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| When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(op): 7:11pm On Apr 23, 2017*. Modified: 10:51pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
You ask an obviously unmarried lady out and she says "sorry I'm in a relationship" and many ladies will quickly change their status on their social media handle to...."in a relationship or Engaged" ...worse still some will go as far as putting up the pics of a man who is not yet officially theirs and I keep wondering what goes on in the minds of some ladies .. Shall we call that being faithful or being naive? Every lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you,he can not be trusted in anyway and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage Each time you tell a guy who asks you out that you are taken while still unmarried,you are simply shutting the door on yourself too soon and many ladies have shut out their husbands simply because they got carried away by an unserious man who is only good at mouthing their love and giving them forlorn hope. Don't get it twisted, this is not about being unfaithful to that particular guy you truly desire but it is about tactfully leaving your options open by not flaunting him on or offline thereby driving away possibly more willing suitors. Many ladies remain taken for years without wedding bells and I have seen several ladies who have been engaged for years. The bottom line is that you should stop flaunting any guy you are courting and only flaunt your husband Ladies should stop blocking their chance cos In the real world...there is no in between and there is no such word like "I'm taken" while you are still unmarried. You are either single or married Don't know if this makes sense. 126 Likes 13 Shares
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by darbeelicous(f): 7:13pm On Apr 23, 2017*. Modified: 11:09pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
hehehe..... FTC.... Oya, fire down! coming back to modify  *modified* ehen, oga toks2008 we don't call it "faithful" or "naive" its a simple 4letter word called LOVE. Call me naive, but women are multipliers, they multiply whatever you give to them and return it in manifold. When u genuinely love your woman, she multiplies it and gives u double in return, but when u show her hatred, sorry for u! So op, nice write up but it doesn't work in most cases! Most times when you're sure of what u want you go for it overlooking other options u may possibly have! My opinion though! And btw, IM TAKEN!! 100 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Safiaa(f): 7:14pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
We are waiting. |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:14pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Ngwanu. |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by mebad(m): 7:16pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
am watching 5 Likes
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Tallesty1(m): 7:18pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
drops |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
..following  2 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oyiboman69: 7:26pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks2008:op no use us play ooo 11 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:26pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Following |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:29pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks2008 how far na |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:29pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
We are waiting uncle Toks.  |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Jay1F(m): 7:30pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
... 25 Likes
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Jay1F(m): 7:31pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
....Toks come modify abeg
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Smellymouth: 7:32pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks.. 1 Like
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by hungryboy(m): 7:33pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Since everybody dey follow Make I join dem follow too 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:36pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
oga toks, we ar waiting o |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by emeijeh(m): 7:46pm On Apr 23, 2017*. Modified: 11:11pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Where is the popcorn? QueenSuccubus Modified: well said Op 6 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(op): 8:42pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:Who be your uncle? me and you relate? abeg go and register your presence on this thread fast... https://www.nairaland.com/3745111/single-guys-above-30-single cos nah your type we dry find there and from what I see you don't ripe ...and if I hear "I'm taken"? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:44pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks2008:Post update na. This thread don dey die o. |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:49pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks2008:Lmaoooooo  You must be uncle zoned  Ripe for wetin, I'm taken biko.  7 Likes |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(op): 9:01pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:Lalasticlala abi you are also taken? |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(op): 9:06pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
BNew:Lol...updated 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by refiner(f): 9:15pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
I'm taken...guys keep off!  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Omotayor123(f): 9:17pm On Apr 23, 2017*. Modified: 9:21am On Apr 24, 2017 |
I'm Taken jokes apart, Op is so on point. Ladies let's stop the "Ayam taken" signature even when the guy concern is not showing any signs of proposing marriage. You will see guys asking out and dating numerous Ladies with the excuse that they want to choose between/among alternatives so as to have the best. And Ladies do would put these guys on top their head Let's be wise abeg! 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(op): 9:38pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Omotayor123:Ifahia 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by tosyne2much(m): 9:42pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Egbon Toks, I need someone who can counter this thread.. I mean "when a guy says, I'm taken" |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nickymezor(f): 9:45pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
#Pondering |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Cholls(m): 9:55pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
darbeelicous:my sister come back here 7 Likes
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| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by queenbetsy(f): 10:08pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks2008:noted! I just found what I've been seriously looking for... 2 Likes |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Bbpets(m): 10:13pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Take em by force dat all |
| Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(op): 10:14pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
tosyne2much:You hardly hear guys say that...even after marriage lol! 6 Likes 1 Share |
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