This is exactly what an unserious lass posited here that ladies should use their youth and beauty to attract a made man. I'm pretty sure the new wife would have shouted God forbid if Musa were to be an average Aboki

LionDeLeo:


I don't really seem to understand what he is trying to say. She suffered and endured what exactly? Was she Musa’s private coach? What exactly did she suffer? For being with musa when he wasn't very rich? So, staying with a husband that is not rich is sufferness and endurance? So, during that period that she was suffering and enduring, musa was enjoying? Why is it that people tend to view it that when a man is poor, the lady was enduring? Why can't it be viewed also that the man was enduring as well? Talks like these actually paint ladies as gold diggers who shouldn't take responsibility and this is why you will hearing things like "can you marry a guy whose income is less than..." but you rarely hear of the reverse case.

u cn nt understand wat he said cos ur level of reasoning is abysmally low

Victorchuks4:
Muslim like chanfge women like wrapper that religion eh

and devoice is ensued with mere triple declarations of "I devoice you"

Makes no sense. Can't he secure his preeek ni? Must he marry a second wife? Even if he's religion permits it, it's left to him to not take it.

Chanchit:



Let's just face the harsh reality, the lady is selfish. if their religion permits, she could just have succumb to pressure. She would be the highest loser at the end of the day cos the incoming wife now becomes No1 because of her strong head.
Even if the new wife is a gold digger, she just made the gold digging easier by leaving the mine

Money blinds only the lucky one make good decisions with their kidney when it come to love + money

hollowpot15684:
a hausa man with a western touch.. the divorce that flow in the western culture has mixed with his genes.

hahaha,actually e be like say Hausa people they divorce pass whites sef,all they need to do is to shout I divorce 3 times in Arabic and that is all,this days they don dey send am through text message and e-mail,oyibo go first think of the stress of alimony and child custody brouhaha mellow down small

If his religion is not against it, and God permits it, then she is pushing herself out of her own home...PERIOD!

EbolaParasite:


A lot of Nigerian women like deceiving themselves. It is a Nigerian thing and not necessarily a muslim thing. The only difference is that Nigerian muslims make it official. The woman that became a christian because she doesnt want to be a second wife is deceiving herself. The men that don't carry second wives have BILLIONS of GIRLFRIENDS. Unless you marry JESUS, you are on a long thing.

Yes, she knows that he might be carrying girlfriends outside but he has not married a second wife and has never mentioned the idea to her... she herself admitted it - she is okay with him carrying girlfriend BUT he must not let her know about it.

As long as he doesn't bring another woman into their home to cause extra troubles she is cool with it - a lot of Nigerian women prefer this option to outright polygamy!

PS: It is not about cheating or being loyal... it is about NOT bringing another woman to cause troubles and competition in their homes!

pedrilo:
u cn nt understand wat he said cos ur level of reasoning is abysmally low

Cc
honeric01, semid4lyfe, seun.

redcliff:
This useless Muslim Law and rites formed by the selfish sex starved mohammed and his cronies just to satisfy their lustful desires...Naturally, there should be nothing like a man having more than 1 wife.

honeric01, semid4lyfe, seun

Chanchit:



Let's just face the harsh reality, the lady is selfish. if their religion permits, she could just have succumb to pressure. She would be the highest loser at the end of the day cos the incoming wife now becomes No1 because of her strong head.
Even if the new wife is a gold digger, she just made the gold digging easier by leaving the mine

And the gold digger will finish him.
Iranu

Chanchit:



If he wishes. their religion permits.

Please stop assuming you are not a muslim.

when things go left and the money doesn't flow anymore na then hm go knw wetin e do himsef.

the greatest enemy a man has is himself - gdp

he needs prayers because he is lost. he has made a life long mistake. and he will leave to regret it

pedrilo:
this is sound logic and common sense! Islam is causing trouble everywhere!

islam is not causing anything, people are tye ones peverting it!

Lagbaja01:
Juliet Adeh.....so musa couldn't choose any of the afusat, suliat,rashidat,memunat,basirat, aminat, aishat?.....I think that Juliet of a lady a GD!

She is not only a gold digger ..let her wait for a few years when he would want to marry another woman..she will then regret how she married a Muslim form kano...love ko love ni

Ahmed Musa should watch it, his career is about to experience a dip and some unknown injuries. This is because he has invoked his village witch...trust women

Chanchit:



Let's just face the harsh reality, the lady is selfish. if their religion permits, she could just have succumb to pressure. She would be the highest loser at the end of the day cos the incoming wife now becomes No1 because of her strong head.
Even if the new wife is a gold digger, she just made the gold digging easier by leaving the mine

THE RELIGION PERMITS THE MAN TO MARRY MORE WIVES. BUT IT DOES NOT COMPEL THE EXISTING WIFE TO REMAIN. JAMILA'S CHOICE. AHMED'S CHOICE. JAMILA MAY ACTUALLY BE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM. WHO KNOWS?

Buharimustgo:
So after the beautiful first wife suffered and endured everything when u were and had nothing,this is what u want to pay her with?Ahmed Musa this is not fair at all,she deserves to enjoy with you despite her differences which u didn't notice when u were a poor church rat

that's their belief and doctrine so she has to deal with it

See this wawa i dont blame u, u just have hand to type stupid thing put ur family member in the poor woman shoes. Am sure u have no respect for women

As a christian where is it written that a man can only marry one wife when most of the great men in the bible married more than one please leave Christianity out of this issue

Ahmed Musa is a Muslim. In Islam, a Muslim man is allowed to marry two, three or maximum of four wives. Marrying two wives and and being faithful to them is a virtue and rewarding before God when compared to the evil of committing adultery with just one wife.

Jamila needs counselling from Muslim scholars. If truly she is a Muslim, she shouldn't go against what God has legislated.

EbolaParasite:


A lot of Nigerian women like deceiving themselves. It is a Nigerian thing and not necessarily a muslim thing. The only difference is that Nigerian muslims make it official. The woman that became a christian because she doesnt want to be a second wife is deceiving herself. The men that don't carry second wives have BILLIONS of GIRLFRIENDS. Unless you marry JESUS, you are on a long thing.

And in your world- men with many wives dont have many girlfriends? Polygamy and adultery are not mutually exclusive

NubiLove:


Yes, she knows that he might be carrying girlfriends outside but he has not married a second wife and has never mentioned the idea to her... she herself admitted it - she is okay with him carrying girlfriend but not letting her know about it.

As long as he doesn't bring another woman into their home to cause extra troubles she is cool with it - a lot of Nigerian women prefer this option to outright polygamy!

PS: It is not about cheating or being loyal... it is about NOT bringing another woman to cause troubles and competition in their homes!

remarkably outstanding solution.
hope MaiGida and upcoming prodigy divorcees are paying attention.

Who knows the kind of food ds akwa ibom lady don giv am? All d orishirishi fud nd different styles in d bedroom.
Bt Musa its not gud to abandon d lady dat suffered wit u o o

woodcook:
I dont know whether to feel sorry for her or not. Marrying a muslim no matter how enlightened he is the lady still runs the "risk" of the husband taking additional wives.

One would think she knew this before hand and cool with it unless they have an agreement that that won't be the case.

Nevertheless, I think she is better off divorced than causing herself and husband headach in terms "get another wife no get another wife".

I wish both happiness in their new found life, I pray she finds love this time around.

oy oy, not every body enjoys the crowd, i for one am a one woman kind of guy. So pls dont put all of us in thesame basket.

And to that new money footballer Musa, YOU JUST MADE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF UR LIFE. Nobody ditches the first wife that stayed with them when they had nothing. The moment those pounds stop rolling in, JULIET GO DITCH AWAY UR BLAVK ABO#KI ASS

MrOlai:
Ahmed Musa is a Muslim. In Islam, a Muslim man is allowed to marry two, three or maximum of four wives. Marrying two wives and and being faithful to them is a virtue and rewarding before God when compared to the evil of committing adultery with just one wife.

Jamila needs counselling from Muslim scholars. If truly she is a Muslim, she shouldn't go against what God has legislated.

You want to tell me he will not commit adultery with this new wife of his?

I dont blame u GOD gave u hand to type stupid things wawa put urself or ur family member in her shoes u think its easy to share ur husband with another woman. Am sure u will do what the did cause u are also a man that dont have respect for women

LionDeLeo:


honeric01, semid4lyfe, seun

you think say na ban i dey fear...make them block the account sef...

VeeVeeMyLuv:

remarkably outstanding solution.
hope MaiGida and upcoming prodigy divorcees are paying attention.

Who is MaiGida?

5oyad:

You want to tell me he will not commit adultery with this new wife of his?

Have you caught him committing adultery before?

You go fear Juliet bottom power

Lagbaja01:
Juliet Adeh.....so musa couldn't choose any of the afusat, suliat,rashidat,memunat,basirat, aminat, aishat?.....I think that Juliet of a lady a GD!