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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by ZoneBslayer(m): 9:24am On Mar 10, 2017*

placeofallure:
Lawlahdey, throughout all the period I was doing the dating game, No man ever broke my heart. That means the guys I dated were not demons. I am married now and I can jump the gun for my husband, he can't and won't cheat. He is a good man. Many men may be cheaters, we still have the good ones too..

chaii..such unwavering trust...my colleague's wife Also says the same thing..but we his friends know better.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:25am On Mar 10, 2017

iLegend:
Honestly, I only read the OP's post, Tosyne's reply and yours. I don't want to argue with anyone. The truth hurts and no one likes it, including myself. Obasanjo and Oshiomole are not good looking, but they are rich. Have you ever read the Bible? It says, "Money answereth all things." And my #1 on the list is talking about poverty. The reverse of any of the things I listed will make the man have an option to cheat. Weldon Sir! Let's not argue. iLegend is always wrong. Lefulefu my man! Carry on!

but its not about their being rich per se that made them to cheat na cheesy

.its just that they made up their mind to do it hence they doing it.see for example where i reside...there is this man in his mid 60s who is a civil servant.he is not well off but with the little salary he earns he bought land for his girlfriend and he"s paying the school fees and looking after the girlfriend"s single child of which he"s not the father of the kid.his own children he refuses to send money 4 their upkeep and has caused a rift between him and his wife.so u see,cheating has nothing to do with the man"s look or affluence .na man mind e dey wether to cheat or not.

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by tosyne2much(m): 9:25am On Mar 10, 2017

JeffreyJamez:
You're right , I don't have ladies stalking me because I put everyone in their place and no be woman I come life come pursue. I have goals and Ambitions and frolicking around women is definitely not one of them. I have female friends.... not female stalkers. I have female friends who have a purpose in life and not the ones who are looking for the next guy to milk. Those are the kind of people I surround myself with.

The fact a few weaklings are not able to control their sexual urges doesn't give y'all the right to be throwing absurd statistics and theories up and down.

No wonder... So those who have got ladies stalking them are actually the ones who aren't pursuing their dreams and visions right?

Your mentality is flawed bro, and I give up on you

# You won#

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by tosyne2much(m): 9:27am On Mar 10, 2017

FTBOY:
this time i agree with you 100%.

Thanks bro cheesy

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by HaneefahRN(f): 9:28am On Mar 10, 2017

DarkRebel101:
Lol.

What is cheating, though? Who invented the concept of monogamy? Who conjured up the rule that states that Mr. A's pênis belongs only in Mrs. A's vagîna as long as they are married to each other? Doesn't it chime a tad cruel and selfish that I can be allowed to bring joy to my wife but cannot be allowed to spread that same gospel of love and happiness to other women?

The way I see it, it's is like we are asking people to rebel against nature; to oppose biology. When did it all begin? --- the institution of marriage that is. And how viable is it in this age?

I've been doing a lot of thinking these days and I've realised that nothing is in fact real, that nothing makes sense, that [most] things we deem appropriate are usually just one gigantic, well-embellished farce which we've invented to inject some measure of graspable simplicity in our otherwise complex, shambolic existence.

I get your point. But would your wife be allowed to share that joy you both share with other men too?

It would be fair and unselfish if it goes both ways.
We should live without inhibitions and do whatever we want.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Heavance(m): 9:29am On Mar 10, 2017

A lot of sense in what the op said....
Most ladies that will attack her, please ask them if their father doesn't have a love child, and if their mum didn't stay in her marriage......
you will be amazed by the answers you'll get.
This isn't an excuse for men to cheat, because they won't be happy if reverse is the case.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by ipledge10(m): 9:30am On Mar 10, 2017

JeffreyJamez:
You better come back whatsapp make we talk.

me and Watsapp don be like Arsenal and Champions league

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:31am On Mar 10, 2017

tosyne2much:
No wonder... So those who have got ladies stalking them are actually the ones who aren't pursuing their dreams and visions right?

Your mentality is flawed bro, and I give up on you

# You won#

And where did I say they don't?.... undecided

there are still men who still stay faithful even if they have a 100 girls chasing them, but with mentality like this flying around,I doubt if his GF will even give him the benefit of doubt.
Your mentality of "men are wired to cheat" too is flawed....Simple......It's all about Self Decipline. If a man is too weak to control his sexual urges he should at least own up to his shortcomings instead creating excuses like "all men are wired to cheat" making other innocent guys look bad.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:33am On Mar 10, 2017

ipledge10:
me and Watsapp don be like Arsenal and Champions league

You never still talk who you dey run from lol

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:34am On Mar 10, 2017*

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:35am On Mar 10, 2017

DarkRebel101:
Lol.

What is cheating, though? Who invented the concept of monogamy? Who conjured up the rule that states that Mr. A's pênis belongs only in Mrs. A's vagîna as long as they are married to each other? Doesn't it chime a tad cruel and selfish that I can be allowed to bring joy to my wife but cannot be allowed to spread that same gospel of love and happiness to other women?

The way I see it, it's is like we are asking people to rebel against nature; to oppose biology. When did it all begin? --- the institution of marriage that is. And how viable is it in this age?

I've been doing a lot of thinking these days and I've realised that nothing is in fact real, that nothing makes sense, that [most] things we deem appropriate are usually just one gigantic, well-embellished farce which we've invented so as to inject some measure of graspable simplicity into our otherwise complex, shambolic existence.

God created one man and one woman...Not one man and 2 women.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Jman06(m): 9:37am On Mar 10, 2017

tosyne2much:
You sound like someone who doesn't have what it takes to attract ladies to be hovering around you.. Cos with the way you're talking, on can doubt if you've got ladies stalking you, If you do, you wouldn't be saying all those things.

Even some married men in the remote village where I live in Ekiti still play side games despite the fact that they look ugly and unkempt much more of a man that's got what it takes to win almost every lady.

As a very handsome dude with nice swag, good dress sense, good oratory ability, and to crown it all, money still dey your pocket join ... Even if you get married, you will always fight to be completely faithful

Just imagine what a supposedly matured guy is typing. So, because you've got ladies around you you must cheat? We know that in most cases these ladies don't talk to you about their feelings first, you make the move! Now, relate that to ladies who get bugged by many guys on daily basis, yet don't cheat

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by refiner(f): 9:39am On Mar 10, 2017

ipledge10:
which one be mama Ngozi again

So u want to pretend now abi...u dont know mama ngozi dat has big bums and boobs?..u said because i dont have any that u are thru with our marriage...abeg u better leave me o jare angry

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by ipledge10(m): 9:44am On Mar 10, 2017

JeffreyJamez:
You never still talk who you dey run from lol

im not running from anybody, I just don't like it anymore. I will catch u on IG... make I sleep, it's almost 3am

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by REIIGN(m): 9:44am On Mar 10, 2017

DarkRebel101:
Lol.

What is cheating, though? Who invented the concept of monogamy? Who conjured up the rule that states that Mr. A's pênis belongs only in Mrs. A's vagîna as long as they are married to each other? Doesn't it chime a tad cruel and selfish that I can be allowed to bring joy to my wife but cannot be allowed to spread that same gospel of love and happiness to other women?

The way I see it, it's is like we are asking people to rebel against nature; to oppose biology. When did it all begin? --- the institution of marriage that is. And how viable is it in this age?

I've been doing a lot of thinking these days and I've realised that nothing is in fact real, that nothing makes sense, that [most] things we deem appropriate are usually just one gigantic, well-embellished farce which we've invented to inject some measure of graspable simplicity in our otherwise complex, shambolic existence.

In truth, its all fallacy grin

Everything we know, we invented. Take a cue from other "works of creation", they have no limits to what they can do but that's the difference between us, we are higher intelligent beings than our evo-brothers. Man created a system that works. This system leaps forward every few hundred millenia. Have you noticed that each time it leaps, we draw closer to our true (animalistic) nature? Have you noticed that each time it leaps, we draw closer to chaos?

Forget what you were taught in Sunday School, we could choose to call it "sixth-sense" but there's a reason why we turned up at the top of the food-chain despite having no fangs or/and wings. I wonder why we are so keen on spinning the evolutionary wheel backwards.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by tosyne2much(m): 9:45am On Mar 10, 2017

Jman06:
Just imagine what a supposedly matured guy is typing. So, because you've got ladies around you you must cheat? We know that in most cases these ladies don't talk to you about their feelings first, you make the move! Now, relate that to ladies who get bugged by many guys on daily basis, yet don't cheat

Hahahaha

Have you ever wondered why male celebrities find it hard to resist women?, same with female celebrities

And yes, to a very large extent, you're prone to cheating when you give ladies the chance to hover around you

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by chijioke012: 9:45am On Mar 10, 2017

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:45am On Mar 10, 2017*

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Cutehector(m): 9:46am On Mar 10, 2017

Bumbae1:
Attacking who
Wth u on about please .. i gave my opinion finish .. like everyone else including guys so pls .. stop being petty
Tosyne been writing controversial threads and yet u dont see him retaliate and abuse everyone just because they had a comment di you?
You that open topic the other day same girls called it trash so wt are u on about ?? Pls if my and wasn't to anyones taste then open topic in diaries and luck it..... so if i agreed with op no problem abi .. u got me fuked up

Talking sh!t about girls who aren't righteous what has that got to do with going into marriage with trust ?? Pls tell me n stop gassing urself to score points

madam.. I was not referring to you.. The girl who I was referring to knows herself since I quoted her directly.. I tagged u, lawlahdey and twaci for a different reason.. why then is it only you that's got guilty conscience? Dammnit.. I give up on u

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:47am On Mar 10, 2017*

HaneefahRN:
I get your point. But would your wife be allowed to share that joy you both share with other men too?

Here comes the dilemma. I would say yes, but I cannot guarantee that I would not succumb to jealousy at some point. We humans have the tendency of being possessive. Even as kids, majority of us did not smile at the prospect of having to share our toys with other children.

For me not to get jealous I probably would not venture into the relationship wearing my heart on my sleeves. That way I would be free of the emotional yoke that is naturally a concomicant of many romantic relationships. For as long as the emotional course remains unchartered our arrangement would purely be of the sexual variety. In theory, I think I could live with that.

It would be fair and unselfish if it goes both ways.
We should live without inhibitions and do whatever we want.

Yes! Exactly! And therein lies my major problem with religion – with Islam and Christianity taking the driver seat in that regard.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:47am On Mar 10, 2017*

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:48am On Mar 10, 2017

Cutehector:
madam.. I was not referring to you.. The girl who I was referring to knows herself.. I tagged u, lawlahdey and twaci, why then is it only you that's got guilty conscience? Dammnit.. I give up on u

Erm im refering to second mention u tagged me in the first one .. i said yo huh

I aint got a crytal ball grin

No work today ?

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:49am On Mar 10, 2017

iLegend:
I mentioned you, but deleted it the second day. Do you have the first part I sent?

Yes i think so can search for it ..
Just email me

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Cutehector(m): 9:50am On Mar 10, 2017

Bumbae1:
Erm im refering to second mention u tagged me in the first one .. i said yo
I aint got a crytal ball
No work today ?

am not employed.. I have a business

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:50am On Mar 10, 2017

Cutehector:
am not employed.. I have a business

bossman

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 9:50am On Mar 10, 2017

Cutehector:
your religion doesn't support polygamy but it supports formication abi?

Cc: lawlahdey, twaci, bumbae1

Should I say you're incredibly dumb?, what part of your Bible supports fornication?.

Use your reasoning faculty properly when next you quote me.

Thanks!.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by tosyne2much(m): 9:55am On Mar 10, 2017

JeffreyJamez:
You're right , I don't have ladies stalking me because I put everyone in their place and no be woman I come life come pursue. I have goals and Ambitions and frolicking around women is definitely not one of them. I have female friends.... not female stalkers. I have female friends who have a purpose in life and not the ones who are looking for the next guy to milk. Those are the kind of people I surround myself with.

The fact a few weaklings are not able to control their sexual urges doesn't give y'all the right to be throwing absurd statistics and theories up and down.

I dont know if you read people's psychology at all... And when I say men have in their DNA to womanize, I will say it 100times and will argue with anyone that holds a contrary opinion

This thing is very obvious nah.. Even when you study the psychology of a male baby, you will notice that he sometimes display his womanizing skills when another female baby is brought around (It sounds funny but that's the truth bro) cheesy

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:01am On Mar 10, 2017

tosyne2much:
I dont know if you read people's psychology at all... And when I say men have in their DNA to womanize, I will say it 100times and will argue with anyone that holds a contrary opinion

This thing is very obvious nah.. Even when you study the psychology of a male baby, you will notice that he sometimes display his womanizing skills when another female baby is brought around (It sounds funny but that's the truth bro)

... and like I said before,if it's in your DNA,it's definitely not in mine.

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by wordbank(m): 10:01am On Mar 10, 2017

kimbra:
She's the one lying to herself. My Dad was never promiscuous and I know his likes are out there.

In as much as I don't dispute your argument on polygamy, I can't seat back and watch you talk like you're the one who took the oath to be faithful on behalf of your dad.
I grew from a boy to a man, and each stage comes with its cons which even men can't explain.
Now, no matter how confident one is, until a counter-situation show up, there's nothing to take home. So, I say to those still standing and blabbing just like you, there's a flip side

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by tosyne2much(m): 10:02am On Mar 10, 2017

JeffreyJamez:
... and like I said before,if it's in your DNA,it's definitely not in mine.

Okay

Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by dabrightt: 10:03am On Mar 10, 2017

Lawlahdey:
I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.

Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.

There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids.
The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).

Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret.
So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall.
She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.

Now to the koko oro..

It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.

You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??

You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble??
See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.

You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".

You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?

You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?

Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??

Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man.
If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?

I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it.
Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them.
STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.

And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.

Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.

Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.

PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.

You made some good point but we still have men that don't cheat and will never cheat.who are those men?......................................................................................................................................................................... A man that have accept jesus has his lord and savior and wish to make heaven have to run from all sin including adultery and furnication..Read romance 8 vs 5 to 9.
The major problem ladies have is that they want a God fearing man ask ur self this question are u God fearing to decerve a God fearing man..A God fearing man will never cheat on his woman leave it or take

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Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by Nobody: 10:03am On Mar 10, 2017

TrapHedges:
Jarizod baba

morning boss!

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