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ReneeNuttall:
pls enough with the polite insult.

not an insult if it's true and you know it is

mikolo80:
not an insult if it's true and you know it is

please keep that to urself, I don't bloody care.

sheeda995:
I do sleep off while chatting with my guy,he doesn't like it,because that's our only chance of talking better,as either am busy or he is during the day,but from 8upwards we try to chat.I sleep off almost every time we do, even on calls,does that make me a bad person?

i was once like that but we both agreed to check up on each other during the day even if its just a message saying hello....then babe..u have to be ready to make the sacrifice of staying up a little bit late.....communication is indeed important if you want your relationship to work.

ReneeNuttall:
please keep that to urself, I don't bloody care.

o look who's throwing a tantrum.

dhardline:
Prayer does go a long way especially if the foundation is built properly. Most relationships that start with sex can make both parties not to see each other's faults or rather think they can manage the faults. Marriage is really hard work and for me my major desire is to marry a lady who sincerely loves God cause when you really love God then you can be reasoned with no matter the situation.

You just hit the nail on the head. BTW, loving God is a responsibility of the two parties to a marriage.

Nothing changes. We can only effect the change we want. If you want a happy home, then work for it. Most importantly, never ever rely on your spouse or any other being or material for your happiness and that includes the church. If you can't generate happiness within you, then be ready for tons of disappointment.

If you have mastered the art of always being at peace, you will in turn generate peace and happiness.

sheeda995:
I do sleep off while chatting with my guy,he doesn't like it,because that's our only chance of talking better,as either am busy or he is during the day,but from 8upwards we try to chat.I sleep off almost every time we do, even on calls,does that make me a bad person?

Everyone's expectations are different, I can only imagine how he feels. If you can stay awake for exams, then you should when a partner needs you to..... Keep it at the back of your mind that it's important to him that's why he's complaining and also every relationship is all about making sacrifices... You need to prioritise him above your sleep if you really want to maintain the relationship.. . Many more will come along the way

AmALeo:
Everyone's expectations are different, I can only imagine how he feels. If you can stay awake for exams, then you should when a partner needs you to..... Keep it at the back of your mind that it's important to him that's why he's complaining and also every relationship is all about making sacrifices... You need to prioritise him above your sleep if you really want to maintain the relationship.. . Many more will come along the way

Ahh, you wann to kill me? Is it me that is taking myself to sleep?The sleep just come in, even during my exams in night class,after reading a page, I will doze off, wake up back to continue till I cover up what I need to cover

wealthygem:
I meditated on this few months back, I have come to realize that two ppl coming together as one requires alot of compromising and sacrifices to be made.
Your normal routine lifestyle would be altered just to satisfy n show you love your partner but where the issue comes is we are thinking in our heart why is he or her not doing d compromising for me if he say he or she claims to love me?
We tend to enjoy our marriage the more at the level at which we compromise and sacrifice for each other and the one that does the compromising and sacrifices the most is the matured one in the marriage until the other party knows better, the answer to your question is both parties don't want to compromise n sacrifice they are expecting the other person to do it which won't make them come to terms with each other.

U nailed it. These are exactly my thoughts. God bless u