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Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Excuzeme: 10:16am On Apr 29, 2017
eyeview:
I always laugh when I read such comments like yours. It's always by inexperienced kids.
Always wait till u hear the man's side.
I once had a neighbour, a peace loving medical doctor. Whenever he had a misunderstanding with the wife, she will quickly run and change into a bum short and pounce on him. You will see the poor man running to get out of his own house. Sometimes, she will be hurling stones at his windscreen while he speeds off. But sometimes when the poor man cant take the attacks and abuse, he will beat her up to defend himself and the same lioness will be quick to snap her wounds and send out, forming the victim.

I have a friend who is suffering all forms of abuse in the wife's hands, yet it's the wife that goes to family, friends, colleagues, church members and even the police to act like the victim and paint the man as evil. But once you know the truth, the wife will blacklist you and turn you to enemy. My friend, an almost 40 year old will call me and be crying.

Most of these girls actually launch the attack and when the man retaliates, she start forming victim and inexperienced kids like you will start quoting principle.

I know someone who was constantly having issues with the wife. One day in church, he gave his life to Christ and swore that he would work on his marriage and would never raise his hands on his wife again. The wife heard it and thereafter, at the slightest provocation, she will launch her beating on him.
Thank you jare!

I have been married for long now and have not slapped my wife more than twice, regrettably, in the early days of our marriage! .
She knows l wont touch her as long as she knows her bounds and we all behave.
The alternative will be to split the marriage (Divorce).


Any wife that knows her bounds, will live like a Queen, with her husband at her beck and call.
I will do almost anything for my wife but she must not cross my red lines.
Marriage is understanding between two adults, to live by certain rules, but such rules have a serial arrangement: You dont do number One, then l dont do number two.
But if you do number One, expect me to do number two and probably number three sef.

BTW: Excessive nagging is number One while a resetting slap is likely number two. grin grin


I think what makes women, especially those in Western Countries (which our own Nigerians are trying to copy) is that the Govt has made Divorce very "attractive, profitable and beneficial" for them.
If no one profits from a Divorce (No seizing of "loot", to be given to the wife)... then the wives will think before misbehaving to their husbands or such women should stay single.
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by dosht(f): 10:16am On Apr 29, 2017
Excuzeme:
ACTION ..and the subsequent REACTION, are EQUAL and OPPOSITE - Isaac Newton's First Law of Motion.
If Joke Silva makes an "Action" deserving of a Slap, l am sure Olu Jacobs is kind enough with such "Reaction"

So, because he is your HUSBAND, that entitles you to disrespect him, humiliate him, embarrass him and nag him all day long?

What do you people even think marriage is about?
You think it is a license to misbehave to someone stronger than you
(physically)

Just look at it from this angle:If a Man does half of what these wives do to their husband, to his MALE FRIEND, are you telling me a fight will not ensue?
Have you not seen two women fighting, because one disrespect the other? huh
Have you not seen male friends slugging it out with fist, for the same reason?

Okay, l understand, just because of that title "Husband", ...man has turned to foot mat. angry angry

All misbehaving brains need a "factory re-setting" slap....just once in a while. undecided

If you dont like it dont get married, its not by force.
So the husband is perfect isn't it? SMH
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by succyblinks(f): 10:18am On Apr 29, 2017
Excuzeme:
See the kin stewpidity that "Civilisation" is causing!

To say "No matter what" ....means you are utterly senseless.

Men and Women are EQUAL!

That is the goal of equality.

So, if you substitute the word Woman, with Man, anything that happens in-between is also acceptable, because they are EQUAL.

Let me ask: Can your "Male friend" beat-Up your own Mother and you would do nothing (if you are a Man)
Let us stretch it a little further: Can your "FeMale friend" beat-Up your own Mother and you would do nothing (if you are a Man)
Now, lets swap it: Can your WIFE beat-Up your Mother and you would wince 'such is Life'? grin grin

If your answer is "NO" in any of these three circumstances, then you are really senseless. undecided
Must you insult her before you pass your message across?
She only stated her opinion which she has a right to, so why the names calling?
I hate to see self acclaimed "wise and matured" ones acting like kids
*spits*
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Nobody: 10:19am On Apr 29, 2017
oh my!! not again na
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by ISTANDWITHBUHAR: 10:24am On Apr 29, 2017
dosht:
So your husband has the right to beat you even if you offend him?
Or you want to tell me that Joke Silva has not done anything that deserve a beating from Olu Jacob before? Tell her husband to learn from Olu Jacob.
So even if your brother wife slap and humiliate him he should just be like zombie and be looking at her? I wonder how ladies think...

Ladies don't think before they act, I have seen a marriage where the wife will slap her hubby because he is chatting with another lady on Facebook and people still blame the guy for doing so..


But when the wife is talking to another guy on Facebook and same thing happen, People will start abusing the guy..

I swear marriage is truly a bondage and i give kudos to the likes of Davido, Flavor etc that prefer baby mama..
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Excuzeme: 10:26am On Apr 29, 2017
dosht:
So the husband is perfect isn't it? SMH
No, he is not. No one is perfect........`it is the level of imperfection and tolerance of the receiving party we are looking at.
That is why any wife reserves the right to divorce her husband, if she cannot stomach his misbehaviour.


You are probably looking at it from the point of "physical strength".
Unfortunately, even among "ordinary friends", the weaker one ALWAYS melow down for the stronger one...except if he/she does not mind a beating.

Ajekun'iya nio'je...eniti kole'muni tin'dena deni, Ajekun'iya ni`o'je (Na double beating im go recieve, someone who cannot fight another but waylays that other, im go chop double beating) grin grin
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Excuzeme: 10:37am On Apr 29, 2017
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Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by chillbabe(f): 10:38am On Apr 29, 2017
migeoart:
I dnt support domestic violence ,but no right thinking man will wake up and start punching his wife for no reason,something must have caused that, no smoke without fire ,
I feel joke silver and Olu Jacob need to gather all these celebrities for marriage seminar!
U just supported it.
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by ISTANDWITHBUHAR: 10:39am On Apr 29, 2017
eyeview:
I don't believe these female nonsense till I hear from the man.
That's how one lady I knew will be blocking the door when the husband wants to run away for peace sake, she will hold him by the jugujar and land him series of slaps but the moment the poor man can't take it anymore and retaliates, she will start screaming to high heaven for neighbours to hear, will start snapping her face and wounds to send to family and friends.

Let nobody who has not heard the man's side condemn him. And sadly, most men won't go public with their side of the story, so it's the woman who will be in the gossip market selling her side like a best seller.
God bless you jare, I have seen so many of that, When there's argument and the man want to walk out the woman will block him from going out, Some will even lock the door and hide the keys in her pocket and when the man was provoke that was the story we hear on news..

Una dey craze them never beat her reach self..
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Excuzeme: 10:40am On Apr 29, 2017
succyblinks:
Must you insult her before you pass your message across?
She only stated her opinion which she has a right to, so why the names calling?
I hate to see self acclaimed "wise and matured" ones acting like kids
*spits*
Swerve, with your stinking mouth joor.
Did l invite your silly opinion...Aproko.

Self acclaimed or not, when you reach that level, l am sure your husband will deface you completely, judging by how you jump into issues that do not concern you
grin grin undecided
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Gassa007: 10:40am On Apr 29, 2017
dosht:
So your husband has the right to beat you even if you offend him?
Or you want to tell me that Joke Silva has not done anything that deserve a beating from Olu Jacob before? Tell her husband to learn from Olu Jacob.
And who told you Olu Jacobs have not beaten her for once since they ve been together over some decades. Say what you know, marriage is not a bed of roses.
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by succyblinks(f): 10:43am On Apr 29, 2017
Excuzeme:
Swerve, with your stinking mouth joor.
Did l invite your silly opinion...Aproko.

Self acclaimed or not, when you reach that level, l am sure your husband will deface you completely, judging by how you jump into issues that do not concern you
grin grin undecided
I don't play in the mud, so don't even think I'll insult you back. Maturity is truly not dependent on age, you just gave me a real life experience. Ciao
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Excuzeme: 10:56am On Apr 29, 2017
succyblinks:
I don't play in the mud, so don't even think I'll insult you back. Maturity is truly not dependent on age, you just gave me a real life experience. Ciao
Geerraoutahea joor, did l invite you into my mention before? huh
You should not have jumped into what does not concern you.
If you do that in future and your husband "factory-reset" your brain, dont come here with ugly pictures!
We nor send you
Idiota that does not play in the mud but can "spit"!

Real Men are talking, this one that uses "Cucumber" too says she has "idea"
grin grin
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by succyblinks(f): 10:59am On Apr 29, 2017
Excuzeme:
Geerraoutahea joor, did l invite you into my mention before? huh
You should not have jumped into what does not concern you.
If you do that in future and your husband "factory-reset" your brain, dont come here with ugly pictures!
We nor send you
Idiota that does not play in the mud but can "spit"!
grin grin
Wow! You are so "matured"
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by curvilicious: 10:59am On Apr 29, 2017
D man beat her? Sometin happened. Not justifying his actions tho

Olu nd Joke fight but never bring themselves to social media for unruly advice. They sought their issues within them nd learn from their mistakes. Now, that's maturity.

As for Karma, she is bitch that neva goes away until u r served in the right proportion. Give it shall be given into u

At some point the man left his wife for her probably, its time for him to leave her for brand new wife.

Life was better in the days when women were wives not these days when women now come to TV/social media nd become husbands or badmouth/bully their supposed husbands
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Excuzeme: 11:02am On Apr 29, 2017
succyblinks:
Wow! You are so "matured"
ShutdaphuckUp!

After "Ciao", you still came back? What a Dolt!

Go and stuff those your intimacy product in your backside!

When Oloshos like you lose out in life, you loOk for someone to pass your frustrationS on.
I dont want to hear from you.

S-W-E-R-V-E TO YOUR OWN LANE
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by 9jatatafo(m): 11:04am On Apr 29, 2017
Pic #2 ,though. Looks like she fell off a moving train to a rough rocky ground.
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by ISTANDWITHBUHAR: 11:05am On Apr 29, 2017
Excuzeme:
ACTION ..and the subsequent REACTION, are EQUAL and OPPOSITE - Isaac Newton's First Law of Motion.
If Joke Silva makes an "Action" deserving of a Slap, l am sure Olu Jacobs is kind enough with such "Reaction"

So, because he is your HUSBAND, that entitles you to disrespect him, humiliate him, embarrass him and nag him all day long?

What do you people even think marriage is about?
You think it is a license to misbehave to someone stronger than you
(physically)

Just look at it from this angle:If a Man does half of what these wives do to their husband, to his MALE FRIEND, are you telling me a fight will not ensue?
Have you not seen two women fighting, because one disrespect the other? huh
Have you not seen male friends slugging it out with fist, for the same reason?

Okay, l understand, just because of that title "Husband", ...man has turned to foot mat. angry angry

All misbehaving brains need a "factory re-setting" slap....just once in a while. undecided

If you dont like it dont get married, its not by force.
One of the best comment so far that narrate everything, I give you kudos, Some people will just be commenting as if the men are saint, If someone called me a stupid man i swear na better fight that day, But my wife will call me a stupid and i will be smiling..

If you happen to be around where some women are insulting there husband i swear you go weep.. Some women will even be abusing the man mother and family but if the men say a jack about her family heaven will fall..
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by ISTANDWITHBUHAR: 11:12am On Apr 29, 2017
dosht:
So the husband is perfect isn't it? SMH
There's no where in his write ups where he says the husband is perfect..
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by succyblinks(f): 11:15am On Apr 29, 2017
Excuzeme:
ShutdaphuckUp!

After "Ciao", you still came back? What a Dolt!

Go and stuff those your intimacy product in your backside!

When Oloshos like you lose out in life, you loOk for someone to pass your frustrationS on.
I dont want to hear from you.

S-W-E-R-V-E TO YOUR OWN LANE
Frustration?? You sound like the frustrated one here, with the way u "text-shout" I can rightly say you are the one who need to pass your frustrations to someone else

That explains why u go about insulting people but lemme tell you something, no one on nl is responsible for your misfortune so you can go back and keep beating your wife, kidult
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by davidif: 12:01pm On Apr 29, 2017
darlenese:
Your husband beats and the next minute u post your face on the internet to tell the entire world that he is a monster abi, unfortunately for the man he can't post the badmouth and hurting words u must have said to him.


Don't get me , wrong I am not in support of the man ,s action , but some women mouth na poison , especially those who end up running to the internet to earn sympathy .


An for those raining insult and comparing them with Olu Jacobs , I laugh because no marriage is perfect , the only reason u think they are perfect is because they don't wash their dirty linens outside so bloggers have nothing to write about , unlike all these our paparazzi slay queen fake life celebrities

Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Daboomb: 12:17pm On Apr 29, 2017
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Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by bejeria101(m): 12:19pm On Apr 29, 2017
Smellymouth:
Lol..Na dem sabi sha.. Every mallam to his kettle.
Wetin dey the kettle sef?
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Excuzeme:
succyblinks:
Frustration?? You sound like the frustrated one here, with the way u "text-shout" I can rightly say you are the one who need to pass your frustrations to someone else

That explains why u go about insulting people but lemme tell you something, no one on nl is responsible for your misfortune so you can go back and keep beating your wife, kidult
Just go and treat that your Ovarian Cyst Cancer first. grin

I knew you had "very serious issues", with the way you jumped on me, despite not responding to you in the first place.
But then, why wont you have all those fibroid and ovarian cyst when you have destroyed your womb with "intimacy gadgets"!

Frustrated Cucumber Olosho, at your age, you are already a LIABILITY. shocked angry
I just pity the man that would marry this "thing"
"Troubled Child"....when you finish deleting all those previous posts, let me know! l have saved copies of "all pages" of them, before you started to delete them
undecided

#ThreeStepsAhead
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by soonest(f): 12:20pm On Apr 29, 2017
dosht:
So your husband has the right to beat you even if you offend him?
Or you want to tell me that Joke Silva has not done anything that deserve a beating from Olu Jacob before? Tell her husband to learn from Olu Jacob.
I was so shocked that a woman will write that.
We can as well say no right thinking woman will offend her husband.
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by Excuzeme: 12:20pm On Apr 29, 2017
Go and solve your issues first, before you come vent on me. undecided
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by firebaby(f): 12:22pm On Apr 29, 2017
Smellymouth:
I would advice these so called celebrities to take a few step aback and start their love lives from the scratch...
For where you want to kill them undecidedthey like ready made a lots especially snatching peoples husband.....the can't survive any rltinshp from the scratch na better soup them dey chop grin
Re: Victoria Inyama Supports Mercy Aigbe Over Her "No To Domestic Violence" Post by popcykaylah(m): 12:29pm On Apr 29, 2017
[quote author=prettyjo post=56028218][/quote]she only got a piece of the puzzle ..hes not a criminal.shebi she see sweet place jump there ..ehn make she endure the marriage na
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