JeffreyJamez:

God created one man and one woman...Not one man and 2 women.

wordbank:

In as much as I don't dispute your argument on polygamy, I can't seat back and watch you talk like you're the one who took the oath to be faithful on behalf of your dad.
I grew from a boy to a man, and each stage comes with its cons which even men can't explain.
Now, no matter how confident one is, until a counter-situation show up, there's nothing to take home. So, I say to those still standing and blabbing just like you, there's a flip side

Bumbae1:

Lol samurai lazy ke u know dat wan can't slide
Where u been Oh abuse ! Hell no but think op talking more about cheats not lazy or abusive men lol we leave that for another day .

AfroSamurai:
Really. Sometimes it seem the reason why some marriage fail. Men complain about their wives being lazy in bed, vis-a-vis.

I've been around... Just been busy with work and stuff of that sort.

Okay, if you say so.

tosyne2much:
I guess she's now feeling the heat you and I feel each time we drop controversial articles.. Now she knows what it feels like when you people make you look silly

Jman06:
Just imagine what a supposedly matured guy is typing. So, because you've got ladies around you you must cheat? We know that in most cases these ladies don't talk to you about their feelings first, you make the move! Now, relate that to ladies who get bugged by many guys on daily basis, yet don't cheat

iLegend:
But sincerely, take away money from OBJ and OSHIO and watch how faithful they'll be. Lol. But MMMScam disproved me on that, and he's right. Anyways, it's in the mind. MINDSET. Mehn! I'm listening to Lil Wayne's Amili and PSquare's Temtation. Jamming the oldies today. Whayasay?

1bkaye:

Lol right. State like 3 max

DarkRebel101:


Here comes the dilemma. I would say yes, but I cannot guarantee that I would not succumb to jealousy at some point. We humans have the tendency of being possessive. Even as kids, majority of us did not smile at the prospect of having to share our toys with other children.

For me not to get jealous then I probably would not venture into the relationship wearing my heart on my sleeves. That way I would be free of the emotional yoke that is naturally a concomicant of many romantic relationships. For as long as the emotional course remains unchartered our arrangement would purely be of the sexual variety. In theory, I think I could live with that.








* That's what I'm getting at. I agree with you.
Jealousy is a strong emotion, it will surely come in at a point. Some can't stand their best friends being close to some other, let alone a lover.

I know I won't love as much a man that cheats on me. My religion allows polygamy but the day my husband tells me of his intention to get another, whatever feelings I have for him will greatly reduce if not disappear , that's the only way I can cope, by not caring. *








Yes! Exactly! And therein lies my major problem with religion – with Islam and Christianity taking the driver seat in that regard.

Bumbae1:

No worries

iLegend:
concatenate it. When you quote me remove the number. Nah! I don't want to open my mail. I don't think I know my password.

AfroSamurai:
Wanna see a pic of my work?

VivJohn:
Ol' boy!!! This post is full of hypocrites and self righteous people (especially those males running there mouths that they would/cannot cheat on their present or future spouses). Most don't even have experience concerning regular boyfriend-girlfriend relationship not to talk of marriage. Boys and girls.. Hear this and listen with rapt attention. Marriage isn't all about the lovey-dovey butterfly-in-your-stomach type feeling u get when u think ur in love. It's a practical school with no real tangible graduation date.
OP knows what she's talking about.. And it shouldn't be misconstrued as a sign of weakness or stupidity. It's just plain fact. Men do a bunch of stuff and get away with it.. Women try same things and get a battering from society. We didn't make things this way, we all just met it and have to deal with. For those women (girls) who can't deal with a cheating man.. 2 possible way out. 1st, cheat back but make sure to do it codedly cause if caught u know what's up. 2ndly, just take a walk if u can't deal with it.
Don't mind these men (or boys) running their mouth that they can't or won't cheat on their present or future spouses. All na lie. No mind them jare.

tosyne2much:
I have been expecting you on this thread and I'm glad you're here...

Bumbae1:

Hope its not something bad oh im drinking tea

AfroSamurai:
Why would my work be bad? Well it's not, but it's dangerous, more dangerous than petrol. Lol.

AfroSamurai:
Why would my work be bad? Well it's not, but it's dangerous, more dangerous than petrol. Lol.

Lilyqueeny:
There is a tendency for a guy to have an extra marital affair since he is into sexual immorality right from the onset.


A man who is not into pre marital sex would find it difficult to cheat on his wife.

ChizzyMaris:
Hey Lolade, relax.. that all the guys you've ever dated cheated on you doesn't meant there aren't faithful men out there.
.
You know, I actually wanted to offer a silent prayer on your behalf now, but I don't know if I should pray for Lolade or Lawlahdey?
May you find your own faithful man anyway.
Amen?

ChizzyMaris:
Hey Lolade, relax.. that all the guys you've ever dated cheated on you doesn't meant there aren't faithful men out there.
.
You know, I actually wanted to offer a silent prayer on your behalf now, but I don't know if I should pray for Lolade or Lawlahdey?
May you find your own faithful man anyway.
Amen?

Bumbae1:

I like danger

Lol thought it was like a trick question .

Alesandese:
The write up is a wake to reality, a controversial one tho but a wise lady will learn from it. Those attacking the writer are either narrow minded or they have this fairytales view of life. If the ladies don't accept the probability of their men cheating how will they help their men not to cheat. The op just shared a fraction of a bigger problem.

Let the women read and learn, let the ladies/ girls read and rant. Time will tell

Lilyqueeny:
There is a tendency for a guy to have an extra marital affair since he is into sexual immorality right from the onset.


A man who is not into pre marital sex would find it difficult to cheat on his wife.

Toks2008:


Unrepentant
Dirtiness

Sexual timidity

Unfaithfulness

Jman06:
@tosyne2much, those celebs who cheat are irresponsible! the responsible ones like Omotola and co are faithful to their partners despite meeting many hot babes and guys both on and off camera. It is an individual thing.

wordbank:

Nothing comes easy I know, but it'll surely come
I won't cheat is just a confession of fantasy
Men don't live in fantasy, I think some women are oblivious in wonderland

Toks2008:


Ironically, she is spot on.