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Wife not cook: " If you cook for your wife Heaven will not fall!" Nigerian lawyer writes as he takes care of his first lady

Nigerian man with the username Firsts Baba Isa, a lawyer and Partner/Principal consultant at FBI Legal, has encouraged men to help their wives out at home; including in the kitchen because according to him "if you cook for your wife, heaven will not fall" Putting his money where his mouth is, he shared photos of him taking care of his sick 'first lady' on Facebook. He wrote:


"WIFE-NOT-COOK
Most times I keep mute on trending issues. I keep mute because I know I mustn't comment on every trending issue to be relevant. Those who know me well will already know where I stand on those issues anyways. Those issues don't breastfeed my bank account sef.
But some of my friends, fans and especially proteges won't have any of that. They will sneak inbox to push me to say something, to take a stance. At times I allow myself to be pushed, at times I dig in and pout my sealed lips.
When I got this push to comment on the #wifenotcook thing I didn't even answer them. I didn't answer them for another reason. My wife was sick that week and I was living the answer they wanted me to give on social media.
My beloved Firstlady was sick and I wonder how the wife-not-cook balderdash would have played out in my home if we were stupid enough to adopt any side of the wife-not-cook coin.
There were different kinds of food in the freezer that she had cooked. I will make the food, serve her and do the dishes. She will not even eat. I will rush to different fastfood to get this and get that. I served her breakfast, lunch and dinner in bed. I nursed my Baby back to health. Halleuia.
And I do this often, not just when she is sick. I'm not the best guy out there. I have my own faults. I just try my best.
My point is when you love and care for your partner, hashtags don't matter. Don't let people define your life with their whims.
For those who want to know. I and my wife have roles. And we help each other in executing these roles. For instance, I'm the primary provider but she also makes money and help me in providing for the home. She is the primary homemaker but I help her in the kitchen, doing the dishes and running the errands.
This doesn't stop me from being a lawyer and running my several concerns. And her role in the home doesn't stop her from running her NGO and other concerns.
Not cooking for your husband won't make you a successful woman automatically and cooking won't reduce you either. And as a man if you cook for your wife, heaven will not fall.
I encourage intending couples to talk about everything; but if you find yourselves talking about things like who will cook, who will eat, who will own the penis, who will carry the vagina around, then know that you have been infected with a virus know as warped sense of marriage.
#wifenotcook you embrace it. #wifenotmother you embrace it, #husbandnotfather, you embrace it... Get ready to embrace #akamunotbraininyourhead.
Firsts Baba Isa (FBI)


http://www.rayonewss..com/2017/03/wife-not-cook-if-you-cook-for-your-wife.html

wow. good

True talk!

He's used to cooking already

I will only cook for her if she can make the toilet her second room

Rubbish..... If she can't cook, make she shift for person wey sabi

hdrama:

the man is not right, dont be deceived. buhari don talk am before, the woman belongs to the kitchen and the other room

Bro thats a blatant lie...because a woman is meant to cook doesnt mean you can't lend her a helping hand..make her feel loved sometimes and dont leave everything for her to do

That means you've not meet the right woman

Olamyyde:
The truth is no matter how nice you are to a woman, they will always take u for granted. They can't help it, there is something about nice guys that just turns them off

Lol. Her tooootoooo still dey sweet u and u dey misbehave. He earn will not fall actually if you cook for your wife, and even feed her fat while she chats off on her phone. But where heaven may fall is when, after some days or weeks or months or even years, you wake up and stop cooking for her. Now it's become your duty and heaven will fall if you cannot explain to her why it's no more your duty.

And for fools who say "wife not cook," you all are destroying God's design. There was never a time in history when cooking is separated from the wife. All these nonsense people are bringing up today will do no one good, the least, women. If you say that the man has not found work while the woman works and brings in money, it will be understandable if the man cooks. But every effort should be put in place to ensure he either gets job or starts a business.

Heaven will fall. Who would want heaven to fall.

Eddygourdo:
Because many can now afford cheap data, every fool and idiot now has an opinion on life matters. Including those who found it difficult to pass waec , jamb or graduate. If you cook for your wife, isn't that evidenced by the marriage model you employ ? Does it imply that is normal behaviour for all marriage models ?

Its possible you cook for yours as a beta male you are, many other beta males might not find such appealing. Talkless of alpha males. Simply tell us you cooked for your wife, maany of us have done that, many who did it will regret and stop doing it, many who haven't done it will do it when she is sick or pregnant, many are being beaten to do it since he isn't a bread winner, many have no food to cook to show any bloody romance.

Lastly many women will never put themselves through the horror of eating the poison some of their men cook in the name of being romantic. There is reccession and no need for wastage of food stuffs. Biko him or her who is an expert in the field should cook joor.

You nailed it!

I cook for my wife everyday. ...Seun no see am....This man go buy Mr.Biggs food...Makes front page......Iranu dey smell

yhhh no biggie my dad cooks once in a while my elder brother also loves cooking.

rhektor:
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I wanted to give you a deep reply
But then I was pushed to your profile and all I could mutter is

Eddygourdo:
Because many can now afford cheap data, every fool and idiot now has an opinion on life matters. Including those who found it difficult to pass waec , jamb or graduate. If you cook for your wife, isn't that evidenced by the marriage model you employ ? Does it imply that is normal behaviour for all marriage models ?

Its possible you cook for yours as a beta male you are, many other beta males might not find such appealing. Talkless of alpha males. Simply tell us you cooked for your wife, maany of us have done that, many who did it will regret and stop doing it, many who haven't done it will do it when she is sick or pregnant, many are being beaten to do it since he isn't a bread winner, many have no food to cook to show any bloody romance.

Lastly many women will never put themselves through the horror of eating the poison some of their men cook in the name of being romantic. There is reccession and no need for wastage of food stuffs. Biko him or her who is an expert in the field should cook joor.

And in your mind, you just made sense

Mumu

NaWetinDey:
Lol. Her tooootoooo still dey sweet u and u dey misbehave. He earn will not fall actually if you cook for your wife, and even feed her fat while she chats off on her phone. But where heaven may fall is when, after some days or weeks or months or even years, you wake up and stop cooking for her. Now it's become your duty and heaven will fall if you cannot explain to her why it's no more your duty.

And for fools who say "wife not cook," you all are destroying God's design. There was never a time in history when cooking is separated from the wife. All these nonsense people are bringing up today will do no one good, the least, women. If you say that the man has not found work while the woman works and brings in money, it will be understandable if the man cooks. But every effort should be put in place to ensure he either gets job or starts a business.

How exactly do you know God's design? Through the book of stories?

Tazdroid:
your man deserves this then

That's him
I know him for that
The day I will get angry not to cook
It's either he eats out or sleep Hungry

NaWetinDey:
Lol. Her tooootoooo still dey sweet u and u dey misbehave. He earn will not fall actually if you cook for your wife, and even feed her fat while she chats off on her phone. But where heaven may fall is when, after some days or weeks or months or even years, you wake up and stop cooking for her. Now it's become your duty and heaven will fall if you cannot explain to her why it's no more your duty.

And for fools who say "wife not cook," you all are destroying God's design. There was never a time in history when cooking is separated from the wife. All these nonsense people are bringing up today will do no one good, the least, women. If you say that the man has not found work while the woman works and brings in money, it will be understandable if the man cooks. But every effort should be put in place to ensure he either gets job or starts a business.

You are too much.

who are these kids on facebook talking about marriage? shuo

I enjoy cooking for my family...and the kids love it. No big deal

Joavid:
the way nairalanders make a big deal about cooking eh

wait oo dey r coming for u

suzan404:
Some guys are so lazy ehn....ordinary water they cannot boil......a man that cannot cook for his wife...is that one a good husband?

wait dey r coming for u

He is right. Nothing wrong....unless of course he is a bad cook.

Just because somebody prepared tea for his wife, he came ranting on Facebook?

I wonder oo! Common tea.

Me wey dey cook every cookable, I no dey talk oo!


Baba isa

suzan404:
Some guys are so lazy ehn....ordinary water they cannot boil......a man that cannot cook for his wife...is that one a good husband?

A woman that cannot replace a flat tyre....Is that one a wife?

Ugosample:


And in your mind, you just made sense

Mumu

;DGosh I love Nairalanders

Amarabae:
Thats sweet, my husband, the only thing he can do in kitchen is boiling water. Cooking is just not in him.

So how do u manage when your sick, exhausted, or pregnant?

Correct talk

i cook well but no woman should think i'll cook for her

FBI Consultant...and what you can talk about with all the issues Nigeria has with the fight against corruption is that thing you called food you made for your so-called first lady hugging teddy bear like a teenager like chocolate.

Hiss...

Dyt:


That's him
I know him for that
The day I will get angry not to cook
It's either he eats out or sleep Hungry

bless you, and that I think is a weapon you hold. What if you get angry, he ignores you and go cook himself making you feel like he can survive with or without you? You see women should not lose their power with this counterproductive and unnecessary agitation.

Lending assistance to the woman in kitchen is romantic especially when she orders him around to do things for her.

Ugosample:


And in your mind, you just made sense

Mumu

see this born failure quoting his betters, is your brain paining you ? scram away from here dumbo

I'm seeing bread and tea and also chicken and chips from KFC, is that his definition of cook? ...After this rant I was expecting to see better EBA and soup.but no, it's bread and tea....Mchew.