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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Nobody: 10:14am On Mar 19, 2017
Hell. And they seem to be following me everywhere lipsrsealed

Though I once had one nice female boss that gave me good career direction as an intern smiley
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by EmmyDe25(m): 11:20am On Mar 19, 2017
Female bosses are quite terrible to deal with. My boss doesn't see any good in anyone. She feels if a document has not received her blessing, such document can't be shared with the client - regardless of how inconsequential the document is. Recently, i was due to share a deck with the client and she's been on and off the office due to ill health. That day, she came to the office but couldn't stay back for long because of her condition. So i decided to go meet her at the parking lot to seek her consent on whether or not to send the deck; before her driver heads for home. Surprisingly, she requested i bring my laptop so she can review - i was completely blown apart. Here is someone who looks as though she was dying. I did oblige her though but that was after spending over 20mins at the office before stepping out with my laptop. I mean, who does that? At the point of death and still couldn't pass something up?? This is just one of the many experiences of working with female bosses. They are control freaks, they want to be respected;(my boss would rather you call her mrs, not her name) The only opinion that matters is theirs, they talk down on people and believe everyone is shit, insecure, gossip a whole lot and feels every man has an ego problem; therefore, they need to be subdued. Did i mention my boss loves to send people on needless errands?: pls help me carry my bag, shoes, laptop etc. Sending grown ass men on stupid errands!! Working with female bosses is something i would possibly have to pay through my nose not to do anymore. It can potentially lead to depression and lacking in self belief, if you are not mentally tough.

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Nobody: 11:43am On Mar 19, 2017
She works in an uncultured, unstructured and an unprofessional firm. It's not about the gender, it's about the firm.
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by chuks34(m): 11:45am On Mar 19, 2017
Mine would point at the clock for me to see the time whenever I come late to work
But would never let me go once it's closing time

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by EternalTruth: 11:48am On Mar 19, 2017
pweetyoge:
we ladies are the architect of our own wahala...a female boss is a no-no for me. bt watch ur lawyer friend in future turn out to do just the same thing to another young lady if given d same opportunity. i was once in ur friend's shoe, a female boss lady, daughter to a well known Figure. she is nice, cn buy u gifts n all bt when it comes to differentiating the role of a graduate frm dt of an errand boy. she get am zero. i just resigned n with faith i got another job. ur friend should know dt nothing is as painful as ur ego being tarnished except she no get senatorial ambition like myself. before i go appear for Linda Ikeji gossip for future..nbok
PRIDE and ego.. na hin go kill una
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Impeller(m): 11:55am On Mar 19, 2017
For me, I won't pray to have any female boss again. First one: was so nice but made sexual advances- I resisted and got a mixture of respect and hatred. Second one: nags over everything and abuses anybody at will. Third one: Made same advances like the first one. I accepted, enjoyed every package to the fullest. I was eventually hated and lost my pride as well.... The truth!

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by ChappyChase: 12:02pm On Mar 19, 2017
Philpham:
All these puss.uy a.s..s boys here crying wolf about female bosses are just jealous of successful women.

Their use.less ego will only allow them reason through their an..us.

Female bosses are the best. Male bosses do not know anything.

The male bosses only walk around the office looking for workers to sleep with , and only to sack them if they dnt agree.
I hate male bosses.
Please read the comments again, you will see the male heaping praises on their female boss while the female dose the opposite.
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by flamingREED(m): 12:18pm On Mar 19, 2017
Goldenheart:
My female boss was a confused one.... But I made her feel she is right all the time. We take business from office to her home... tongue

We work till very late. She offers all kind of delicacy's which I decline and she frowns, And she will ask me to pass the night since is really really late. grin (also declined)

Though tough but I survived n my check was always ready at the end of the month cool cool

We still keep in touch .... wink

You're truly a responsible man.
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by mario383: 12:18pm On Mar 19, 2017
id4sho:
Mine is the best, free lunch packs, use her tables, Internet, sit on her chair. Listens to all my flimsiest excuses, calls me when late to work. BUT OPPOSITE FOR LADIES, NO NONSENSE,WOMEN HATE EACH OTHER .....SMH
That is the worse part. Women, when staying together, maybe meeting places or any other gathering, they appear to like/love each order. Let any woman contest any elective position, no other woman will vote for her. Thier hate for one another is very high.
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Goldenheart(m): 12:32pm On Mar 19, 2017
akpobi:


Was she married?
cos ur tori nawa!!!

She's married with 2 kids
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by nnamdiosu(m): 12:38pm On Mar 19, 2017
SweetBoyFriend:

I will never work for a female even if you put a gun to my head


By the time you are offered 2.5 million as salary, an official car and driver by a female boss, you will come and modify this post by yourself and say......behind every successful man is a woman. smiley

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by faithogiga(m): 12:50pm On Mar 19, 2017
SweetBoyFriend:

I will never work for a female even if you put a gun to my head

what are you saying nitori olorun
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by faithogiga(m): 12:51pm On Mar 19, 2017
flyca:
Actually, mine is not a "boss" per say, she is the current Dean of my department. Just doesn't listen to anybody including other male profs and even may male prof supervisor.

Been having headaches on how to just round up and get out of her department. I don't really like to use harsh words to describe people but this woman deserves anything I use on her right now. I'm so pained! angry

I feel your pain. Pele dear☹️☹️

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by emynike2001(m): 1:09pm On Mar 19, 2017
The first job I got was a female boss, her problem was too much that she can afford to deep hands in the daily sales I realised for her without allowing me to do d proper accounting for her, anytime I tell her d amount she had taken per day she would ask me when and how did she took it. Thank God I always keep my record then as a relationship manager.
I quit that job and got another one after d interview as I was about to start d new job, it was another female boss, my brother I immediately quit d job.
thank God am free from them. am now d boss of my own work.

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by bamikole07(m): 1:12pm On Mar 19, 2017
To have a female Boss, is completely error, they are very proud, now as will have a female boss our Salary is nothing to write home about compared when we have a Male Boss.
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by femijay8271(m): 1:12pm On Mar 19, 2017
Oh boy, na women own worse pass, imagine me make my Madam dey ask me shey I Don Marry, shey I sabi do dis and DAT, treating me whenever she no see me when she comes back to work late in d evening......hmmmm all dis Victoria Island Big women eeee, I twale una
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by nnamdiosu(m): 1:33pm On Mar 19, 2017
poshestmina:
My own female boss still owns me two months salary till date...she would start crying anytime i ask for my money so i just left her to God . I got the connection to my new job from the parent of a pupil in my class and my pay is 3x bigger so i even give her kids money for snacks anytime i see them .She was nice though ,just that she takes advantage if u give her the opportunity.

God bless you for ur maturity and kindness
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by NovusHomo(m): 1:37pm On Mar 19, 2017
Blonchilli:

Bros this your story never complete come finish am grin grin that request to pass the night dey burst my head

It is true. A lot of female bosses will do you if you can accurately interprete their swag. They are almost always needy in that area.

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Nobody: 1:54pm On Mar 19, 2017
Ugosample:


I can't dispute your experience tho, but I will tell you that in Nigeria here o, on the average, female bosses are more terrible than male bosses. They are good ones on both sides tho.

And many women (and men too) complaining about female bosses in our country is no coincidence.

Just saying

And your conclusions are a based on what? A survey? Or a bunch of whiny people who can't deal with having a woman as a boss?

People are bad bosses because they are bad people, not because of their gender.

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by SweetBoyFriend(m): 1:59pm On Mar 19, 2017
nnamdiosu:



By the time you are offered 2.5 million as salary, an official car and driver by a female boss, you will come and modify this post by yourself and say......behind every successful man is a woman. smiley

Shut up

You're a kid

I touch that amount in 3 days

This is an insult

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by donodion(m): 2:03pm On Mar 19, 2017
Lol...this topic i could relate with.Working with women is a different kettle of fish, especially if you are to sit and deliberate on management issues.Many of those ive had encouter with who are in senior positions are just intoxicated by piwer.Raise a contrary opinnion, they twist the whole scene to become gender inequality issue.." is it because im a woman, bla bla bla".
The last female supervisor i worked with had it from me before i resigned, that day i lost it and was ready for detention.Was almost grabbing her by her yeye weavone to yank it off forcefully with my bare hand
lwith the rubbish she was vomiting, thinking il be like her husband she shouts at in the office.

Anyway what ive also discovered with female bosses is this: The younger they are the more problematic they become, and the older they become they become much easier to relate with. As male colleagues or surbodinates. Just be , humble,cool and calm to respond to their hormonal disparages ( the older ones o), especially when they begin to raise their voices.

Women could really be difficult to effectively work with particularly when they possess so much authority and power, however with the help of other female colleagues, one could get to know their weak point and manage them. But some are just Jezebel reincarnate...BWP Bit.ches With Problems.

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Nobody: 2:18pm On Mar 19, 2017
Female bosses are this and that, it's all in your heads dear.
Women have already been preconditioned to believe women hate themselves, that's the problem some of you have.

My boss is a woman, older than my husband and single!
Normally, people would say with all those characteristics, she would be 'angry'_ but she isn't. She is the best thing to happen to me. The male superior couldn't even teach me one thing, all he knows how to do is stare at my ass.

The only thing I can agree with is, female bosses pay lots of attention to detail. It's one of their God given qualities, so...they tend to push people over the edge to get things done. Of course, since she is female_ it would be misinterpreted to mean, women are this and that.

I have a dream, to one day be at the very top. Any man that can't deal with it, should fuk off! Life is a whole lot more, than pleasing people with pricks... because I have noticed it's males that complain most. Most men can't naturally deal with having a woman lead them_ useless ego.

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Hollawayn05(m): 2:22pm On Mar 19, 2017
Women as Boss self Far...
sha Woman don be ur external supervisor during WAEC b4 IF NO, abeg try go sit for anoda WAEC to know wasup..









My experience On That...
just because we school 2 Guys Got her angry, She makae sure we all Got 6 F9 instead of the 6 Credit Needed...
note: Am more than an average student in Class then...

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by chicwoman(f): 2:39pm On Mar 19, 2017
'letting women?'
You go stop them before?
henryobinna:
nice topic.

I'm not/trying to be a misogynist, but letting women occupy a very high position... has proven many times not to be a good decision.
from higher institutions to work place/offices/firms.

I know there are a good number of women who are good especially the God-fearing ones, I mean real GOD fearing not demons that go to church and preach the Bible.


it's only a woman that'll rush straight to slap a young man because he talks back at her while she's the boss/at the top.

I know men(some but a good number) do ask for/take bribe and also ask some females for sex( and all that) but it's only a womam that'll be demanding a full grown adult(with family)who's not her son to call her mummy. or even some other things.
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by chicwoman(f): 2:41pm On Mar 19, 2017
Na true you talk
Men need to know when to control their ego so it doesn't affect their progress
PaperLace:
Female bosses are this and that, it's all in your heads dear.
Women have already been preconditioned to believe women hate themselves, that's the problem some of you have.

My boss is a woman, older than my husband and single!
Normally, people would say with all those characteristics, she would be 'angry'_ but she isn't. She is the best thing to happen to me. The male superior couldn't even teach me one thing, all he knows how to do is stare at my ass.

The only thing I can agree with is, female bosses pay lots of attention to detail. It's one of their God given traits, so...they tend to push people over the edge to get things done. Of course, since she is female_ it would be misinterpreted to mean, women are this and that.

I have a dream, to one day be at the very top. Any man that can't deal with it, should mess off! Life is a whole lot more than pleasing people with pricks... because I have noticed it's males that complain most. Most men can't naturally deal with having a woman lead them_ useless ego.
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Ugosample(m): 2:47pm On Mar 19, 2017
Ujoan:


And your conclusions are a based on what? A survey? Or a bunch of whiny people who can't deal with having a woman as a boss?

People are bad bosses because they are bad people, not because of their gender.

So you are telling me that the multitude of women who complain about their female bosses can't deal with having a female as a boss
Which kind reasoning be this?

I repeat, in Nigeria here, on the average, female bosses are more terrible than the male bosses (there are good ones too tho)

And a good number of those complaining are women, so what are you saying

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by chicwoman(f): 2:47pm On Mar 19, 2017
Anytime I see a man complain about pride in a female boss, I automatically assume that they can't control their egos
bamikole07:
To have a female Boss, is completely error, they are very proud, now as will have a female boss our Salary is nothing to write home about compared when we have a Male Boss.
Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Ugosample(m): 2:49pm On Mar 19, 2017
chicwoman:
Na true you talk
Men need to know when to control their ego so it doesn't affect their progress


But its a woman who opened this thread, and it has been women complaining, and even in real life, women complain too

So where does male ego come in here?

Or do women have "male ego" ?

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Nobody: 2:58pm On Mar 19, 2017
chicwoman:
Na true you talk
Men need to know when to control their ego so it doesn't affect their progress
Very useless ego.
I pity the women that have allowed the society brainwash them into thinking women hate themselves. That's where issues like this come from, you naturally become uptight around a female boss. Women are very sensitive, she feels it and launches a counter-attack.

Why won't some females be unhappy, when only them cook, clean, prepare kids for school. Maybe the husband na community dick on top_ her emotions will be flying all around grin.

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Nobody: 3:06pm On Mar 19, 2017
PaperLace:
Female bosses are this and that, it's all in your heads dear.
Women have already been preconditioned to believe women hate themselves, that's the problem some of you have.

My boss is a woman, older than my husband and single!
Normally, people would say with all those characteristics, she would be 'angry'_ but she isn't. She is the best thing to happen to me. The male superior couldn't even teach me one thing, all he knows how to do is stare at my ass.

The only thing I can agree with is, female bosses pay lots of attention to detail. It's one of their God given traits, so...they tend to push people over the edge to get things done. Of course, since she is female_ it would be misinterpreted to mean, women are this and that.

I have a dream, to one day be at the very top. Any man that can't deal with it, should fuk off! Life is a whole lot more, than pleasing people with pricks... because I have noticed it's males that complain most. Most men can't naturally deal with having a woman lead them_ useless ego.

If all the male superior does is gawk vacuously at your ãss, then that can only mean you've got haunches as round and finely sculpted as the one in the photo below.
Now, it wouldn't be fair to heap blame upon a man for his innocent response to lip-smacking stimuli and his harmless appreciation of Mother Nature's sweet artistry, would it? grin

Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Ugosample(m): 3:08pm On Mar 19, 2017
PaperLace:

Very useless ego.
I pity the women that have allowed the society brainwash them into thinking women hate themselves. That's where issues like this come from, you naturally become uptight around a female boss. Women are very sensitive, she feels it and launches a counter-attack.

Why won't some females be unhappy, when only them cook, clean, prepare kids for school. Maybe the husband na community dick on top_ her emotions will be flying all around grin.



Paperlace na wa for you o grin grin

I like your guts tho, it's good

But how man matter enter this thing na
The topic was about female bosses.
But now ego and community dick has entered the topic lol cheesy

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Re: Share Your Experience With Female Bosses. by Nobody: 3:19pm On Mar 19, 2017
DarkRebel101:


If all the male superior does all day is gawk vacuously at your ãss, then that can only mean you've got haunches similar to the one in the photo below. Now, it wouldn't be fair to heap blame on a man for merely responding to stimuli, for drinking in the sweet artistry of Mother Nature, would it? grin
Hahahaha. I don't know why this made me laugh out loud.
It isn't this big o... what he is always staring at behind me is what I am yet to understand. The problem isn't looking, people must look_ but he shouldn't leave his eyes inside there.

Some men wahala too much o.

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