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| I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Talk2Bella(f): 1:20pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Hello Bella I watched your YouTube video where you talked about liking a guy and being straightforward about it, there’s this guy I like who’s also asking me out but every day we go out all he talks about is sex and the things he will do to my body and this is making me angry. I don’t want a relationship based on sex, I have told him this; it’s not like I won’t have sex with him but we just met like two months ago and that’s all he talks about, I have told him to stop that I do not like it he says that’s the way he is and he loves me and wants to be free to talk about anything with me, what do I do? Talk2Bella Honey two months should be enough to know if you really love this guy to allow him access to your body, mind and soul; don’t be pressurized into having sex with him, sex isn’t pleasurable if only one party in a relationship is interested in it. If he cannot b free with you and talk about these things then who should he talk to them about? it’s a good thing you love him and he loves you too, get comfortable when he talks about it, it’s nothing to be shy about; he’s been with you for two months and if you don’t feel ready having sex with him yet tell him this and if he can’t wait then both of you should move on. Your mail says you also want to have sex with him but you don’t feel the time is right yet, honey know this if you’re scared the longer you keep it away from him the more he will respect you sometimes it doesn’t want that way, try and know if he wants a long term relationship with you or he just wants the sex and bounce thing with you. I hope this works out for you, sex really isn’t that important in a relationship for some people. Isabella Ibeji http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/04/i-like-him-but-all-he-talks-about-is-sex.html 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by RoyalBlak007: 1:23pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
♤Scåred of ♤bånging?  2 Likes |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Neozy(m): 1:52pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
pls what are the other benfits a guy can get from a relationship apart from sex? Because there are some girls that have nothing else to offer. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:56pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Funny replies by this blogger... Talk2Bella: MBJ's reply: As much as 2 months may seem much to some, it may seem short to others. There is no timetable for love/sex. As much as you shouldnt be pressurized into anything, don't waste this man's time, and instead get rid of him. What more do you need to know about him? Do you hope/think he Will change? If he cannot b free with you and talk about these things then who should he talk to them about? it’s a good thing you love him and he loves you too, get comfortable when he talks about it, it’s nothing to be shy about; he’s been with you for two months and if you don’t feel ready having sex with him yet tell him this and if he can’t wait then both of you should move on. MBJ's reply: As much as love after 2 months isn't impossible, i suggest you check what exactly he loves about you. "Love" is such an easy word to spit these days. If he indeed loved you, he wouldn't continue doing something he knows you are not comfortable with. Its all about compatibility. Your mail says you also want to have sex with him but you don’t feel the time is right yet, honey know this if you’re scared the longer you keep it away from him the more he will respect you sometimes it doesn’t want that way, try and know if he wants a long term relationship with you or he just wants the sex and bounce thing with you. MBJ's reply: Respect has absolutely nothing to do with waiting for sex. Everything has to be RIGHT, and until it is, nobody should go ahead and have sex. Let this man respect things that are more important such as TRUST, RESPECT etc. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Nobody: 2:28pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
If a guy cannot have a long decent conversation with me without involving sex talk, then that guy is nothing but a fuvkboy. |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by darbeelicous(f): 2:33pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
True.......... Take five!! . . . . . But babe ure everywhere..... ToriBlue: 2 Likes |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by bamisepeters(m): 2:47pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Don't get it alltwisted, sex is one major element in any relationship, however, choice and timing of sex in a relationship can make you hate/cherish the actual sense of relationship. Though, there are many relationships whereby within one week they have gone through rivers and valleys with each other, yet, they are still much stronger than those who studied themselves for several months or years before experiencing se x with each other. READ ALSO: REASONS WHY S*X ISN'T LOVE That is to say, duration of the relationship before se x does not determine the intention or future of the relationship. However, if all he clamours about is sex, it is a sign of warning as he is already telling you what he wants. Run from this kind of man as even in a decent relationship the sex comes naturally and not by you saying it day after day and not by just one party's consent but the two. His interest is in the se x, just start packing your emotional loads from him and don't allow him give your heart a hole if you know you are not ready and you know it is not time, let him find his type. Truth must be told, a man who genuinely loves you can still hold himself for more than two months, and will not keep ringing the se x bell to your hears just within two months like you are a se x machine. If you are not the type that demand for material things from him which may be the cause of some guys who believes when you show women the colors of money they lie down flat to keep shouting se x as that is the only thing such guys can get in return from you, then, you need to run. SHE SHOULD JUST RUN. SOURCE: http://bamisepeters..nl/2017/04/re-moment-when-what-he-only-ask-for-is.html |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Nobody: 2:49pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
It possible he's more of a talker than a doer... This happens with men who natural has this phobia for penetration. The only way to show to the outside world that they ain't sex starved is to be naughty in a pretentious manner |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by megareal: 2:51pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
What's with the sex sex sex? Talk to me about interesting topics especially, politics, business ideas, etc. I prefer cerebral coversations during dates sha, cos I'm always trying to learn something new and to also find out the man's depth intelligence wise. |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by dtruth50: 3:15pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
hmm is sex A MUST in relationship? u ar advicin as if dey ar married couple |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Nobody: 3:27pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
A guy that can't keep a decent conversation without bringing sex up but claims he loves you, doesn't know what love is. He's only interested in what's in-between your legs so should be discarded 'cause sex is all you'll be doing for as long as the relationship last. |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Dygeasy(m): 3:35pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
The girl should just flee. Two months isn't enough for her to know if she loves the guy. That the guy is genuinely in love with her is also arguable. Why does he have to continually talk about sex? Doesn't make SENSE TBH. It simply means all the things that making him likeable to the girl are being done so he can have sex with her. Once the sex starts, it will only go well for a very short while, that's for sure. |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Dygeasy(m): 3:36pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Benita27:I'm thinking the same too. Is sex such an interesting/elaborate topic to discuss other than other things that can actually make a relationship grow/work? |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by NgoziOkoli(f): 3:48pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Useless people creating senseless threads |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Nobody: 3:51pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Dygeasy:I tire for some guys. When there're over a 1000 things to discuss, some see sex as number one on their priority list, and it tells a lot about their area of interest. Unconsciously they give themselves away thinking it's all we all want which isn't true. You build a relationship first before sex, and if it must come in, don't make it seem like it's all you've got in store for your gf. |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by SmellingAnus(m): 3:56pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Talking about sex even within the first week of knowing each other is not wrong , however focusing too much on it as if it's the only sport you guys will be engaged in its wrong... No doubt sex is sweet.... But sex is not the Ultimate... It is the Hulk Hogan.... (Lol... Don't take this advise seriously, I just felt like being naughty) 1 Like |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by kaboninc(m): 4:14pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
megareal: Hmm.. Na so.. . |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by kaboninc(m): 4:15pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Benita27: The funny thing is that them girls love the sex more than them dudes! 1 Like |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by kaboninc(m): 4:17pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Dygeasy: Sex is sweet... Sweet things are interesting.... Sex is interesting! |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Nobody: 4:18pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
kaboninc:Yeah, that's when a relationship has been established. Not when we're still on getting to know each other. |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by kaboninc(m): 4:19pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Dygeasy: Sex can open or lead to more interesting things... Some people start by having sex.. .then end up having a great relationship.. . What works for you doesn't work for others... . |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by firstking01(m): 4:19pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Them don talk finish na, wetin i wan type again. |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by kaboninc(m): 4:20pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Benita27: To you, fine and to others.. .not always so.. . So ladies doing initiate the sex sex thingy... |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by kaboninc(m): 4:23pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Talk2Bella.. . Please tell her to leave him.. . He talks about sex, she doesn't like sex and he seems not to gerrit! So she should leave him.. .simple! |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by pizzylee(m): 5:14pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
op my advice- go watch dz movie "am in love with a church girl"....follow ur guts am sure u will b fyn.....over to u pretenders because op brought dz topic some girls are like 'guys like sex a lot' na dea type dey want make guy last 62hrs in bed 1 Like |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:52pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
As much as ALWAYS talking about sex is wrong, talking about everything (sometimes sex too) isn't wrong. If a lady DOESNT/NEVER want to talk about sex, then this is equally weird. 1 Like |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by MrNas10(m): 6:23pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
 if you love him that much. don't complain about it. give him what he want!!! |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Nobody: 6:26pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
[quote author=Benita27 post=55354446]I tire for some guys. When there're over a 1000 things to discuss, some see sex as number one on their priority list, and it tells a lot about their area of interest. if @all their is 1000 topics to discuss ,,base on logistics i can authoritatively tell yu 998 is about sex ,,999. b money spending topics,,1000. b future 2geda as couple. doesnt sound right to enlist sex as no.1 priority but how many r/ship can survive No/poor sex ... naija gurls no try wen it cums to intellectual chat,, yu call them if they(babes) are nt interrogating/suspecting yu ,,"its Av u eaten".. base on practical logistics gurls lik badt guys,,what is their to luv abt badt guys if nt fr there nawti chat n innovative sex patterns. jus spitting da truth if yu dnnt lik,, i dey my house cum n beat me  |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Mznaett: 6:30pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
MrNas10:Like seriously? 
Smh |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by MrNas10(m): 6:38pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by Mznaett: 6:43pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
MrNas10:Hmmm... Your opinion sha  |
| Re: I Like Him But All He Talks About Is Sex. by MrNas10(m): 6:50pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
Mznaett:after all. sex is part of the relationship!! 
=Mznaett |
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