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| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by ElDadd: 8:05am On Apr 20, 2017 |
Amberon:I understand your intelligence deficiency. It will pass tho, if you eat fruits, sleep well and at least attempt not to reason like a kid. God speed recovery. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by Nelsizzy(m): 8:16am On Apr 20, 2017 |
ElDadd:So because a lady gives u green light (which Tboss didn't even give in the first instance), then u have the right to touch her whenever and wherever you like. I pity you |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by arewaboy01(m): 8:18am On Apr 20, 2017 |
[quote author=Threebear post=55727893]As far as I am concerned, you will remain an upcomer for the rest of your life. [/quo ur words can't change his destiny fool |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by elampiro(m): 8:36am On Apr 20, 2017 |
guardsman: 1. During the alleged massage you mentioned, did Tboss allow Kemen to pull her pant and deep his fingers? Every girl knows to what extent he or she wants a particular guy to get to. A girl can give you a kiss, but wont allow you further. 2. Every girl gives mixed feelings depending on who they are dealing with. That can never be an excuse for sexual assault. Tboss said many times she was not interested in Kemen. When asked why she was allowing him to get close, she said in order not for him to feel bad about rejecting him. 3. It was from TTT that we learnt about that massage you mentioned. TTT did not say when it happened, whether days before or even in the morning they woke up together. Stop making it to look like there was a massage before Tboss slept, and the rape was a continuation of the massage. There was no consent. Finito. When I was in the University, I slept on same bed with girls overnight (not one or twice), I never tried anything funny. Not they wore trousers. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by ikemesit4477: 8:37am On Apr 20, 2017 |
avicky:I don't think you've watch the video, so had it been kemen was not at fault, then why was he disqualified from the big brothers house? Like ebuka said, it took the panel 7 hours to deliberate on the issue, so do you think they are senseless to have disqualified kemen? |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by elampiro(m): 8:40am On Apr 20, 2017 |
willibounce1:From the video, I knew she was fingered. I followed the program and also viewed that video many times. Olodo like you , stark illiterate. Ignoramus. Even people who followed the program that moment said Kemen went to join Tboss in bed when she was already sleeping. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by elampiro(m): 8:41am On Apr 20, 2017 |
Aragon:My people dont know the meaning of consent. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by willibounce1(m): 8:45am On Apr 20, 2017 |
elampiro:Go phuck yourself. You knew she was fingered from the video because your eyes scanned through the duvet. Pussy ass nig.ga. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by oluangelkay(f): 8:51am On Apr 20, 2017 |
Craoline is right, am a lady and we know that men most tines cant control their urge especially when u keep giving them green light, y allow Kemen sleep in the same bed with you when u r not interrested in him, what happen to other female housemates? y didnt she give him a dirty slap or even shout when she realized what he was doing?Am not saying Kemen was right, but then Tboss was wrong also, keeping quiet all the while, what if he has suceeded ? 2wrongs doesnt make a right, this is a warning to we ladies that always get too comfortable with men we are not in a relationship with yet we draw them closer to us. A word is enough for the wise |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by repogirl(f): 8:54am On Apr 20, 2017 |
chucs:You are the one who needs to exercise your own brain functions. Newton's third law states that every action has an equal amd opposite reaction, abi? Would you call Tboss' reaction equal and opposite to Kemen touching her in her privates? I'm a woman and if a strange person touched me there, I would definitely know except I was heavily sedated and it would get me very annoyed. I would not only change the bed I was sleeping in, I would give him some very good insults before changing beds. Tboss even laughed over it with him the next day.... Was that the action of someone hurt, molested or violated? You need to think! I believe he didnt touch her inappropriately as he said here. https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/www./entertainment/7148-i-did-not-touch-tboss-inappropriately-kemen-says-in-new-interview.html/amp He probably rubbed her thigh and she turned from him and he STOPPED. Thats not enough to say she was molested, afterall worse happened to Ofuneka in her own edition of BBA2 and the rapist still went ahead to win the prize. Like you, I criticised Kemen at first but after really watching that video, all I saw was a guy making an advance, was shut down and he respected it, if he'd kept disturbing her after she had shut him down, then there would have been a problem. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by Threebear(m): 9:22am On Apr 20, 2017 |
[quote author=arewaboy01 post=55733759][/quote]And his can't change the fact kemen is a molester fool. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by elampiro(m): 9:23am On Apr 20, 2017 |
repogirl:Girl where do you live? Just tell me when you will sleep without panties and bra just blanket over your nude body. Then when you are sleeping, I will just sneak in to touch your laps around your V., even if that is all I did with plus seeing the shape of your V, I am 'bellyfull' for the day. Is that okay? Let’s even assume, he didn’t touch Tboss V, was there a consent? So if a guy who has been toasting you sees an opportunity to uncover you and touch you around your BermudaTriangle, you would be okay with it? |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by guardsman: 9:24am On Apr 20, 2017 |
elampiro:1. Firstly, it was not an alleged massage. I watched it live. From my home I saw Tboss lying down, half-unclad wit her exposed breasts pressing against d bed while Kemen massaged her. What ar u smoking?. Ar u hallucinating?. Where did u see Kemen pulling Tboss' pant & deeping his fingers?. What is wrong wit u?. 2. There was no sexual assault. Most 33yr olds, don't because they crave attention, giv mixed messages. If you 're not into it, bow out respectfully & stop enjoying d attention & giving dat crap about feeling bad. 3. I did not learn about d massage frm TTT. I watched it live. I never said it was a continuation but just showing u how she was giving mixed messages. It's not like it's every time u sleep on d same bed wit a woman dat dis situation happens but it does happen. On big brother, there ar no gods but humans like us. He tried to touch her, she was not interested & he allowed her to continue her sleep. U, self-righteous guys need to get a grip. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by guardsman: 9:30am On Apr 20, 2017 |
[s] elampiro:[/s] |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by MarieSucre(f): 9:38am On Apr 20, 2017 |
willibounce1:Kemen did not rape her. But let's not pretend that he did not try to initiate sexual activity with a sleeping woman. One who cannot consent to such. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by elampiro(m): 9:40am On Apr 20, 2017 |
guardsman:Massage and sex are two different things. So Tboss didn't even allow Kemen touch the breast during massage? I did not say Kemen pulled her pants. Learn to comprehend before you react. I meant that Kemen had not even seen beyond her pants before, but he went to look and touch her V while she was sleeping. There is no consent in what he did. guardsman:Most girls give mixed feelings depending on the guy. She even told him she was not interested in him. Remember it was a game, there was no way of ignoring him completely in the house. guardsman:Did you watch when Miyonse did it with Tboss when they were sleeping on same bed. Go and watch it and see what is called consent. They discussed love and sex every time, then at night they slept like couples. When they 'did it', you saw Tboss in the mood and encouraging him to. Not the one who was rejected and sneaked in. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by guardsman: 9:40am On Apr 20, 2017 |
repogirl:Great post. It is sad seeing how some people reason. Tboss would be d most gullible 33yr old, if she thought he wouldn't try to touch her. So, she was not in d least surprised when he did. She looked briefly under d sheets, saw it was nothing & turned away. dis signalled dat she was not interested. Kemen got d message & left her to enjoy her sleep. On her own, she'd never hav brought dis thing up as an issue because she knows it is not. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by willibounce1(m): 9:52am On Apr 20, 2017 |
MarieSucre:So you really think if kemen hand fingered Tboss, she would not wake up and slap the hell outta him. Or if he probably put his di.ck into her from behind she would still claim she did was asleep and not aware? Tboss knows what she did. That's the reason she is not taking it as serious as all the feminist are taking it. If she's being honest, she wouldn't let the the issue go. The would have taken it to court. She knows she would have to tell a millions lies that would embarrass her that's why she is not taking up the case. If you say kemen tried to initiate sexual activity with a sleeping woman, why wasn't he successful. You think the holy spirit entered him and he changed his mind? |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by jakeboss(m): 9:56am On Apr 20, 2017 |
kolaranking1:hahahahah na so |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by jakeboss(m): 10:02am On Apr 20, 2017 |
tonio2wo:hahahaj my guy u funny |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by Rainmaker69(m): 10:05am On Apr 20, 2017 |
elampiro:Nigerians and this "abroad" complex. Its not about being or going 'abroad'. If you don't learn to speak to issues, we can not have a meaningful and productive discussion. A conversation on consent does not authorize or excuse rape for you or for anyone. There is no excuse for rape, rapists, or sex offenders- don't get it twisted. By "sleep with a girl in her sleep", I presume you refer to having sex with someone who is asleep (or unconscious). FYI its also an offence to do that here in Nigeria, so please, no tink am. All over the world, the rape question is socially and legally complex. From a legal perspective, one of the elements of rape is consent (or the lack of it). Other legal elements include penetration, mental state, criminal jurisdiction and so on. My post is based on the legal definition of consent all over the world (at least within the commonwealth). Its the same "abroad" as it is here in Nigeria. You must understand that consent is a question of fact, and not law (with the exception of minors and disadvantaged persons where the law automatically presumes the absence of consent). Since its a factual issue, there are several factors that will be considered to determine whether consent was actually given. For example, consent, whether express or implied, can be withdrawn at anytime. You may also examine the mental state of the parties and several factors. The Tboss issue is not as straight-forward or as simple as you may think. It throws up many moral, social, religious, cultural and legal issues, which is why public opinion is largely divided on the topic. As you can imagine, each issue is extremely complicated. The only way to have a constructive discussion on the issue is to identify and address the various issues for what they are. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by chucs: 10:36am On Apr 20, 2017*. Modified: 11:03am On Apr 20, 2017 |
repogirl:Madam thanks for quoting newtons law to drive home you point.But I should say that you shot yourself on the leg with it cuz at no point in the show did she give him a lead on. She has told him on some occasions that she doesn't fancy his advances Have you read about sleep?do you know about REM and NONREM? Have you heard of SOMNAMBOLISM and other sleep disorders? Do you know that some people sleep heavily? Do you know that some sleep heavily in some occasions(I fall within this group cuz sometimes i wake up and my friends will tell me how heavily I slept even with their efforts to wake me up)?Did you know if she had hangovers? Do not assume you know it all. I didn't see her talk about the incidence with anyone(ofcourse fellow housemates were supprised) unless ofcourse you are referring to the first groping,which she told him of her displasure in the presence of everyone. So to you,if something like that happened and no action was taken,it should be encouraged? Why would he lie at her back to fellow housemates when he was disqualified which prompted them to call her white witch(Bisola) and all sorts? You believed what he said without beliving the other person's opinion,wow good way of judging i must say. With my background in human behaviour,even his movement gave him away...Did you observe how he looked at the cameras,shook the bed,observed if she was sleeping or not and started with the act? Madam i followed the show and i saw Kemen's character(gossips and assumptions) and as such,he could have left that evening cuz he had the lowest vote. The said act was turned down after several advances so he should have read the handwritting on the wall.. Did you know that she didn't sleep the night after he won the arena game cuz of his groping? just ponder within yourself about how you will feel if someone rubs your thigh like you wrote in that situation. I will rest my case here madam |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by Nanlise: 10:48am On Apr 20, 2017 |
Hmmmm |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by chucs: 11:06am On Apr 20, 2017 |
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| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by ElDadd: 11:07am On Apr 20, 2017 |
Nelsizzy:Not manhandle obviously.. Or do you ask to kiss every girl you like? You make the move and kiss her, if she withdraws, you back off.. If she reciprocates, you carry on.. Simple. He only way he probably messed up was going straight to her boobs (I'm assuming this, cos nobody saw what happened under the sheets) He could have probably warmed up with a massage or something.. Let's be real abeg. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by MarieSucre(f): 12:12pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
willibounce1:It's not what T-Boss thinks that is resuscitating this issue. it's people making apologies for Kemen that is. Asking that why wasn't Kemen successful us just distasteful. Would you have preferred if he was successful? Let me ask you this, if a child is trying to steal some biscuits from a shop, but the owner wakes up and hears the sound and unknowingly moves the carton if biscuit to be just be safe. even though he did not see the child. Does that make it alright to do what the child did? Sure, we that are watching will not take the child to prison, afterall the child did not succeed. But we know the child has such tendencies. Do we then defend the child? |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by willibounce1(m): 12:33pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
MarieSucre:He was disqualified because of the video and what the organisers thought happened under the duvet. Of course he wasn't successful because he probably never had any intention to rape or molest her like people have been claiming. Yes, maybe he tried to cuddle hoping to get some positive response and since he didn't get any he didn't go further. Both of them woke up together with Tboss under his arm. I still find it funny that Tboss didn't notice anything claiming she was drunk but when she saw the video, she claimed he tried to finger her. How did she know that even though there was no way to scan what happened under the duvet. Kemen said his moving hand was him trying to adjust the bed sheet and I saw in the video that Tboss turned to the other side. If I won't believe kemen, why should I believe Tboss. People just keep shouting molest, rape and consent as if they evidence behind the whole issue is so glaring. I just wish both them could swear before OGUN..make thunder for kill person wey dey lie. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by avicky(f): 3:32pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
ikemesit4477:I did. But they only gave in to pressure from the social media. After all, when it happened, tbossy was all lovey dovey with him the next morning. It was when she entered the diary room she started forming that she didn't know what happened. You are a guy, even if you are lady amd someone was touching you, won't you know? When you are not in coma. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by avicky(f): 3:36pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
willibounce1:Thanks. A million likes for this. Nigerians and sentiments are like 5 & 6. Tbossy is not just honest. She knew d guy didn't molest her but because she wanted to ride on sympathy and thank God say she no win cos she's dishonest and unreal. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by avicky(f): 3:40pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
MarieSucre:Even with the video you still can't nail him. What went down under the duvet couldn't be seen. It's only left to their conscience. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by Nelsizzy(m): 3:42pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
ElDadd:Exactly! My problem is with the way nairalanders are making it seem like it is a normal thing that should be condone. |
| Re: Caroline Danjuma Writes About Tboss, Kemen & AY; See Reactions by avicky(f): 3:42pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
koboko69:My brother, me sef tire for the whole crucify him, crucify him they are shouting online. |
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