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Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by apollo13(m): 10:36am On Mar 30, 2017
omolorlarh:
I so much detest people that cheat.
Imagine,someone that hasn't gotten his bearing is talking of girlfriend. You can still manage till you get another job if you plan well. Stop wasting your precious time and money on girlfriends that can't even give you #50 when you are broke.
I SMH for the OP, I bet he is still a new comer in marriage, how can you be so proud to say it here that 80k can not sustain you, your wife and kid and "girlfriend" incusive? See! Your girlfriend still sticks with you cos you still give her some little cash, I dare you, quit that job and don't give her anything and that's when you'll realise those girls are not really worth it. You better concentrate on your wife and kid and see more blessings coming your way.Good luck!
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Nobody: 10:38am On Mar 30, 2017
omolorlarh:
I so much detest people that cheat.
Imagine,someone that hasn't gotten his bearing is talking of girlfriend. You can still manage till you get another job if you plan well. Stop wasting your precious time and money on girlfriends that can't even give you #50 when you are broke.
My grand father married 3 wife's, my father has 2 wife's and my wife is well aware. So she knows definitely when I make the money I will have at least 2 or 3 wife's. It's better to have a galfriend than to have many gals. So don't call it cheating. I plan to marry the gal once she's done with school
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by omolorlarh: 10:45am On Mar 30, 2017
apollo13:
I SMH for the OP, I bet he is still a new comer in marriage, how can you be so proud to say it here that 80k can not sustain you, your wife and kid and "girlfriend" incusive? See! Your girlfriend still sticks with you cos you still give her some little cash, I dare you, quit that job and don't give her anything and that's when you'll realise those girls are not really worth it. You better concentrate on your wife and kid and see more blessings coming your way.Good luck!
Exactly, get broke and the so called gfs will go to another man
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by omolorlarh: 10:52am On Mar 30, 2017
sgtponzihater:
My grand father married 3 wife's, my father has 2 wife's and my wife is well aware. So she knows definitely when I make the money I will have at least 2 or 3 wife's. It's better to have a galfriend than to have many gals. So don't call it cheating. I plan to marry the gal once she's done with school
Don't know what to say.
anyways congratulations
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Jammiiee(m): 11:24am On Mar 30, 2017
Bro stop lying angry
How can u get a job without knowing how much ur pay package is? So u had to wait till the ending of the month to ask how much ur pay is, can u imagine, and this is coming from someone who is professional and did justice to an interview. Haba!

Baba why u dey lie nw, not everyone can be fooled.

Moreover, with the way u crafted this, it shows its all fake. You can't confidently be asking for help and expose urself on how the money can't be enough for u, ur wife, kid and girlfriend , really huh

angry angry angry
sgtponzihater:
I received the worst humiliation of my life today. Let me go a little back in time. There's this organisation who's name has gained so much acclaim that I thought those working there are swimming in money.

A friend gave me a privileged info that they are recruiting. I thanked him dearly and thought I had hit jackpot. Next days I polished my shoes kissed my kid on the forehead and headed for the company with my CV and carefully crafted cover letter. Few weeks later I was called for an interview and I did justice to the interview and impressed the interviewers. I was told I would be selected but that I had to resume month ending however I can move into a mini flat within the company premises because the work will require some days of night working.

I was happy at least my people we see daddy as scarce. I packed some of my things and started enjoying my new cribs. Few days to the end of the month I decided to ask the HR how much my pay would be and he told me 80k. I immediately felt like crying. 80k can't possibly sustain me, my wife, my kid and my galfriend. I told him outrightly that it was too small. He then said he will ask his boss so he can add something then he will get back to me tomorrow.

My question is how do I reject this job that I already accepted with a firm hand shake. And how do I suddenly park my bag and baggages out of the premises. I am so confused.

Your boy

Sgt Ponzi Hater

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Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Jammiiee(m): 11:31am On Mar 30, 2017
... the job huh sad angry angry



Baba why u dey lie now . angry angry sad
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Nobody: 11:42am On Mar 30, 2017
Jammiiee:
... the job huh sad angry angry



Baba why u dey lie now . angry angry sad
Keep off my zone if u don't have any advice for me. You are probably a jobless dude who has quit searching for jobs and just sits at bus stops reading headlines of news papers. Rubbish!
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by duduade(m): 12:02pm On Mar 30, 2017
apollo13:
Leave am! E be like say extra cash dey enter for am somewhere, go back home and wait till your wife starts showing you her true colours, women and money Na 5&6 o,like the yorubas will say, person Wey get head no get cap, and person Wey get cap no get head.
Your last proverb I wanted to write o.. But changed my mind.... Loool...
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Jammiiee(m): 12:27pm On Mar 30, 2017
grin Lool ok sorry then. It was just a concern bro. I didn't mean bad o, sorry indeed. kiss
sgtponzihater:
Keep off my zone if u don't have any advice for me. You are probably a jobless dude who has quit searching for jobs and just sits at bus stops reading headlines of news papers. Rubbish!
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by iguita: 12:30pm On Mar 30, 2017
Is this coy in Ikoyi? I am guessing a coy a friend works in where the pay is this wack. The coy is not porpular though.
sgtponzihater:
I won't come here and start telling lies. The organisation does radiological investigations. It's more of a man and a wife that runs the place and it has gained so much name in the environment that clients troop in every second. The in house staying is so that when clients come in the midnight they can be attended to. As it's a 24hr service being offered.
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 30, 2017
iguita:
Is this coy in Ikoyi? I am guessing a coy a friend works in where the pay is this wack. The coy is not porpular though.
My brother the worst thing is for people to feel you are making it when opposite is the case. The money is mostly distributed at the top. The fact of wearing Cooperate shirt daily and earning low is sickening.
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by lovethchioma(f): 12:57pm On Mar 30, 2017
Imagine... wife and girlfriend? some men are just very annoying and he is even proud to say it. mtcheww

oh I just read through.... your grandfather, your father, and of course you wanna take the same step... What more can I say? More power to your elbow.
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Mar 30, 2017
lovethchioma:
Imagine... wife and girlfriend? some men are just very annoying and he is even proud to say it. mtcheww

oh I just read through.... your grandfather, your father, and of course you wanna take the same step... What more can I say? More power to your elbow.
I asked for an advice not criticism
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by apollo13(m): 1:55pm On Mar 30, 2017
Jammiiee:
... the job huh sad angry angry



Baba why u dey lie now . angry angry :
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Lolzzz
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by apollo13(m): 1:58pm On Mar 30, 2017
duduade:
Your last proverb I wanted to write o.. But changed my mind.... Loool...
@ duduade, shey I dey lie Ni?
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by rhymesnoni(m): 2:42pm On Mar 30, 2017
how comes u acceptd da job without principally knowing ya sallaryhuh?
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Nobody: 6:34pm On Mar 30, 2017
Current update is that the HR refused to get to me as promise but is tactically dodging me. Am packing my bags tomorrow. "Na God dey pursue fly for cow wey no get tail".
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Danielink: 8:57pm On Mar 30, 2017
if only you can do away with the galfrend may be it will do you!
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by Nobody: 12:40am On Mar 31, 2017
Danielink:
if only you can do away with the galfrend may be it will do you!
Thanks. Will try
Re: How Do I Tactfully Reject A Job Offer. by iguita: 11:19pm On Mar 31, 2017
Its a pity. The coy I am talking about, a friend works there. She earns 40k per month, graduate oo. She enters transport of 1200 per day and she works 6 days in a week. Yet she works for a company that there are only two of such companies in Nigeria. That means everyone who needs those services have to come to one of the two companies. Yet, nothing to show for it.
sgtponzihater:
My brother the worst thing is for people to feel you are making it when opposite is the case. The money is mostly distributed at the top. The fact of wearing Cooperate shirt daily and earning low is sickening.
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