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MizTyna:
Ms Lawlahdey, the fact that you spelled your name that way should have told me not to take you serious but you're on front page so here goes. I think you've been around too many randy male models, brothers, uncle, friends, father, etc. But let me tell you today for free, not all men cheat. Not even up to 80%. There are lots of men out there who are loyal and faithful and darling, you deserve that kind of man. Don't lower your bar because of this erroneous belief, I did it once and suffered it. Now I raised my bar and because this man loves me, we'll be taking our relationship further soon. All the best

Tw.aci, bu.mbae, kim.bra I see your efforts in trying to correct this lady and politely too. It is sad that it is we women trying to enable those dogs who call themselves men. Real men don't cheat. I'm sure the poster knows better now. Have a wonderful day ladies!

MizTyna

xcllaxix:
Terror squad..see dem.. Wey dey divide piece of meat from pot like red sea.. To maintain the count so malee no go find out.. God don catch u today..

I don't do that.

This thread is obviously aimed at encouraging infidelity among men. It's either the op is a guy hidding under the female handle or a lady who is currently trying to endure an unfaithful relationship. The post makes it seem as though men cannot stay faithful to one partner. Though a guy, i am allergic to lies and i must say that this post is a lie from the pit of hell.

Principled MEN do not cheat! This is because they understand that life is not about frolicking with different women. They know that cheating will expose them to health risks and also, unnecessary financial burdens to the detriment of their wives and children.

As far as i am concerned, a man that really loves his wife and family will not cheat.

So, op i don't know what you aim to achieve with this fallacious post, but what i know is that cheating is the height of irresponsibity and mr churchill is an irresponsible man.

VivJohn:
Make e no taya u my fine sister. Like I said earlier.. We didn't invent cheating we all came and met it. The polygamous instinct resides in all of us (both male and female alike). Societal taboos suppress the ladies from freely indulging however the male folks are in a way permitted. But read my earlier submission to get more insight before u begin dey fire me.

Ehen? good morning oo.

boomssey:
I don't know why i feel the op is right.

Probably you have been there before.

kimbra:
She's the one lying to herself. My Dad was never promiscuous and I know his likes are out there.

ooh pls u cant be so sure.

I may not be able to totally vouch for myself but there are several men I know who don't cheat and the truth is I can vouch for them with my head on a plate. I don't know what experiences have damaged your perceptions so badly but d truth is women like u r actually d reasons marriages are crashing. U don't even have d capacity to love committedly in d first place because of ur permanent suspicions.

kimbra:
Stop advising ladies to embrace polygamy. Are you a Christian or Muslim?...my religion doesn't support what you're encouraging.

Girls like you would cry hell when your man cheats!. Funny write-up!.

your religion doesn't support polygamy but it supports formication abi?


Cc: lawlahdey, twaci, bumbae1

Haddock:
Yes, jigbi jigbi jagba gogun gaga ki ki LA gmhjtf fhhj ghofu lakemfa!!!!!!

tf is tat ?

Alesandese:
The lady is right to some extent.

Show me a Man who is committed and faithful and I will show you a Man who has gained control over Temptations, Sexual urges, Lust, Greediness and Indiscipline.

The question is:

Have all men been able to achieve this? No

Are all men weak ? Hell No!


We should encourage men to be faithful, we should help/ chastise them to remain committed to a lady. We shouldn't accept what is not right because we think there is nothing we can do about it.


You shouldn't encourage what is not good because you are afraid to fight it. If you do it will come back to bite you

wow! you took these words pit of my mouth! seriously. that's exactly what I have been yearning to say. You ladies are gradually giving guys the rights to cheat. Seriously, we have faithful men here and there. Why can't others be too?

BWare:
[color=teal]You know, you can't really convince everyone that smoking is bad for their health and even though some know deep down it's bad, they'll still smoke [/color]

You are right, hon.
That's why i used the topic i used.
It's well.

ipledge10:
Bae ko, Bello ni

Darling

This is very funny, while all the girl are bashing the op, the guys are saying she have valid point.

Op u are so on point. Though not openly admitted, I must confess that as a married man, and holy ghost filled, I have this strong pull to secretly indulge. What holds me back is d unknown.
Why do I feel this strong sexual desire for some lady's?
And why am I so sexually desired by these ladies who know that I am married but are ready to throw caution to d wind and indulge with me ?
We have read d BIBLE and know how GOD frowns at adultery and what awaits them after death, yes we know but then ...... Why do I feel this way ? I don't like it. I know my faithfulness to my wife is seriously challenged. I am a time bomb waiting to explode.
Married men and women here, is this normal or something is just wrong with me .?

Jman06:
This thread is obviously aimed at encouraging infidelity among men. It's either the op is a guy hidding under the female handle or a lady who is currently trying to endure an unfaithful relationship. The post makes it seem as though men cannot stay faithful to one partner. Though a guy, i am allergic to lies and i must say that this post is a lie from the pit of hell.

Principled MEN do not cheat! This is because they understand that life is not about frolicking with different women. They know that cheating will expose them to health risks and also, unnecessary financial burdens to the detriment of their wives and children.

As far as i am concerned, a man that really loves his wife and family will not cheat.

So, op i don't know what you aim to achieve with this fallacious post, but what i know is that cheating is the height of irresponsibity and mr churchill is an irresponsible man.

This post borders more around the sexual aspect.. as a guy, how confident are you that when you get married, you won't have sex with any other woman apart from your wife?

L0velyn:
ezigbo nmadu

Ezigbo mmadu...not nmadu..

U tried tho

cr7lomo:
Then ur dad must be a poor man cos every rich man cheats

I would love to listen to ur reasons why u think so...

refiner:
Ezigbo mmadu...not nmadu..
U tried tho

u forgot me okwaya

agrovick:
So what's your deal breaker with a cheating husband?

I will leave If i can't condone.

I admire your courage but who wants suffer and be content with sharing one man when you can have your own fully dedicated to you loving you and saving his energy for his children

Who wants their destiny tied to someone else because we Bleep the same mind ...blessings are tied to God and the people you choose to be around you

Who wants to be pushing wheelchair when we are supposed to be retired and exploring the world

Yes men mess up but that's the point your not supposed to keep living in that mess and we women too we change don't live in sin and encourage others to follow you simple

I admire tonto and church until emotions came in trust am emotional too but we learn from our mistakes don't write them off I personally felt the insult when the babe got the same car her son did

Sorry o if Angelina can leave Brad everybody get limit

There are men who can stay faithful. I know one. I'm loved by one. been wooed by him. but I just can't love him, I've tried but I can't.

it's my prayer that he finds a good woman who would value, love & respect him.

Meanwhile all other men I know cheat. I know one who says, the reason why I'm not in a relationship is because I don't want to cheat- but the mumu sleeps around.


Finally, no one should be encouraged to lower their standards or accommodate infidelity. but if he cheats while you're dating, (regardless of how he promises to stop) he will cheat while married.

Now, if Nigerian women divorced their husbands because of infidelity, I don't think there would be any married couple left in this country.

Jflex07:
In as much as I feel you have a point, I don't think it's a yardstick for judging Everyman ,there are still faithful husbands whether you believe it or not, all men are not cheats,even though I know that cheating has been the major problem in modern day marriage, I would advice you do away with such mindset

See.. I didn't say all men cheat.

Fourwinds:
Twaci....hahahahahahaaa... I'm coming for u....

What I do?

TrapHedges:
u forgot me okwaya

Why should i...i mentioned u in some other thread but u ignored,so i felt i was disturbing u

MizTyna:
Ms Lawlahdey,the fact that you spelled your name that way should have told me not to take you serious but you're on front page so here goes. I think you've been around too many randy male models, brothers, uncle, friends, father, etc. But let me tell you today for free, not all men cheat. Not even up to 80%. There are lots of men out there who are loyal and faithful and darling, you deserve that kind of man. Don't lower your bar because of this erroneous belief, I did it once and suffered it. Now I raised my bar and because this man loves me, we'll be taking our relationship further soon. All the best

Twaci, bumbae, kimbra I see your efforts in trying to correct this lady and politely too. It is sad that it is we women trying to enable those dogs who call themselves men. Real men don't cheat. I'm sure the poster knows better now. Have a wonderful day ladies!

And you spelt MissTina as Miztyna...

Next time remove the stick in your eyes b4 u remove dat of others...

blacktallest:
The sooner ladies start understanding that 90% men are polygamous in nature, the better. Like my uncle , a retired general once told me and I quote " my dear, we men are like bees. We like to pollinate, tasting every flower that comes our way but at the end of the day, we find our way back to the mother flower, the main flower" end of quote.
The sooner we get to understand this, the better oooh. Our life span go increase. Just one golden rule to the men. DO NOT GET CAUGHT. What you don't know, can't kill you.

Bless you, sister

Lawlahdey:
I will leave If i can't condone.

lawlahdey its alright... U are thinking every man will cheat and that's not good.. Although presently, we know that we have the tendency to cheat and we accept it but sometimes, some of us acknowledge that there comes a time in our lives where we just want to concentrate only on our wife and children..

U shouldn't be forcing all guys to key in to ur perception about them..

Lawlahdey:
I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.

Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.

There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids.
The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).

Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret.
So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall.
She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.

Now to the koko oro..

It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.

You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??

You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble??
See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.

You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".

You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?

You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?

Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??

Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man.
If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?

I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it.
Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them.
STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.

And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.

Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.

Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.

PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.

a human dat uses her environment to learn is very wise. If i marry beyonce i MUST cheat. You are very wise, with such wisdom you wil always remain happy

specialzobo:
And you spelt MissTina as Miztyna...

Next time remove the stick in your eyes b4 u remove dat of others...

lol some girls just want to be relevant in the society.. U won't blame them

Lawlahdey, it is girls like you I date. So that when I go cheating, you will have explanations for it. Thanks jare!

tosyne2much:
This is one of the realistic articles I have read a long time and I don't know why some many ladies are throwing shades at the OP.. Even though this article will aggravate and boost the morale of men to cheat more on their women, I still of the opinion that the OP said the truth which many ladies will not want to hear.

The truth is, when I was still very much young, I used to be so worried and bothered about my gf having other suitors, but now, I've grown to understand that the notion that every lady is barely completely faithful even when in relationship will only lessen your grasps on the worry about your gf cheating on you.

However, some guys are even aware that their girlfriends have side boyfriends but some of them will overlook it and play their game tight in order to completely win her over while the insecure ones will be wrestling and engaging in physical combat with those flirting with their girlfriends

As for men, whether you agree or not, only a fraction of men don't cheat in marriages (let's say 20%). However, I agree with the OP that promiscuity is in the DNA of men and nothing can change that (maybe it's because nature place emphasis on unfaithful men)

In a nutshell, I'm inclined to agree with the OP that no man is completely faithful to his wife except a fraction of them. This isn't about encouraging men to cheat, it's about REALITY

To each his own opinion

See.. This is someone that actually comprehends my post. Bless you.

Twaci:
What I do?

i love dat ur romantic write up you are incredible