you have planned to do in your own marriage OP. I will not cheat on my wife and every cheat is hell bound. Just shut up if you don't have worthy examples of marriage to give us.
Go and find a real godly marriage where Christ is at the center and bring for case study.
My parents are 35years in marriage and not one day of scandal or suspicion.
Go and find the Bible model and follow.
There is no excuse for unfaithfulness in marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 6:10am On Mar 10, 2017 |
emusbyz: There are guys who stay faithful to themselves eyt have no girlfriend nor married. So this OP is talking from the point that probably she is heart broken and accepted her faith and a truth that men will always cheat. But that's a fat lie from the pit of hell. Every rlship has their challenges and every challenge is meant to be overcome and conquered. For the guys out there, if you ever want to be faithful, do not stay faithful because you have a wife or a gf out there, stay faithful because you are a good person and cheating is not in your personality. There are a lot to say, but lemme pause here... You must be a good boy. Thumbs up bro! But are u married? Just asking. |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 6:11am On Mar 10, 2017 |
rinzylee: Lies from the pit of hell. God designed marriage to be beautiful and people have been enjoying beautiful marriages devoid of unfaithfulness. Stop coming here to tell us what you have planned to do in your own marriage OP. I will not cheat on my wife and every cheat is hell bound. Just shut up if you don't have worthy examples of marriage to give us.
Go and find a real godly marriage where Christ is at the center and bring for case study.
My parents are 35years in marriage and not one day of scandal or suspicion.
Go and find the Bible model and follow.
There is no excuse for unfaithfulness in marriage. Young man.. It's a long journey ahead. Godspeed go with u. I wish u all the best. 1 Like |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Dione007(m): 6:12am On Mar 10, 2017 |
When y'all marry, I can most assuredly promise you, you will remember this thread 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by bibijay123(f): 6:13am On Mar 10, 2017 |
veekid: but I'm not gonna cheat on you, you know? Lol then I will break ur head 1 Like |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by amiibaby(f): 6:13am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Meaning.......... its not true ooo Lawlahdey: Meaning? |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 6:14am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Taiwo20: People don't like the truth, I am a factual person and love factual people. This epistle according to miss lawlardey is not an endorsement of polygamy or unfaithfulness, infidelity . I was taught essay writing. This may simple comprehension Kai! What a response. I like the honesty of it. Too much religion and self righteousness screwing up the world nowadays. Truth is we don't really know how 2moro will be.. We can only hope alot of us men don't end up eating our words. 4 Likes |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 6:15am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Dione007: When y'all marry, I can most assuredly promise you, you will remember this thread Hahaha Tell them.. Especially them boys. |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by stuntman007: 6:20am On Mar 10, 2017 |
I disagree with the op with the notion that all men cheats and it is natural to do so. |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by dan2090: 6:21am On Mar 10, 2017 |
U'll have to get to a new planet to see that perfect Man. Let's be frank, with all the cougars there? They will still avail themselves even when the man tries to look away |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by vague: 6:22am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.
Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.
There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids. The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).
Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret. So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall. She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.
Now to the koko oro..
It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.
You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??
You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble?? See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.
You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".
You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?
You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?
Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??
Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man. If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?
I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it. Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them. STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.
And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.
Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.
Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.
PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.
I am asuming you are one of those social media freaks that believe that curves and beauty is all there is to a woman. Obviously, your life begins and ends with what happens on social media judging by the examples you have given. Don't worry, one day you will grow up and discover that there are grown men out there(even if they are not found on every corner)who understand something called, 'having self-control'. Understand that no one is perfect, but doesn't mean you should lose your self-worth while you are at it. Aunty, you will not be the first to be buried after dying from HIV. More than 60% of the adults living with HIV now got it from someone very close to them. Don't cry foul when you start enjoying the fruits of his unfaithfulness, shebi he would have kept his cheating escapades away from you? 4 Likes |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by MizTyna(f): 6:22am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Ms Lawlahdey, the fact that you spelled your name that way should have told me not to take you serious but you're on front page so here goes. I think you've been around too many randy male models, brothers, uncle, friends, father, etc. But let me tell you today for free, not all men cheat. Not even up to 80%. There are lots of men out there who are loyal and faithful and darling, you deserve that kind of man. Don't lower your bar because of this erroneous belief, I did it once and suffered it. Now I raised my bar and because this man loves me, we'll be taking our relationship further soon. All the best
Twaci, bumbae, kimbra I see your efforts in trying to correct this lady and politely too. It is sad that it is we women trying to enable those dogs who call themselves men. Real men don't cheat. I'm sure the poster knows better now. Have a wonderful day ladies! 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by hucienda: 6:27am On Mar 10, 2017 |
The first page tho.
Thank you nairaland for bringing to the open how women 'discuss' amongst themselves.
Looking to the day ladies here will colonise the first page of a thread on politics section ... |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by IBROHIM: 6:30am On Mar 10, 2017 |
kimbra: Stop advising ladies to embrace polygamy. Are you a Christian or Muslim?...my religion doesn't support what you're encouraging.
Girls like you would cry hell when your man cheats!. Funny write-up!. this is not about polygamy my dear! You know the lady is right! Show me even where the Bible kicks against polygamy. And Pls don't start quoting " a man will leave his father............." because he can repeat that many times! 1 Like |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by soath(m): 6:30am On Mar 10, 2017 |
nikkypearl: Se na me go read diz epistle
Hian Common don't be lazy. |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by ndiko: 6:32am On Mar 10, 2017 |
If a man cheats n u think it's d worst sin, so u can't cope with it then Split. If u think that's d solution. I am not supporting men who cheats.
Factor of safety: every woman should expect that from a man you would be safer if u make sure he protects himself while "surfing".
If he protects himself, Hides it from u & others, Respects and shows love to u always, Doesn't get d other lady pregnant, Isn't a chronic cheat.
Why kill urself? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nwachukwu1986(m): 6:37am On Mar 10, 2017 |
op nice write up but i totally disagree with you when you said only 10percentage of men can claim faithfulness , is demonic to cheat. my advise to ladies if ur man cheats on u cheat on him back period. dont quote me |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by ericmor: 6:45am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: You only assume that i have been through numerous heartbreaks but i haven't suffered heartbreak in the real sense of it. Your write up is real but you forgot to write that there are still faithful men n women out there that only stick to their husband n wife after marriage. We not the same 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by ericmor: 6:48am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Nwachukwu1986: op nice write up but i totally disagree with you when you said only 10percentage of men can claim faithfulness , is demonic to cheat. my advise to ladies if ur man cheats on u cheat on him back period. dont quote me That's a bad one. Revenge in a sin |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 6:49am On Mar 10, 2017 |
kimbra: Ma'am don't force what you think or assume to be true on us "ladies".
Buy condoms for your husband and when he brings home a second wife quietly open the doors to your home for her just because you think all men have the tendency to cheat. You need to know the mind of a man before you can think like a man. A man is programmed to cheat by default even if he loves his wife but it takes some certain stuff for him to be able to commit to the promise of fidelity he made with his wife. I am a man and i can tell you that a man can have 100% love for his wife and still cheats on her. It is just the way a man is made by default; selfish, greedy, insatiable and irrational in his needs. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by micxwell(m): 6:50am On Mar 10, 2017 |
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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Haddock(m): 6:51am On Mar 10, 2017 |
TrapHedges: Akuko mike eji agha
Yes, jigbi jigbi jagba gogun gaga ki ki LA gmhjtf fhhj ghofu lakemfa!!!!!! |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by 2shur: 6:55am On Mar 10, 2017 |
My long time bich be cheating on me like steady. Idgaf cause im a yung niggi with a bright future plus I'm healthy. Never met a bich whose faithful. Theyd be acting all disgraceful I kno u dont love me..bich never stayed humble Neva cared for one dude. So fuc it bich and fuc u. Bitches aint loyal |
Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by veraiyke(m): 6:57am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.
Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.
There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids. The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).
Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret. So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall. She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.
Now to the koko oro..
It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.
You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??
You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble?? See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.
You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".
You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?
You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?
Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??
Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man. If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?
I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it. Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them. STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.
And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.
Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.
Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.
PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face. I am a man and we make generalisations when we say men can't be faithful. Men can. Its about character, personality and will. The urge and thoughts come but I chose to do otherwise as hard as it may be
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