buoye1:
This is really complicated... There's more to what you've narrated here i guess..... A lot of things we can't even understand but I'll advice you run away from home... Just hide for your life

yomi007k:


U sure ds is not a family curse?

biigdeek:


How do you mean?

tukdi:
Don't run away! Stay at home and address the issue at once!

yomi007k:


Why shud ur own brothers want to implicate u n get u arrested for worthless excuses?

I think u need to stay far from them because dos guys can kill u if dey hv a clean opportunity.

biigdeek:


My problem now is am not sure if they acted together, or if my immediate brother did it out of drunkeness.

biigdeek:


Its also complicated to even me myself.

yomi007k:


This is a bad idea.

tukdi:


In my own opinion, it's better to address the issue once and for all!

When you run away, the problem doesn't also run away, it lingers till you are back!

N/B: Don't forget that your family is not your workplace or school that you can easily run away and return when you feel like!

Above all, pray to God for wisdom before you take any decision and also surrender everything to God!


Cheers!!!

yomi007k:


I understand ur point but dos elder brothers dnt seem like reasonable ppl one csn speak wt, dy seem like ppl u hire soldiers to deal with.

Pidgin2:
They will only treat you this way if you have not been cooperative and helpful to the family

tukdi:


Engage them in an argument and also charge them to disclose the offence you've committed against them!


If you don't know what you've done knowingly or unknowingly that has angered them, how are you going to settle the problem?

I still say it categorically and unequivocally that you must confront them and if they don't disclose to you what your offence is, then they should forever hold their breath!

biigdeek:


Actually my Uncle held a meeting on the issue, was asking him questions, he didn't say anything gave him the silent treatment. He was furious and warned him never to try it again. My other Siblings said they are after family Unity, that whatever he does I should ignore and accept that he's family.

biigdeek:


Actually my Uncle held a meeting on the issue, was asking him questions, he didn't say anything gave him the silent treatment. He was furious and warned him never to try it again. My other Siblings said they are after family Unity, that whatever he does I should ignore and accept that he's family.

Alphaoscar:






I think I know what your brother is using your account for.



There are some customers that will bring excess money above the deposit limit to the bank, what most tellers do is to temporarily lodge the money in another account ( with the knowledge of the customer most of the times ) and the money will be moved from your account once it's OK to do that . This money happen within 24hours and everything is done and settled.

biigdeek:


Is it ethical?
Why did he use force to get my international passport?
Why did he disable my text message settings?
Why did he insist on mine alone, why not use others?
Somehow I know he makes money from the arrangement, cos he told me that he was doing it to "survive", surprisely you didn't mention anything about how the banker makes profit from such arrangement.

Alphaoscar:



I am not a banker nor your brother so I am not in a position to tell you how he's using your account to make money.

Joavid:
As for your alcoholic brother, being drunk makes a person more expressive. They would say everything they bottled up inside while sober.
What he says is exactly how he feels about your dad.

and for your Banker brother who wants to use your account for monkey business, with no respect towards you or your feelings, I say it's sad. which leads me to the question - How were you guys brought up?

Was your upbringing based on love or fear?

Why is your dad powerless?

There is more to this issue than this.

Acidosis:
Sorry, your brothers have hijacked the home from your dad.


There is nothing you can do since your dad has lost control of his household.


Continue to survive, whenever you're grown enough to survive alone, take the lessons and move out of the house.

What are the lessons?

1. Always take charge of your house. Rebuke your kids right from when they are small.

2. Only give birth to the number of kids you can effectively manage. If you can't manage 7, try 2, 1 or 3.

3. Above all, allow God's principles reign in your home.

So you sabee God

MummyIMadeIt:
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So you sabee God

Acidosis:


Yes na