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Hemorrhoidectomy is a minor procedure, you have nothing to fear..though your surgeon need to do a thorough evaluation with aim of finding possible risk factors for your hemorrhoid.


By the way, have you tried Tab Daflon ?

Please run away from herbal medications if you still like your liver and kidneys.

Help yourself by reading about toxic hepatitis and toxic nephropathy..my 20 cents

Whatsapp me, so I will give you a friends phone no that can give you a solution if it will works for you too.

freeDR:
Please come back here after 7days to share your testimony. We are interested in the outcome of your choice of treatment. Thanks.

Well said!

U will be fine

My advise don't do it. There are herbal medicine u can use to make it go inside quick and never come out again.

Incognito101:
My name is Tope. I am 26 and have had problems with hemorrhoids for years. It was getting to where I was spending several hours indoor due to the pains and discomfort. I don't socialize, don't go out, always behind closed doors.

I got referred to a surgeon recently and he said I had bad case and set me up for surgery. They decided to do a colenistimy (colon probe. where I guess they pump you full of air and put a tube all the way up) and I was told afterwards that I had some of the largest they had seen.

I will be going back for the main surgery in few days and I am scared to death the risk and complications that might follows.

Any advice, suggestions, what to do and what not to do from you all will be well appreciated. Thanks.

Do not be scared,its not a life thretning surgery and in less than one wk u will be good to go and free from the ailment permanently,pls ignore those herbal,they will cause more complication with their trial and error after eating your money with no result,u will still go for the surgery,its no big deal,u are already healed okay

Freiden:
Ignore em and go for the surgery. You will be fine. They are just hustlers trying to make ends meet

How come some peeps too are starting thier own herbal treatment tomorrow? Well.... U never can tell, God is watching...

Freiden:
Baba swerve....dont make it look like hes gon die during the surgery

I never said he is going to die, I said surgery does not correct the root the cause

salford:
This is the direction i am leanimg towards.
I eat lots of vegetables nowadays and drink lots of water too. I am preventing mine from getting any worse. The thought of surgery scares the shit out of me.lol.

You have to try as much as possible to avoid flour based as bread and biscuits because they contain no fiber. With time you be okay.

greenmonk:
If you are a Nigerian just mention this thread when you are in Nigeria. The man I know can cure your own with less than #20k.

where in Nigeria are you? cuz I'm having similar issues

you can call me or whatsapp me for the best remedy.. 08060447342

blovesther:
I had someone that was booked for operation as well but someone introduced us to Kedi herbal products and the person is free today. That was two years ago andGreetings to u all,please I need a candid advise because am fed up and confused at same time.It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife that is what I thought back then.so I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church,not all these money making churchs.so I confided in him , so one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her ,that she is God fearing ,a church worker and her father is a pastor in one of the northern states,which he did and introduced us and gradually we started dating,


I even took her to see my parent.to their amazement she woke up around 4am and swept and cleaned the house before we could even wake up for morning prayers.when my Dad saw this he was really please and was like this truly is wife material.but my Mum was like don’t conclude oh as per girls of nowadays that we should keep praying.at first I wanted us to do our traditional marriage in April 2012 and after that white wedding but she started indirectly pressuring me that we should do trad in August and white in November,2011.i thot about it,and with my naïve mind said to myself that since she seems nice and am ready to marry.


I agreed and we got married in 2011.we did both court and church marriage.immediatly we came back from honey moon my life has been one hell of a life or another.it began when my former collegue in the bank sent her sister to bring her cv to me incase we are recruiting so that I can submit for her.so the lady called later to thank me for the assistance and my wife was with me in the sitting room.it was around 7-8pm.after the call my wife started quarreling,that who is that lady calling me that am cheating on her,she went inside the room and brought out our wedding cert.that she will tear it and that we should go our separate ways.i became shocked ,I then told her that she can take the lady’s number or I can call the lady in her presence.that I don’t even know the lady. I did not even have the lady number in my phone,the lady collected my number to follow up and that is all.



I left her with my phones and entered the room.this was happening barely a month and a half after our wedding.as the days go by she started bringing different quarrels and problem.after like a year two month into the marriage,one faithful Friday night after I came back from work and I was fast asleep she woke me up around 11pm that we should talk.and I told her that if we can leave it till morning knowing fully well that the next day was satuday unless if the matter is btw life and death then I can wait.she said it is not btw life and death and was insisting that we talk before I knew it she brought out a knife and wanted to stab me so I manage to collect the knife and threw it into the wordrobe.


By then the sleep in my eyes cleared immediately and I was like what is the matter what is wrong or what wrong have I done to her,my people up till tofday she has not given me an answer.so she stood there speechless so I assume all is well then as I was going tom bed she took one of her high heel and struck me behind my head I fell down and went blank.after a while I woke up and saw her looking at me.so I got up and entered my car with blood all over me to her uncle’s house and showed them and told them what happened.before I continue we live in Abj,so the uncle called her parent and her mum came to Abj the next day.before then I had written and taken my divorce letter to the pastor that am not doing again.


After that the pastor and her people intervened and talked to her. I went to that my colleague that introduced her to me that what does he know about her that I may not know so he said she told him in confidence that she was in cult in the university and that her boyfriend then was the capon.she also told him that the boy friend was shot in school then and died in her arms.when I confronted her she down played everything and wanted to pick a quarrel,so that one died down.


Before I continue,am a banker ,and my wife has a boutique that she sells men wears in Abj. She hardly laughs but b4 we got married she was always laughing.i havs severally asked her what the matter is but she will say it is nothing. Before now I did not know that my wife is a runs girl,after our baby’s birth in Dec 2012 my wife went and did family planning without my consent,it was in the evening when the stuf started disturbing her that I got to know. In August last year that is 2014,I was watching news when she came back by 9:30pm,she started making it a habit of coming late in 2014 and that has caused serious quarrel btw us. So when she came in she droped her phone on the center table and went inside to take her shower.as I was watching the television I now said let me go through her gallery because she likes taking pictures.after that I now checked her messages.i was shocked what I saw.

She sent a text to a married man,saying that she cursed him with the sperm he pured inside her and the man said it was mutual that she is the one came to his house to collect money for the shoes and shirts he bought,he also said he will curse her with his children’s life that she is not the only one that has a child and insisted that it was mutual.at that point my hands started shaking and before I know I she jumped out of the bathroom with soap on her body to take her phone.immediatly she came to the sitting room and saw me with her phone she frozed for like 15seconds not knowing what to say after that I asked her who is the man and she said that I was one of her friends from owerri that used her phone to chat the man.

when I checked the chat history it was not just one day chat it spans four days becos the chat was very lengthy. So I was pissed off, I reported the issue to the pastor where we got married and he down play it that she cannot do such a thing..
My wife has quarreled with all my neighbours in my compound of 8 flat,she has also quarreled with our security guards at the gate to the extent that they have refused to wash her car.On 25 of dec 2014 after returning from the church my wife spreed her cloth under the sun and my neighbour’s puppy came and played with the cloth and tore part of it.the next day she went to tell then but she did not grt a good response so she went behind and boiled hot water and pured on the puppy. My neighbor’s wife went and call police for her the next day being Sunday.but their aim is to keep her in cell till Monday to teach her a lesson.unknown to them my uncle is a top police officer so I called him and we were able to bail her putting Monday date.since then small thing my wife will start saying things that she is suspecting me , that am having am affair.i now told her how,she now said a man that does not drink alcohol and does not smoke will surely womanise.i then asure her that I have done nothing of such.and truly since I married her four years ago I have never looked at any woman aside her.

To cut a long stry short,February this year as usual during valentine I to her to a shop and asked her to pick whatever she wants.then she picked cloths and shoes worth 70k and I paid. After that February ending I usually give her 50k for upkeep so tha day I had keep the 50k but there was a plumbing problem that I had to take 5k out of it to solve so I gave her 45k promising to bring the balance home or I credit her,and that faithful morning we were having a meeting in which a top official is coming from head office and my head of operations was nor around so I was sitting in for her.

so I asked my wife to help me take our daughter to sch that day as I have to rush to the office b4 time. After giving my wife the 45k she threw it on the floor that it is not enough and started insulting me that what kind of useless job is that ,unknown to me she had gone and locked the entrance door and taken the key,as I was about to go out I discovered that the door was lock,so I called her aunte to talk to her,as she was on the phone with the aunt I went through the back door. As I was about to drive out I saw my wife rushing to close the gate with only pant and singlet,I mean pant and singlet not bump hort or rapper.i was surprise,but before she could close the gate I had already passed she now took a big stone and stared running after the car.
she threw the stone at my suv ,it sounded like a bomb very loud.at first I did not know what happened untill I saw her running towards the car so I stoped,she now came held my side mirrow and started breaking it so I had to drive off. I was devasted and could not make it to work,so I called someone in the office that I won’st be able to make it to the office that am having some issues at home.


She went back to the house and called my Dad that if I come back she will kill me.so my Dad called me and I explained to him immediately what happened. so he said I should not go back home that day, I went and slept in a hotel In town .so the next day her mum came and I went home.Now it is not that am afraid of her but because I respect women and will not want to beat ofr fight her,I am far biger and taller than her if I decide to cough she will vanish so is not that am afraid of her am only respecting the marriage institution. When I got home the second day to resume work the third day I discovered that she had tore all my cloths,my shirt both office and casuals,all my suit including my wedding suit,.so I had nothing to wear the next day.so I missed work wednesdy,Thursday and Friday,during all these happening I have been in touch with my office and told them am having some family issues and could not make it to work.



I resumed the next Monday to work and everything seem to be going well, then on Tuesday I got a sack letter from human resources of the bank.unkonwn to me. the new manager that was posted to my branch got a querry for myself and the head of operations not being around for the initial meeting. so he was angry and he wrote to the bank’s human resources and when they checked that I was not logged on for the three days I was sacked,all because of my wife.most times she sends abusive texts messages to me while in the office.For instance if am attending to customers and she is calling and I did not pick on time she will now send a nasty text that I delibertly don”t want to pick her calls.i have even told her to come and see how we work in my office.so since march am yet to get any serious thing to do.
I January I had 2.5m I paid our rent 1m and part pay for a land 1m and the remaining 500k lasted us from march till june.as usual with banks I was not paid anything.so when my savings finished in june the major financial burden fell on her,with little coming from me now.Since then my wife has made my life a living hell with all sorts of insult. For example in November,there was nothing in the house so she went to southern fries and bought rice and chicken for herself,then bought a watery oha soup with out meat that I should make garri and eat with it.it was when I wanted to microwave it that I discovered that it was watery and has no meat.i did not say anything.


Most times I stay back at home unless I have an appointment or an interview just not to spend unnecessary .so I was checking one of the cupboard in our room and I saw somethings she got from a native doctor,they include a bottle of concosion with the label witches and wizards destroying oil,the second one was two of her bathing soap with burnt candle on it when I looked at the soap closely I saw small cross buried inside,the third thing I saw was the complimentary card of the native doctor.All these things I just mentioned are real and I have their pictures that I snapped.i picked them and went to her uncle’S place to show him and he was mad,he immediately called her parent to come to Abj immediately and I called my parent to come becos I told them I don’t want the marriage again. Both parties came and the meeting lasted from 5pm to 12 mid nite and continued again the next day.

she could not defend her sellf and I said am not doing again and everyone started beging that I should give her one more chance.and it seems the issues was resolved.i started my investigation and discovered that unknown to me my wife is a runs girl even b4 I married her and after marriage she continued .that is why she went and did family planning without my knowledge so that she can be sleeping with me with out condom.and this days she dresses sugestivly.i have reported to the pastor ,her parent about her dressing but she has not changed.presently she is fighting with a lady in her former church the lady is a leader in the church.she said the lady has been attacking her in the dream and anytime they lady sees her the lady calls her prostitute.She told me that the lady is sleeping with her pastor.My wife has bad mouth and insult at every provocation,she hadly laughs always moody but when some kind of men call her she will be laughing as if tomorrow no dey.

Today being Christmas as we were preparing to go to church,she was noW feeding our daughter who just turned 3 last week.becos the baby was being slow to eat she started shouting that if the baby does not eat quikly that she will injure her.when I heard that I came and told her that such statement to a baby is not good,I have cautioned her severally not to be telling the baby that she will injure her.because there was a day I was playing with our baby and the baby was telling me that she will injure me.so becos of that I cautioned her.that was all,instead of her to take corrections she started insulting me.that am useless,that the whole burden is on her that she regrets marrying me.that she will surprise me one of these days.

She never complained of it since then....
This is the victims number 08107677521.....you can call her to explain better

Are u writing a novel?

cyphher:
Pls how much does the surgery cost and what hospital

As a student of one of Nigeria tertiary institution, National Health insurance Scheme (NHIS) will cover the cost. But if there's any other thing outside that, I'll let you know.

Incognito101:
My name is Tope. I am 26 and have had problems with hemorrhoids for years. It was getting to where I was spending several hours indoor due to the pains and discomfort. I don't socialize, don't go out, always behind closed doors.

I got referred to a surgeon recently and he said I had bad case and set me up for surgery. They decided to do a colenistimy (colon probe. where I guess they pump you full of air and put a tube all the way up) and I was told afterwards that I had some of the largest they had seen.

I will be going back for the main surgery in few days and I am scared to death the risk and complications that might follows.

Any advice, suggestions, what to do and what not to do from you all will be well appreciated. Thanks.

You mean colonoscopy?

Ask the doctor if it will be surgical stapling (cuts off blood supply to it and tissue shrinks and reaborbed) or hemorrhoidectomy (cutting off)?

It should be a minimal invasive procedure. You will be alright.
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eyinjuege:
You're a young man, presumably fit and healthy.

You shouldn't have any problem, provided the surgeon doing your case has a good track record.

Just calm down, and come and share your experience afterwards.

Sure I'll. Thanks...

Incognito101:
Will heed to this. Thanks a bunch...

You are welcome. The only irony is you might have to strip unclad in front of female nurses. I guess you are a male. One might need to shave your public area, another might need to inject water into your anus just before the procedure to clean you through in there. It was weird for me but who cares if that is what makes you whole again and free me from an excruciating pain? My own haermorrhoid was already at third stage while I took surgical option. It protruded outside and each time I went to toilet I usually had to force it in with an attendant pain that ricocheted into my brain and would last like one hour after before it would subside. Going to toilet became horror to me. I was later told it was already infected by then. With so much pain, I just wanted the fastest way out of it and stopped listening to all those bullshit local remedy stories and wouldn't even care if I needed to strip unclad before anyone. Quite funny how choice between life and death can make some conservative ideas you once held become inconsequential. I eventually appreciated my choice, it has kept me happy. No side effect since 2006.

All will be well in Jesus name

OP..nothing wrong in been worried. Like people here have mentioned...their are different degree of this defect. I am sure your doctors know best. If it was minor with no pains like mine, they would have probably told you to change your lifestyle aka food choice and drinking lots of fluids with plenty exercise. The doctor must have recommended surgery for reasons best to to his profession. You would come out fine IJN. All the best.

henrydadon:
oga relax..you no go know wetin go touch you by the time dem apply anathestic and pain killer drug give you




but i don't trust nigerian doctors..they probably don't have things like that here..

if you have the money i will advise you to travel out for treatment..nigerian doctor no get joy..dem fix say oxygen finish now if dem dey for bad mood.. abeg carry your own oxygen go that hospital just to be safe..

Hahahah can't stop laughing

@Incognito101
Bro sorry for what u r facing at this time and I wish u quick recovery.
Also please I need your contact or may be you reach me on phone 08029214515.. Tony by name... Just needs to follow your footstep cos a brother of mine has the same issue. I need the hospital where I can take him to for the operation but uif u feel urs can do better please kindly share the hospital with and location.
I reside in lag, thanks for ur assistance.

I think i have a little help i can offer u

lastround:
HI Tope, I will not advice you to go for surgery. Before we go further, am a natural healer, I will like you to ask you some questions:
1. Are you always constipated?
2. Do you eat alot of processed foods?
3. Do you drink enough water
4. do you eat enough plant based diets and vegetable.
Answer these questions and we can start from there.
REMEMBER, surgery will not cure it because there are hiddens causes and once we identify those causes, with time you will be okay. Most times the herbal practitioners do not put lifestyle into consideration while giving treatment.

1. Yes
2. Yes
3. I do now, unlike before...
4. No

What method did the doctor say he would be using. I would be able to advise you if I know the method to be used. Find out from him.

olrotimi:
There, right there is what worsened your condition. Otherwise, a 26yr old has no business with Grade 4 hemorrhoids.
Let's also pray your liver and kidneys don't misbehave 10-15yrs from now

Are you aware he's reading comments on this post? Thought you advised he rest ease
Why you heightening his anxiety now with the alarming kidney and liver probable misbehavior

okonja:
Have you visit Yemkem or OkoOloyun?

Pls go to d hospital don't visit me

Incognito101:
My name is Tope. I am 26 and have had problems with hemorrhoids for years. It was getting to where I was spending several hours indoor due to the pains and discomfort. I don't socialize, don't go out, always behind closed doors.

I got referred to a surgeon recently and he said I had bad case and set me up for surgery. They decided to do a colenistimy (colon probe. where I guess they pump you full of air and put a tube all the way up) and I was told afterwards that I had some of the largest they had seen.

I will be going back for the main surgery in few days and I am scared to death the risk and complications that might follows.

Any advice, suggestions, what to do and what not to do from you all will be well appreciated. Thanks.

You may not need surgery. I have been that road and quite know what you are saying. It was 1999/2000. It became worse during that period cos I was serving as a corper and very far away from home. I went to Gwagwalada specialist hospital where i was told i would have to go through operation. I was scared. My saving grace was my girl friend who introduced me to a woman in Garki corner shop then. She placed me on diet. I became a vegeterian over night. I was told not to eat anything crispy or oily. I cut off sugar completely. I was on it for almost 6 months. What anusol couldnt do. Food did it. Kindly see medical nutrionist in any big hospital may be you may not need to be operated on

[quote author=Incognito101 post=55231923]My name is Tope. I am 26 and have had problems with hemorrhoids for years. It was getting to where I was spending several hours indoor due to the pains and discomfort. I don't socialize, don't go out, always behind closed doors.

I got referred to a surgeon recently and he said I had bad case and set me up for surgery. They decided to do a colenistimy (colon probe. where I guess they pump you full of air and put a tube all the way up) and I was told afterwards that I had some of the largest they had seen.

I will be going back for the main surgery in few days and I am scared to death the risk and complications that might follows.

Any advice, suggestions, what to do and what not to do from you all will be well appreciated. Thanks.
Op kindly pm me

incognito101/tope. Beware of dem herbalist hawking their 5 N 1 RAT mixture. Go and meet ur doctor. Doctor treat, God "HEALED THEM ALL".FEAR NOT.Whateva u FEAR go come into manifestation. Go and see ur doctor and stop entertaining FEAR

AuroraB:
Are you aware he's reading comments on this post? Thought you advised he rest ease
Why you heightening his anxiety now with the alarming kidney and liver probable misbehavior

Thank you ma but it's a warning to those who still indulge in such stuff to desist from it.
Thank you ma

Incognito101:
My name is Tope. I am 26 and have had problems with hemorrhoids for years. It was getting to where I was spending several hours indoor due to the pains and discomfort. I don't socialize, don't go out, always behind closed doors.

I got referred to a surgeon recently and he said I had bad case and set me up for surgery. They decided to do a colenistimy (colon probe. where I guess they pump you full of air and put a tube all the way up) and I was told afterwards that I had some of the largest they had seen.

I will be going back for the main surgery in few days and I am scared to death the risk and complications that might follows.

Any advice, suggestions, what to do and what not to do from you all will be well appreciated. Thanks.

Where are you located? I have herb to give to you as trial...... #freeofcharge

apollo13:
Are u writing a novel?

I have read dis same tale 3 yrs ago

DandyWalker:
sir, epidemiologically speaking, hemorrhoid is no respecter of any body or age. it all depends on the persons diet and bowel habit. and concerning liver or kidney.disease, there is no relationship. There is no point spreading "false" fears at this point.
op, go for ur surgery and get.well. the biggest fear is anal stenosis and temporary urinary retention but im sure your doctor would find a way.around that.
fear not, all.the best.

My guy, I appreciate your input but there is a reason why a line was bolded.
You see as ppl dey take fail mcq ba, meanwhile they would be bragging :"omo I cleared that exam!"
Thank you sir once again.