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elampiro:
You are sleeping, someone sneeks into your bed and put his fingers into your V

How can you shout or know fully what was happening?

What an extremely stupid question. If you are sleeping and somebody puts a finger in your butt hole, you won't know? Some people are very strange sha...see question o

pinkpebbles:
It really baffles me when people who did not even watch the show for one day make assertions just because they probably do not like the person in question.
No one has mentioned when Tboss was asked if she brought a bed to BB the day she did not want someone on her bed. No one has also mentioned the day she outrightly told Kemen that she does not see him in that kind of way. No attraction at all.
Finally, no one has asked, if Tboss were awake and they were both gisting and chatting together, would Kemen have tried to put his hands in her sheet?. Until then, will I know where Tboss faulted.

Caroline Danjuma might just be a jealous woman like many Nigerian girls against Tboss. Tboss is about to be the most popular very light complexion celebrity.

willibounce1:
What an extremely stupid question. If you are sleeping and somebody puts a finger in your butt hole, you won't know? Some people are very strange sha...see question o

You are dumb from what you said. You just come online to insult people.

She said she didn’t know. Chikena! I have heard about it before that it is possible the woman will not know.

Secondly, whether she knew or not is not a problem. Go to foreign country and tell that useless story that you assaulted a girl who was sleeping because you imagined it is not a big deal.

avicky:
She's so right. If tbossy feels she was violated, let her press charges mbok and if kemen isn't satisfied with big brother's decision he can also press charges too. How can a finger be inside you and you won't know. She even turned to her side. Is it a sleep of death?
They should all go to the law court to seek redress already. We have a lot of issues on our plates mbok.

The finger thing is an online theory and conspiracy by BBN. Except we have humans with infrared eyes that could actually see what happened under that duvet. Tboss just followed what was trending to her own advantage. I salute Kemen I swear.....i know as the thing go dey pain am. I mean...in fact i don tire for the matter....

pinkpebbles:
It really baffles me when people who did not even watch the show for one day make assertions just because they probably do not like the person in question.
No one has mentioned when Tboss was asked if she brought a bed to BB the day she did not want someone on her bed. No one has also mentioned the day she outrightly told Kemen that she does not see him in that kind of way. No attraction at all.
Finally, no one has asked, if Tboss were awake and they were both gisting and chatting together, would Kemen have tried to put his hands in her sheet?. Until then, will I know where Tboss faulted.

For ur own good, I hope u ar not as gullible as u sound.
From my house, in one moment I was watching Kemen giv a half unclad Tboss wit her exposed breasts pressing on d bed an erotic massage & in another, I was watching both Tboss & Kemen in bed together.
Tboss was not in d least surprised dat Kemen tried his luck, she looks briefly under d sheets & turns away. dis signalled dat she was not interested. Kemen got d message & left her to enjoy her sleep.
U ar quick to point out d irrelevant & out of context remark about bringing bed to d house but conveniently left out d very relevant Diary Room sessions where Kemen told Biggie he thinks Tboss fancies him but was only in denial. Was d bed issue because she refused to share a bed wit anyone?. Throughout their stay many HMs didn't share beds wit anybody.

Rainmaker69:
Consent can be express or implied. It is express when there is a definite statement conveying the consent which is understood by everyone involved. For example, you ask someone for a pen to write with and the person says you can take it.

Consent is implied when a person acts in such a way as to give the impression that s/he has agreed to something which a reasonable person would understand to mean approval. For example, you make a writing gesture to someone and the person nods and smiles.

The problem with implied consent is that it can be quite ambiguous and subject to misinterpretation which is why there is a consideration as to whether a reasonable person would understand the actions to imply consent.

When you get abroad, if you like go and sleep with a girl in her sleep because you think she had previously given 'implied consent'.

Even when given express consent previously, you will still have much to answer. At the point you took advantage of her, was she conscious and gave her consent?

In this case, Tboss had previously rejected his advances, which makes the case worse for Kemen.

tribalistseun:
may they continue to rape you, mumuu

who raped u? Narrative twisters.

ademoney25:
hello ladies and gentlemen.. we all have the freedom of speech and the freedom of thought... that's y every1 has different view and perspective to this Yemen tboss issue....as for me tboss was aware of what happened that night but kemen is so stupid for even trying it with her cos their acquaintance was not intimate like ttt and Bisola - miyonce and tbossfor example... a lot of people will just continue to h
ate tboss for this.. imagine them digging on d past of her kid brother... very soon it will b that her sister that sounds rude that they will attack soon...#mylogicalviews #truth #wisdomknowledgeandpower

Kemen did nothing wrong! Simple

elampiro:
You are dumb from what you said. You just come online to insult people.

She said she didn’t know. Chikena! I have heard about it before that it is possible the woman will not know.

Secondly, whether she knew or not is not a problem. Go to foreign country and tell that useless story that you assaulted a girl who was sleeping because you imagined it is not a big deal.

You are daft from the comment you just made. She said she didn't know she was fingered. But when she saw the video, she concluded she was fingered. How did she kno w she was fingered from the video even though they were under the duvet. You think this is telemundo? Issues like this are not for a dull sissy like you. You need to use your brain...critical thinking is what you apply in issues like this, not acting like a pussy. People like you don't just need to accept insulted, you need to be slapped severely to enable you use your head.

elampiro:
You are dumb from what you said. You just come online to insult people.

She said she didn’t know. Chikena! I have heard about it before that it is possible the woman will not know.

Secondly, whether she knew or not is not a problem. Go to foreign country and tell that useless story that you assaulted a girl who was sleeping because you imagined it is not a big deal.

You are daft from the comment you just made. She said she didn't know she was fingered. But when she saw the video, she concluded she was fingered. How did she kno w she was fingered from the video even though they were under the duvet. You think this is telemundo? Issues like this are not for a dull sissy like you. You need to use your brain...critical thinking is what you apply in issues like this, not acting like a pussy. People like you don't just need to accept insulted, you need to be slapped severely to enable you use your head

tribalistseun:
may they continue to rape you, mumuu

You're nothing but an 1mbecile who deserve nothing but the profoundest contempt reserved for bush animals.

Boorish pig.

elampiro:
You are dumb from what you said. You just come online to insult people.

She said she didn’t know. Chikena! I have heard about it before that it is possible the woman will not know.

Secondly, whether she knew or not is not a problem. Go to foreign country and tell that useless story that you assaulted a girl who was sleeping because you imagined it is not a big deal.

You are daft from the comment you just made. She said she didn't know she was fingered. But when she saw the video, she concluded she was fingered. How did she kno w she was fingered from the video even though they were under the duvet. You think this is telemundo? Issues like this are not for a dull sissy like you. You need to use your brain...critical thinking is what you apply in issues like this, not acting like a pussy. People like you don't just need to accept insulted, you need to be slapped severely to enable you use your head

elampiro:
When you get abroad, if you like go and sleep with a girl in her sleep because you think she had previously given 'implied consent'.

Even when given express consent previously, you will still have much to answer. At the point you took advantage of her, was she conscious and gave her consent?

In this case, Tboss had previously rejected his advances, which makes the case worse for Kemen.

She kept giving Kemen mixed messages which he, on many occasions alluded to in his diary sessions wit Biggie, saying he thinks she likes him but that she's only in denial.
In one moment, she allowed Kemen to give her an erotic massage wit her unclad breasts pressing against d bed. In d next both Kemen & Tboss were in bed together. Tboss would be d most gullible individual if she thinks someone so infatuated wit her will not try something. He tried. She was not in d least surprised dat he tried, so she looked briefly under d sheets & turned away. dis signalled dat she was not interested. Kemen got d message & left her to enjoy her sleep.
On her own, she'd never hav brought dis thing up as an issue because she knows it is not.

rifasenate11:
I like this woman. she just said it all.shout out to Caroline danjuma. TBoss is just a mess

Though am not into this Big brother thing but this is how it goes. If a girl lies Naked with you on your bed and you caress her and she smiles, and then you proceed to make Love to her and she said STOP and you try your luck again and she smiles and you continue and made love to her. The next day she says you RAPE her, over here where I reside you will be arrested and the judge will ask you, did she at anytime say STOP?... you are going in for 7yrs in Jail and be labelled a Rapist. You know why? A Lady owns her body and you can only touch her like that with her concent, So Caroline Danjuma still has a lot to learn about Sexual Abuse and Molestation. Regardless of whether the lady went to his bed or didnt scream doesn't give him right to touch her in the first place. If you are sexually starved, go patronize a Prostitute, but don't touch any lady without her permission, you can land in Jail for that.

elampiro:
When you get abroad, if you like go and sleep with a girl in her sleep because you think she had previously given 'implied consent'.

Even when given express consent previously, you will still have much to answer. At the point you took advantage of her, was she conscious and gave her consent?

In this case, Tboss had previously rejected his advances, which makes the case worse for Kemen.

When I first came abroad many years ago, I saw a guy that was trying to run away from where am residing to Germany cos of this same Scenario. The white Lady he slept with said he Raped her and he explained his own version which was like this. He slept out in the cold field and headed to Germany very early morning before we woke up. Guys collected money and gave to him to make the Trip.. If not he would have spent 8yrs in Jail. Bottomline, you can't touch a naked lady without her consent

Kemen didnt do anythin the other guys didnt do.

They were in a house where they were all sleeping side by side and touching themselves.

Yes, she was asleep, yes, he touched her but she moved away and he respected her decision. If she had been offended, trust a lady like Tboss, that house would have come down that night.

Even the next day, she didnt call him out on it. It was Nigerians who began the movement on social media and the organisers felt like they had to act.

Kemens fault was in touching the wrong lady. He should have touched the one that would give him consent and all would have been well.

Aragon:
When I first came abroad many years ago, I saw a guy that was trying to run away from where am residing to Germany cos of this same Scenario. The white Lady he slept with said he Raped her and he explained his own version which was like this. He slept out in the cold field and headed to Germany very early morning before we woke up. Guys collected money and gave to him to make the Trip.. If not he would have spent 8yrs in Jail. Bottomline, you can't touch a naked lady without her consent

kemen did not sleep with her. He touched her, and she turned away and that was it.

As a guy, havent you ever tried to kiss a girl you liked, or made move on a girl but she says no and you say fine and stop there? She didnt give consent, so you stopped​.

Thats what happened here. He never forced himsef on her. He tried his luck by approaching her, to which she denied and he stopped, simple.

rifasenate11:
I like this woman. she just said it all.shout out to Caroline danjuma. TBoss is just a mess

watched the clip too! She looked at his hands in the blanket and turned without any issh! That gyal knew! She only said she wasn't aware when they had to bring up everything shockingly to her!!

guardsman:
For ur own good, I hope u ar not as gullible as u sound.
From my house, in one moment I was watching Kemen giv a half unclad Tboss wit her exposed breasts pressing on d bed an erotic massage & in another, I was watching both Tboss & Kemen in bed together.
Tboss was not in d least surprised dat Kemen tried his luck, she looks briefly under d sheets & turns away. dis signalled dat she was not interested. Kemen got d message & left her to enjoy her sleep.
U ar quick to point out d irrelevant & out of context remark about bringing bed to d house but conveniently left out d very relevant Diary Room sessions where Kemen told Biggie he thinks Tboss fancies him but was only in denial. Was d bed issue because she refused to share a bed wit anyone?. Throughout their stay many HMs didn't share beds wit anybody.

The thing is,massage is entirely different from touching without consent..Kemen is not the only guy in that house.You made mention of diary room talk about Tboss fancing him but she is not the only one he has seen in such light before.He has said thesame thing about Uriel and some other girls..Kemen has always been known as someone who assumes alot,gossips alot(he will say this to one person and will say another to the other person...It is cuz of such act that got him a stike for conspiracy...If you agreed that Tboss fancied Kemen,then i'm sorry you didn't watch the show,you probably saw the highlights cuz she doesn't and she made him aware of that...Even the housemates knew she has a thing for fair guys(Miyonse and Jon)...Another thing is that she has shared a bed with Miyonse,Gifty and Cocoice,that i'm very sure and for the duration of the show,it was probably Efe that didnt get to share bed with someone so before you correct someone,make sure you followed the show...Thanks.

willibounce1:
You are daft from the comment you just made. She said she didn't know she was fingered. But when she saw the video, she concluded she was fingered. How did she kno w she was fingered from the video even though they were under the duvet. You think this is telemundo? Issues like this are not for a dull sissy like you. You need to use your brain...critical thinking is what you apply in issues like this, not acting like a pussy. People like you don't just need to accept insulted, you need to be slapped severely to enable you use your head.

You misquoted her,she never said she was fingered, she said she was not aware of what happend cuz she had hangover (from the alcohol she drank).It was BB that called her into the diary room to ask if she was aware and gave the consent which she declined...She said that the clip was played for her to see and she saw him going down to her perineal area...She never mentioned fingering...You as a man,how would you feel if you got to know that while you were asleep or half asleep,that a girl you didn't like fiddled with with your D? not to talk of a woman...I can never imagine myself inserting my hand into a random woman's perineal area while asleep except ofcourse she is my girlfriend which is done in a romantic way..Dont crucify her cuz you don't like her,we all are humans and bad things doesnt befall only one person,some day it will reach your turn and people will crucify you cuz they dont like your face not minding how you are hurting inside.

repogirl:
Kemen didnt do anythin the other guys didnt do.

They were in a house where they were all sleeping side by side and touching themselves.

Yes, she was asleep, yes, he touched her but she moved away and he respected her decision. If she had been offended, trust a lady like Tboss, that house would have come down that night.

Even the next day, she didnt call him out on it. It was Nigerians who began the movement on social media and the organisers felt like they had to act.

Kemens fault was in touching the wrong lady. He should have touched the one that would give him consent and all would have been well.

Wow a lady like you defending such an act,and here i'm a man pointing how bad the act was..You left me speechless to say the least..Which other guy in the house touched a sleeping girl in the house? The question is,how would you feel if you were sleeping or slept half way and a guy you don't have anything with starts going down on you? It is always easy to heap it on her cuz you are not the one but somehow somewhere your own will come and you will be accused of all sorts,then you know how it hurts. She didn't call him cuz like she said,she wasn't aware but due to the pressure from the viewers,BB had to call her to know if she gave her conset in clear consciousness which she declined to. You are right when you wrote that Kemen's fault was touching the wrong lady cuz she told him on some occassions that she doesn't fancy his advances but he still continued pushing his luck...Dont rush to write,think b4 you do.

Amberon:
Mtchweeew. Potential rapists and molesters above.

There is something called consent and when not given it is called sexual molestation or rape as the case may be.

Rubbish!

my dear, don't mind d majority of commenters there, it just shows u how ignorant most ppl r, and how depraved most youths r. Hmmmm.

All this drama, wetin hapin?

Am curious...How high was t-boss that she didn't realize someone was handling and groping her? the show was a competition amongst housemates who depended on viewers votes...Hw else could she make people sympathize with her and rally up votes for her. Caroline is ryt in dat sense, Kemen did nothing wrong.

Amberon:
Mtchweeew. Potential rapists and molesters above.

There is something called consent and when not given it is called sexual molestation or rape as the case may be.

Rubbish!

Oga keep quiet.
Why are you being unnecessarily a hypocrite?
Do you expect him to wake her up and verbally ask because he wants to make out her? a girl that has been giving him the green light?

What would she have done if the gender was reversed, and tboss wants to make out with kemen while asleep? Won't she touch kemen's parts to probably arouse him?

Stop being a hypocrite Oga ade.

But I understand our laws are sexist and favor the girls, soo no problem

Why can't people allow the rest of us some peace reading news here. This diplorable bbn has come n gone but the news won't just pipe down. BBN here BBN there. Palpable rubbish promoted by ungodly news peddlers.

tribalistseun:
may they continue to rape you, mumuu

Who was raped in d story?? Before u go on to write rubbish use your brain first!!!

jakeboss:
shey tboss toto get gold

You no know b4? E get gold piercings.

Since you watched the show, guess you also watched the day he groped her in the luxury room when he won a task and picked her to share d bed wt him. She pratically washed plates till 1am to avoid sleeping on that bed. And as soon as she came to the bed. He groped her from behind. She shouted on him and told him to stop groping her. She almost cried that night coz she was not supposed to leave the room if not, the luxury will be cancelled.Hence she was least surprised when he tried it again and this time, when she was asleep. For the massage, she was not the only one Kemen massaged in the house. And finally, assuming someone fancies you when they have outrightly made it clear they dont is not even right .

guardsman:
For ur own good, I hope u ar not as gullible as u sound.
From my house, in one moment I was watching Kemen giv a half unclad Tboss wit her exposed breasts pressing on d bed an erotic massage & in another, I was watching both Tboss & Kemen in bed together.
Tboss was not in d least surprised dat Kemen tried his luck, she looks briefly under d sheets & turns away. dis signalled dat she was not interested. Kemen got d message & left her to enjoy her sleep.
U ar quick to point out d irrelevant & out of context remark about bringing bed to d house but conveniently left out d very relevant Diary Room sessions where Kemen told Biggie he thinks Tboss fancies him but was only in denial. Was d bed issue because she refused to share a bed wit anyone?. Throughout their stay many HMs didn't share beds wit anybody.

Didn't read your thrash. [s]

ElDadd:
Oga keep quiet.
Why are you being unnecessarily a hypocrite?
Do you expect him to wake her up and verbally ask because he wants to make out her? a girl that has been giving him the green light?

What would she have done if the gender was reversed, and tboss wants to make out with kemen while asleep? Won't she touch kemen's parts to probably arouse him?

Stop being a hypocrite Oga ade.

But I understand our laws are sexist and favor the girls, soo no problem

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