hedonistic:


Don't be silly. What did she suffer and endure? This kind of useless mentality makes me very angry. So he shouldn't marry a second wife if he so desires - a privilege that his culture and religion entitles him to?

Let the ungrateful and deluded wife go and suffer and endure to make her own money, or to marry another premiership footballer, if it is that easy. She wants to be the solo madam to enjoy all the thousands of pounds that enter every week all alone - because she is the one that helped him get the contract or that empowers him to train and perform on the pitch abi?

Bloody parasites and hopelessly deluded creatures.

Baba no need to get angry. Remember the wife is also aware of what their religion permits. So maybe that already had a discussion that she was going to be the only wife only for Musa to come up with this surprise

We need to hear her own side of the story. But anyways, money or not mehn! 2 wife's name double wahala o.

Amberon:
Be enlightened, there are more men than women in the world.

since when Wife stealing should start make no man no go do anyhow o

Chanchit:



Let's just face the harsh reality, the lady is selfish. if their religion permits, she could just have succumb to pressure. She would be the highest loser at the end of the day cos the incoming wife now becomes No1 because of her strong head.
Even if the new wife is a gold digger, she just made the gold digging easier by leaving the mine

the same religion permits her to leave if she is uncomfortable with the new wife. stop judging.can you tolerate something similar happening to you?

hedonistic:


Don't be silly. What did she suffer and endure? This kind of useless mentality makes me very angry. So he shouldn't marry a second wife if he so desires - a privilege that his culture and religion entitles him to?

Let the ungrateful and deluded wife go and suffer and endure to make her own money, or to marry another premiership footballer, if it is that easy. She wants to be the solo madam to enjoy all the thousands of pounds that enter every week all alone - because she is the one that helped him get the contract or that empowers him to train and perform on the pitch abi?

Bloody parasites and hopelessly deluded creatures.

u really are delusional.

redcliff:
This useless Muslim Law and rites formed by the selfish sex starved mohammed and his cronies just to satisfy their lustful desires...Naturally, there should be nothing like a man having more than 1 wife.

And cheating on the wife is a better one
You must be mad

Chanchit:



Life is not fair bro. I'm a Christian, so my religion does not permit.

Point of correction: Your church does not permit. No where in the Bible is it stated that Polygamy is forbidden.

Amenya96:

the same religion permits her to leave if she is uncomfortable with the new wife. stop judging.can you tolerate something similar happening to you?

So you would advice her to leave if she's your sister? Is she now leaving to marry someone else as the first wife with her two children or she won't bother getting married again? Since the husband can afford to take care of both of them, fund her trip around the world, even if the love is no more there, she could strike a deal with her husband, being the first wife has lots of benefit, her children are the eldest already, but the divorce now put her children at disadvantage cos the new wife would know things she does not know and put her unborn children? They would control things and the real fight would start in the next 20-30 years. Use your brain and stop calculating only now.

Buharimustgo:
So after the beautiful first wife suffered and endured everything when u were and had nothing,this is what u want to pay her with?Ahmed Musa this is not fair at all,she deserves to enjoy with you despite her differences which u didn't notice when u were a poor church rat

stop it. His religion support it. Musa go ahead. Some women deseve to have a compititors,that will make them to behave well.

Amenya96:
u really are delusional.

That adjective best describes you and your fellow parasites.

Buharimustgo:
So after the beautiful first wife suffered and endured everything when u were and had nothing,this is what u want to pay her with?Ahmed Musa this is not fair at all,she deserves to enjoy with you despite her differences which u didn't notice when u were a poor church rat

were you there?

Victorchuks4:
Muslim like change women like wrapper that religion eh

Religion of peace. That's y he peacefully decieded to go for another woman. His choice.

MizTyna:


It is not always about money. It is infact rarely about money. Why do you think money is all the guy brings to the table? You really think at this stage she cares about the money? That is insulting especially to the husband

But I do not really like this 'she suffered with him' cry people cry though

Then what is it about? I don't see the need for all this long talk. A wealthy Northern Muslim Nigerian man chooses to marry multiple wives. Let's pause for a moment, take a deep breath, and ask: what is strange or unusual about this? Why do some girls of nowadays turn to unreasonable monsters simply because they managed to get an 'education', such that they begin to have unrealistic expectations? It really rankles! 90% of the popular elite Northern Muslims and perhaps up to 50% of Yoruba Muslims we know are married to more than one wife, so what exactly is the basis for the annoying entitlement mentality that the defunct wife is killing herself with?

Every girl getting married to a Muslim man (especially a Northerner) can't claim not to foresee a situation where he might choose to marry another wife someday, sooner or later, which is the man's right and entitlement in our culture! What is this damn fuss about, for goodness sake?

What an asshole

The lady is the one who's selfish? I fear your logic. And when did religion become a substitute for common sense?
Such a disgusting comment.

Chanchit:



Let's just face the harsh reality, the lady is selfish. if their religion permits, she could just have succumb to pressure. She would be the highest loser at the end of the day cos the incoming wife now becomes No1 because of her strong head.
Even if the new wife is a gold digger, she just made the gold digging easier by leaving the mine

Well done Musa Ahmed, you are a good man and a good muslim. You detest cheating that is why you followed the Islamic doctrine of getting married to another wife since you are capable to do it financially and physically.
As for his ex-wife, she is the loser. Once you are muslim lady, you can never compel your husband to marry only you. Is only a selfish muslim lady/woman that would go against what almighty Allah says in the Quran. All other muslim ladies should learn from this. I don't know why our muslim women are now selfish like their western counterparts.

Amberon:
Post the verse of the bible that permits such evil or forever hold your peace.

you should tell me where this 'evil' as you call it, is condemned in the bible.

Creepy comments on this thread making my skin crawl.
The height of selfishness and blind senselessness

Unfollows.

[quote author=hedonistic post=55636383]

Then what is it about? I don't see the need for all this long talk. A wealthy Northern Muslim Nigerian man chooses to marry multiple wives. Let's pause for a moment, take a deep breath, and ask: what is strange or unusual about this? Why do some girls of nowadays turn to unreasonable monsters simply because they managed to get an 'education', such that they begin to have unrealistic expectations? It really rankles! 90% of the popular elite Northern Muslims and perhaps up to 50% of Yoruba Muslims we know are married to more than one wife, so what exactly is the basis for the annoying entitlement mentality that the defunct wife is killing herself with?

Every girl getting married to a Muslim man (especially a Northerner) can't claim not to foresee a situation where he might choose to marry another wife someday, sooner or later, which is the man's right and entitlement in our culture! What is this damn fuss about, for goodness sake? [/quote
You are actually the one making a fuss. The lady in question left because she could not tolerate the cruelty. Big deal- why do you feel she must stay. Marriage comes with a mentality of entitlement from both sides- the man demands some rights and the woman some rights. The man might be entitled to his harem but he is definitely not entitled to force an unwilling wife to be part of the harem.

Gaddafithe2nd:
Well done Musa Ahmed, you are a good man and a good muslim. You detest cheating that is why you followed the Islamic doctrine of getting married to another wife since you are capable to do it financially and physically.
As for his ex-wife, she is the loser. Once you are muslim lady, you can never compel your husband to marry only you. Is only a selfish muslim lady/woman that would go against what almighty Allah says in the Quran. All other muslim ladies should learn from this. I don't know why our muslim women are now selfish like their western counterparts.

She is as much a loser and as selfish as the daughter of your prophet. Go annd read your Koran, Mohammad banned his daughter's husband from marrying another wife because it will hurt her. So what are you saying. The person that is selfish is the hypocritical man that is takinh advantage of a verse in the Koran which is meant for the care of orphans not as a license for men to have harems.

Since one wife is not enough for him. So he need to marry another me to replace the first one .

Hiding. Under religion to commit formication

MiddleDimension:


according to Surat Baquara (the cow) verse 177, marrying more wives is not the evidence that one is a devoted muslim, neither are true muslims 'those that bow to the east or west. but those who BELIEVE IN ALLAH, THE ANGELS, THE LAST DAY...'

Doz Islam support marrying more dan one wife? Should any wife of a Muslim man be against her husband's decision to take another wife??

ksbusari:
there wouldn't av been any problem if Musa had chosen a believer. this is lust on the part of Musa.

Since Islam permits muslim men to marry christian or jewish women, I don't see anything bad in what Musa did. Our muslim ladies/women are now self centred. Ask 10 muslim ladies this question, 'Would you allow your husband to marry another wife?'. 8-9 of them will go against it, some will tell you they will hypnotise their husband or kill him. Our muslim ladies/women should follow what Allah says in the Quran and stop being selfish.

hollowpot15684:


but they prefer to even marry 2-3 wives than divorce...

no oooo,maybe the cool ones,most of the ones in the north will marry up to four (the rich ones),the poor ones will marry one or two,when they want a new one they will divorce one and marry another,so they will only be married to one or two at a time but they would have married up to 8 by the time they clock 60,as for the kids na almajiri straight

5oyad:


She is as much a loser and as selfish as the daughter of your prophet. Go annd read your Koran, Mohammad banned his daughter's husband from marrying another wife because it will hurt her. So what are you saying. The person that is selfish is the hypocritical man that is takinh advantage of a verse in the Koran which is meant for the care of orphans not as a license for men to have harems.

Lol. .. You make me laugh. I know you just typed this gibberish just to make a point. Since I am an open minded person, I will give you an ample time to give me the chapter(s) and verse(s) where Prophet Muhammed (SAAS) said it. I know you can state it.

cococandy:
The lady is the one who's selfish? I fear your logic. And when did religion become a substitute for common sense?
Such a disgusting comment.

Disgusting comment? Only people with common sense would get what I mean. And I don't have to explain myself cos you can't and would never understand.

hedonistic:


Don't be silly. What did she suffer and endure? This kind of useless mentality makes me very angry. So he shouldn't marry a second wife if he so desires - a privilege that his culture and religion entitles him to?

Let the ungrateful and deluded wife go and suffer and endure to make her own money, or to marry another premiership footballer, if it is that easy. She wants to be the solo madam to enjoy all the thousands of pounds that enter every week all alone - because she is the one that helped him get the contract or that empowers him to train and perform on the pitch abi?

Bloody parasites and hopelessly deluded creatures.

So harsh! Haba! Who offended you? Take it easy biko.

[quote author=EbolaParasite post=55629637]

A lot of Nigerian women like deceiving themselves. It is a Nigerian thing and not necessarily a muslim thing. The only difference is that Nigerian muslims make it official. The woman that became a christian because she doesnt want to be a second wife is deceiving herself. The men that don't carry second wives have BILLIONS of GIRLFRIENDS. Unless you marry JESUS, you are on a Except you have taken the statistics and have come to the exact conclusion that every man cheats in his marriage, if not, speak for yourself alone

The girl who is accepting to be his 2nd wife is not even a muslim. Some girls sha...

EbolaParasite:


A lot of Nigerian women like deceiving themselves. It is a Nigerian thing and not necessarily a muslim thing. The only difference is that Nigerian muslims make it official. The woman that became a christian because she doesnt want to be a second wife is deceiving herself. The men that don't carry second wives have BILLIONS of GIRLFRIENDS. Unless you marry JESUS, you are on a long thing.

Except you have personally taken the statistics and have come to the exact conclusion that every man cheats in his marriage, if not, speak for yourself alone